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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by MedicH: 9:50am On Jan 11, 2020

Marry a woman that has a previous sexual history at your won risk. Once body count don pass 3, there's no way she will be emotionally and physically attached to the husband more than all three guys.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 10:01am On Jan 11, 2020

streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face , just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contact her ex regularly...
Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still have the guts under my roof to mess up.
Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6years was messed up!!!

the father of a child always want to be involved in the child life. As a man can you forget your kid and dash him to a new family? The problem now is the nature of visit. Because of the bad reputation contacting an ex has,most people contact their exes clandestinely in other not to anger their spouses. The clandestine "meeting" or "calls" or "chat" is suspicious itself. The key to solve this whole single-mum-baby-daddy problem is to let the ex be involved in the "[couple's" and the baby's life.
I mean the ex should be in contact with your family(your wife,the kid and yourself),he should be a family friend so that they will be no need for him to contact her alone. The husband should have a rapport with the baby daddy so the number of times he has to call the wife be reduced. Instead of calling her always to ask if he is ill, he can put you on call at times.
If room is made for him to see his own child once in a while(for example quarterly),whereby his visit is planned and anticipated by the husband and wife,then there will be no room for secret meetings or contacts.

That said,aside single mums,they are people who establish a soul-tie with someone. For life that bond may never be broken,especially their first love. Men in the 40s,married with kids still remember their teenage first love of decades ago,ladies do the same too

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Newbreed2018: 10:33am On Jan 11, 2020

streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face , just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contact her ex regularly...
Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still have the guts under my roof to mess up.
Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6years was messed up!!!

So sorry soldier.
Did the marriage bear any seed?

Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by ArticleBeast: 11:09am On Jan 11, 2020

crackhaus:
I heard this is a common thing among Isoko people of Delta State. You are not doing something new.

How many Isoko people do you know? In Isoko we don't do that instead we marry 2-3 women. We can even marry the three the same day.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by ehirosplusbiz(m): 12:12pm On Jan 11, 2020

Even those that enter late still have a lot of problem facing...

Na Luck.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by chigoizie7(m): 12:12pm On Jan 11, 2020

This has always been the problem

Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by naijazee2: 12:13pm On Jan 11, 2020

Hmmmmmmm

Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by autonomous22: 12:13pm On Jan 11, 2020

YOU HAVE DONE WELL...

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Rawtruth1: 12:14pm On Jan 11, 2020

BEWARE of divorced women and single mothers. Ask questions why the legs that went there ran away. They are deep ditches waiting to swallow the gullible

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by VirtIQ: 12:14pm On Jan 11, 2020

They are useless
Nigerian ladies are not worth it.
Gold digging bastards

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by NaijaOlosho(f): 12:15pm On Jan 11, 2020

U no sabi knack jor

Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by itsme01: 12:15pm On Jan 11, 2020

once debe always debe debe

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Mouthgag: 12:15pm On Jan 11, 2020

stupidity:

Here’s my plan. I’ll date you, we’ll have kids and live like married couples. When we get to 60s, 70s, and I discover you are indeed a wife material and you did not mess up, I’ll go pay your bride price and we do our marriage officially. In a grand style. By then sef money go boku. Everywhere good

Stupidity!
You go gree dat for ya sisters?

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by gambia(m): 12:16pm On Jan 11, 2020

Nice move.

Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by GeneralShepherd(m): 12:16pm On Jan 11, 2020

Did she cheat on you or just because she communicates with I am presume her baby's dad?

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by chinchonglee(m): 12:16pm On Jan 11, 2020

streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

Shey wen i told u guys that rule number 1 in marriage is never to marry a single mother, u guys said i dnt av sense...

I can never ever marry a single mother. Nothing not even love can make me..

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Mouthgag: 12:16pm On Jan 11, 2020

CAPSLOCKED:
MARRIAGES FAIL WHETHER SINGLE MOM OR NOT.

FROM YOUR NOTE I'VE CONCLUDED THAT YOU WERE THE PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE. THERE'S A CHANCE YOU KEPT DOING THE UNTHINKABLE, EXPECTING HER TO WORSHIP YOU BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IT'S A FAVOUR YOU'RE DOING HER BY BEING WITH HER.

I'M HAPPY FOR HER WHOEVER SHE IS. PEOPLE DESERVE BETTER THAN PEOPLE LIKE YOU.

Do you have brains at all?

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 12:16pm On Jan 11, 2020

We4all:
I presume the ex she was always in touch with fathered her child. If that was the case, then you should have anticipated that, and figured out how to deal with it before hand.

A single mother/father will always have something to say to their ex cos a child is involved. I think your relationship crashed cos boundaries were not set from the outset.

you are reasonable.. Kudos

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jan 11, 2020*

streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

Never marry a single mother.....period!!! even when you marry a woman without kids, you soon become an afterthought once she has given birth to your children talk less of another man's child!!!

you can date them, you can have them as side chicks but NEVER marry a woman with children from another man!! Even if she gives birth for you .....dont marry her!!!

Women should also be wary of becoming single mothers because your options for a future partner become limited, you have to scrape from the botttom of the barrel to find a husband and to be totally honest any man prepared to marry a single mother himself must have issues.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jan 11, 2020

Sowii o.

Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Somzee(f): 12:17pm On Jan 11, 2020

streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

Sorry about that.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 12:18pm On Jan 11, 2020

Mouthgag:
Stupidity!
You go gree dat for ya sisters?

whatever works for her tongue

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Ebenezar2020(m): 12:18pm On Jan 11, 2020

streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

the mistake u made was to marry without seeking for God's will.
that's what u get when u deny the godly wife to go seek for a thick wife with curvy waist, big boobs and tiny brain.
If u got married to her and now you divorced her it'll be eternally and spiritually prohibited to get another woman as wife for it's adultery in God's sight.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Cchuks27(m): 12:18pm On Jan 11, 2020*

Except the child's father is dead, still expect her to be contacting him regularly. I'm 100% against dating or getting married to single mothers.

There's this babe I was liking, when I knew she had a kid, baba na so I just jejely excused myself from her.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by fredoooooo: 12:18pm On Jan 11, 2020

You did the right thing .. let her go back to him.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by AdonaiAluminium: 12:18pm On Jan 11, 2020

Very stupid of her, if the ex loves her why didn't he marry her. This is the major problem with single mums

Contact ya now for all your roofing jobs, roof repair and maintenance rtc

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Xano(m): 12:19pm On Jan 11, 2020

Do not marry single mothers. She would always be in communication with the father of her child. Same as the single fathers.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by raphroye: 12:19pm On Jan 11, 2020

CAPSLOCKED:
MARRIAGES FAIL WHETHER SINGLE MOM OR NOT.

FROM YOUR NOTE I'VE CONCLUDED THAT YOU WERE THE PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE. THERE'S A CHANCE YOU KEPT DOING THE UNTHINKABLE, EXPECTING HER TO WORSHIP YOU BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IT'S A FAVOUR YOU'RE DOING HER BY BEING WITH HER.

I'M HAPPY FOR HER WHOEVER SHE IS. PEOPLE DESERVE BETTER THAN PEOPLE LIKE YOU.

Receive sense in Jesus name

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Openbusiness: 12:19pm On Jan 11, 2020*

streetsoldier1:
[s]I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!![/s]

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Manynations(f): 12:20pm On Jan 11, 2020

streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

As a single mom I can only tell you that you messed up.

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