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Amumaigwe:
And you are still single?

abi o

Me self wonder

What’s unrealistic about that?

It’s common decency

PrinxArthur1:
Gerarahia with Una unrealistic ideals.......mtchew

Maybe the lady has to be Father Mbaka and TB Joshua combined to be able to find such a man. This is pure wish thinking.

Ladies don't settle for yeye man. Men don't settle for yeye lady.

Nawa

Make sure u settle with a man who has money...all the others ones are nonsense...
Ego is more important in setting down

viyon02:
OK now, make sure this and make that:By the time you are 40 all this rules will no longer matter. a wise woman will always find a way to her husband heart. Sarah did it and she succeeded.

OP is right however

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

It can only be Master Jesus that has all this qualities

Abeg I don't have time for all these items on the list.

Let him just have sense to differentiate his right from wrong.

Summary:

Don't settle for a typical African man!

BadRadio:
ladies with over 1 million body counts are forming prudent preference list. smh

U harsh mehn!!! Lol

Then you may search for too long and get desperate when it comes to Linda's time.

phr0nesis:
So what made you leave them

Ask her....ladies sef

Okay na

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

LOL, but can girls just leave us alone?

Ok

Nonsense list.

Go and marry your own jor..and stop all this make sure make sure..!

Make sure this... Una no one work. Just to do hair and nails. Later una go join feminist DE talk say men oppress women.

Don't know of any slave master that give his slave money, sleep on the same bed, make love to them.and leave inheritance.

Honestly there's nothing too egregious in the list. Guys talking about body count have nothing to say.

The woman I'm currently with is a shinning diamond and nothing can make me do any of things listed to her, body count regardless.

Akua is a Ghanaian Queen and honestly I fall for her more each passing day. P.S. I've been with her for about three years now. Don't ask about the ring it's around the corner.)

I mean, av been with cheating, useless women but there are good women around, just as there are good men as well as useless, cheating men around.

All I can say is that, whoever u end up with loves you, and respects you and is willing to fight for you. Peace from GH.

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

So why are you still single

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

And you still left them

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lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

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She should also understand that the Mather in-law also have right in her son house and not everyday they will eat enough food

booscy:
And that's for the ladies, what about Men abi is marriage now one-sided ?

Tell them ooo

post breeding feminists, any lady putting all this in consideration shouldn't think of settling down because marriage isn't for everyone.

Reverse is the case for some Nigerian ladies who are attracted to bullied, egoistic and autocratic men. They see traits mentioned from the OP as weakness should a man possess those. No amount of deliverance can pull their awkward thoughts from this.

Make sure this..
Make sure that..
Na so Amaka nor knw wen she enter 47

#BeWise

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

Hope are not still single cos they may never come ur way again

What do I know kwanu?

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asatemple:
permit me to say, marriage have no format. In any one you find your self, just try and adapt and put in your best

Permission granted
You have earned my ring
Remove every other ring

Adakintroy2:
Go and marry your own jor..and stop all this make sure make sure..!

Make sure this... Una no one work. Just to do hair and nails. Later una go join feminist DE talk say men oppress women.

Don't know of any slave master that give his slave money, sleep on the same bed, make love to them.and leave inheritance.

Beta talk... nonsense feminism...women are their worst enemies