dominique:
It's easy to spot a woman that wants to settle down. They know how to turn men to putty in their hands. Marry some of them and watch their true character come out. .

ok noted

This alone does not make her 100% better than other girls just because she paid your bills.

Wetin dey der to pay simple 11k plus??

May be she already likes you and really wants to settle down with you.

This type when she don enter your house she go show you pepper

ubunja:
thank you for spreading the ubunja gospel.
If anyone wanna know for themselves what this ubunja writes about, just follow this link: https://www.nairaland.com/ubunja/topics

Damn you are good.
I opened one of your posts (no green light, no approach) and was completely swept off my feet. I would make time to read all.

SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

That ubunja na basstard. I also pity his followers and hype men

Timekeeper:



How far show us her reply.. Give us full chat pictures in detail

To the guy that asked if I block her, I didn't, I just put it up on my WhatsApp status and gave every one on my WhatsApp contact a good laugh. Na she undo her self.

Quite unbelievable on a first date when traditionally, the man usually pays.

Babara1994:

Calm down jare. 99% of naija girls have no class.

Same with 99% of Nigeria guys,cheap and classless,am even surprise op was not eyeing the waitress while waiting for the lady.

pickatyou:
Nigerian girls are something else but bro you are lucky. Here is my experience with a girl I met and took outing within 24 hours, me I can't shout I rebuked her ASAP

Some ladies can be very stupid.
What did you buy from her that you will give her five thousand naira.
Please avoid that lady and others like her.

[quote author=milemimi93 post=85495171]My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me
.[/quote

Please where in osun state ,eating in an eatery cost 11k plus.OP take it easy biko.

Smug4real:

Damn you are good.
I opened one of your posts (no green light, no approach) and was completely swept off my feet. I would make time to read all.

and your life will never be the same.

infogenius:


Wow!
There are several ladies like that. However, it equates to one in a million

Meaning that we have less than 20 of such lady in Nigeria. If we consider one per state, at least 16 states plus FCT have none.

She is actually one of a kind. Their type is hard to fine this days. But don't be push because of this. It may not be as beautiful as its seems.

This is an experience lady,which am very sure that lady'll b very mature and if not older than the guy. I fell like she did that because of wat the guy did.. by going to mama put in the first place instead of a sophisticated eatery so she already know the scope and decided to art matured. It just the truth. The girl don see say na broke guy.

RuggedArab:
I agree with you OP on girls that are averagely active on social platforms. They are calm and coordinated.

Presently there is this girlfriend of mine that wants to take me on a date to Golden Tulip Hotel Sunday brunch with all bills on her. All I have to do is just to show up. Trust me, I know I’ll still pay the bills because I won’t let her do it. For me, she suggesting date with all bills her means she has already paid it in mind.

Like someone rightly said, “change your circle”. Though it’s not new to me for females picking up bills, I seldom allow them to pay. I have a thing, if you ain’t working class or doing a viable paying business (not selling oil perfumes or bedsheets) my d!*k won’t kick. I guess I’m badly wired!!!!

sir u are funny.. Pls go for the brunch so u can advise me of the price and food review, my birthday is in 3 wiks I plan to take my girlfriends and family dere

Since I was born and now I am getting old I have never seen naija women changeth...brother av u seen no no no no since I was born I av never seen naija women changeth....

Don't worry ur head...date her first..u go go eatery tire u go pay eh, she go bill u eh...the 11600 wey she pay u no go remember cos she go MMM am.

LINTUNE:
if u pay u go die?,I taught men are women are equal na, abi men wey de always pay common from anus?..are u better or fine than the said lady that paid,or are u more intelligent,see change this ur mentality this new year,make them no use ur bobby do pepper soup.

When it comes to paying Bill's you become equals with women, when it comes to man/woman relationship you quote the scriptures and tell us how women can never be equals with men...

I hail una

milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..

Lol the ones above 26 years can be stupid too
There's one on my WhatsApp that will be 30/31 this year. She still dey find who go buy am the latest iPhone up and down

Na to just pray to see sensible person whether e young or not

milemimi93:
I am not angry or complainingI am just shocked and feeling guilty.. I had to take her to a shopping mall to buy her stuffs. Getting to the mall I told her to pick any thing she wants that I will pay.

she picked just 3 things. When we got to the counter the cashier said the bill is 870.
I was shocked again that she didn't get more things for herself. With joy, I gave the cashier 1000 and told him to keep the change.

Hustle ooooooooooooooooo
You dey Pay 1K with Joy

2020

It is imperative that you date people (Man or woman) with a steady job, Period.

Lagos

toprealman:
OP, are you based in Ibadan?

wany:
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so with your 1kb brain u don't know that Osun state is not the only Yoruba state?

pickatyou:


To the guy that asked if I block her, I didn't, I just put it up on my WhatsApp status and gave every one on my WhatsApp contact a good laugh. Na she undo her self.

Kikikikikikiki

Girls ehnnn MN

wany:


Same with 99% of Nigeria guys,cheap and classless,am even surprise op was not eyeing the waitress while waiting for the lady.

Like you eye ur landlord son when ur bf don comot go toilet abi

I didn't just want to waste money on the girl since I didnt i ntend to fuvk her

Bria234:
This is an experience lady,which am very sure that lady'll b very mature and if not older than the guy. I fell like she did that because of wat the guy did.. by going to mama put in the first place instead of a sophisticated eatery so she already know the scope and decided to art matured. It just the truth. The girl don see say na broke guy.

Broke guy based abroad? broke guy flew by air to and fro Calabar carnival? Broke guy spend close to 100k on thots in a space of 3weeks? did u missed that part I said I brought out my pourse to pay?

ubunja:
and your life will never be the same.

I thought they said ubunja don comot for nairaland



Mynd44, I know u banned me for 10 days.. Well done ooooo. 10 days go complete soon, I will come you mynd44, I will surely come for you


Cc: seun Lalasticala dominique ishlove farano, you guys are my witness ooooo

milemimi93:
so with your 1kb brain u don't know that Osun state is not the only Yoruba state?

Ignore that wany, sense don japa from her

Nnemuka:

When it comes to paying Bill's you become equals with women, when it comes to man/woman relationship you quote the scriptures and tell us how women can never be equals with men...

I hail una

don't hail me,u gal are always clamouring for gender equality,but u don't want equal responsibility,isn't that stupid and selfish.

milemimi93:
I didn't just want to waste money on the girl since I didnt i ntend to fuvk herBroke guy based abroad? broke guy flew by air to and fro Calabar carnival? Broke guy spend close to 100k on thots in a space of 3weeks? did u missed that part I said I brought out my pourse to pay?

Don't mind them, they have abused me die say I be broke guy but I don't care.. Person wey broke dey become rich, na hard work n determination....

Broke girls call guy, broke... Pot calling kettle black

milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..

Oh

Timekeeper:



Everything in ur own life is cooked.. Even ur brain is what??









Cooked

Everything in your life is empty
Even your brain is what !?











Empty.

milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..

God bless you for this