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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jan 04, 2020
LINTUNE:
how many of them are available bro, u meet a gal now,and she I billing u already,without u even knowing her name..its so terrible now on social media,u can't even have a friendly innocent chat with a gal,without the fear of her demanding for financial favours
true
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by pocohantas(f): 9:37pm On Jan 04, 2020
LINTUNE:
how many of them are available bro, u meet a gal now,and she I billing u already,without u even knowing her name..its so terrible now on social media,u can't even have a friendly innocent chat with a gal,without the fear of her demanding for financial favours

grin grin

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Nobody: 9:39pm On Jan 04, 2020
Openbusiness:


Hahahaha, it felt good shey? Some of us women like to spoil our man but the problem is after spoiling him, they turn around and treat you like trash. It discourages you from doing so again. For me oh, let everybody carry their cross. I cannot be babysitting another woman's son again.

If you close your eyes because you don't want to see bad people passing by, you won't know when the good ones will pass by. Open your arms again, but with sense. The good one that would appreciate and love you, will surely come your way
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by unbitchable(m): 9:40pm On Jan 04, 2020
AwkaetitiBabe:
Yea, instead of robbing banks, cooking and eating flesh for rituals, kidnapping for money, they prefer to simply collect from the male folks. lipsrsealed
you prefer to collect from those you accused of committing crimes. how sensible do you think you sound?.
Ain't you done collecting money, when are you getting a ring?

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by yusufmurry: 9:43pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.


Bros, that girl no.like you. I have done it to a girl too. Made her feel okay yet I wanted to discharge her.
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Nobody: 9:45pm On Jan 04, 2020
Baba i would advise don't celebrate yet. What she did is rare among our girls no doubt but don't allow it to overshadow you. Don't draw conclusion in a haste; take time to get to know her well. I wish both of you good luck.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by TLION(m): 9:47pm On Jan 04, 2020
dreaizy:
Please ask if she has single friends.
. Bad guy grin
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Revolva(m): 9:48pm On Jan 04, 2020
You are lucky

Just 1 out of 10 naija gals will do dat

Most of them infact almost all naija gal are entitled to men wealth

Very selfish and stingy set of people

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Blueelf: 9:49pm On Jan 04, 2020
annford:



That was how I got my Wife o. A weak of chatting with her, I wanted to slow down on the way I was going with the texting so I told her my phone had developed issues. The following morning, she called and said she wanted to see me urgently. When I got to the meeting venue, she gave me a brand new phone (Samsung) She had bought N180,000. I almost passed out. The receipt had my name boldly written on it. It was accompanied by Laptop. I told myself I wasn't going to let her go. I quickly apologized, told her the truth. I had thought she was going to get mad at me, but she smiled and told me she hated lies. As for the age thing you talked about, my wife was 22 when I met her. It is not about the person's age but their level of maturity.

She must be from a rich family
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Openbusiness: 9:51pm On Jan 04, 2020
OcVoice:


If you close your eyes because you don't want to see bad people passing by, you won't know when the good ones will pass by. Open your arms again, but with sense. The good one that would appreciate and love you, will surely come your way


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_QUxbHETOuI
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Timijo(m): 9:53pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.
But you said not from a Nigerian lady.
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by LINTUNE(m): 9:54pm On Jan 04, 2020
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Vibesvbs(m): 9:57pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..
Explain pls
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Nnemuka(f): 10:00pm On Jan 04, 2020
As if its something strange or new...
This era of going Dutch and some Nigerian guys absconding on a date?
She actually thought you have disappeared reason she paid for the food to avoid stories that touch grin.

Men who allow women pay on a first date are the type of men I Nnemuka will never date.
I wont split Bill's and I wont pay.
I can subsequently, but on a first date, be man enough to handle Bills.
shame no dey catch una again shocked very soon Ubunja disciples will quote me with talks of being A Real man yet.they can't pay. on .a .first.date. angry
bunch of jokers

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Dikegodspower(m): 10:05pm On Jan 04, 2020
Gina2019:
What's her tribe?
she must be an Igbo girl
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by mrksquare: 10:05pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
I am not angry or complainingI am just shocked and feeling guilty.. I had to take her to a shopping mall to buy her stuffs. Getting to the mall I told her to pick any thing she wants that I will pay.

she picked just 3 things. When we got to the counter the cashier said the bill is 870.
I was shocked again that she didn't get more things for herself. With joy, I gave the cashier 1000 and told him to keep the change.





Don't be bewildered bro. we have ladies who are like that. personally I have had encounter with ladies like her. They took me out on a date and shouldered the bill.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Dikegodspower(m): 10:07pm On Jan 04, 2020
independent successful female entrepreneurs and philanthropist can be seen in, south east...
I won't be surprise if she is an Igbo girl
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by uckyra: 10:08pm On Jan 04, 2020
a lady that loves you, will not want u to spend too much on her

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by feyiad12(f): 10:09pm On Jan 04, 2020
she must be a virgo babe. Virgo( Zodiac sign) are too kind grin

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by victorazyvictor(m): 10:11pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..

Thank you boss grin
2020 here I come.
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by 9gerian: 10:13pm On Jan 04, 2020
I’m not surprised at all.

They are trained to be independent and not to rely on men. All things being equal, if a Yoruba girl likes you, then you are simply the luckiest man.

If she doesn’t like you, it wouldn’t matter whether you are Dangote’s son. This is the general trend with them, and it’s why some guys complain that they are rude.


milemimi93:
Yoruba. but i think tribe has nothing to do with this. according to her she grew up in the South

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by jojothaiv(m): 10:13pm On Jan 04, 2020
Kingrexyl:
True! the ones that are online are complete trash..
The regional feminists should take note..

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by IbrahimSkiba(f): 10:16pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.





This unam ikot is back
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by LINTUNE(m): 10:17pm On Jan 04, 2020
Nnemuka:
As if its something strange or new...
This era of going Dutch and some Nigerian guys absconding on a date?
She actually thought you have disappeared reason she paid for the food to avoid stories that touch grin.

Men who allow women pay on a first date are the type of men I Nnemuka will never date.
I wont split Bill's and I wont pay.
I can subsequently, but on a first date, be man enough to handle Bills.
shame no dey catch una again shocked very soon Ubunja disciples will quote me with talks of being A Real man yet.they can't pay. on .a .first.date. angry
bunch of jokers
if u pay u go die?,I taught men and women arew equal na, abi men wey de always pay commot from anus?..are u better or finer than the said lady that paid,or are u more intelligent,see change this ur mentality this new year,make them no use ur bobby do pepper soup. tongue

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by IbrahimSkiba(f): 10:17pm On Jan 04, 2020
MJBOLT:
are you sure she's a nigerian because nigerian ladies will never pay for their own food if they are on a date.




Lmao
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by MedicH: 10:19pm On Jan 04, 2020
annford:



That was how I got my Wife o. A weak of chatting with her, I wanted to slow down on the way I was going with the texting so I told her my phone had developed issues. The following morning, she called and said she wanted to see me urgently. When I got to the meeting venue, she gave me a brand new phone (Samsung) She had bought N180,000. I almost passed out. The receipt had my name boldly written on it. It was accompanied by Laptop. I told myself I wasn't going to let her go. I quickly apologized, told her the truth. I had thought she was going to get mad at me, but she smiled and told me she hated lies. As for the age thing you talked about, my wife was 22 when I met her. It is not about the person's age but their level of maturity.

Wowww. Unbelievable
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by odigiri1983(m): 10:20pm On Jan 04, 2020
dreaizy:
Please ask if she has single friends.

Lol
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Dehindepgenius(m): 10:21pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.

Something similar happened to me in Ado Ekiti back in 2007. We lost contact though. Pity.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Myde4naija(m): 10:23pm On Jan 04, 2020
SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

dick and testicles actually help no one but you.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Liposure: 10:26pm On Jan 04, 2020
OP u are a lucky man
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by OgogoroFreak(m): 10:26pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..
What if you are 24?

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