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Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Impregnable101: 9:21pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
[quote author=Ariza post=85742113]So you mean he should just call it quits without any explanation? Lol that sound like an unreasonable thing to do. If women break up relationships without giving a chance for conversation how many marriages would happen or survive? I wonder why the double standard here. Let the two talk and decide what to do with their lives. No one stand to gain anything from their break up or being together here,but I wonder why you lots are so small minded and are hell bent on separating the two like you have an assurance that his next girl will be any better.[/quoterecently she called me asked if i hmmm inside her the last time we had s*x. I told her yes to see her reaction. told me she is pregnant. Asked how sure she is, she said 85% sure. Funny enough I didn't drop inside her. Lol |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Meeyankee:Yeah.... isn't it convenient to dish out advise when we aren't the one walking in the shoes that hurt? How easy to type words through the keyboards with ever imagining the reality of these words! . If they are managing cheats how about they take a piece of their medicine for their pains? . Only the guy knows what's best for him. At bolded, no! The op won't be a weak nigga but a sensible Man who wouldn't follow some delusional self absorbed nitwits standard of who or what a Man should be. He would be a man who knows and does what's best for him not what some mentally unstable being think is good for him. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Nobody: 9:29pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Ariza: You make some sense base on the way you see some of the niggaz.. but as it is now you thinks that taken the girl back will be best for him? Because you as a nigga you need to think about the chat too. |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Nobody: 9:37pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
[quote author=Impregnable101 post=85742440][/quote]Congratulations! So you feel she wanna pin the pregnancy on you? Weird question to ask though |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by bujebudanu1(m): 9:38pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Davash222: Lol 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Nobody: 9:39pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Meeyankee:Like I typed earlier only the guy knows what he wants and what's best for him.I never neither will I pass a judgement on this situation however I advocate for a one on one dialogue between the two.Thats all. Yes the chat is flirty and a pointer to some moral decadence in the lady but that may be just what it is, a flirty chat with a guy she fancy. I'm a lady, I understand that chat.If I see something on my man's phone,I will confront him not just call it quit. That's very rash ! 3 Likes |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Breezysdesign: 9:45pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Morallity has gone down the drain, marriage is not even a guarantee of faithfulness, this generation has lost it, the Advent of social media has caused a lot of negative influence on us, especially Nigeria, people now cheat for stupid reason, my brother is now generational something, we just pray 4 d write one 4 Likes |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by iLegendd(m): 9:51pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Sorry. |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Nobody: 9:58pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
If you never bang some one girlfriend before using flows,and then dump her for the real boyfriend. Then man you free to let her go.... But you have to know something,No be say we no the see somethings .We man up chastise her and make sure she cut connections. They all shouting cut It off cut it off..Oga how u sure say the next one never carry out numerous coded abortions. I get to understand most not all per say stops flirting when you finally give them to the Ring. So Mr it's left for you to choice. 3 Likes |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Emilokoiyawon: 10:03pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Mister man let me advice you. Marriage is a risk. You never know what you are getting until you are deep in it. There is nothing wrong with getting married. Just like there is nothing wrong with staying a bachelor. However, whatever path you take of the two paths just be aware of the consequences. If I was in your shoes and saw this chat, I will be thanking the gods for revealing the true nature of this woman to me at this time. Make your decision wisely. If you still decide to go ahead with the marriage, then prepare yourself for more of this in the future. As long as you can live like that, you will be okay. Otherwise, if your mind no carry am (that is if you are not comfortable with sharing your wife with other men) then I will say cut her off now and completely. Take care and all the best to you. Emilokoiya-won 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by lilbarracuda(m): 10:26pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
go and collect your drinks back 2 Likes |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Auxigen(m): 11:08pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Godsonjolly:Swears |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Auxigen(m): 11:09pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
[quote author=Impregnable101 post=85742440][/quote] So you didn't hmmmmm inside her |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Auxigen(m): 11:12pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
stinflame:Story *yawns* |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Auxigen(m): 11:17pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Impregnable101:Nigga do you love yourself? I repeat ..Do you really love yourself?! Don't just rush and say yes in your mind... Think before you answer dat simple question. You know what to do now 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Nobody: 11:28pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
OP! dont lose on both side, impregnate her and run away |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by foleskay(m): 11:37pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
See the week men we re talking about? '' I think my gf is cheating on me''. Lol. Stay there and be thinking. You saw such erotic text exchanges and you couldn't confront your girl right there and hear her excuse, are u afraid of her to confront her or you fear she might break up with you. Yeye. You never see wife. Hope the wine you gave her parents no pass 2k?? 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by theTransporter: 11:49pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Impregnable101: in naira Marley's voice, Alaye calm down joor, she's not ur girlfriend/wife just ur turn |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Nobody: 11:49pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
Impregnable101:lol bro u can call the nonsense off please don't go ahead with the useless marriage cause u might regret it 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by carter009(m): 12:09am On Jan 13, 2020 |
Trust any Nigerian girl at your own risk.. 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by dinodesmond(m): 12:22am On Jan 13, 2020 |
[quote author=Impregnable101 post=85742440][/quote] As your wife to be and as someone you have been dating for last three years now, how possible is it that you don't know when she's menstruating? Or she doesn't tell you about this? As a guy, you should know when your girl is menstruating and when she's done with it. Don't shy away from it by looking away. It's for your own good. She might not be calculating it but you will and by this, she can't pin a pregnancy from another man on u. For example, if she finished her period last two weeks and you touch her today and cum inside, she's surely going to be a mother provided deciding factors are okay. But if she finished her period yesterday and you have sex with her today, she won't get pregnant because she has just shed out her waiting egg in form of blood and there's no waiting egg to fertilize your semen inside her and your semen can't wait for 10-14 days to fertilize the next available egg her ovary will be releasing. You girl is really mean. She had sex with another guy and she allowed the guy to cum inside her like she is a cum bucket when she knows she's almost a wife and she's asking you if you cum inside her to navigate how to pin the pregnancy on you. You can deny that pregnancy when you get her to tell you the date she finished her period. If you can't do this, just know that ignorance on this kind of issue has made u a father even though you may not be the true father. This kind of attitude always make men go mad. This kind of attitude gives good ladies bad names. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by We4all: 12:22am On Jan 13, 2020 |
Impregnable101: Have you ever cheated on her? If you haven't, then confront her and initiate a break up. If you have, then make an open confession and ask her to do the same. Then, you two should start afresh on a clean slate. The truth is, the level of promiscuity among our youths is quite alarming and no one can be trusted. Guys used to be the randy ones, but it seems ladies are now giving them a run for their money. 2 Likes |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Nobody: 12:32am On Jan 13, 2020 |
Ariza:Ok now i understand better.. your reasons are mature..are from Italy? |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Timekeeper: 1:15am On Jan 13, 2020 |
Impregnable101: Although u don't av any proof that she is cheating but don't marry her... U will still come here to wail if u marry hee 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Timekeeper: 1:17am On Jan 13, 2020 |
Davash222: The guy is a he-diot 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Apination(m): 1:18am On Jan 13, 2020 |
Keep her around and only fvck her when you dey vex, while searching for someone with small sense, because in truth women and common sense are in constant battle 3 Likes |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Timekeeper: 1:18am On Jan 13, 2020 |
Preshy561: U forgot to tell the bitch called Ariza that she shud send her nude to him since it's a yeyebration. Ariza bitch, Pls send ur nudes to him |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Karemarealty288(m): 2:18am On Jan 13, 2020 |
Impregnable101: JUST ABANDON SHIP!!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by splendour7(m): 3:09am On Jan 13, 2020 |
Ariza:a chance to explain why she is cheating?? you are impossible! what could be the justification for cheating on your fiancee?? 2 Likes |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by splendour7(m): 3:32am On Jan 13, 2020 |
Op screen shot her chats with the dude, take her on a date,after having series of chat with her then tell her you cant continue with the relationship anymore,,if she try playing emotional game or trying to make you feel guilty then show her the screen shots and walk away....any explaination she have should be on phone,dnt let her near your house again. 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by Saintmary(f): 3:41am On Jan 13, 2020 |
Ariza:Google a service business located in his area and order something nice for him. Make sure they tell him who sent it. No fall hand o. |
Re: I Think My Wife To Be Is Cheating On Me. I Need Advice by MajorWarren: 5:46am On Jan 13, 2020 |
In the infallible words of my Sensei Future, “she belong to the streets”. Dump her bro to spare yourself a lifetime of misery and possibly STD. 1 Like |
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