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shogsman:
Don't forget to leave a link to where they can download this men or better still get clay and make them yourself.

Where do u get a man that that loves everything about you?? All this funny nairaland girls....
There’s always compromise, no one has everything about them perfect and no man loves every package a woman is carrying ....it’s the love and tolerance that will make him look away from the ones he doesn’t like and focus on the ones he loves for continuous CO-existing

Pataricatering:
“In most cases it’s the ladies that take the loss “ but ur d one on social media crying hot tears ! Lol

Whose body is sagged and never comes back?

Who suffer raising the children with peanuts from the man.

Who goes from prayer house to prayer house seeking solution and deliverance of her husband from diverted attention.

Who gets used and dumped and never taken serious by fvck boys and men.

Who degenerates in emotion and gets bitter about all men all through her life.

Even when the woman raises the children alone they still bear their fathers name and must seek his blessing before marriage.

It goes on and on.

Try it and see who takes the greater loss.

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

True that...

This is quite utopian.. Any lady who's sensible enough shld know that this Op is indirectly discouraging them from getting married even if she may posses good intentions.

Who deserves to marry an Angel?..
If a lady has huge anger management problem, it is very likely she wld meet a man whose daily task would be to keep pissing her off subconsciously..
Till she brings her anger to a check and learns the virtue of calmness and patient..if she don't learn.. Too bad..a life time of inferno for her within or without matrimony..

Make sure you marry a man who has good reasoning, conscience, sense of responsibility and of course mentally sound.

We hear you...
Next?

Agricaddict:
OP is right however

yeah op is right, like I said, we men are not too difficult to manipulate, just be submissive and cleverly present your point at the right time. I tell you will wine

booscy:
And that's for the ladies, what about Men abi is marriage now one-sided ?

pls do a thread for guys

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

Stupidity is a cheap commodity in the market..

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

If he has enough money for you and your familly then all this list equal to ZERO ! This is the hard truth today !

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

...And the bitch died single, single mom or divorced.
Don't listen to everything she listed above

You will remain single for looking for a perfected man. You ladies, are u perfect?
This is the mentality of a lazy woman where everything is on the man to make the union work.
Women, know how to compliment ur man to become what u want ,or else u will suffer in that marriage. Nobody is perfect both the man and woman.

Issorite

God said i should tell you tha he didn't create any perfect being... Wherever your heart finds peace, make it your home ! but if you insist on your own perception....(in ghanian accent) Here is a pat of clay and a backet of water.... Mould him yaself

[quote author=SmithRussell post=85828460]Op... You are invariably telling 'em ladies to marry 10husbands... No man is perfect.. You may be great in one aspect and completely wack in another.

Moreover, there are women who need tough guys to behave well, and there are ladies who need soft men to behave well..

A marriage with a man having all the attributes up there would not last,, trust me. She would abuse it

Women are very manipulative, they look for every opportunity to show that they are powerful and smart.

I know a man who initially would assist his wife in kitchen by turning the eba, because he felt that he was good at that... Small small, it became his job.. they now have children and he's still the eba maker as no other person in the house can do it
[Lol, don't get o, even when the husband's relative is around?]

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

How many are they and are u still dating them?

showafrica:
Dating many men before marriage is absurd.

That’s what the world has become....they come with numerous body counts, cascades of abortions and a list of amazing attributes they want in a man.....
Some even see it as a wrong for u to say u don’t want a woman several men has entered..

My Brother your head dey there. 1 crate of Odeku and 2 plate of isi-ewu together with nkwobi for only you Jare.

donbachi:
She should make sure,to understand sey,no be everytime money dey dey with man....and also make sure to hold her rubberband mouth,2 of dem no be mate.

Even if you follow these rules religiously, marriage wey no go work, no go work.

phr0nesis:
So what made you leave them

THEM not even one, oloburuku.

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

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Agricaddict:
OP is right however

How?

Gforce2015:
11) make sure you see Jesus and marry him

Eediot ! I know the person that wrote this craps is still in her 20s ....don't worry , go and ask some of your single Ladies in their late 40s .this was their mindset in their early days in life. They have totally missed it. And it has thrown them in the pit of regret.
By the time you will be 33, you will wake.
There is one lady I dated some years ago. Try lady felt that she is too big for me and that she can't settle down with me. ..when I saw her lack of commitment to the relationship , I started playing along Knowing full well that I will not settle down with her. Up till this moment she's still single and she is 42 years old.... good for her.....

She could be happy bn alone ... my tot tho*

lexy2014:
How?

Read it now

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

and you no marry am,abi you fail for your ten areas.

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lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

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simplepee:
And how is that funny?

Omo see question o?! How old are you darling?

As a man self if you are looking for that perfect woman. You are a very unserious human being and childish or just dot knowbwhy you came to life...never perfect. We adjust to each other and till death us path we still mess up but manage the home with time.

Mumu deh find Japanese robot

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

U aren't writing to other ladies. This is ur wish list. D problem is that u haven't been able to attract a man with all these qualities. But I wish u all d best in ur search. When u get to heaven, he will be there waiting for u

Fweezy:
It's funny how they fail to display these negative attributes to the man beforehand so the men can think twice before walking into a trap called a failed marriage. Guys don't be lazy. Do a proper research of the girls family background and extended families if possible. Find about their past friends and the kind of company they kept in school. Facebook will help you do this conveniently well. Get first hand info on the streets using the standard guy code even if you have to pay for such info. If the girl has moved around too much within a short period and isn't ready to open up her past or walk openly with you in her former hoods hand in hand...Red flag straight up...cos she's gonna gather all hat past life she's keeping away from you before marriage straight into your home after marriage. Stay woke guys..

I wonder how and why they are unable to work on their character. Most of them can be very repulsive. The saying goes: You may think that girls/women are everywhere because they are more in population, but it is whenever you are searching for a wife you'll know that good women are scarce. Women know it and say it too.

The best way to know a woman's character is by studying how she relates with her own family members.

If you cant make it work before marriage, it is impossible to make it work during marriage. Marriage is a rocket science in this era; pls take note.