milemimi93:
This girl does not have IG or Twitter. She only has Facebook and Whatsapp. I went through her post she last posted pics on Facebook in 2018. She isn't active on social media.

The way she constructed her tenses during our convo I cut cap for her..
Lady gave good brains.

You surely have low self esteem. Why do u think a lady can't spend on u.

milemimi93:
This girl does not have IG or Twitter. She only has Facebook and Whatsapp. I went through her post she last posted pics on Facebook in 2018. She isn't active on social media.

The way she constructed her tenses during our convo I cut cap for her..
Lady gave good brains.

How did you met her? I want to check som5

Wow ! You won a lottery my friend and probably the last time. I’m not sure why she did that but don’t expect such anymore

milemimi93:
My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.

You no get money u dey go date you even called her a leech that's derogatory language it should you ain't giving ladies respect

Hisduchess:


God please bless this lady.for the first time this guy is saying something a bit good about Nigerian women. The truth is that some men too are leeches.you would have come here to shout yen yen yen if that lady hadn't paid.

N:B JUST KNOW THAT SOME LADIES ARE REAL BOSS LADIES.THEY'VE GOT CLASS AND ARE READY TO FEED THEMSELVES AND ALSO FEED ANY LEECH WITHOUT COMING TO NAIRALAND TO SHOUT YEN YEN YEN. CHANGE YOUR CIRCLE AND STOP BADMOUTHING NIGERIAN WOMEN.WE ALL AIN'T ON THE SAME LEVEL OF SHII. THANKIO

Most 9ja gurls re lyk dat. So it's impossible not to stereotype.

Hisduchess:


God please bless this lady.for the first time this guy is saying something a bit good about Nigerian women. The truth is that some men too are leeches.you would have come here to shout yen yen yen if that lady hadn't paid.

N:B JUST KNOW THAT SOME LADIES ARE REAL BOSS LADIES.THEY'VE GOT CLASS AND ARE READY TO FEED THEMSELVES AND ALSO FEED ANY LEECH WITHOUT COMING TO NAIRALAND TO SHOUT YEN YEN YEN. CHANGE YOUR CIRCLE AND STOP BADMOUTHING NIGERIAN WOMEN.WE ALL AIN'T ON THE SAME LEVEL OF SHII. THANKIO

how many of them are available in this country,madam .maybe only 2 out of 10, why can't u gals accept the truth,can u afford to spend over 10k in ur first date with a guy,be frank..she is a rare gem,the type we mean need right now,everything is not about pretty face and big ass..stop talking like this is very common among u ladies,as a matter of fact,it is extremely rare OK.

Never been this lucky man. I just got a bill of 20k after first outing. Purpose is to sort courses.

dreaizy:
Please ask if she has single friends.

Omila

LINTUNE:
how many of them are available in this country,madam .maybe only 2 out of 10, why can't u gals accept the truth,can u afford to spend over 10k in ur first date with a guy,be frank..she is a rare gem,the type we mean need right now,everything is not about pretty face and big ass..stop talking like this is very common among u ladies,as a matter of fact,it is extremely rare OK.

1 out of 1 million.

davillian:
Lmao
I don't believe this cooked story

I've experienced it before. Most true life stories always look fake to many on social media.

happinezz110:
Hope that change the poor mentality of some guy's cos i do tell people that not all ladies are after ur money nd is one of the reason y I don't go on a date with a guy if I'm not buoyant.

what is poor man mentality??
Most girls in Nigeria are. lyk dat. if u do a survey I'm sure it's over 90%..
she's lyk 1 in 100,000.
so don't blame men fr stereotyping.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yea, instead of robbing banks, cooking and eating flesh for rituals, kidnapping for money, they prefer to simply collect from the male folks.

There is always an excuse. They mustn't do rituals, they can as well work. The problem is not just the asking, the problem is the entitlement mindset. Till a good number of Naija girls fix that- they would never be able to befriend a class of men. I know goodlooking responsible and working men, who would NEVER go about giving one "gf" stipends. Not because they do not have it, but the concept doesn't make sense to them.

If at all these set of girls have made up their minds to be parasites, be a useful one. Don't cherrypick.

You are being prepared before the main course is served. Somebody wey don past 26yrs, you think say she no know what she wants? She has gotten your attention and that is the main objective. You will soon start paying for the expenses she has made on you. Woman ? Fear Dem, we men can't do without them!

SweetBuns:




The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

Abeg go siddon, what is stereotyping here. 99% of Nigerian ladies will expect a man to pay for everything which I don't find wrong.

A Nigerian man basing his spendings or expectations on this kind of statistics is not stereotyping anyone. He's just being realistic and sensible.

DJ Cuppy is one single person. How many ladies like her exist in Nigeria. I bet you can't count up to 1000 or lets be kind and give them 10000. How does that figure statistically compare with over 60 million females in Nigeria. Thats a measly 1% I guess.

kunkelhanspeter:

Dat what I am trying to find tired of all dis 24 below

dude have dated older gals,like too,bro their level of thinking differs,trust me,they're not up to 26 years...they are so matured in the matter of sex and finance,u can imagine when u are with ur gal,and she is the one to start up sex, imagine that every time ur gals visits u,she must bring something for u,no matter how small...when u take her out,she really appreciates it.see for some women,the older they become,the wiser they are .

This life self, you Go hustle money and still come hustle woman again

LINTUNE:
how many of them are available in this country,madam .maybe only 2 out of 10, why can't u gals accept the truth,can u afford to spend over 10k in ur first date with a guy,be frank..she is a rare gem,the type we mean need right now,everything is not about pretty face and big ass..stop talking like this is very common among u ladies,as a matter of fact,it is extremely rare OK.

Nigerian youths...don't date or marry a girl because of her long face and pointed note, or because of her huge tits or backside. Consider intelligence and manners first, without which any lady can make a good wife

What type of your analysis is this to a someone who shared a plain mind story?

SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

I guess you are shocked not for anything else but because the lady punctured your ego ..

From your write up, you reek of pride and you seem very arrogant ..

You have concluded from your mind that the lady is a leech whereas sje knows her worth..

I think the part fits you not for relationship but toast oaky teach you humility..

I don't see guys relationship lasting beyond 3 months because this lady will send you packing with her class and you will end up being offended because you won't be able to stand it because of your over bloated ego.

Bye

MedicH:


1 out of 1 million.

..bro u mean

milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..

That was how I got my Wife o. A weak of chatting with her, I wanted to slow down on the way I was going with the texting so I told her my phone had developed issues. The following morning, she called and said she wanted to see me urgently. When I got to the meeting venue, she gave me a brand new phone (Samsung) She had bought N180,000. I almost passed out. The receipt had my name boldly written on it. It was accompanied by Laptop. I told myself I wasn't going to let her go. I quickly apologized, told her the truth. I had thought she was going to get mad at me, but she smiled and told me she hated lies. As for the age thing you talked about, my wife was 22 when I met her. It is not about the person's age but their level of maturity.

First of all, that,I think was not a proper date.You arrived and asked her to come pick you up,she told you to wait at any eatery around (so she's the one instigating the outing sort of) so maybe she felt responsible for the bill or whatever was used up in the process,since the idea didn't come from you,she made it her treat,moreover you traveled to come see her n not the other way around.What do I know sef

Anywas kudos to that lady she's a gem,op wife her

janejive:


You have found her, keep her

Lol you will agree with me that such ladies are not easy to find right?

SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

Be running your mouth anyhow,
I will soon call your daddy for you to keep it shot.
Ubunja

probably an evening newspaper

milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..

That was how I got my Wife o. A week of chatting with her, I wanted to slow down on the way I was going with the texting so I told her my phone had developed issues. The following morning, she called and said she wanted to see me urgently. When I got to the meeting venue, she gave me a brand new phone (Samsung) She had bought N180,000. I almost passed out. The receipt had my name boldly written on it. It was accompanied by Laptop. I told myself I wasn't going to let her go. I quickly apologized, told her the truth. I had thought she was going to get mad at me, but she smiled and told me she hated lies. As for the age thing you talked about, my wife was 22 when I met her. It is not about the person's age but their level of maturity.

Gforce2019:



You can judge a lady with one good deed .... let c how it goes after a long time

Bro, a lady that can love you with her money may most likely love you with all other things

fairfora:


Nigerian youths...don't date or marry a girl because of her long face and pointed note, or because of her huge tits or backside. Consider intelligence and manners first, without which any lady can make a good wife

how many of them are available bro, u meet a gal now,and she I billing u already,without u even knowing her name..its so terrible now on social media,u can't even have a friendly innocent chat with a gal,without the fear of her demanding for financial favours

Offpoint:
How do people go to eatery and order for food without asking the price?

I no be gentle, I no dey form... once I enter I go ask for price of everything including toothpick.

If my pocket no carry, I waka.
If e carry but I reason am e too cost, I waka.

Thank for that bro..To avoid embarrassment latter on...

Twoclans:
Who are this ladies that always leech on Nigerian men sef ,abeg how much do they have sef .I will always say it ,ladies ,young girls ,women please make your money and hold your side its far sweeter than having to sit all day thinking of how to swindle a poor guy of his hard earned 5,000.

You are only exposing your kind of person, with this kind of submission.

milemimi93:
I am not angry or complainingI am just shocked and feeling guilty.. I had to take her to a shopping mall to buy her stuffs. Getting to the mall I told her to pick any thing she wants that I will pay.

she picked just 3 things. When we got to the counter the cashier said the bill is 870.
I was shocked again that she didn't get more things for herself. With joy, I gave the cashier 1000 and told him to keep the change.

Abeg the place you see that kain babe they reach two there?? I go marry am sharp sharp without wasting time.

U kw at times I still find it difficult to believe but anyway the more go the more you see and it's also depends on the type of lady ask out anyway.

]what is poor man mentality??
Most girls in Nigeria are. lyk dat. if u do a survey I'm sure it's over 90%..
she's lyk 1 in 100,000.
so don't blame men fr stereotyping. [/quote]