I hate akward relationships wont advise anyone to go into one.

Rules no 1, never date and marry anyone far below your status. No matter the feelings involved it doesn't always ends well. Go and ask or confirm from the rich they do know more than poor people do.

Except ofcourse God or powers from above tells you to. If you do hear from God.

"And my sister also takes her as a sister not a house help." Could that be the reason why his sister did not want him getting involved with her? I know as humans, we always assume the worst. But has anyone cared to know the reasoning behind her decision before heaping insults on her and assuming the worst about her? I wish that people would hold judgment until they know the facts before making unsavory pronouncements.

landmark86:
Am a fresh graduate that just got a job with a private organisation. Last month I was transferred from our headquarters to one of our branches here in Akure, Ondo State.

I stay in my elder sister's house right now cos I moved in last year December but have met with an agent who promise to get me a good apartment soonest.

To cut my story short, my sister has a house girl/lady which was so caring to me. Am 29yrs and still single not that I have never dated before, just that it never worked well while I was in school.

The house maid of my sister is 25yrs and a school cert holder but due to some reasons she couldn't further her education but still willing if she can get help.

She's a pretty, caring, very neat and also intelligent. And my sister also takes her as a sister not an house help.

Lastly weekend, my sister came back from an event and saw me and her catching some fun (I mean gisting and playing games) in the house and she got provoked.

She called me in and asked what is the relationship between me and her but I told her the basic truth that though we are just friends but I wish I could date her and my sister shouted on me NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not even when am alive.

Now I keep asking my self some question;
Is house help not a human being?
Is it a crime in dating/marry them?
Is it a crime for a graduate to marry non graduate/illiterate ?

Please help a brother cos am in love with her.
Thank you.

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Op,

As much as your sister is very wrong on you not marrying her and love ( most times infatuation) could be stupidly foolish to cover the eyes.....






Sit down first and be sure of which of the wine you are drunk of. True love or infatuation..


Being a maid is Notting if there is sincere love and understanding....

OP, I align with the thoughts of SmileDance and JewessGratitude (hope I got that spelling right). If your thoughts towards her are good and sincere, the steps you are going to take will require a great deal of time and patience.

Firstly, seek the face of God. Next, you need to get on your feet, be bouyant and be on your own. You need to encourage her to further her education or find out her plans for herself and if she is saving towards her plans. In between all these, your sister would be acting up, but you have to keep low.

Guy!
If u arrange wella ur choices are unlimited.
Love, compatibility bam and low pride% nor understand education......na there we dey miss am.
Dat girl can give u priceless joy for future...if u fit dey independent financially arrange am...ur sister get her own life to live...abi na u make choice of partner for ya sister?
If u like d girl and serious improve her
make she learn a trade/skill or business .
If na school mata.... forget dat side.

landmark86:
Am a fresh graduate that just got a job with a private organisation. Last month I was transferred from our headquarters to one of our branches here in Akure, Ondo State.

I stay in my elder sister's house right now cos I moved in last year December but have met with an agent who promise to get me a good apartment soonest.

To cut my story short, my sister has a house girl/lady which was so caring to me. Am 29yrs and still single not that I have never dated before, just that it never worked well while I was in school.

The house maid of my sister is 25yrs and a school cert holder but due to some reasons she couldn't further her education but still willing if she can get help.

She's a pretty, caring, very neat and also intelligent. And my sister also takes her as a sister not an house help.

Lastly weekend, my sister came back from an event and saw me and her catching some fun (I mean gisting and playing games) in the house and she got provoked.

She called me in and asked what is the relationship between me and her but I told her the basic truth that though we are just friends but I wish I could date her and my sister shouted on me NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not even when am alive.

Now I keep asking my self some question;
Is house help not a human being?
Is it a crime in dating/marry them?
Is it a crime for a graduate to marry non graduate/illiterate ?

Please help a brother cos am in love with her.
Thank you.

Well I am glad you have found your future wife. I would have lambasted you if your intention was just to Bleep and go. ..On a serious note , you 've to find out why your sister issued such comment like over her dead body....is there something she knows and she doesn't want u to know about The lady? Know in details where that lady comes from including her family history...if her decision was informed based on social status, my brother dam the consequences and marry her if u want to....she can become educated to ur level in your house via part time etc. The most important thing is to know if you guys are compatible ....I saw a chief married a maid that was serving them ....that made is a PhD holder today with 4 kids with that chief...but she has great respect for the woman that brought her in as a maid...it was recently that woman told her that we 've equal right in this house hold but the maid vowed to always respect her till death do them apart...Don't insult your sister find out why she doesn't want u to go ahead....take the pastor of her church to her to ascertain her motives

My guy na LIE,na free pvssy u dey find.this one no get class and u know say e no go hard for u to knack.leave all these love story for lawma

I stayed with one of my uncle's for like 4years and in between those times,they hired about 5 maids.the devil tempt me no be small,but I thank God I didn't attempt it,out of respect to my uncle and his wife.
I am very sure they would be calling the maid to one side to ask if I toasted her or was sleeping with her.
On one occasion while we were talking in the sitting room,my uncle's wife use style dey ask me if I dey hustle im maid,but I just laughed it off.
My guy,go outside and look for suitable and matured girl to marry.

landmark86:
Am a fresh graduate that just got a job with a private organisation. Last month I was transferred from our headquarters to one of our branches here in Akure, Ondo State.

I stay in my elder sister's house right now cos I moved in last year December but have met with an agent who promise to get me a good apartment soonest.

To cut my story short, my sister has a house girl/lady which was so caring to me. Am 29yrs and still single not that I have never dated before, just that it never worked well while I was in school.

The house maid of my sister is 25yrs and a school cert holder but due to some reasons she couldn't further her education but still willing if she can get help.

She's a pretty, caring, very neat and also intelligent. And my sister also takes her as a sister not an house help.

Lastly weekend, my sister came back from an event and saw me and her catching some fun (I mean gisting and playing games) in the house and she got provoked.

She called me in and asked what is the relationship between me and her but I told her the basic truth that though we are just friends but I wish I could date her and my sister shouted on me NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not even when am alive.

Now I keep asking my self some question;
Is house help not a human being?
Is it a crime in dating/marry them?
Is it a crime for a graduate to marry non graduate/illiterate ?

Please help a brother cos am in love with her.
Thank you.

Don't do it bro...it's not worth it!

Your sis can sense conflictng interests on both sides and that's why she's pissed, she knows you're both taking advantage of each other!

landmark86:
Am a fresh graduate that just got a job with a private organisation. Last month I was transferred from our headquarters to one of our branches here in Akure, Ondo State.

I stay in my elder sister's house right now cos I moved in last year December but have met with an agent who promise to get me a good apartment soonest.

To cut my story short, my sister has a house girl/lady which was so caring to me. Am 29yrs and still single not that I have never dated before, just that it never worked well while I was in school.

The house maid of my sister is 25yrs and a school cert holder but due to some reasons she couldn't further her education but still willing if she can get help.

She's a pretty, caring, very neat and also intelligent. And my sister also takes her as a sister not an house help.

Lastly weekend, my sister came back from an event and saw me and her catching some fun (I mean gisting and playing games) in the house and she got provoked.

She called me in and asked what is the relationship between me and her but I told her the basic truth that though we are just friends but I wish I could date her and my sister shouted on me NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not even when am alive.

Now I keep asking my self some question;
Is house help not a human being?
Is it a crime in dating/marry them?
Is it a crime for a graduate to marry non graduate/illiterate ?

Please help a brother cos am in love with her.
Thank you.

. Can I have her number please, I hate nonsense

landmark86:
Am a fresh graduate that just got a job with a private organisation. Last month I was transferred from our headquarters to one of our branches here in Akure, Ondo State.

I stay in my elder sister's house right now cos I moved in last year December but have met with an agent who promise to get me a good apartment soonest.

To cut my story short, my sister has a house girl/lady which was so caring to me. Am 29yrs and still single not that I have never dated before, just that it never worked well while I was in school.

The house maid of my sister is 25yrs and a school cert holder but due to some reasons she couldn't further her education but still willing if she can get help.

She's a pretty, caring, very neat and also intelligent. And my sister also takes her as a sister not an house help.

Lastly weekend, my sister came back from an event and saw me and her catching some fun (I mean gisting and playing games) in the house and she got provoked.

She called me in and asked what is the relationship between me and her but I told her the basic truth that though we are just friends but I wish I could date her and my sister shouted on me NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not even when am alive.

Now I keep asking my self some question;
Is house help not a human being?
Is it a crime in dating/marry them?
Is it a crime for a graduate to marry non graduate/illiterate ?

Please help a brother cos am in love with her.
Thank you.

Why will your sister keep a mature lady as house maid, Is your sister not married?? If Yes, how does her husband feel around a young and vibrant beautiful young lady according to you as housemaid....If NO, then your sister should open up to you on why u should end your interest in her....

All the way up!!! Don’t compromise your standards that’s if you have any...

You win date
Or lash choose

While I don't have a problem with someone dating a househelp as they're 1st human beings, come to think of it, what if she's all of that because she has some ulterior motives? Is that how she is with all your sister's male guests or just her male relatives or just you?

Growing up, we had one like that. She was generally nice to everyone. But to this my particular uncle, she was EXTRA EXTRA EXTRA. She wouldn't mind cooking 100 different foods in a day for just him. Yet on a normal day making lunch was a big deal for her. He later left though and I believe nothing happened.

Like someone earlier said, you should know your sister's reasons. You should also be very careful. Sometimes you can't predict these people. You can be genuine but are they?

donstan18:
Your sister know her more than you do.

This is just like a guy telling his sister to stay away from one of his particular friend or a lady advising his brother not to date one of her particular friend.

She sure knows her more than you do, but if you feel you are too wise, then you'll have to choose between your sister and her housemaid.

If the sister knows her to be a bad girl why did she keep her as maid?eats food she cooked without fear?forget about knowing her, she is just being myopic. She thinks the girl will remain maid forever. Typical Africa mentality.

GhettoG1:
Well ur sis actually love you nd she probably foresaw d dangers ahead. First they re both living together bfr ur appearance which speak much about her being right.
Second don't b a full egbon, I'm sure once u get cordial with her then d nxt shii u gon wanna send her to school nd I'm very sure sey na tears go end am.

If the sister knows her to be a bad girl why did she keep her as maid?eats food she cooked without fear?forget about knowing her, she is just being myopic. She thinks the girl will remain maid forever.and what makes you think tear will end it if he sponsor her education?

This guy doesn’t know how women view housemaids.


You don’t know anything. In fact, if you go on to date this girl, you will discover the true depth of your sister’s feelings.

Better reverse your attentions at least until you get your own place. I suspect that housemaid would be sent packing anyway.

healthserve:
Pele woman wrapper. Its a woman that's telling you what to do. Why not ask your sister what are the reasons you can't date her beyond the she's a house girl logic. What a sad classist she is. Better be a man and take your decisions solely by yourself. Tell her you didn't chose her own
lover and there's a limit to her participation/involvement in your life and she shouldn't choose yours. If she'll make a good wife overlook the house girl stereotype. Mrs. ALAKIJA that owns oil Wells today was once like her. Shame on your sister if she doesn't have solid reasons beyond she's an house help. Not in our class.

I love this sir, truth �. God bless you for me.

your sister surely have nothing against her, if she does she would have discharge her since.


she's just being selfish, she don't want to loose the longtime relations and she might be unlucky to meet another cool housemaid like her. she must have thought all this before declining and saying a robostic NO


she must have notice you duo relations for sometimes before bursting out her mind. my guy fire on if that girl possessed 80% of what you want. don't let anyone discourage you to lose the mother of your unborn kids

mojeezy:
While I don't have a problem with someone dating a househelp as they're 1st human beings, come to think of it, what if she's all of that because she has some ulterior motives? Is that how she is with all your sister's male guests or just her male relatives or just you?

Growing up, we had one like that. She was generally nice to everyone. But to this my particular uncle, she was EXTRA EXTRA EXTRA. She wouldn't mind cooking 100 different foods in a day for just him. Yet on a normal day making lunch was a big deal for her. He later left though and I believe nothing happened.

Like someone earlier said, you should know your sister's reasons. You should also be very careful. Sometimes you can't predict these people. You can be genuine but are they?

No matter how carefully you are you not gonna find an Angel..we all have flaws,all of us..so what you should advice op is to find her flaws then he can decides if they are manageable or not.

CAPSLOCKED:
[s] SEE WHAT YOUR PROBLEM IS. YOU WANT EASY ACCESS TO SEX, DON'T YOU?

OLE!
YOU DON'T WANT TO DATE HER, YOU JUST WANT TO EJACULATE. PLEASE MASTURBATÈ FREQUENTLY TO PREVENT CAUSING ISSUES BETWEEN YOU, YOUR SISTER AND THE MAID. [/s]

why is it that all your comments are always senseless.
And stop typing in caps lock cos it's irritating to the eyes

Does She have a very good pussy, if yes then go head, you have my support

House help no be human being?

You don dey hide fvck her toto since... If the toto too sweet you, then wife her. Period!

You guys can misuse this marriage word ehn. You haven't even known her well enough you don dey talk marriage. Do you know what it means to commit to one person all the days of your life?

Maid or not, get to know the lady. Being a househelp is no guarantee she would make a good or homely wife. Some of world's most wicked humans today are poor. She could be more dangerous than that 'wicked' rich man in your neighborhood.

Las las, it is the same set of innocent looking poor and wretched people that will chop off your heads for rituals because y'all are too ignorant to know that nothing humbles and hides a man's true colours more than poverty and lack.

Davash222:

There’s no stigma here... we’re all house maids in the eyes of God .

Haaaaaaaaaa!

Yudonminit


You didn't even say house help, house maid

Are we all laidies ?

Are you inside God's eyes?

Lamanii22:
Awwwwn... The only reason your sister's disagreeing with you is cause the girl's her housemaid.. And the girl will not be as respectful to her as she used to..

That's true.

The househelp will start misbehaving if the brother starts with this dating game thing and I believe sex will be involved.

The whole thing will just be messy

Honestly I don't subscribe to it.

Except the brother is ready to marry the help asap!

Then please start with meeting up with her parents for introduction and marriage rites as you are already falling in love , if not landmark86 ,Biko keep your third leg in your pants and remove eyes from her body.

Don't start what u can't finish. And don't cause a 3rd World War in your sister's home.
I've said my own o.

Blackgold007:
I hate awkward relationships won't advise anyone to go into one.

The guy was waka-ing his own O.
... when suddenly he came across this hole in the ground...
... and he fell inside the hole. The hole was full of the love....
That's how he just "Fell in Love".....

Uncle that's how love use do to do. If you're not careful, you can even fall in love with crase woman at the corner of the road.

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Not me o


I'm God's princess o.. Even the apple of His eyes.

Housemaid ke! God forbid!

BiiDii:
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Comment of the year. Kuku knack my waist with stick my belle o

indoorlove:
This is her exact reason nothing more nothing less

Right... I really hope they can be together...

some job are so demeaning if not i see nothing wrong with u dating/marriage after all people still prostitutes .she believes in hardwork let why d selection