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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 1Sharon(f): 4:24am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: How do you know he'll ever pay it? You need space alone with ur daughter to avoid clashes with ur sis in the future. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 0monnak0da: 4:34am On Jan 08, 2020 |
ikennaiteogu:Wickedness and kindness are like left and right sides of the buttocks They always exist together. We like to deny the wickedness in us but it is ever present The bible tells of Peter that thought he was good he said he would never deny Jesus but did so 3 times in one night. Wait till you are shaken hard before you say there is no evil in you,before you go around judging others 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by monimekaz(m): 4:41am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: You have always been an unfortunate human being ..Let me say it in Yoruba ..Oloriburuku ni e Lati ile ...You destroyed your life at a tender age just because of dirty smelly cunt .Now you have destroyed that of your sister too .God ,in this my life may I not be related to an idiot like this animal good for nothing ,unfortunate bastard here . Oloriburuku ,Omo ale jatijati ,Oniranu omo ,Akukubi 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by SlimBrawnie(f): 4:42am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:I understand how you feel. What you did was born out of long term anger which you've admitted was wronged. I'm concerned that your boyfriend still thinks she deserves what she's going through, and you say he's a nice guy? Well, he should also forgive and let go. Looking at the history of things in your family, I won't advice you to confess to your sister directly, because I don't want you to be in a situation where you'd regret confessing as the outcome won't be pleasant at all.... But please by all means, make sure the fiancee and your sister know that this was a set up by someone who she wronged. You can get those guys that made those calls to call the fiancee again and tell him it was a set up by them all cos your sister wronged one of them. The most important thing is for your sister to put herself back together again cos if she had moved on with her life, everyone would have forgotten about what happened and you wouldn't have felt the need to confess again... I'm sure if you had furthered your education, you won't still be with your baby Dada, but because of the low self esteem you now have, you think the sun rises at his feet. There's more to life than getting married and you deserve more. Don't carry this burden in 2020,make sure they all know it was a set up. Go and sin no more. Cheers 13 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by eki2000(m): 4:56am On Jan 08, 2020 |
It's not good to be mean on people. Why did the sister take them as nobody. It is always painful when one is given no regards. 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by SmellingAnus(m): 4:57am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:Then you are responsible for her losing her job ... It's your actions that made her lose her job... Honestly, you don't know how you have complicated your already complicated life... |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nukilia: 5:01am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Lesson for the future: When you're in a better position in life, never look down on anyone like their life cannot be better. Your elder sister sowed wind and she reaped whirlwind. When she thought she was better, she used her bad spirit to crush your spirit and this led to the catastrophe at hand. 1. Forgive yourself and call your boyfriend to order. 2. Forgive her and wish her well for the rest of her life. Never crush a mans spirit because you never know the extent of evil in them. #Peace #LearnToMindYourBusiness 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Topshow4real: 5:04am On Jan 08, 2020 |
ireneidiva: 14yo actually 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Terver90: 5:09am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:See girl you are not sorry and if you are, you will damne the consequences and allow Justice have it's cause, if not how long do you think you can hide? When GOD decide to administer his Justice, I assure you, shame will be very consoling to you, do you ever care that in our African culture that such union like yours is embarrassing and shameful? Despite that your sister admist the she shame she still loves you take care of some bills but expressed her unhappiness about the situation you found yourself because she loves you, then but because of you love foolishness more, you even planned with the evil so called lover of hers to deystroy her, oya live happy for ever, shey it is this life? If you like don't make amends and see one thing I know for sure GOD liveth. I am tired of typing for this type of foolishness. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Juliearth(f): 5:15am On Jan 08, 2020 |
sholay2011: Let me perch here and second your thought on this matter. Op, you are wicked and your boyfriend is worse, little wonder why your sister thinks he is not good for you. Havent you heard that blood is thicker than water? Why would you allow a man who isnt your husband come between you and your sister. That relationship may not be redeemable because your sister's ex fiance may have moved on. However, its important that you clear her name by confessing your atrocities to him. You have succeeded in scarring your sister for life. You should pray for her to bounce back and plead her forgiveness. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by SmithRussell(m): 5:19am On Jan 08, 2020 |
All these people calling her wicked and stuff, make una get sense na... She has acknowledged that what she did was wrong and she needs help,, the way forward.. If you don't have any positive to say, then don't say anything at all.. What's the reason for insulting the young lady? To undo her actions/decisions, change her way of thinking, or make you wiser As for the Op.. As Binis would say, your case loghor ,, you need God's touch personally. I think you should try and meet you pastor, tell him everything; then he should be able to see how to talk to your sister's ex... Let's start from there. If you can redeem your sister's relationship, maybe she could bounce back.. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Pavore9: 5:20am On Jan 08, 2020 |
eki2000: Does the OP and her baby daddy have regards for themselves? All OP is thinking of is getting married to the guy, ask what has the guy been doing for the past 5 years he impregnated the OP at 15 but rather smoking and drinking while squatting in a room with friends. OP is not sorry for what they did but the realization of no more free money from the sister. 5 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Juliearth(f): 5:20am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Are you still justifying evil? How naive can you be? |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Juliearth(f): 5:24am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Was your sister there when you parted your legs for the act that resulted in that baby? Should your sister "waste" money to set up a man who may make your life a living hell? Your sister does not hate your BOYfriend because he is poor but because he is a bad influence. I am done advising you, my concern is that you undo the mess you put your sister and her ex fiance. 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 5:53am On Jan 08, 2020 |
This OP is an idiot sha. You acted like a stack illiterate which i guess u are. even animals don't tow this line. u made a paedophile have such control over u? are u a simpleton? u'd better go confess 2 your sis&her bf & accept what comes after. slowpoke! 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CAPSLOCKED: 5:55am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ladycewhy: MADAM YOU HAVE MADE NO SENSE. YOU'RE JUST A DUMB EMPTY-HEAD FOR USING THOSE WORDS ON A YOUNG PERSON OVER SIMPLE CORRECTABLE MISTAKES SHE IS ALREADY REMORSEFUL ABOUT. ONCE YOU ZOMBIES SEE A TOPIC YOU ZOOM IN WITH THE FRUSTRATION YOU'VE CARRIED FROM YOUR VILLAGE SINCE CHILDHOOD TO RAIN ABUSES WITHOUT HELPING ISSUES OR PROVIDING THE REQUIRED SOLUTIONS. IDĮOTS. ALL OF YOU. IF YOU DON'T KNOW YOUR WORDS ON THIS FORUM ARE CAPABLE OF CAUSING MORE DAMAGES TO NOT JUST A POSTER BUT TO MANY OTHERS IN SIMILAR SITUATIONS WHEN THEY READ WHAT YOU HAVE FOR THEM. YOU'RE INSANE. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ladycewhy(f): 5:57am On Jan 08, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:have you settled with your mother? This is a new year o. 5 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 5:58am On Jan 08, 2020 |
eki2000:You don't have sense sha. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by YorubaKing: 6:01am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Thunder fire you, I swear! Igbo pple and wickedness sha. Damn! 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CAPSLOCKED: 6:03am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ladycewhy: TO BULLY ME USING MY FAMILY? THIS IS THE MOST YOU CAN DO AS I PREDICTED. YOU CAN'T DO BETTER THAN YOUR LEVEL. UPGRADE WOMAN WE'VE PASSED THE AGE OF WITCHCRAFT! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by lanrefront1(m): 6:03am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Rubbish fakeest story |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by demoBaba: 6:04am On Jan 08, 2020 |
I'm tantamount. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by fairygeh(f): 6:05am On Jan 08, 2020 |
you treated your own blood sister in this manner just because of a guy who took advantage of you.Your sister wanted the best for you and you repaid her with evil.only God can forgive you. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Cheks5(m): 6:07am On Jan 08, 2020 |
what is your definition of a good guy, a guy that impregnated a 15 years old minor, smokes, drinks, is not gainfully employed and squats in one room with group of friends. you expect your sister to be happy when ever she sees you and that your efulefu of a boyfriend. seeing the both of you together reminds her of the shame you brought upon your family. if you had any atom of sense in your brain, you would have cut off with that guy and concentrate on rebuilding your life. but what did you do, you are still stuck up with the tout. well I hope you still feel the same way about him 10 to 20 years down the line. if I was your sister i would have washed my hands off you the second I saw you still hanging with that tout, after impregneting you. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ladycewhy(f): 6:07am On Jan 08, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:oh shut up. I know the root of your tantrums so i would rather address it. The boy that said he is suffering from maternal slavery ,buahhhhahahhah , who knows one of this days we will get to know the reason you hate your mother so much. You hate women ,i am sure you are happy a woman is destroying another woman hence you don't want people to be hard on her cos in your mind its good for your anti- women campaign,lol ,cos i know if this was a woman doing this to a man you will have alot to say. There should be diary of mad black boy named capslocked Oh i see you have even edited, you said i am insane, lol lets start with you and your campaign here because of what your mother did ,all this idiotic redpillers on this forum sef . Lest i forget ,you said i am bullying you, but na you quote me,even when my comment was hidden on page 16, you decided to seek me out,lol i am shocked you have not mentioned your redpillers friends and your baby daddy mentor to come and beat me , atleast it is becoming clearer why you and your crew carry the anti-women campaign on your head like gala 7 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by GerogeI(m): 6:16am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:You are just a fool and a simpleton. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Successrole(m): 6:17am On Jan 08, 2020 |
sholay2011:haunty no blame games, every reaction is a proportional result of an action. argue with your physics teacher or ask the angel at the gate of hell he will explain better |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Successrole(m): 6:21am On Jan 08, 2020 |
SlimBrawnie:you are smart 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Successrole(m): 6:22am On Jan 08, 2020 |
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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Cheks5(m): 6:23am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Meliann:this your comment just shows how shallow minded you are. how is the family suppose to move forward when the girl has refused to let them move on. How are they suppose to move on when she still brings home the guy that impregnated her at 15 to their house. she might be young and naive when the deed was done, but to still continue even now that she is an adult shows that she has no remorse for what she did. There is every tendency that the tout will still sleep with her in their own house if he was allowed. from her whole write-up, it shows that she is still sleeping with the tout. 8 Likes |
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