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LesbianBoy:
Kuku stay your papa house! Rubbish!

booscy:
And that's for the ladies, what about Men abi is marriage now one-sided ?

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:
When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...
1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...
but thats exactly what it is.... what about not asking for bride price instead?!

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...
hopefully, we hope the same wont happen in wifey's mind

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...
some women are a real pain in the aaass during such time, nothing wrong with them knowing that.... or telling them thatl

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...
so long as it aint every night, its all good

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...
as much as a man would always love you, STOP DREAMING, if you turn into a baby whale then there wont be any sexual attraction any longer

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...
i hope you feel the same way when its time to fix the car or pay the mortgage

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...
as hard as it may be, sometimes women do need to shut the fukc up, as we dont really care about what happened at work, and who they hate, and what somebody was wearing bla bla bla

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...
hopefully wifey also find it easy to say sorry

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...
of course, so long as wifey knows that putting her hands on her man is a sure way to get herself knocked out

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...
stop dreaming...there is nothing wrong with your man hating some things about you.... and vice versa. expecting him to love everything you do, even the stoopid stuff is not only foolish but also very one sided. COMMUNICATION is the key


I COME IN PEACE✌

OnPointMan:
Funniest thing is, OP might still be single

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

Adakintroy2:
Go and marry your own jor..and stop all this make sure make sure..!

Make sure this... Una no one work. Just to do hair and nails. Later una go join feminist DE talk say men oppress women.

Don't know of any slave master that give his slave money, sleep on the same bed, make love to them.and leave inheritance.

OnPointMan:
Funniest thing is, OP might still be single

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

phr0nesis:
So what made you leave them

ismail64:
are you married?

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

MNDY:
Most women can be very stubborn, mischievous and loquacious. If you are unable to work on these as a woman and want to assume headship over the man and the home, no man will do all those things described by the OP for you.

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

SmithRussell:
Op... You are invariably telling 'em ladies to marry 10husbands... No man is perfect.. You may be great in one aspect and completely wack in another.

Moreover, there are women who need tough guys to behave well, and there are ladies who need soft men to behave well..

A marriage with a man having all the attributes up there would not last,, trust me. She would abuse it

Women are very manipulative, they look for every opportunity to show that they are powerful and smart.

I know a man who initially would assist his wife in kitchen by turning the eba, because he felt that he was good at that... Small small, it became his job.. they now have children and he's still the eba maker as no other person in the house can do it

Dupalmer:
This type of post is the reason why a whole lot of ladies are insolent, obnoxious and only good for bedmatics then remain very single.

Single ladies you better be wise. There's no 100percent rosy marriage. Get into marriage and make it work. As our our mothers how they did. Their formula for marriage still works till tomorrow. Even though that the effort should come from both husband and wife but your commitment as the mother of the house is very important in shaping the home.

The stupid current trend of feminism is the reason of the very high rate of present day marital failures. In most cases its the ladies that take the greater loss.

It's 100times easier for a man to marry and remarry several times whether as divorcee or polygamist than for a lady to marry even once. (hard fact)

We are Africans for Christ's sake not whites.
I repeat single ladies be wise.

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

Warmaterial:
who is talking about date here? If I sound u ehh u go go marry

booscy:
And that's for the ladies, what about Men abi is marriage now one-sided ?

Just2endowed2:
Having all these attributes as a man does not guarantee you end up with a good woman.

What I learnt about humans is that when you give them opportunity, they miss use it

asatemple:
permit me to say, marriage have no format. In any one you find your self, just try and adapt and put in your best

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.