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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 9:34am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...
Macheew.....
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Lamanii22(f): 9:34am On Jan 04, 2020
fyneboi79:
Baby trust me,he's using you or he is plain foolish. I once waited 4years to get my turn.
He is not using me... He is not foolish.. We love each other... He doesn't even pressure me... We've not been intimate...
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by MicroSweet(m): 9:35am On Jan 04, 2020
I'm cuming...

Listen up, man! I would describe you as her 'third-rated' choice for a boyfriend. She only accepted you out of pity, and because you are just the only available option. When a woman chooses you among many other suitors or admirers, only then can you boast of her true affection and loyalty.

For now, just hang in there and enjoy the cookie while the offer lasts.
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by xynerise: 9:36am On Jan 04, 2020
Stories like this is not as epic and inspiring as it sounds. Most times, the three years after could also mean 3 years of terrible ordeal from ex and hit-and-run relationships.

So because she agrees 3 years after doesn't mean she finally loves you but she finally wants to try again.

What do I even know? undecided
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by stanliwise(m): 9:36am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
Lol don't break my heart oo.. I'm a nice person
Everyone is always a nice person.
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Davash222(m): 9:36am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
Lol... His thinking faculty is not like a regular Nigerian guy.. He is different...
Obviously, you’ve been dickmatized.
Lol
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by stanliwise(m): 9:37am On Jan 04, 2020
xynerise:
Stories like this is not as epic and inspiring as it sounds. Most times, the three years after could also means 3 years of terrible ordeal from ex and hit-and-run relationships.

So because she agrees 3 years after doesn't mean she finally loves you but she finally wants to try again.

What do I even know? undecided
The little you've said mean you know enough.. nice!
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by fyneboi79(m): 9:37am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
He is not using me... He is not foolish.. We love each other... He doesn't even pressure me... We've not been intimate...
They also never believed i was using them till I bounced. The vulture is a patient bird

Point of correction, you love him.
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Lamanii22(f): 9:37am On Jan 04, 2020
Davash222:
Obviously, you’ve been dickmatized.
Lol
Nah.. Not at all
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by juniorstar(m): 9:37am On Jan 04, 2020
going out on a first date and she brought her friend with her...this isn't a date and this isn't a relationship. sorry to say bro
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by xynerise: 9:39am On Jan 04, 2020
stanliwise:
The little you've said mean you know enough.. nice!
wink
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Pedrotina11: 9:39am On Jan 04, 2020
No mind anybody....the gal is a good gal...but she won b friend zone u so she go dey ask for small change from u...anyway she would stick with u..I pray God help u guys...
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by noble71(m): 9:41am On Jan 04, 2020
veteranExboy:
She's never tasted the forbidden fruit... don't ask how I got to know
Don't believe that shit bro. Use your fingers and confirm grin
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 9:42am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
Lol don't break my heart oo.. I'm a nice person
Why did you now keep the young man for 7 good years? angry
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by oshaosha2014(m): 9:42am On Jan 04, 2020
He didn’t wait. He said they met again within that duration.
donstan18:
I don't know if you are crazy or not, but one thing I'm sure of is that it will be very annoying to find out that she isn't worth the stress and patience you passed through while waiting for 3 years.
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Ayobami7(m): 9:44am On Jan 04, 2020
hmmm
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by abbatoir(m): 9:44am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...
Count yourself luck girl...and treat that guy right

I just wish you best of luck
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Austineva(m): 9:44am On Jan 04, 2020
2special:
Likely she might dump you if she settles with her ex boyfriend but who knowshuh
u made a point here
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 9:44am On Jan 04, 2020
What was ur condition in 2016 and what was ur condition in 2019?
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by steppin: 9:45am On Jan 04, 2020
donstan18:
I don't know if you are crazy or not, but one thing I'm sure of is that it will be very annoying to find out that she isn't worth the stress and patience you passed through while waiting for 3 years.
But he wasn't waiting.
They just met coincidentally after 3yrs.
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 9:46am On Jan 04, 2020
Let's get some things straightened out, dear humans.

So that whatever you do, you do not get lost in the universe of words.

She has agreed to have sex with you now and in return, she expects to enjoy the sex too, while you also provide material-financial care as well as any other additional incentives like recharge cards, occasional feeding money, etc.

If you like the sex and she is beautiful enough to get you erection, then you are not crazy yet but you will soon be crazy when you realize that when girls are no longer getting new 'toasters' they have a way of waking up refuses from dustbin and recycling them while waiting for new entries on their database of exploitative explorations.
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Alawode01(m): 9:46am On Jan 04, 2020
you still don't conclude or relax,it may be a just visitation to you. an alternative to non.
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by agyo(m): 9:47am On Jan 04, 2020
Pls land that relationship into oneness (marriage).

With the doggedness involved it will value the togetherness more.

All the best
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by adexrocque(m): 9:47am On Jan 04, 2020
Bros, you need to find out what happened to her previous relationship(s), don't end up being an interim/caretaker boo grin
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by abbatoir(m): 9:48am On Jan 04, 2020
boiz2men:
you are wicked.

Poor guy. After you have been dumped repeatedly, you settled for him
Unfortunately guy indeed.... this girl already have an edge..
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by fotadmowmend(m): 9:48am On Jan 04, 2020
he should be careful..... someone might be looking for last busstop
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by spiritedtete: 9:49am On Jan 04, 2020
She would have long been in my history book... op so for 3 good years you couldn't also hold any girl?


Obviously, the relationship fire will be burning low from your end.. and you may just end it after sex... because you must have lost the whole first "i am in love vibe"


You are wooing this girl for your ego sake (bro code).

My advise.. do everything quickly and move on.

Cheers!
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Lamanii22(f): 9:49am On Jan 04, 2020
Swargu:
Why did you now keep the young man for 7 good years? angry
I was young and naive I didn't know ... You know as a teenager.. You will be liking fuckboys... I felt he was old for me...
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Liposure: 9:50am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...
swithat, that your BF must hav been a descendant of jacob in d bible. 7 yrs! He try oo
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by sainthumble: 9:53am On Jan 04, 2020
Congrats! Na God do am for u.
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Lamanii22(f): 9:54am On Jan 04, 2020
fyneboi79:
They also never believed i was using them till I bounced. The vulture is a patient bird

Point of correction, you love him.
He loves me too... Now stop scaring me
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by philip0906(m): 9:54am On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...
Ofcourse you won't think he's crazy because you're the beneficiary of craze.

Wait until you guys have done YEARS then we'll ask your boyfriend if you were worth it and if he isn't crazy.
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