₦airaland Forum

Lamanii22:
I swear... I loved him right from time.. I'm not desperate for relationship... Or getting married... Plus I never run out of options.. Nah dem dey rush me...

2special:
Likely she might dump you if she settles with her ex boyfriend but who knows

maynation:
Nairaland and wonders be like 5 and 6.

Oga you're not crazy, any other question?

Ibfpleasant:
my type of man.. this is how a real nigga should treat women not all these waiting for 3 or 7 years guys.. every reasonable man should have limited feelings and love for a woman, your everyday goal should be how to make moneyb

lefulefu:
7 yrs?? offpoint come and hear sumptin

Offpoint:
lol, he waited till 7 years?

On behalf of menhood I disown him wherever he is...

7 good years, is he a WAITER?

lefulefu:
na monk

boiz2men:
He's well to do right?

iPrevail:
At least there's some degree of assurance she won't double date while with you. And yes, you are crazy, but at least you won't be ending up in a psychiatric ward

odikomo1:
Broda/sis its two time not double date.

Abeg non vex for the correction

maynation:
Nairaland and wonders be like 5 and 6.

Oga you're not crazy, any other question?

veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

Lamanii22:
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...

fweshboi1:
chai! that guy must be a mad man

swedbase:
Can you honestly wait for a man for 7 years to decide on accepting you? I'm pretty sure that you wouldn't have rejected him If he had came with a Range Rover at that time. Perhaps he has improved financially now hence the acceptance. I personally will never look your way even if i have problem in finding another girl. A real man should posses these qualities self esteem, discipline and principle.