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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by vincentjk(m): 4:25am On Jan 14, 2020
MunorAnne:
Ogbeni, e be like you like petty talk sha.

Hoe do you mean kwanu??

And what's ogbeni btw

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by sunshine1974(m): 4:25am On Jan 14, 2020
Pedrotina11:
Nice write up...remember wen I was still in the world I met this cutie on Facebook, tall, light complexioned, curvy, pretty face, entirely good looking, I told her I liked her and I wld wanna bleep her she said OK and gave me her charge, we negotiated and she agreed to come over, wen she came I knack knack...knack knack..the next morning I transferred to her then she left...after two days she chatted me up on watsapp said she wanted us to meet and I told her I dnt want to..cut the story short we met we knacked again dis time no pay wat so Eva infact nah she dey use her tp come...till date she is still coming to knack and no pay watsoeva...bottom line dnt stress ur head about a gal...am sure she has a bf somewhere that is killing himself for her and she is always coming to knack me..naija gals are just not worth it...little doings and they fall like candle stick...
I haven't even read 3 sentences before knowing you are still in the world, in fact the world is in you. You better go and repent and stop knacking for free

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by WildChild00(m): 4:25am On Jan 14, 2020
BusolaDakolo:
Invite at least 4 girls, anyone that comes first is the winner. You go on flight mode immediately. The others are on their own.
I'll rather disappoint than be disappointed. I'm not wicked at all. I just want to avoid situation like this below.


No wonder you were Busola the other time grin

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by vincentjk(m): 4:26am On Jan 14, 2020
Nnemuka:

grin grin grin Seems like you are related to former Senator of Edo state Patrick obahiagbon.... grin grin grin

Dunno who that is biko, watup with him??
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by movid(m): 4:32am On Jan 14, 2020
victorian:






Can u imagine response coming from the guys?

The babes know already the guys want to fucvk them ontop indomie and egg. Or jollof rice and pieces of broken Titus fish.
Then the babes rethink again, wait o! I'm going to this guy's house to get laid?
Whats even in it for me sef?
Smhhhhh, lemme keep my bum bum in one place jare.

Is it jollof rice have not eaten before or indomie? Smhhhhh.

He go wait taya!



Anyways guys who are stood up waiting for babes at home, why not come out plain and let the babe know she's coming to get banged at your place.
It's that simple, instead of pretending u are inviting her to come see the decor of your walls.

In short Invite her to your house for what sef?


I remembered sometime last year, One guy I've been chatting for some days, said hi dear let's hang out this weekend. It will be fun.

I asked him hang out where?

He said his place.

I asked is there any side attraction in your home?

What would will be doing in your home? He chuckled. I stared at my phone and said to myself, this guy never know how far?

Anyways dear, Look if we are not hanging out In a nice exotic restaurant or bar on the island. Then sorry I'm not coming to your place. I'm tired looking at the four walls of a house. cheesy

Guys sef!
The way some ladies too present theirselves makes some guys to streamline their mindset in a negative way. For instance i'm married. I have a friend have not seen physically, we only talk online. This babe knows i'm married and she's also aware i'm into movies. She has been really disturbing me she loves to act so so and I said no problem we will sit down and discuss one day about it. So there was this day I saw her online so I just buzzed her and she replied. We kicked off convo and she started with the plea of I want to act blah blah again and I said okay how do we see that day. The next thing she told me was where do u stay? I told her, she asked again if my wife is around and I told her nope she's far away. Next thing was "send me your address , I will come around in the aftrnoon". I was like to come do what? (Was just asking in my mind). I was expecting her as I asked if we could see that day was to say at where?Maybe we could hang out somewhere.. you know nao. But she just asked straight away where do u stay blah blah.. You can imagine. Soo the way some ladies too reason attimes be somehow. That's just it. Have you heard of Yoni Pearls? As a lady your body is opened to all sorts of infections which can be harmful to your health. You use tissue paper, sanitary pads etc. Why not treat yourself with Yoni Pearls. Yoni Pearls is the best natural herb to treat all sorts of infection. Whats app 07037852077.. Don't wait till you get discomfort before you take care of yourself. Door step delivery is available if you live within the town.
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Supermajor(m): 4:38am On Jan 14, 2020
Educonomist:
Bros,, as u arrange ur room, clean everywhere so, shey u no happy??........


Room wey go still scatter?? grin

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by jy2kbeyond(m): 4:54am On Jan 14, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Which visitor I don't treat visitors more than i treat myself sad and I'm not someone that cooks always he rather takes me to an eatery

Eatery? Restaurant?

You better package yourself here properly. My men are watching o

grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by fauda49(m): 5:14am On Jan 14, 2020
peterincredible:
this same thing happened to me last year feb then i was a corper serving during the election period i told her to come the first time she agreed then she stood me up she no come hmmm i saw here during cds the following thursday asked her why dat it is disrespectfull and i dont lyk it she appologised and we rescheduled the following week i called her that morning on the day she was suppose to come she said she will start preparing then i started cleaning my room told my roomate to disappear or i will break his head he laughed and went to the next room, so i started cooking usually i dont add much salt and use only one maggi when i cook cause i have mild high blood pressure bcause of her i cooked and put the normal salt and just make the jollof ricr look good and tasty and and even spray perfume for the room thinking say na beta person i invite come ooo then boom time was 5pm this girl neva come or even called hmm so i called her then she told me she was ill i just laff cut the call then immediately i deleted her no, i saw her the next day during all this political waker when copers dey do during election period na i politician called all corpers in that local govt to a hotel for some sharing of money oo na so i see this same girl that said was ill talking to some of my guys i just went to dem greet my guys, greet her smiling then left, guess what? her concience start judging her she came to me to start a conversation we talked for a while then i left her giving her a boring reason to go she neva saw my call since that day and anytime i see her i will just greet from afar and go without chatting her up hmm then she called me a month time telling me i dont call her anymore infact that got me angry but i maintained and then later she sent me text on watsapp immediately the text entered my phone i blocked her then she new we not on the same page again since then wherever she sees me she will complain peter wetin i do you i will just laff and tell her nothing jare then give her a boring reason to excuse myself and since that time she has been the one trying to spark a conversation but guy i am very hot headed and will neva ever tollerate a disrespectfull woman even if am broke and my wife or gf tries to be bitchy bcause of one boring reason i will just let her know am the man and am ready to walk away any fucking time when u let them know that and u always smile it will leave them confuse neva eva chase a women even when she threatings to leave she might be testing u to know ure strenght and most of it all a girl can never love a man she takes for granted or disrespects so when a girl act that way always smile when u see her to keep her confuse then cut her offff u hear me cut her offff and as for the gurl she always be the one to come to me but i gave her a very long space even the day i we where both passing out she called me i looked at her then smile a bit turn and left she was expecting me to come to her to talk but i didnt that shows strength neva let a girl disrepect u when she does just leave her most time it she will be the one chasing as i read ure post i just laff cause i remembered what i did to her i can see the look on her face anytime i gave her a quick answer and excuse myself she looks rejected i neva even taught i was that wicked the dating world is very beautifulll but only the men who dont give a Bleep and show strenght wins i just cant stop laughing sha thanks for remembering me about that wierd girl


How did you manage to graduate with your grammatical construction? This is extremely shameful.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by BusolaDakolo: 5:15am On Jan 14, 2020
Roon9:


Legend
grin you can say that again
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by iphonehobb: 5:16am On Jan 14, 2020
I feel your pain bro grin
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Christmasdon(m): 5:17am On Jan 14, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Which visitor I don't treat visitors more than i treat myself sad and I'm not someone that cooks always he rather takes me to an eatery
. See this one, hmmm! u neva start o woo! your visitor eats well thats y s/he is your visitor.
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by atheistandproud(m): 5:17am On Jan 14, 2020
All these ladies and hen pecked niggas here supporting rubbish prolly failed comprehension and emphatic stress in secondary school.

The contextual summary/message here is don't give false promises. Shikena. I have never seen a brother that a babe told him "no dude, I can't make it" from the onset that will get pissed. He simply makes other plans. No one will beat you for saying no.

Look at it this way, you're in need of money, and I promised to give it to you to offset your debt, knowingly fully well that I have no intention of honoring that promise. That's a good look, right? I wonder how y'all frontal cortex neurones work. Honestly.

Final word, I hate visitors. I'd rather schedule a neutral ground for sex with inmessenger babes than use my house when I need sex. It's cheaper, faster, easier and less time consuming. The money and time spent on wooing these stuck up, self righteous, pretending hoes can be channeled into other ventures for making money. If you call me that you're coming to my house and you fail to do so. I don't block. I simply wait till you need help, graciously go outta my way to help and disappoint you with glee and then block you.

No time.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Enyimbamercedes: 5:22am On Jan 14, 2020
But at least, you have a clean house
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Christmasdon(m): 5:25am On Jan 14, 2020
You call a girl to come over to your house to come and do what exactly, the World we live in.
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by amaks: 5:26am On Jan 14, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Change the venue for the meeting next time maybe an eatery or shopping mall or cinema i think she'll come.......Thank me later

Yeah, she may not be comfortable going to the hous then, that's cool and okay. But why play games and deception, why not state venue clear from beginning? Seems an immature move playing games.
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 5:31am On Jan 14, 2020
MizCharlotte:
That's why guys should forget about these girls and focus more on money . When you have money and they know, na dem go dey disturb you say they wan visit you, sleep at your place etc. If you say you r not around or they can't come, them go even dey vex for you say so you are denying /avoiding them abi. I used to pursue one girl like that. She gave me all sorts of attitude and barely picks my calls. The moment she saw me driving out one day (it wasn't even my car grin) , she gazed without saying anything. That night I got a strange call, it was her. She was like ehn so I forgot about her since all this days abi I couldn't even call her bla bla bla. After our lengthy discussion, she called again asking if she could come to my house the next day . Lol for my mind I was like nawa for women o. Money answereth all things.

Nothing answers prayer like money.....NO FASTING....NO NIGHT VIGIL, NO SPEAKING IN TONGUES....SHE HEARS YOUR PRAYER BEFORE ANY god

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by lebienconnu: 5:38am On Jan 14, 2020
Aimoye
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Emma1Oj(m): 5:39am On Jan 14, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Cooking is stressful


I hate to cook it's not my hobby
We dis one last in a discipline man home like dis,even if she mistakenly married?

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Emma1Oj(m): 5:39am On Jan 14, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Cooking is stressful


I hate to cook it's not my hobby
] We dis one last in a discipline man home like dis,even if she mistakenly married?
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Stepmom: 5:39am On Jan 14, 2020
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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by iluvdonjazzy: 5:51am On Jan 14, 2020
NihiIist:
You invite a girl to come over, she promises you. Because of her, you quickly arrange your house, clean everywhere, wash your toilet clean, lay your bed and spray airfreshner. You even down a bottle of alomo bitters and all sorts of concoction just in case.

The time for her to come is here as you agreed and well you decided to give her about an hour or so maybe she'll show up but she doesn't.

You call her phone to ask her whatsup, she's not picking, some will even switch off their phone.

Pls if you know you wouldn't come, you shouldn't have made the promise. It's nothing but wickedness
bros you just published my true life story.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by 2shure: 5:52am On Jan 14, 2020
I delete on a daily. One useless gal for badoo cos she get hips and tall meaning saybi gobdey beg am.i insulted her poor broke ass. Poor gal forming i dnt do hook up. But ubcant snap pix in your house.na so so shoprite,club. Filter the pix like say ubdey drive venza.i blocked and cuesed her. All girls in naija are ugly,greedy and lie a lot. Bastards. Dey form porsh 3 me but na public transport be yournorder of the day.
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by kokomilala(m): 5:55am On Jan 14, 2020
How this post made front page is beyond me. All the same ,it's nothing new .Girls in this part of the world always try to outfox their chasers.You need to be wily,smarter,and deal with them with the guile of a genius.
You didn't convince her enough; you didn't tempt her enough with eye-catching offers. If you did ,she would have come.These girls are driven by flashy and material gains.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 5:55am On Jan 14, 2020
Girls have been disappointing since 1904...The only solution has been deleting the number

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Ladycewhy(f): 6:05am On Jan 14, 2020
Ariza:
Funny thread! grin grin grin Guys have suffered o. grin grin

But you know,if y'all don't turn every visit to sex rendezvous ladies would trust and visit more often without you wasting time, efforts or money. But the Nigerian society is so fvcked up that it's a common belief that visiting a guy in his house equates to getting intimate with him. And you guys keep aren't doing any better. Lol.




Preshy561 come and read this. grin
Honestly when the Nigerian guy says "come to my house" na to fvck o ,and this thread just proves it. See that one taking concuction so he can shift someone's womb like say he know road to her papa house. The very reason i usually ask a guy that tells me to come to his house 'if they are minting money at his house" lol .

However i do not approve the way ladies have been going about it, is it fear or shyness that will not make you pick your call and tell him you are not coming? Or even tell him straight up the first time he brings it up that you wont come. Ladies we need to do better, maybe thats why most guys feel i am blunt and they can't handle it. Me refusing to come to your house is not breaking any law so i will tell you straight up and if you start giving me attitude ,i delete you.Na my pussy and i will decide when to bring it to your house,not on your terms,if you want your terms ,go carry ashawo (for socially awkward men ).

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Muzikluva(m): 6:05am On Jan 14, 2020
peterincredible:
this same thing happened to me last year feb then i was a corper serving during the election period i told her to come the first time she agreed then she stood me up she no come hmmm i saw here during cds the following thursday asked her why dat it is disrespectfull and i dont lyk it she appologised and we rescheduled the following week i called her that morning on the day she was suppose to come she said she will start preparing then i started cleaning my room told my roomate to disappear or i will break his head he laughed and went to the next room, so i started cooking usually i dont add much salt and use only one maggi when i cook cause i have mild high blood pressure bcause of her i cooked and put the normal salt and just make the jollof ricr look good and tasty and and even spray perfume for the room thinking say na beta person i invite come ooo then boom time was 5pm this girl neva come or even called hmm so i called her then she told me she was ill i just laff cut the call then immediately i deleted her no, i saw her the next day during all this political waker when copers dey do during election period na i politician called all corpers in that local govt to a hotel for some sharing of money oo na so i see this same girl that said was ill talking to some of my guys i just went to dem greet my guys, greet her smiling then left, guess what? her concience start judging her she came to me to start a conversation we talked for a while then i left her giving her a boring reason to go she neva saw my call since that day and anytime i see her i will just greet from afar and go without chatting her up hmm then she called me a month time telling me i dont call her anymore infact that got me angry but i maintained and then later she sent me text on watsapp immediately the text entered my phone i blocked her then she new we not on the same page again since then wherever she sees me she will complain peter wetin i do you i will just laff and tell her nothing jare then give her a boring reason to excuse myself and since that time she has been the one trying to spark a conversation but guy i am very hot headed and will neva ever tollerate a disrespectfull woman even if am broke and my wife or gf tries to be bitchy bcause of one boring reason i will just let her know am the man and am ready to walk away any fucking time when u let them know that and u always smile it will leave them confuse neva eva chase a women even when she threatings to leave she might be testing u to know ure strenght and most of it all a girl can never love a man she takes for granted or disrespects so when a girl act that way always smile when u see her to keep her confuse then cut her offff u hear me cut her offff and as for the gurl she always be the one to come to me but i gave her a very long space even the day i we where both passing out she called me i looked at her then smile a bit turn and left she was expecting me to come to her to talk but i didnt that shows strength neva let a girl disrepect u when she does just leave her most time it she will be the one chasing as i read ure post i just laff cause i remembered what i did to her i can see the look on her face anytime i gave her a quick answer and excuse myself she looks rejected i neva even taught i was that wicked the dating world is very beautifulll but only the men who dont give a Bleep and show strenght wins i just cant stop laughing sha thanks for remembering me about that wierd girl
Mr, you need to put more strength in your grammar please. No pun intended.
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by enokings: 6:06am On Jan 14, 2020
Meanwhile you have left the world o �
Pedrotina11:
Nice write up...remember wen I was still in the world I met this cutie on Facebook, tall, light complexioned, curvy, pretty face, entirely good looking, I told her I liked her and I wld wanna bleep her she said OK and gave me her charge, we negotiated and she agreed to come over, wen she came I knack knack...knack knack..the next morning I transferred to her then she left...after two days she chatted me up on watsapp said she wanted us to meet and I told her I dnt want to..cut the story short we met we knacked again dis time no pay wat so Eva infact nah she dey use her tp come...till date she is still coming to knack and no pay watsoeva...bottom line dnt stress ur head about a gal...am sure she has a bf somewhere that is killing himself for her and she is always coming to knack me..naija gals are just not worth it...little doings and they fall like candle stick...

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by masterpix(m): 6:08am On Jan 14, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Change the venue for the meeting next time maybe an eatery or shopping mall or cinema i think she'll come.......Thank me later
thief you to chop and clean mouth. Stop shaking this table I have drinks on it
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by KingAzubuike(f): 6:09am On Jan 14, 2020
Ladycewhy:
Honestly when the Nigerian guy says "come to my house" na to fvck o ,and this thread just proves it. See that one taking concuction sex he can shift someone's womb like say he know road to her papa house. The very reason i usually ask a guy that tells me to come to his house 'if they are minting money at his house" lol .

However i do not approve the way ladies have been going about it, is it fear of shyness that will not make you pick your call and tell him you are not coming? Or even tell him straight up the first time he brings it up that you wont come. Ladies we need to do better, maybe thats why most guys feel i am blunt and they can't handle it. Me refusing to come to your house is not breaking any law so i will tell you straight up and if you start giving me attitude ,i delete you.Na my pussy and i will decide when to bring it to your house,not on your terms,if you want your terms ,go carry ashawo (socially awkward men ).
But you Sabi chop him money like say tomorrow no dey. Why are you ladies just so greedy

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Ladycewhy(f): 6:13am On Jan 14, 2020
KingAzubuike:

But you Sabi chop him money like say tomorrow no dey. Why are you ladies just so greedy
i knew it was a guy behind this moniker,lol.


If you want to pay for sex then can we scrap relationships so everyone will know its a trade by barter? Cos all this crap about "chop money" is over played.

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