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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Misterdhee1(m): 12:20pm On Jan 11, 2020
GeniusWannabe:
Mehn! I just dey pity youths wey dey rush enter marriage these days.
Lol, if you like take forever, marriage wey go Bleep you up will Bleep you up. Just hope for the best while you use your brain.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by fredoooooo: 12:21pm On Jan 11, 2020
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

Better 6 years than your life .. your wife is out there waiting for you ...

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Amalekki: 12:22pm On Jan 11, 2020
One side of the story.... just saying.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by DoubleEngine007: 12:22pm On Jan 11, 2020
Marriage these days is bleeped up.. Young boys afraid of settling down.. More baby mamas loading...

Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by optimus106(m): 12:22pm On Jan 11, 2020
Some women foolish sha

You can't be in two places at the
same time.

That her X is undoubtedly
shining her too.

Rubbish!

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by EncourageMe: 12:22pm On Jan 11, 2020
And do not complain when everybody is assisting you to bang your wife because in some culture, without paying your wife bride price, she is 100 percent free to bang other men outside.
stupidity:
grin grin


Here’s my plan. I’ll date you, we’ll have kids and live like married couples. When we get to 60s, 70s, and I discover you are indeed a wife material and you did not mess up, I’ll go pay your bride price and we do our marriage officially. In a grand style. By then sef money go boku. Everywhere good grin

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Subzero047: 12:23pm On Jan 11, 2020
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CAPSLOCKED:


MARRIAGES FAIL WHETHER SINGLE MOM OR NOT.

FROM YOUR NOTE I'VE CONCLUDED THAT YOU WERE THE PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE. THERE'S A CHANCE YOU KEPT DOING THE UNTHINKABLE, EXPECTING HER TO WORSHIP YOU BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IT'S A FAVOUR YOU'RE DOING HER BY BEING WITH HER.

I'M HAPPY FOR HER WHOEVER SHE IS. PEOPLE DESERVE BETTER THAN PEOPLE LIKE YOU.
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Shut up

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Poanan: 12:23pm On Jan 11, 2020
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has
and been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

So sorry about that. I never knew the reason people stayed away until some months back.
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by firo08(m): 12:23pm On Jan 11, 2020
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!
This one has learnt his lesson.
Don't marry anybody out of pity...

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Saintmary(f): 12:24pm On Jan 11, 2020
streetsoldier1:



It's a wrong reasoning to conclude on what you know nothing about. I did no one favour and never acted like god. Can't you just keep shut if you have nothing to say
Did you end your marriage based on facts and evidence or on suspicion?
What did she do with her ex?
You gave us so little information to go on
From your post even a child can deduce that you judge your wife because she is a single mother.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jan 11, 2020
EncourageMe:
And do not complain when everybody is assisting you to bang your wife because in some culture, without paying your wife bride price, she is 100 percent free to bang other men outside.
so you can’t even EncourageMe instead of spewing this trash? angry

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jan 11, 2020
Cchuks27:
Except the child's father is dead, still expect her to be contacting him regularly. I'm 100% dating or getting married to single mothers.

There's this babe I was liking, when I knew she had a kid, baba na so I just jejely excused myself from her.

Even if the ex husband is dead, the family will always be a problem. The day you decide to discipline that child is the day the woman will tell you you are not his father!!!

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by don89(m): 12:25pm On Jan 11, 2020
That is always the problem with single mothers, they always go back to their baby daddies for sex, because they have shared blood and the blood is running inside them ,making them attracted to their baby daddy.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by NOETHNICITY(m): 12:26pm On Jan 11, 2020
faithfull18:

Any lady who accepts such definitely doesn't know her worth. Nonsense and stupidity.
And what's thier worth? Is it anything more than the usual pusssssy and face baked like hell from make-up?
Do girls of nowadays ve anything else to offer?

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Mutemenot(m): 12:26pm On Jan 11, 2020
Single mom re best for free fvck, they hardly forget their ex

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Louisananda7(m): 12:26pm On Jan 11, 2020
Learn from mistakes, yours and others.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by AdonaiAluminium: 12:26pm On Jan 11, 2020
That's why u say that, before you pity a single mum try and find out what put her in that condition.


Contact us now for all your roofing jobs, roof repair and maintenance etc

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Lexusgs430: 12:27pm On Jan 11, 2020
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!


A self acclaimed streetsoldier should have known better.........

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Cchuks27(m): 12:27pm On Jan 11, 2020
isthatso:


Even if the ex husband is dead, the family will always be a problem. The day you decide to discipline that child is the day the woman will tell you you are not his father!!!

LMAOOO I'm just telling you bros. Very true

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Afiahomes(m): 12:27pm On Jan 11, 2020
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!
good move cool

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by kunleweb: 12:27pm On Jan 11, 2020
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!



Give us more gists soldier grin

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by WildChild00(m): 12:28pm On Jan 11, 2020
johnkey:
Foolish man. See your face as you be like opor. Na your type dey make girls sleep around because they know there is always one mumu that will put them in his house.

Bros you dey find slap abi?
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Swinger60(f): 12:28pm On Jan 11, 2020
Shibaraba:

Sorry
When shibaraba talks children go dey advise me like I be their mate. The other thread them insult I just dey look. Wetin my eye Don see!!!!!
Single mothers.... Japa. I say one so called ex waylay me wan kill me. Make I no talk. Once they leave the house their head Don dey messed up. I feel for them but for your own life, just bang if you want bang and japa.

Sorry bros. Chassis cha cha full outside. Grab your copy.... Now
Not fair you are generalizing, some one close to me ended her marriage this Jan. She is the best woman any one can have, unfortunately she married a man that was raised wrongly.

Imagine her husband beating her because she came back, and, saw her husband's weed he poured inside their plate, and, she threw it away. This marriage already had 3kids, even if the man smokes, does he have to flaunt before and kids.

I encouraged her to arrest him after hitting her, she did, and the man was detained, he didn't show any remorse afterwards, rather, he was threatening her with divorce, I told her is time she move on, and she did.

And before this last incident, Her 9years marriage has been 9years of domestic violence.


Now, tell me, didn't she deserve a second chance of remarrying?

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by izubext007: 12:28pm On Jan 11, 2020
She Gave U Sign , U Still Up, In D Name Of Forgiveness

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by johnkey: 12:29pm On Jan 11, 2020
WildChild00:


Bros you dey find slap abi?
it's a faceless forum dude nobody is slapping anybody.
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Angelfrost(m): 12:29pm On Jan 11, 2020
Once again, you guys have started this lumping of individuals in the same negative group... How does marrying a single mother always amount to heartbreaks??! What makes you so sure or certain that single ladies without kids are more likely to be faithful??!...

Now, someone dating a single mum will start having suspicions and second thoughts for no reason whatsoever... This is why I speak against stereotypes and cliches...

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Poanan: 12:29pm On Jan 11, 2020
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MARRIAGES FAIL WHETHER SINGLE MOM OR NOT.

FROM YOUR NOTE I'VE CONCLUDED THAT YOU WERE THE PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE. THERE'S A CHANCE YOU KEPT DOING THE UNTHINKABLE, EXPECTING HER TO WORSHIP YOU BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IT'S A FAVOUR YOU'RE DOING HER BY BEING WITH HER.

I'M HAPPY FOR HER WHOEVER SHE IS. PEOPLE DESERVE BETTER THAN PEOPLE LIKE YOU.

Don't say that. I have a friend who is capable of towing same part. I have advised her but my voice can't be louder than the voice of other friends combined. They always start with meeting for "child support".

A friend of mine was still contacting the father of her child two months to the wedding to discuss child support. For what reason? This same guy only brings money whenever he likes, I saw the meeting as uncalled for. More so, the husband to be already knew of the child and what he is getting himself involved in.
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Solidkay(m): 12:30pm On Jan 11, 2020
Sorry about that brother,
But in all honesty, you're paying the price for your ignorance cos you saw the warning signs and you chosed to ignore it.
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by WildChild00(m): 12:30pm On Jan 11, 2020
johnkey:
it's a faceless forum dude nobody is slapping anybody.


But I can slap you if need be....

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