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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Odunolumide(m): 8:18pm On Jan 15, 2020
Amumaigwe:


And you are still single?

abi o

Me self wonder

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by cococandy(f): 8:18pm On Jan 15, 2020
What’s unrealistic about that?

It’s common decency
PrinxArthur1:
Gerarahia with Una unrealistic ideals.......mtchew

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Cocolatti(m): 8:18pm On Jan 15, 2020
Maybe the lady has to be Father Mbaka and TB Joshua combined to be able to find such a man. This is pure wish thinking.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by champeeon(m): 8:18pm On Jan 15, 2020
Ladies don't settle for yeye man. Men don't settle for yeye lady.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by pointstores(m): 8:19pm On Jan 15, 2020
Nawa
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by ncha373(m): 8:19pm On Jan 15, 2020
Make sure u settle with a man who has money...all the others ones are nonsense...
Ego is more important in setting down

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Agricaddict(m): 8:19pm On Jan 15, 2020
viyon02:
OK now, make sure this and make that:By the time you are 40 all this rules will no longer matter. a wise woman will always find a way to her husband heart. Sarah did it and she succeeded.



OP is right however

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by H0laryinka: 8:19pm On Jan 15, 2020
lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

cool Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌
It can only be Master Jesus that has all this qualities

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by fatymore(f): 8:20pm On Jan 15, 2020
Abeg I don't have time for all these items on the list.

Let him just have sense to differentiate his right from wrong.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by dalass(f): 8:20pm On Jan 15, 2020
Summary:

Don't settle for a typical African man!

grin grin grin

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nobody: 8:20pm On Jan 15, 2020
BadRadio:
ladies with over 1 million body counts are forming prudent preference list. smh

U harsh mehn!!! Lol

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nwaonyishi69: 8:20pm On Jan 15, 2020
Then you may search for too long and get desperate when it comes to Linda's time.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nobody: 8:21pm On Jan 15, 2020
phr0nesis:

So what made you leave them
Ask her....ladies sef

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jan 15, 2020
Okay na

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by TheRedpillguy: 8:22pm On Jan 15, 2020
lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

cool Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌
LOL, but can girls just leave us alone?

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by money121(m): 8:22pm On Jan 15, 2020
Ok
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Randy100: 8:22pm On Jan 15, 2020
Nonsense list.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Adakintroy2: 8:22pm On Jan 15, 2020
Go and marry your own jor..and stop all this make sure make sure..!

Make sure this... Una no one work. Just to do hair and nails. Later una go join feminist DE talk say men oppress women.

Don't know of any slave master that give his slave money, sleep on the same bed, make love to them.and leave inheritance.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by nanakgh(m): 8:22pm On Jan 15, 2020
Honestly there's nothing too egregious in the list. Guys talking about body count have nothing to say.

The woman I'm currently with is a shinning diamond and nothing can make me do any of things listed to her, body count regardless.

Akua is a Ghanaian Queen and honestly I fall for her more each passing day. P.S. I've been with her for about three years now. Don't ask about the ring it's around the corner.)

I mean, av been with cheating, useless women but there are good women around, just as there are good men as well as useless, cheating men around.

All I can say is that, whoever u end up with loves you, and respects you and is willing to fight for you. Peace from GH.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Ujunwa02(f): 8:23pm On Jan 15, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

So why are you still single

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Roon9(m): 8:23pm On Jan 15, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.


And you still left them

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Haakon: 8:24pm On Jan 15, 2020
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lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

cool Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌
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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Kokoebapluse(m): 8:24pm On Jan 15, 2020
She should also understand that the Mather in-law also have right in her son house and not everyday they will eat enough food

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by t12tosin: 8:24pm On Jan 15, 2020
booscy:
And that's for the ladies, what about Men abi is marriage now one-sided ?

Tell them ooo

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Okeytus(m): 8:24pm On Jan 15, 2020
post breeding feminists, any lady putting all this in consideration shouldn't think of settling down because marriage isn't for everyone.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by wristbangle: 8:24pm On Jan 15, 2020
Reverse is the case for some Nigerian ladies who are attracted to bullied, egoistic and autocratic men. They see traits mentioned from the OP as weakness should a man possess those. No amount of deliverance can pull their awkward thoughts from this.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Zabiboy: 8:24pm On Jan 15, 2020
Make sure this..
Make sure that..
Na so Amaka nor knw wen she enter 47

#BeWise

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Geesaintagape: 8:24pm On Jan 15, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.
Hope are not still single cos they may never come ur way again

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by chigoizie7(m): 8:24pm On Jan 15, 2020
What do I know kwanu?

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Emmanuelhector(m): 8:24pm On Jan 15, 2020
Audio rules

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 15, 2020
asatemple:
permit me to say, marriage have no format. In any one you find your self, just try and adapt and put in your best

Permission granted
You have earned my ring
Remove every other ring

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 15, 2020
Adakintroy2:
Go and marry your own jor..and stop all this make sure make sure..!

Make sure this... Una no one work. Just to do hair and nails. Later una go join feminist DE talk say men oppress women.

Don't know of any slave master that give his slave money, sleep on the same bed, make love to them.and leave inheritance.
Beta talk... nonsense feminism...women are their worst enemies

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