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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Emily22(m): 8:25pm On Jan 15, 2020
Ode ni OP eleyi sha

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Thegeneralqueen(f): 8:25pm On Jan 15, 2020
Speak on girl you're so on point

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Neddyogu(m): 8:26pm On Jan 15, 2020
Jus kukuma settle for Jesus

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by DaddyMorenike: 8:26pm On Jan 15, 2020
Thank you op for this post. We are actually waiting for the kind of women we should not marry when we are ready to settle down. Kindly hurry up with the post.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by kay29000(m): 8:26pm On Jan 15, 2020
booscy:
And that's for the ladies, what about Men abi is marriage now one-sided ?

Don't mind her o.
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Jones8(m): 8:26pm On Jan 15, 2020
The poster maybe the opposite.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by favour32(m): 8:27pm On Jan 15, 2020
Na those days nai all these order of preference fit work.
But now,the meter readings for most kpekus don reach elastic limit grin

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by NOETHNICITY(m): 8:27pm On Jan 15, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.
And how many have you dated?
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by tolaabi: 8:27pm On Jan 15, 2020
OK.
Do u know that there are some points listed in this ur write up that u wud av bin in d marriage before u will know the bro action. Take dat No5 for example. Game wey go cut go cut as dey say.
Na may person just dey pray for God's mercy to meet his/her Own. Lobatan

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jan 15, 2020
6 7 8 9 10... Very important.
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Kenchukky(m): 8:27pm On Jan 15, 2020
lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

cool Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

11) Make sure you don't get married. Single hood is bae

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by kay29000(m): 8:27pm On Jan 15, 2020
Kukuma marry yourself...or ask God to make a special man that fits your specifications.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by ndcide(m): 8:27pm On Jan 15, 2020
lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

cool Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌


Sorry, she now has limited choices... We now have more Marlins in the world, than ever
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by abbey621(m): 8:27pm On Jan 15, 2020
lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

cool Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

This is cute but gullible....There's a reason they call human beings the most unpredictable specie ever! If you think you can guarantee how a person behaves 3, 5, 10 or 15 years from now then you're more funny than Baba Latin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by kay29000(m): 8:28pm On Jan 15, 2020
donbachi:
She should make sure,to understand sey,no be everytime money dey dey with man....and also make sure to hold her rubberband mouth,2 of dem no be mate.

Lol

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Otunski: 8:28pm On Jan 15, 2020
Feminist view on how a man should treat his wife. Rubbish advise.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nobody: 8:28pm On Jan 15, 2020
Money is good...
Good sex is good...
But if u have an understanding marriage everything will be fine and granted unto u...

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by SmithRussell(m): 8:29pm On Jan 15, 2020
Op... You are invariably telling 'em ladies to marry 10husbands... No man is perfect.. You may be great in one aspect and completely wack in another.

Moreover, there are women who need tough guys to behave well, and there are ladies who need soft men to behave well..

A marriage with a man having all the attributes up there would not last,, trust me. She would abuse it

Women are very manipulative, they look for every opportunity to show that they are powerful and smart.

I know a man who initially would assist his wife in kitchen by turning the eba, because he felt that he was good at that... Small small, it became his job.. they now have children and he's still the eba maker as no other person in the house can do it

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by MNDY(m): 8:29pm On Jan 15, 2020
Most women can be very stubborn, mischievous and loquacious. If you are unable to work on these as a woman and want to assume headship over the man and the home, no man will do all those things described by the OP for you.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Fweezy(m): 8:29pm On Jan 15, 2020
Can u please distinguish brown monthly cramps/mood swings and outright bad character display/public misbehaviour/rudeness and olosho behaviour in the house as a married woman towards her husband. If you cannot do this, then we married men will not do the distinguishing on your behalf but making life simple for ourselves as men we will go ahead and blame you for whatever we like. Take a quick survey yourself and you will find that most married women don't even know how to speak and address their husbands respectfully and in public because of too much familiarity over time. This has absolutely nothing to do with monthly cramps and mood swings.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:29pm On Jan 15, 2020
Amumaigwe:


And you are still single?
.. Good question.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Pataricatering(f): 8:29pm On Jan 15, 2020
Confident women who know what they want are never victims !
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by kay29000(m): 8:29pm On Jan 15, 2020
Amumaigwe:


Where is the man?

His name is Jesus. grin

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by PrinxArthur1(m): 8:30pm On Jan 15, 2020
cococandy:
What’s unrealistic about that?

It’s common decency
for marriage to take place there must be sacrifice,and about 70% of guyz of marriageable age,comes with the baggage mentioned above,in other words u can't outrun ur buttocks!!!

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by ultimate77(m): 8:30pm On Jan 15, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

Why are you still single? Anything you want to let us know?

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Warmaterial(m): 8:31pm On Jan 15, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.
who is talking about date here? If I sound u ehh u go go marry

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by fcdgrand(m): 8:31pm On Jan 15, 2020
this list will only make brain if she is a virgin

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by onyichick(f): 8:32pm On Jan 15, 2020
my husband does all these n more,I'm so blessed.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by karli4nia(m): 8:32pm On Jan 15, 2020
Lol @ loves your Soul... Lovers of soul abound in Venus not earthlings.
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Just2endowed2(m): 8:32pm On Jan 15, 2020
Having all these attributes as a man does not guarantee you end up with a good woman. undecided

What I learnt about humans is that when you give them opportunity, they miss use it

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by kay29000(m): 8:33pm On Jan 15, 2020
WowSweetGuy:
When she is in...she should make sure she doesn't get fat too quick and fill up my sitting room everywhere

Lol

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by shogsman(m): 8:33pm On Jan 15, 2020
Don't forget to leave a link to where they can download this men or better still get clay and make them yourself.

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