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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Pussywar(f): 9:44pm On Jan 15, 2020
booscy:


Men have better things to think of rather than dwell on petty stuff.
Let me remind you that Men aren't the problem of women, women are the greatest problem of women.

Of course We're well aware that there's no manual to a perfect relationship between humans (Friendship, Dating, Business and Marriage inclusive).

Human relations is a Bio experiment, its not constant if these things listed works for you that it would work for others and what rocks your boat might not rock another's
You tried so hard to make sense. I'll give you a D. Now go home and make sure you have those qualities OP listed. Adios

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by laprine(m): 9:46pm On Jan 15, 2020
[quote author=lavylilly post=85822024]TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

cool Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌[/
it will be better you tell her to make sure she create the man she want o....
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Pussywar(f): 9:47pm On Jan 15, 2020
Dupalmer:

Eeya. I can't trade words with you because it's very obvious you need serious help my dear. In many aspects.
So, are you going to defend your stupidity or you'll just keep forcing the gentleman shit? Cos if you don't have a thing to say, you can quietly fok off like the trash you are. I don't need you to tell me shit about me. You wish your shit talks affect me.
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by pocohantas(f): 9:47pm On Jan 15, 2020
simplepee:
You never chechomchin. grin

Must be one of our resident alfa males. People wey no get work. Na woman matter 24/7.

I wouldn't like to see such biko.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by bonnyhope: 9:48pm On Jan 15, 2020
pocohantas:


This one keeps typing like one who fell on his head as a child. When stupidity breathes!

After dating more than 100 men

You still want to settle down with Mr good man

With your suffered kpekus

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nobody: 9:48pm On Jan 15, 2020
Guys do not settle for any lady that will not contribute to the family financially.
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by laprine(m): 9:50pm On Jan 15, 2020
let her make sure she kuku create the man she want o... awon olofo
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by tunapawizzy: 9:50pm On Jan 15, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.
madam, where do you shop for your men?
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Dupalmer: 9:50pm On Jan 15, 2020
Pussywar:

So, are you going to defend your stupidity or you'll just keep forcing the gentleman shit? Cos if you don't have a thing to say, you can quietly fok off like the trash you are. I don't need you to tell me shit about me. You wish your shit talks affect me.
Eeeyaa. My post really pained you. Can you take some pills and sleep dear. Kiss
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by lexy2014: 9:50pm On Jan 15, 2020
Agricaddict:




Now you are getting it, you have to.

I don't have to, except u don't no why u said what u said
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by stealmatic(m): 9:51pm On Jan 15, 2020
lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

cool Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌
now i c y u dnt put ur gender,frm al wat u just wrote u ar an hanti,can u put d equation d oda way so we cn talk
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nobody: 9:51pm On Jan 15, 2020
That kinda man doesn't exist. Even her father no get that kinda attributes.
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by dudley1459: 9:52pm On Jan 15, 2020
Marry youself na,who has ur time
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by paparazi1(m): 9:53pm On Jan 15, 2020
lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

cool Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌
Feminist spotted, though some points above are valid
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by MrPresident1: 9:53pm On Jan 15, 2020
Spits on stupid thread
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by LegalOpinion: 9:53pm On Jan 15, 2020
There must be a counter thread to this epistle.
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by bleskid: 9:53pm On Jan 15, 2020
thunder fire you for number 6... ... baby help me with one maggi , tomorrow sweet heart pls help me check the soup next week baby I'm hungry rush and bring the food ,, na So emeka wife take turn emeka to cook b that grin

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Pussywar(f): 9:56pm On Jan 15, 2020
So basically more than 70% Nigerian men lack these qualities. From the comments one can see how angry they are. Forcing women to believe we're the problem, and its not possible getting a man with these qualities. This is what women want, but according to them it shouldn't be. Because the OP didn't include "submissive woman" anywhere. I really pity the woman who settles for less. Because they've told you you'll remain single if this is your standard. More than half of these men are pure trash, and then they think its until you rape a woman that you deserve the tag. Qualities wey foreign men possess from birth, and one idiot said "we're africans, were not like the whites..." Imagine being proud to be trash. Tufia! You people have a long way to go.

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by OnPointMan(m): 9:56pm On Jan 15, 2020
bluefilm:

Before nko?
She just wrote why she's has remained single all these years.
grin
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by andycom(m): 9:56pm On Jan 15, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

And you're still single I guess? Madd oo

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Pussywar(f): 9:57pm On Jan 15, 2020
Dupalmer:

Eeeyaa. My post really pained you. Can you take some pills and sleep dear. Kiss
So, you don't have anything to say? Fok off in peace. slowpoke

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nobody: 9:59pm On Jan 15, 2020
Pussywar:

Insinuating that a lady who has had multiple partners shouldn't have a preference, doesn't just prove you're a misogynist. You're also a slut shamer and a weak man and I pity the women that 'picks' you

Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Liposure: 10:00pm On Jan 15, 2020
Any woman dat heeds 2 dis advice is not ready 4 marriage
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by CloudResident(m): 10:00pm On Jan 15, 2020
Great piece.Well said.

What are you bringing to the table?
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by MRLANNISTER(m): 10:01pm On Jan 15, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

But you kept leaving them. Why?
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Dogalmighty17: 10:01pm On Jan 15, 2020
Abeg where are the mods? This thread Don cast. War has been declared. The ladies are coming for anyone and everyone who dares to counter OP.
Abeg shut down this thread o!
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Butoneday2(m): 10:02pm On Jan 15, 2020
lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

cool Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌
This is thrash? Guy go and look for a job.
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Xavi2019: 10:02pm On Jan 15, 2020
Just make sure you settle for a MAN....and not a boy.
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Timileyin1234(m): 10:03pm On Jan 15, 2020
Goan marry ur pastor na
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nobody: 10:04pm On Jan 15, 2020
Pussywar:

You tried so hard to make sense. I'll give you a D. Now go home and make sure you have those qualities OP listed. Adios

Being scored D by pussywar ain't bad. I'm not at war with any pussy so I dont expect an A from pussywar

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Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by BBright1: 10:04pm On Jan 15, 2020
Dupalmer:
This type of post is the reason why a whole lot of ladies are insolent, obnoxious and only good for bedmatics then remain very single because all the men that come their way will not be be able to keep to her impossible high standards. They will only pretend for a while and have a full share of her body and leave her heartbroken to continue her search for Mr.Jesus Christ. While she's getting older and less appealing. Her exes are going for younger sweet damsels to her chagrin.

Single ladies you better be wise. There's no 100percent rosy marriage. Get into marriage and make it work. Ask our our mothers how they did it. Their formula for marriage still works till tomorrow. Even though I agree that the effort should come from both husband and wife but your commitment as the mother of the house is very important in shaping the home.

The stupid current trend of feminism is the reason for the very high rate of present day marital failures. In most cases its the ladies that take the greater loss.

It's 100times easier for a man to marry and remarry several times whether as divorcee or polygamist than for a lady to marry even once. (hard fact)

We are Africans for Christ's sake not whites.
I repeat single ladies be wise.
Said it all
Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Nobody: 10:05pm On Jan 15, 2020
Pussywar:

Insinuating that a lady who has had multiple partners shouldn't have a preference, doesn't just prove you're a misogynist. You're also a slut shamer and a weak man and I pity the women that 'picks' you
Pussywar:
So basically more than 70% Nigerian men lack these qualities. From the comments one can see how angry they are. Forcing women to believe we're the problem, and its not possible getting a man with these qualities. This is what women want, but according to them it shouldn't be. Because the OP didn't include "submissive woman" anywhere. I really pity the woman who settles for less. Because they've told you you'll remain single if this is your standard. More than half of these men are pure trash, and then they think its until you rape a woman that you deserve the tag. Qualities wey foreign men possess from birth, and one idiot said "we're africans, were not like the whites..." Imagine being proud to be trash. Tufia! You people have a long way to go.
Pussywar:

Insinuating that a lady who has had multiple partners shouldn't have a preference, doesn't just prove you're a misogynist. You're also a slut shamer and a weak man and I pity the women that 'picks' you
many have lost count of their body counts and usually the sensible ones hide their faces in shame while the insipid ones buys ticket for the show of shame.

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