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U guys own is small .
There was this girl I collected her number . She always want us to talk on phone every time . I call her before and after work everyday . She said she wanted to come to my place I was happy about that . Sunday reached . After church I called and texted her she didn’t pick .then by 7 she called to tell me bullshit she sha apologised .another one week of constant calls again she disappointed exactly the same way.
Fast forward to early dis year she called that she wants to see me and this time it must be in festac which is far from my place . I told her to come to my place she said No ,okay let’s chill somewhere not too far from both of us she said it must be festac and she would stay only an hour with me and it shouldn’t be a hotel . I told her no problem she should come to villa park let’s swim ,I told her to bring her friends too . She arrived at the place by past 2 ,with 3 of her friends , she called me I told her I just left to eat meanwhile I det my house .i told her to order barbecue fish and Andre for her and her friends, she even had the guts to tell me to buy food when coming for her and her friends . She called me I was just post her that I’m coming . Her bill was about 20k and she wasn’t with money not even transport money . She just dey curse curse me that day . They left there by past 6 . The thing sweet me eh. I called her and reminded her that she wanted to stay only 1 hour now see how many hours she spent . Stupid gal . I wanted her to bring like 10 of her friends so they will see how stupid their friend is .she brot only 3 that thing pain me eh . Guys if babe disappoint you just do like I did and block her . The second person I did it to I told her I want to take her to Lekki conservation centre she should book Uber when she got Dre I did the same thing . She sha paid 4500 for the Uber , babes no like to spend money .

NihiIist:
Grow up kid, no wonder a 2 year old child is beefing you.

Chai awon beer parlour detectives twale

konvict0111:
For your mind, you just kan dey form exotic and nice restaurant on the island. Lols!!!

Just say you don't fancy the guy, that's all. On a normal day, u go hang leg aswear down.

Hehehe. If you don't know Victorian on nairaland, its either you are new or you don't have money to pay for her service

Hotguy27:
Go and hustle. Make money and the table will turn around. Different clean girls go after guys with money and literally beg for sex even.

And who told you he isn't hustling? From his write-up, he has his own apartment. He's definitely not doing bad.

Akanoaaa:
Same thing happened to my friend in 2017. [b]The dude has prepared him for the coming of this girl [/b]but last last the girl did not show up and the worst part of it was when he called this girl at their agreed time the girl said she will be on her way now and after like an hour my friend decided to call her again but this time she did not pick her call and after several calling she later picked the call and it was obvious that the girl was receiving gbona from another guy cause the way she sounded confirmed it, she switched off her phone afterward. I told him the girl divert his goods to another guy and my friend was not himself that day. The thing dey pain no be small

And that same dude cannot prepare himself for the coming of Jesus Christ o

We4all:
Next time, invite her to come visit you in Dubai, not your 'face me I face you room' without a bed.

I'm sure he has a bed; just that no bed stand; so na for ground e put the bed, on top carpet

lilllly:
Same thing I was wondering. If I was the girl, I would run too. Dating get grade o

If I were ......not if I was .....

peterincredible:
this same thing happened to me last year feb then i was a corper serving during the election period i told her to come the first time she agreed then she stood me up she no come hmmm i saw here during cds the following thursday asked her why dat it is disrespectfull and i dont lyk it she appologised and we rescheduled the following week i called her that morning on the day she was suppose to come she said she will start preparing then i started cleaning my room told my roomate to disappear or i will break his head he laughed and went to the next room, so i started cooking usually i dont add much salt and use only one maggi when i cook cause i have mild high blood pressure bcause of her i cooked and put the normal salt and just make the jollof ricr look good and tasty and and even spray perfume for the room thinking say na beta person i invite come ooo then boom time was 5pm this girl neva come or even called hmm so i called her then she told me she was ill i just laff cut the call then immediately i deleted her no, i saw her the next day during all this political waker when copers dey do during election period na i politician called all corpers in that local govt to a hotel for some sharing of money oo na so i see this same girl that said was ill talking to some of my guys i just went to dem greet my guys, greet her smiling then left, guess what? her concience start judging her she came to me to start a conversation we talked for a while then i left her giving her a boring reason to go she neva saw my call since that day and anytime i see her i will just greet from afar and go without chatting her up hmm then she called me a month time telling me i dont call her anymore infact that got me angry but i maintained and then later she sent me text on watsapp immediately the text entered my phone i blocked her then she new we not on the same page again since then wherever she sees me she will complain peter wetin i do you i will just laff and tell her nothing jare then give her a boring reason to excuse myself and since that time she has been the one trying to spark a conversation but guy i am very hot headed and will neva ever tollerate a disrespectfull woman even if am broke and my wife or gf tries to be bitchy bcause of one boring reason i will just let her know am the man and am ready to walk away any fucking time when u let them know that and u always smile it will leave them confuse neva eva chase a women even when she threatings to leave she might be testing u to know ure strenght and most of it all a girl can never love a man she takes for granted or disrespects so when a girl act that way always smile when u see her to keep her confuse then cut her offff u hear me cut her offff and as for the gurl she always be the one to come to me but i gave her a very long space even the day i we where both passing out she called me i looked at her then smile a bit turn and left she was expecting me to come to her to talk but i didnt that shows strength neva let a girl disrepect u when she does just leave her most time it she will be the one chasing as i read ure post i just laff cause i remembered what i did to her i can see the look on her face anytime i gave her a quick answer and excuse myself she looks rejected i neva even taught i was that wicked the dating world is very beautifulll but only the men who dont give a Bleep and show strenght wins i just cant stop laughing sha thanks for remembering me about that wierd girl

E gbenu e soun jare. You just dey make mouth chochochocho, but last last na your type dey wash woman pant. Mscheeeeeeeew.

Ogbeni ke gerrout!

peterincredible:
this same thing happened to me last year feb then i was a corper serving during the election period i told her to come the first time she agreed then she stood me up she no come hmmm i saw here during cds the following thursday asked her why dat it is disrespectfull and i dont lyk it she appologised and we rescheduled the following week i called her that morning on the day she was suppose to come she said she will start preparing then i started cleaning my room told my roomate to disappear or i will break his head he laughed and went to the next room, so i started cooking usually i dont add much salt and use only one maggi when i cook cause i have mild high blood pressure bcause of her i cooked and put the normal salt and just make the jollof ricr look good and tasty and and even spray perfume for the room thinking say na beta person i invite come ooo then boom time was 5pm this girl neva come or even called hmm so i called her then she told me she was ill i just laff cut the call then immediately i deleted her no, i saw her the next day during all this political waker when copers dey do during election period na i politician called all corpers in that local govt to a hotel for some sharing of money oo na so i see this same girl that said was ill talking to some of my guys i just went to dem greet my guys, greet her smiling then left, guess what? her concience start judging her she came to me to start a conversation we talked for a while then i left her giving her a boring reason to go she neva saw my call since that day and anytime i see her i will just greet from afar and go without chatting her up hmm then she called me a month time telling me i dont call her anymore infact that got me angry but i maintained and then later she sent me text on watsapp immediately the text entered my phone i blocked her then she new we not on the same page again since then wherever she sees me she will complain peter wetin i do you i will just laff and tell her nothing jare then give her a boring reason to excuse myself and since that time she has been the one trying to spark a conversation but guy i am very hot headed and will neva ever tollerate a disrespectfull woman even if am broke and my wife or gf tries to be bitchy bcause of one boring reason i will just let her know am the man and am ready to walk away any fucking time when u let them know that and u always smile it will leave them confuse neva eva chase a women even when she threatings to leave she might be testing u to know ure strenght and most of it all a girl can never love a man she takes for granted or disrespects so when a girl act that way always smile when u see her to keep her confuse then cut her offff u hear me cut her offff and as for the gurl she always be the one to come to me but i gave her a very long space even the day i we where both passing out she called me i looked at her then smile a bit turn and left she was expecting me to come to her to talk but i didnt that shows strength neva let a girl disrepect u when she does just leave her most time it she will be the one chasing as i read ure post i just laff cause i remembered what i did to her i can see the look on her face anytime i gave her a quick answer and excuse myself she looks rejected i neva even taught i was that wicked the dating world is very beautifulll but only the men who dont give a Bleep and show strenght wins i just cant stop laughing sha thanks for remembering me about that wierd girl

Op if you don't learn a thing from this then I will advice you to stop dating or anything related to girls........

NihiIist:
You invite a girl to come over, she promises you. Because of her, you quickly arrange your house, clean everywhere, wash your toilet clean, lay your bed and spray airfreshner. You even down a bottle of alomo bitters and all sorts of concoction just in case.

The time for her to come is here as you agreed and well you decided to give her about an hour or so maybe she'll show up but she doesn't.

You call her phone to ask her whatsup, she's not picking, some will even switch off their phone.

Pls if you know you wouldn't come, you shouldn't have made the promise. It's nothing but wickedness

Bros nor vex, d girl u were expecting lives with her boyfriend nd d guy gave her more than she expected that very day u were supposed see her at ur place. Next time go for single like no bf babes...

NewDelhi:
Girls like this I don't waste time in deleting their number. ....Even if I see am for street or anywhere I go just bone like say I don't even know her.... No time for bullshìt. I see it as an act of disrespect, if you couldn't make it any longer you could have just picked my call and tell me. Deciding not to pick my call or switching off your phone doesn't make sense at all. ....

but last last na she get her thing o

peterincredible:
this same thing happened to me last year feb then i was a corper serving during the election period i told her to come the first time she agreed then she stood me up she no come hmmm i saw here during cds the following thursday asked her why dat it is disrespectfull and i dont lyk it she appologised and we rescheduled the following week i called her that morning on the day she was suppose to come she said she will start preparing then i started cleaning my room told my roomate to disappear or i will break his head he laughed and went to the next room, so i started cooking usually i dont add much salt and use only one maggi when i cook cause i have mild high blood pressure bcause of her i cooked and put the normal salt and just make the jollof ricr look good and tasty and and even spray perfume for the room thinking say na beta person i invite come ooo then boom time was 5pm this girl neva come or even called hmm so i called her then she told me she was ill i just laff cut the call then immediately i deleted her no, i saw her the next day during all this political waker when copers dey do during election period na i politician called all corpers in that local govt to a hotel for some sharing of money oo na so i see this same girl that said was ill talking to some of my guys i just went to dem greet my guys, greet her smiling then left, guess what? her concience start judging her she came to me to start a conversation we talked for a while then i left her giving her a boring reason to go she neva saw my call since that day and anytime i see her i will just greet from afar and go without chatting her up hmm then she called me a month time telling me i dont call her anymore infact that got me angry but i maintained and then later she sent me text on watsapp immediately the text entered my phone i blocked her then she new we not on the same page again since then wherever she sees me she will complain peter wetin i do you i will just laff and tell her nothing jare then give her a boring reason to excuse myself and since that time she has been the one trying to spark a conversation but guy i am very hot headed and will neva ever tollerate a disrespectfull woman even if am broke and my wife or gf tries to be bitchy bcause of one boring reason i will just let her know am the man and am ready to walk away any fucking time when u let them know that and u always smile it will leave them confuse neva eva chase a women even when she threatings to leave she might be testing u to know ure strenght and most of it all a girl can never love a man she takes for granted or disrespects so when a girl act that way always smile when u see her to keep her confuse then cut her offff u hear me cut her offff and as for the gurl she always be the one to come to me but i gave her a very long space even the day i we where both passing out she called me i looked at her then smile a bit turn and left she was expecting me to come to her to talk but i didnt that shows strength neva let a girl disrepect u when she does just leave her most time it she will be the one chasing as i read ure post i just laff cause i remembered what i did to her i can see the look on her face anytime i gave her a quick answer and excuse myself she looks rejected i neva even taught i was that wicked the dating world is very beautifulll but only the men who dont give a Bleep and show strenght wins i just cant stop laughing sha thanks for remembering me about that wierd girl

This ur grammar fit make the girl no come

TheRedpillguy:
All girls are whores, but paying one upfront is wise. If you stay in abuja u can order online. Str8t up no BS. Sex is always better then this lazy ho's

No b Abuja alone. U can order everywhere
As long as u get kudi

Why should she come visit? When everyone expects her to be raped when she visits a man?

Preshy561:
Lol. I tell You, the entitlement nobi here.
Yes o, we laughed so tey, our belly begin turn us.
@EMBOLDENED, They will never listen o.
For their mind, they are being smart and manipulative. Hehe, make we siddon deh look.

make una dey decieve yourselves oo.asif you guys have never visited a guy's house before

Nnemuka:
How do you guys just meet someone, invite them to your house and expect sex? that is disrespectful
If you want a hookup, why not pay a LovePeddler for sex.

Are the whores not a woman like you? Aunty, how much for the weekend?

Timileyin1234:
No b Abuja alone. U can order everywhere
As long as u get kudi

And I get kudi.

Thegeneralqueen:
So you want the heat of fire to spoil my skin,do you know how stressful it takes to make a meal

Hahahahaha Babe which kind skin be that ? It means you don't love cooking

If she fails to show up, then forget her entirely. Life is too short to give a fvck over a disappointing bit.ch

TheRedpillguy:
All girls are whores, but paying one upfront is wise. If you stay in abuja u can order online. Str8t up no BS. Sex is always better then this lazy ho's

How can I order online?

You have no idea how many relationships this thing have cost me

TheRedpillguy:
And I get kudi.

Dey order dey go

cococandy:
Why should she come visit? When everyone expects her to be raped when she visits a man?

LoL. My advice? Stay away from men.

SeverusSnape:
I've been there, I know how it feels.

Sometimes, I will just text her out of anger "please don't come again, I'm going out, Thanks". She will start calling, time for me to do my own Shakara.

Long time

[quote author=NihiIist post=85754180] it even got to a stage I slept off on my couch thinking I could use that opportunity to take a quick nap and she might just show up later. I woke up past 5 I just enter kitchen chop food I had prepared down for her jare. I gave up already. Or she thinks she's doing me lol[/quote

Amaka, hope u didn't loose weight? ]

During my 400level for school nah so I jam one very pretty light skinned girl.... The girl fine die no be small.. I follow dey talk for a while ,I even go find her for her hostel ,her friends see me Dem gbadu me.... Omo time reach I invite this girl come my lodge, first and second time she no come those ones no vex me too much , like the say "good things comes to those who wait" ....the one wey pain me pass nah the third time own , I dey lecture hall when this useless girl tell me sey she don dey come my house sey make I ready for her.... Brothers nah so I close lecture for the day enter bike go house ,that day I do electrical, plumbing, engineering etc work on top where I dey try to tidy my house.... I even wear the white short wey I buy the previous day say I go use go swim for weekend ..... Na so I lie down spread for bed like blue band dey wait for this babe while admiring the 5star arrangement wey I don give my house..... Hours turn into hours this babe no show ...... Nah so I summone courage call her, the mumu girl tell me say something came up and blah blah blah..... I Nack am better insult like this ehn cut my call , delete her number ,dress up go hang out with my guys!!!

Nah one cool evening wey I just dey house nah so the babe call me sey she dey come , I tell am say "nah you Sabi.... If you like come no special preference for you"..... 10mins I don see her come down from bike, we enter room.... Apologies upon apologies ,nah make up sex end everything , wetin I do her that day ehn she no come again for 2 months...me sef don write her off.....


But now ehn once I invite you.... I go about with my normal duties of the day if you come good if you no come good.... Just to be safe I can only call to know if police don carry you as you dey come only!!!

Thegeneralqueen:
Change the venue for the meeting next time maybe an eatery or shopping mall or cinema i think she'll come.......Thank me later

To do what exactly

NihiIist:
You invite a girl to come over, she promises you. Because of her, you quickly arrange your house, clean everywhere, wash your toilet clean, lay your bed and spray airfreshner. You even down a bottle of alomo bitters and all sorts of concoction just in case.

The time for her to come is here as you agreed and well you decided to give her about an hour or so maybe she'll show up but she doesn't.

You call her phone to ask her whatsup, she's not picking, some will even switch off their phone.

Pls if you know you wouldn't come, you shouldn't have made the promise. It's nothing but wickedness

Try getting her to say what she want you to keep for her in advance and see her in your house earlier than expected.

The one on alomo bitters really got me

NihiIist:
You invite a girl to come over, she promises you. Because of her, you quickly arrange your house, clean everywhere, wash your toilet clean, lay your bed and spray airfreshner. You even down a bottle of alomo bitters and all sorts of concoction just in case.

The time for her to come is here as you agreed and well you decided to give her about an hour or so maybe she'll show up but she doesn't.

You call her phone to ask her whatsup, she's not picking, some will even switch off their phone.

Pls if you know you wouldn't come, you shouldn't have made the promise. It's nothing but wickedness

I am surprised to read the comments this post is getting, there is nothing wrong if a lady tells you she is coming to visit you but fails to show up. This could be because she does not trust you enough to be alone with you or something else came up, but either ways no lady owes you a visit. Girls are being raped everyday just because they decided to "come over" . if you had a sister would you be comfortable if she told you she was going to visit any of the guys who have been lamenting on this thread? If you know your intentions are genuine you won't have to block a girls phone just because she didn't show up... would you block your guys number just because he didn't "come over" ( well, unless you are gay )

Don't know what some of these girls are forming.. A girl who is invited to a guy's house should also have the possibility of a sex activity going down in her mind as well and if she ain't down with it....for Judas sakes,spit it out,nobody go kill you rather than standing a nigga up.
Na so one dey disturb me that year, she wan know my house,she wan know my house. I invited her, we watched movies, talked, laughed and she left. She sent me a confusing text later which reads "why do you hate me so much, am I not attractive?".Brothers please what have I done wrong?

cruzydal:
U guys own is small .
There was this girl I collected her number . She always want us to talk on phone every time . I call her before and after work everyday . She said she wanted to come to my place I was happy about that . Sunday reached . After church I called and texted her she didn’t pick .then by 7 she called to tell me bullshit she sha apologised .another one week of constant calls again she disappointed exactly the same way.
Fast forward to early dis year she called that she wants to see me and this time it must be in festac which is far from my place . I told her to come to my place she said No ,okay let’s chill somewhere not too far from both of us she said it must be festac and she would stay only an hour with me and it shouldn’t be a hotel . I told her no problem she should come to villa park let’s swim ,I told her to bring her friends too . She arrived at the place by past 2 ,with of her friends , she called me I told her I just left to eat meanwhile I det my house .i told her to order barbecue fish and Andre for her and her friends, she even had the guts to tell me to buy food when coming for her and her friends . She called me I was just post her that I’m coming . Her bill was about 15k and she wasn’t with money not even transport money . She just dey curse curse me that day . They left there by past 6 . The thing sweet me eh

That's ma nigga

Timileyin1234:
Dey order dey go

My Niggah