₦airaland Forum

azimo:
you are generalising the issue I still believe and maintain that just like our faces are different that's how our ways are .

ok sir!

May God answer our prayers to Europe,at least white girls still get benefit of citizenship not all this black bitches that think having pussy is way to success!

Bro when you go digging, all get is dirty. Move on with your life.

She is a complete game player.... But very smart..... Forget about the slut LovePeddler.... There are good girls.. if you are in die need contact me.

vincentjk:
I recall when my friend wouldn't agree with me that his so called "trusted & special" babe could cheat on him so we both agreed to put her to test.

He gave me her number. I called and kept on explaining to her how we once met some months back but I wasn't able to tell her what I felt for her bla bla bla (all lies but she bought all of them as most girls would if you play your cards well)

I'd call her everyday to keep her company then along the line, I chipped in the question we planned on asking her "do you have a boyfriend "?

She replied "I used to but we're no longer together" meanwhile all calls were recorded and sent to my guy through WhatsApp after each conversation

We fixed a date to meet and I convinced her not to wear trousers while coming, she didn't ask why only responded hmmm on phone lol

I won't tell what happened when she arrived buy kasala burst sha

Na lie oooo..you have to finish what you started�... waiting for the happy ending

Although 98.9% of Nigeria girl have the tendency of keeping second guy
And you have not put the damn ring in her finger,bro the PUSSSY IS NOT YOURS!

In Naira Marleys voice She's not your girlfriend it's just your turn

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

The only thing Nigerians know how to do is judge like their lives are better than yours, that is why we will forever remain a 3rd world country..bro most of Nigerian women are insecure emotional beings who just want to be loved no matter how cash desperate she is. It's not their fault they are after cash, 99% of things required to survive everyday in this country are gotten with money when they is no job or cash flow to support this that is why most of them venture in to crazy things. I had a chat with a prostitute, i then asked her if she had the chance to start life all over again, what will she choose to do, she said she would love to meet a man who will love her unconditionally and go through life journey with her despite all odds. They all want love but the economy is so harsh that you can't eat your cake and have it. Swallow your pride, call her and talk with her heart to heart bro, she's your girlfriend, so you know when best to talk to her, see her reasons for her action and forgive, it costs you nothing. I have had a lot of experience with girls to know that they all need love, everyone needs love. Save your relationship, no one is beyond mistake

Nthrone:
Men visa this dayzz, na like job search.

I'm telling you, but don't give up.

darediamond:
Gbam!!!!

That is exactly what is on my mind bro.

Most of this Naija girls old and young are just useless liabilities who have nthing to offer except there dirty stinking OBO!

Imagine you saying one of them faithfully but she is making you realise until you place a ring on her leprosy-ridden finger, she is open and Can go out with any man.

There mothers too do support this non-sense!

This is why you have to explore, there are other girls abroad that will love you unconditionally even if you are broke, they will still support you no matter what, unlike some Nigerian girls that will take advantage of your situation and frustrate you, thank God I have a caring white girlfriend now, our plans now is to meet each other and I've already gotten my Visa, nah to japa remain..

NwanyiOkpa:
This foolish mentality is what people digest and take to marriages. That's why marriages don't last these days.

If you can't be faithful, stay away from relationships or just stay friends or Feck buddies.

Stop promoting ashaworism.

Thank you jare...Its unfortunate what the society is turning out to become!
Morality to some misguided folks is now old fashioned!

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

bro look, u can't just go about and start...

Sorry I have nothing to say

nwachukwu9:
Stop playing games,no evidence to show she is a cheat

Which evidence are you looking for again,as if the OP is taking the case to court....A hoe is a hoe

Jewessgratitude:
Your point exactly? Do you know the sacrifice it requires for a lady to be decent? That is what most of you ladies of this generation can not do as you've traded your decency for high profile jobs by sleeping around with bosses and chairman to maintain that status.

I have been in the labour market before but was frustrated out of the system due to all those temptations from bosses and big clients.
Ive told a little bit of my story how I was asked to resign after I turned down a chairman. All because I want to keep my decency. And several other ordeals until i carved a niche for myself to be on my own. It may not be huge but im contented and can only pray it gets better. So I dont know exactly what you mean by what you said up there. Or you think we don't know what keeps

What do you have going for you? Or you think we dont know what you do to keep such jobs? At the detriment of your decency?
SMH.

Hmmmm.....I was never wrong when I said there are still some decent ladies out there!

In an era where morality has been considered folly and stupidity, its comforting to know that there are people who still hold on to that standard of life!

Please keep it up and do not change for any reason whatsoever!

Prec1ous:
I don't understand how a man will trust a woman, even trust anyone.

No woman is truly your's, she only made a conscious decision to stick with you. So don't let it get into your head. She can as well decide to stick with anyone.

Look out for yourself, be selfish. If for nothing but to safeguard your sanity and well being.

makes sense �

Kingrexyl:
I'm telling you, but don't give up.

Is well.

biggy26:
What if she knew it was you and just played along? Some people don't like being tested, the moment you do it they abandon you. At least she said she had a boyfriend, unlike some others.

She never played along because she kept giving him all her information including her full address!
Haba....Though that's possible if a guy can play around with flirty words that could turn on a lady!

If she recognised his voice,she would be the one to stop him with a laugh!

She even bought the story that he saw her number from a teller during a queue at a bank!

She was even willing to accept a total stranger in her place at an unholy hour!

The buttomline is that she got exposed,got angry and decided to insult him(reverse psychology on display) hoping he will come back and beg!
The most hilarious part is that someone here said the lady has "standards"
Chai smh

thunderbabs:
Ones wey dey give ring sef still dey play friendly match talkless of whom you haven't even ringed yet.

Bysyd yansh +pekus, most of dem are badluck for guys.. Do them lasan, you enter gbege... Physically, emotionally , spiritually.

Jah epp u oo

Exactly....as if the ring will stop them from cheating!
The way some people reason is quite alarming!

kunleweb:
I love the energy and morals you exude. Reminds me of the same standard our parents employed in grooming us. It's alarming that ladies now see indecency as the new norm and rarely speak against it as bluntly as you have in this thread.. I envy your bobo

Yes ohh...Her type is very rare esp in Nigeria!

Filmewell:
Am not sugarcoating anything don't be surprised that if you ask him to give a brief explanation about whether they relationship is at a good place you will not blame the poor girl.

If the relationship is not 'at a good place' as you have said,the best thing to do is to QUIT the relationship!
There is virtually zero reason for cheating!

emmaodet:
Mr Franchasng, will like to ask you some questions -
If a man smokes cigarettes and weeds before marrying, do you think he will stop it because of wedding or marriage?
What of Alcohol? Will he stop it?
If he is engaged with domestic violence with is fiancee, will he change after marriage?
If a man is stingy before marriage, will he change after marriage?
Then why do we see infidelity or a double dater as an exception? Why do you think someone that is not faithful to me will suddenly be when we marry? Marriage or wedding don't change people because all these things are Habits and can't be changed all of a sudden.
Have you ever wondered why the past or history of people, company, medical etc are so important?
Because by knowing the past, you can easily predict the future (Emphasis on PREDICT).
If you go to the hospital, they will request for your file to read about your history so as to know how to follow up with your complains.
If an investor wants to buy shares in a company, they will want to see the company track records or history or past so as to predict the profit or loss of future.
If you apply to a school, they will want to see your waec or past results to predict and value which department you will fall into or reject it.
Then, why should we overlook the past or record or history of a woman? Because overlooking the past is the Number ONE factor why a lot of guys run into trouble in marriages.
Why should or do we like to Sweep these women records under the rug and believe everything will be okay by Faith.
Why?
ubunja
Pansophist
Martinez39

This is the comment I have been waiting for!
Nothing much to add!
Thumbs up!

darediamond:
Hmm...jeejely!!

Abi nau

FromZeroToHero:
This line got me laughing the girl na real marlian.

I dey tell you.

STRENGTHesq:


These farm tools ain't loyal,
Tempt no monkey with no banana

Hahahahahahaha

WHY WILL U TEMPT UR GF WITH SUCH PRANK?
HOW ARE U SURE SHE DIDNT KNOW THAT U WERE THE ONE?
YOU ARE TO BE BLAMED

GROW UP GUY?

denitro:
God will never tempt you,it's the devil that tempts, it is very wrong to be the one tempting someone else to fail.
If you feel you have to test her faithfully to you, then you really don’t love her, you just want to possess her.

Please, I don't mean to insult you but try and reason this issue deeply.

Devil can't tempt one if God didn't allow it. that's is why God will reward you after passing the test. Job in the Bible is another example.

That you love someone doesn't mean the person equally loves you. The best way to know is to test her to avoid problem in future.(when you finally marry her)

If you like, you can go ahead and marry you girlfriend without any little form of test. That's your own Cup of tea.

How can you say you trust someone when you've not tested the person. That's why we have the phrase, "Tested and Trusted".

anigbajumo:
Madam,u are very wrong here.You mean she might be ready to make friend that same night and she agreed for him to come over later in the night??

@op just played an incompleted game,he could av requested for a night hangout ND book hotel or sleep over and u will be surprised that she will agreed.Majority of all these GF are confirmed runs girl in the making, ladies don't do half of these to me nd I dumped their sorry ass,I dunno the kind of man he is,still coming here to seek for advice as if he is not man enough to decide in such a crucial moment.....

Lol...we are still saying the same thing...NOBODY HOLY PASS ... If she pranked the guy too with a girl ...he would fall for it...they should both sort things out and get back together...
My opinion tho

Roheemah04:
Lol...we are still saying the same thing...NOBODY HOLY PASS ... If she pranked the guy too with a girl ...he would fall for it...they should both sort things out and get back together...
My opinion tho

Hmmm,u are right thou

Jewessgratitude:
Well you have just seen what she does behind you. I wonder what you're still asking this question for.
Do you know how many she's been inviting over?

When you see a decent girl, you'll jump her pass. Its those agaracha, because she works in a bank or has a high profile job, you'll want to die on top.
Marry her at your own peril.

On the side though
Why have girls moral value degenerated so badly? Is it because too much exposure in school? Hmm... I must watch out for My girl child. Even though she's gonna be raised in this useless generation, she'll not be like them. She must be like me cos I'll use the same iron hand my parents used on me.

I mean at my age I can't even invite a man to my house let alone a stranger. Good home training sure goes a long way. Hmm.

You're 1000% on point

Prec1ous:
I don't understand how a man will trust a woman, even trust anyone.

No woman is truly your's, she only made a conscious decision to stick with you. So don't let it get into your head. She can as well decide to stick with anyone.

Look out for yourself, be selfish. If for nothing but to safeguard your sanity and well being.

Swears bro......just look out for your self ...and safeguard your sanity and well being cus women cant make someone run mad

openmine:
She never played along because she kept giving him all her information including her full address!
Haba....Though that's possible if a guy can play around with flirty words that could turn on a lady!

If she recognised his voice,she would be the one to stop him with a laugh!

She even bought the story that he saw her number from a teller during a queue at a bank!

She was even willing to accept a total stranger in her place at an unholy hour!

The buttomline is that she got exposed,got angry and decided to insult him(reverse psychology on display) hoping he will come back and beg!
The most hilarious part is that someone here said the lady has "standards"
Chai smh

Hahahaha! your last paragraph made me laugh

openmine:
She never played along because she kept giving him all her information including her full address!
Haba....Though that's possible if a guy can play around with flirty words that could turn on a lady!

If she recognised his voice,she would be the one to stop him with a laugh!

She even bought the story that he saw her number from a teller during a queue at a bank!

She was even willing to accept a total stranger in her place at an unholy hour!

The buttomline is that she got exposed,got angry and decided to insult him(reverse psychology on display) hoping he will come back and beg!
The most hilarious part is that someone here said the lady has "standards"
Chai smh

Hahahaha! your last paragraph made me laugh. But guy, flirting these days have become very easy o, even when you don't mean it. And it has put many innocent people in trouble.
For me, she should have laughed and said stop! if she knew it was him.
Some girls will become angry and say don't play tricks with me!
But the way chat dey sweet these days and idleness persists, many people throw caution and decorum to the wind.

ridwanlawal:
Although 98.9% of Nigeria girl have the tendency of keeping second guy

And you have not put the damn ring in her finger,bro the PUSSSY IS NOT YOURS!


In Naira Marleys voice
She's not your girlfriend it's just your turn

Putting the ring or not does not guarantee loyalty or faithfulness or commitment from a partner!
A long time neighbor,back then in phcity,that is now married still visits her ex for s.ex!
So please drop that highlighted misconstrued narrative....
A lady who wants to cheat will still cheat whether she wears a ring or not!
Its a matter of choice!

biggy26:
Hahahaha! your last paragraph made me laugh
Hahahaha! your last paragraph made me laugh. But guy, flirting these days have become very easy o, even when you don't mean it. And it has put many innocent people in trouble.
For me, she should have laughed and said stop! if she knew it was him.
Some girls will become angry and say don't play tricks with me!
But the way chat dey sweet these days and idleness persists, many people throw caution and decorum to the wind.