[quote author=Ariza post=85742113]So you mean he should just call it quits without any explanation? Lol that sound like an unreasonable thing to do. If women break up relationships without giving a chance for conversation how many marriages would happen or survive? I wonder why the double standard here. Let the two talk and decide what to do with their lives.

No one stand to gain anything from their break up or being together here,but I wonder why you lots are so small minded and are hell bent on separating the two like you have an assurance that his next girl will be any better.[/quoterecently she called me asked if i hmmm inside her the last time we had s*x. I told her yes to see her reaction. told me she is pregnant. Asked how sure she is, she said 85% sure. Funny enough I didn't drop inside her. Lol

Meeyankee:

Even though they are managing some cheat, the advice they gave him is best for him.what kind chat is that? Any body that is taken such girl back is a weak nigga .to think of is somebody he wants to get married this some he has even brought drinks to his parents.

Yeah.... isn't it convenient to dish out advise when we aren't the one walking in the shoes that hurt? How easy to type words through the keyboards with ever imagining the reality of these words! . If they are managing cheats how about they take a piece of their medicine for their pains? . Only the guy knows what's best for him.

At bolded, no! The op won't be a weak nigga but a sensible Man who wouldn't follow some delusional self absorbed nitwits standard of who or what a Man should be. He would be a man who knows and does what's best for him not what some mentally unstable being think is good for him.

Ariza:
Yeah.... isn't it convenient to dish out advise when we aren't the one walking in the shoes that hurt? How easy to type words through the keyboards with ever imagining the reality of these words! . If they are managing cheats how about they take a piece of their medicine for their pains? . Only the guy knows what's best for him.

At bolded, no! The op won't be a weak nigga but a sensible Man who wouldn't follow some delusional self absorbed nitwits standard of who or what a Man should be. He would be a man who knows and does what's best for him not what some mentally unstable being think is good for him.

You make some sense base on the way you see some of the niggaz.. but as it is now you thinks that taken the girl back will be best for him? Because you as a nigga you need to think about the chat too.

[quote author=Impregnable101 post=85742440][/quote]Congratulations! So you feel she wanna pin the pregnancy on you? Weird question to ask though

Davash222:

They’re telling you to go and collect your drink money back and you’re talking about wife her.. are you okay

Lol

Meeyankee:

You make some sense base on the way you see some of the niggaz.. but as it is now you thinks that taken the girl back will be best for him? Because you as a nigga you need to think about the chat too.

Like I typed earlier only the guy knows what he wants and what's best for him.I never neither will I pass a judgement on this situation however I advocate for a one on one dialogue between the two.Thats all. Yes the chat is flirty and a pointer to some moral decadence in the lady but that may be just what it is, a flirty chat with a guy she fancy.

I'm a lady, I understand that chat.If I see something on my man's phone,I will confront him not just call it quit. That's very rash !

Morallity has gone down the drain, marriage is not even a guarantee of faithfulness, this generation has lost it, the Advent of social media has caused a lot of negative influence on us, especially Nigeria, people now cheat for stupid reason, my brother is now generational something, we just pray 4 d write one

Sorry.

If you never bang some one girlfriend before using flows,and then dump her for the real boyfriend.
Then man you free to let her go....
But you have to know something,No be say we no the see somethings .We man up chastise her and make sure she cut connections.

They all shouting cut It off cut it off..Oga how u sure say the next one never carry out numerous coded abortions.

I get to understand most not all per say stops flirting when you finally give them to the Ring.

So Mr it's left for you to choice.

Mister man let me advice you. Marriage is a risk. You never know what you are getting until you are deep in it. There is nothing wrong with getting married. Just like there is nothing wrong with staying a bachelor. However, whatever path you take of the two paths just be aware of the consequences. If I was in your shoes and saw this chat, I will be thanking the gods for revealing the true nature of this woman to me at this time. Make your decision wisely. If you still decide to go ahead with the marriage, then prepare yourself for more of this in the future. As long as you can live like that, you will be okay. Otherwise, if your mind no carry am (that is if you are not comfortable with sharing your wife with other men) then I will say cut her off now and completely.

Take care and all the best to you.
Emilokoiya-won

go and collect your drinks back

Godsonjolly:
Very funny ooo. Can't stop laughing at this. Oga leave the girl, dash the parents the money and flee...
The stories I see here makes me scared of women. Las Las na God go help us

Swears

[quote author=Impregnable101 post=85742440][/quote]
So you didn't hmmmmm inside her

stinflame:
If you never bang some one girlfriend before using flows,and then dump her for the real boyfriend.
Then man you free to let her go....
But you have to know something,No be say we no the see somethings .We man up chastise her and make sure she cut connections.

They all shouting cut It off cut it off..Oga how u sure say the next one never carry out numerous coded abortions.

I get to understand most not all per say stops flirting when you finally give them to the Ring.

So Mr it's left for you to choice.

Story
*yawns*

Impregnable101:
Snooped into my girl's WhatsApp & read her chats with a particular guy

The guy was like "I just arrived abuja. Wat I want now is a good head to help me relax"

She was like "u are not serious"

The guy: oh I am

My girl: OK, just take care of ur sef o

The guy: I want u to come & do it

My girl: u know i can take care of u

The guy: I know that why I want u to come & do it
My girl: lol

The guy: I wanted to see something thats why I called u on video but u were hiding in the dark

My girl: no light

My girl: I don't want to disturb my sister with my noise


She was in the same platoon with this guy

To think that i engaged her few months ago. Plus i have already taken drinks to her parents!!!
Cc lalasticlala

Nigga do you love yourself?
I repeat ..Do you really love yourself?!
Don't just rush and say yes in your mind... Think before you answer dat simple question.






You know what to do now

OP! dont lose on both side, impregnate her and run away

See the week men we re talking about? '' I think my gf is cheating on me''. Lol. Stay there and be thinking. You saw such erotic text exchanges and you couldn't confront your girl right there and hear her excuse, are u afraid of her to confront her or you fear she might break up with you. Yeye. You never see wife. Hope the wine you gave her parents no pass 2k??

Impregnable101:
Snooped into my girl's WhatsApp & read her chats with a particular guy

The guy was like "I just arrived abuja. Wat I want now is a good head to help me relax"

She was like "u are not serious"

The guy: oh I am

My girl: OK, just take care of ur sef o

The guy: I want u to come & do it

My girl: u know i can take care of u

The guy: I know that why I want u to come & do it
My girl: lol

The guy: I wanted to see something thats why I called u on video but u were hiding in the dark

My girl: no light

My girl: I don't want to disturb my sister with my noise


She was in the same platoon with this guy

To think that i engaged her few months ago. Plus i have already taken drinks to her parents!!!
Cc lalasticlala

in naira Marley's voice, Alaye calm down joor, she's not ur girlfriend/wife just ur turn

Impregnable101:
Snooped into my girl's WhatsApp & read her chats with a particular guy

The guy was like "I just arrived abuja. Wat I want now is a good head to help me relax"

She was like "u are not serious"

The guy: oh I am

My girl: OK, just take care of ur sef o

The guy: I want u to come & do it

My girl: u know i can take care of u

The guy: I know that why I want u to come & do it
My girl: lol

The guy: I wanted to see something thats why I called u on video but u were hiding in the dark

My girl: no light

My girl: I don't want to disturb my sister with my noise


She was in the same platoon with this guy

To think that i engaged her few months ago. Plus i have already taken drinks to her parents!!!
Cc lalasticlala

lol bro u can call the nonsense off please don't go ahead with the useless marriage cause u might regret it

Trust any Nigerian girl at your own risk..

[quote author=Impregnable101 post=85742440][/quote]

As your wife to be and as someone you have been dating for last three years now, how possible is it that you don't know when she's menstruating? Or she doesn't tell you about this?

As a guy, you should know when your girl is menstruating and when she's done with it. Don't shy away from it by looking away. It's for your own good. She might not be calculating it but you will and by this, she can't pin a pregnancy from another man on u.

For example, if she finished her period last two weeks and you touch her today and cum inside, she's surely going to be a mother provided deciding factors are okay. But if she finished her period yesterday and you have sex with her today, she won't get pregnant because she has just shed out her waiting egg in form of blood and there's no waiting egg to fertilize your semen inside her and your semen can't wait for 10-14 days to fertilize the next available egg her ovary will be releasing.

You girl is really mean. She had sex with another guy and she allowed the guy to cum inside her like she is a cum bucket when she knows she's almost a wife and she's asking you if you cum inside her to navigate how to pin the pregnancy on you.

You can deny that pregnancy when you get her to tell you the date she finished her period. If you can't do this, just know that ignorance on this kind of issue has made u a father even though you may not be the true father.

This kind of attitude always make men go mad. This kind of attitude gives good ladies bad names.

Impregnable101:
Snooped into my girl's WhatsApp & read her chats with a particular guy

The guy was like "I just arrived abuja. Wat I want now is a good head to help me relax"

She was like "u are not serious"

The guy: oh I am

My girl: OK, just take care of ur sef o

The guy: I want u to come & do it

My girl: u know i can take care of u

The guy: I know that why I want u to come & do it
My girl: lol

The guy: I wanted to see something thats why I called u on video but u were hiding in the dark

My girl: no light

My girl: I don't want to disturb my sister with my noise


She was in the same platoon with this guy

To think that i engaged her few months ago. Plus i have already taken drinks to her parents!!!
Cc lalasticlala

Have you ever cheated on her? If you haven't, then confront her and initiate a break up. If you have, then make an open confession and ask her to do the same. Then, you two should start afresh on a clean slate.

The truth is, the level of promiscuity among our youths is quite alarming and no one can be trusted. Guys used to be the randy ones, but it seems ladies are now giving them a run for their money.

Ariza:
Like I typed earlier only the guy knows what he wants and what's best for him.I never neither will I pass a judgement on this situation however I advocate for a one on one dialogue between the two.Thats all. Yes the chat is flirty and a pointer to some moral decadence in the lady but that may be just what it is, a flirty chat with a guy she fancy.

I'm a lady, I understand that chat.If I see something on my man's phone,I will confront him not just call it quit. That's very rash !

Ok now i understand better.. your reasons are mature..are from Italy?

Impregnable101:
bro. I was planning to wife her real soon

Although u don't av any proof that she is cheating but don't marry her... U will still come here to wail if u marry hee

Davash222:

They’re telling you to go and collect your drink money back and you’re talking about wife her.. are you okay

The guy is a he-diot

Keep her around and only fvck her when you dey vex, while searching for someone with small sense, because in truth women and common sense are in constant battle

Preshy561:

Oh, that our abroad boo

Call him on whatsapp video call, if you can or on whatsapp call, sing for him, pray for him and send him loads of messages both lomantic and successful birthday wishes.
When you guys See, you can also wish him happy birthday once more. Buy anything you can lay your hands on, no matter how small, the person will appreciate.
Happy birthday to him in addy.

U forgot to tell the bitch called Ariza that she shud send her nude to him since it's a yeyebration.


Ariza bitch, Pls send ur nudes to him

Impregnable101:
Snooped into my girl's WhatsApp & read her chats with a particular guy

The guy was like "I just arrived abuja. Wat I want now is a good head to help me relax"

She was like "u are not serious"

The guy: oh I am

My girl: OK, just take care of ur sef o

The guy: I want u to come & do it

My girl: u know i can take care of u

The guy: I know that why I want u to come & do it
My girl: lol

The guy: I wanted to see something thats why I called u on video but u were hiding in the dark

My girl: no light

My girl: I don't want to disturb my sister with my noise


She was in the same platoon with this guy

To think that i engaged her few months ago. Plus i have already taken drinks to her parents!!!
Cc lalasticlala

JUST ABANDON SHIP!!!!

Ariza:
Oga before you make a harsh decision based on the words of people who aren't in the relationship with you here, Confront your woman first. Give her a chance to explain herself then you can decide on what to do with her confessions.


Most of these guys advising you to quit your relationship may also be managing some cheats and still be begging to put the tip join self. No let online commandos deceive you o.

a chance to explain why she is cheating?? you are impossible! what could be the justification for cheating on your fiancee??

Op screen shot her chats with the dude, take her on a date,after having series of chat with her then tell her you cant continue with the relationship anymore,,if she try playing emotional game or trying to make you feel guilty then show her the screen shots and walk away....any explaination she have should be on phone,dnt let her near your house again.

Ariza:
jeeezzzzzzz see how fast she connected the dots . All these things are normal things we do on daily basis nah. I want something spectacular, something out of routine. I've searched and searched but got nothing! Sigh!... This is tiring I swear!
Thank you for your wishes and help but if you got something else please let me know.

Google a service business located in his area and order something nice for him. Make sure they tell him who sent it. No fall hand o.

In the infallible words of my Sensei Future, “she belong to the streets”.

Dump her bro to spare yourself a lifetime of misery and possibly STD.