Brandonx:

My Ex- girlfriend who just got married recently (arrangée marriage) still calls and chats with me.

When we parted ways I severed ties with her completely. Few months later she called and texted at first I ignored but after a while I decided to reply her messages and take her calls.

We talked about so many things that happened in the past. She came visiting, we were cool until she traveled back and started acting funny.

I ignored her got into a relationship. She somehow knew about it and she went berserk.
So I stopped communicating with her.

After a few months she called and sent text as usual, we started talking again as my new relationship wasn't too serious.

She requested for my recent pictures, we made video calls. Little did I know she was getting married in a few weeks. I sent her a congratulatory message and she was surprised.

Few weeks after the wedding she called we spoke at length, at a point I asked about the husband, she quickly changed the topic and I also observed she wasn't too comfortable, I told her I was about leaving the house , we should probably talk some other time .
She then said " you asked about my husband, he's fine " I then told her to extend my greetings, her reply was " who do I tell him sent his greetings".
I think we still have feelings for each other.

Allow the girl to focus on her marriage or you'll caused her more damage.

Comot body oo

crownyx:


I have a principle, it might work for you if u adopt it: Once a lady turn to be my Ex, she receives automatic certificate of deletion from my heart, phone contact and social media.
As for ur own case, well, I can't say u are being childish but u are. She left u to marry another man, who told you she loves u? Why on earth would she av left u if she loves u? She left, still trying to waste ur destiny, resources and time. Instead of u to move on with ur life, u are came here disgusting and disgracing brotherhood. I don't want to abuse u but Guy, wise up!

Wish it was so easy, in my case we were good friends before we started dating. So it's it cool to delete her completely from my life?

Dholyboy:
So why are you telling us?

He is notifying us before he finally becomes unfortunate in life.

Ingodwetrust15:



Alaye shut up jor, she comes crawling back bawo?? If you really want to quite any form of communication with her you truly and honestly know what to do..... “I think we are still in love” was how you ended your story. Until then use your meat do asun before you go learn

No mind the Idiiot, him still get mind de say he think dem still get feelings for each other, Na better Magun dem go use for him and that Olosho

efighter:


He is notifying us before he finally becomes unfortunate in life.

Lmao This OP will wish he never posted this shii

Dholyboy:
So why are you telling us?

Mmmh, I tire o..

Dholyboy:
So why are you telling us?

lol, In fact I can't even read the meaning to this write up, how does this change the price of beans in the market, telling us is just a waste of data ..

decatalyst:


Young man, don't be stupid!

Don't ruin another man's life with the irrelevant "feelings" you are about to fester.

Run away from that lady before it is too late.

Lol

Brandonx:

My Ex- girlfriend who just got married recently (arrangée marriage) still calls and chats with me.
You still like am

When we parted ways I severed ties with her completely. Few months later she called and texted at first I ignored but after a while I decided to reply her messages and take her calls.
Initial gragra, bab wan chop again

We talked about so many things that happened in the past. She came visiting, we were cool until she traveled back and started acting funny.
Lie Mohd, na you wan spol person marriage

I ignored her got into a relationship. She somehow knew about it and she went berserk.
So I stopped communicating with her.

After a few months she called and sent text as usual, we started talking again as my new relationship wasn't too serious.

She requested for my recent pictures, we made video calls. Little did I know she was getting married in a few weeks. I sent her a congratulatory message and she was surprised.

Few weeks after the wedding she called we spoke at length, at a point I asked about the husband, she quickly changed the topic and I also observed she wasn't too comfortable, I told her I was about leaving the house , we should probably talk some other time .
She then said " you asked about my husband, he's fine " I then told her to extend my greetings, her reply was " who do I tell him sent his greetings".
I think we still have feelings for each other.

Na Magun dem go use kill you as you no wan leave person wife, Many men have gone because of Women but they keep making same mistakes, there are thousand and 1 beautiful single girls out there

Ogilinsaka:
She's married and happy and obviously playing with your spirit man. Wake up bro!

Don’t mind that guy he is just looking for people to be using to kill highness

His story no even join self

YOUR MARRIED EX HAS SNATCHED YOUR DESTINY.

Na man you be. Nice one

OgbanjeProphet:
Oga if you know wetin good for you, just let that woman enjoy her marriage. You are the only one that can save her.

After my girl married, she would call, chat and text me. But I discovered that each time we talked or chat, she would complain about her marriage, young marriage for that matter. She used to like me and I like her above every woman I have met so far, even till now.

In order to save her and her marriage, I started blocking her numbers and her social media accounts. At first she was stubborn. She would call with another numbers or create new accounts just to get in contact with me.

So one day she asked me why I had suddenly hated her so much. My reply was that I never liked her in the first place and that she irritated me very much. And that was the last time I heard from her.

It pains me that I could send to her such hurtful text, but I did it to save her marriage.

The last time I asked after her from her younger ones, I was told she was doing very well in her marriage.

Because I love her with all my heart, I got to save her marriage.

So guy, save that young woman too.

Dholyboy:
So why are you telling us?

That is not even my problem. My problem is that is even on front page like for real? Damn!!! �

silifat11:
That is similar own present situation. Am married so is my ex.. but we chat once or twice in two months. Since she once told her husband about, the husband sent me a friend request on Facebook, which she told me to accept. Few days ago, her husband saw our chat and told her to block me on Facebook.. funny enough, the guy still remains my friend on Facebook. .. Monitoring spirit haha

u are married why are you still communicating with ur Ex? For me anything about Ex should be Ex

Don't mind the stupid boy until Amadioha chop off his joystick that's when he will know what he is about to put himself into.

End Time feelings
Read the book of proverbs 5,6 and 7 for answer to your questions

How did you managed to get here?




Come dey involved me in matter wey no concern me!





Abeg go get a job instead of you spending ya time texting ur ex, n creating a scrupulous way of destabilizing another man's marriage.... Olosho!

OgbanjeProphet:
Oga if you know wetin good for you, just let that woman enjoy her marriage. You are the only one that can save her.

After my girl married, she would call, chat and text me. But I discovered that each time we talked or chat, she would complain about her marriage, young marriage for that matter. She used to like me and I like her above every woman I have met so far, even till now.

In order to save her and her marriage, I started blocking her numbers and her social media accounts. At first she was stubborn. She would call with another numbers or create new accounts just to get in contact with me.

So one day she asked me why I had suddenly hated her so much. My reply was that I never liked her in the first place and that she irritated me very much. And that was the last time I heard from her.

It pains me that I could send to her such hurtful text, but I did it to save her marriage.

The last time I asked after her from her younger ones, I was told she was doing very well in her marriage.

Because I love her with all my heart, I got to save her marriage.

So guy, save that young woman too.

This is the most sensible post i have seen, since all my years on nairaland.

Thanks so much

Brandonx:


It's not like I wanted this, I even severed ties with her but she keeps calling and that reawakened the feelings I had for her.

Maybe you hit her better than the current husband. She may be think of the past.

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Wow

Dholyboy:
So why are you telling us?

I wonder too

Brandonx:

My Ex- girlfriend who just got married recently (arrangée marriage) still calls and chats with me.

When we parted ways I severed ties with her completely. Few months later she called and texted at first I ignored but after a while I decided to reply her messages and take her calls.

We talked about so many things that happened in the past. She came visiting, we were cool until she traveled back and started acting funny.

I ignored her got into a relationship. She somehow knew about it and she went berserk.
So I stopped communicating with her.

After a few months she called and sent text as usual, we started talking again as my new relationship wasn't too serious.

She requested for my recent pictures, we made video calls. Little did I know she was getting married in a few weeks. I sent her a congratulatory message and she was surprised.

Few weeks after the wedding she called we spoke at length, at a point I asked about the husband, she quickly changed the topic and I also observed she wasn't too comfortable, I told her I was about leaving the house , we should probably talk some other time .
She then said " you asked about my husband, he's fine " I then told her to extend my greetings, her reply was " who do I tell him sent his greetings".
I think we still have feelings for each other.

You still talking to your married ex.
No biggy, a lot of matured folks still kip comm after parting ways as long as it was a mutual decision for the greater good.
In ur case u dint give reason for parting.

You both talked on phone and she came visiting
Incomplete story, you dint mention d part where u squeezed her oranges and steered her honey pot with you turning stick.
Am 80% sure u did that.


As my new relationship wasn't too serious
When you make a commitment to be in a relationship with someone ders nothing like "nothing too serious"
It's either u in or u out.
Stop taking advantage of Nigerian gels them come to NL be forming G-man

Chukwu222222:


That is not even my problem. My problem is that is even on front page like for real? Damn!!! �

efighter:


He is notifying us before he finally becomes unfortunate in life.

Bro.. I weak

Brandonx:


It's not like I wanted this, I even severed ties with her but she keeps calling and that reawakened the feelings I had for her.

Oshey.......FEELINGS REAWAKENER....the best thing to do is cut of ties with her again and follow through with it...so u won't be tempted oooooooooooo....a word is enough for the wise

Leave married women alone. Fornication/adultery prohibited.

Bro blast her if she needs u to... What's your stress!!! Let me tell u, I don't plan on marriage and even if I marry tomorrow how am I sure that the woman would not be playing her own away game Abeg free me....


I'm even about putting okafors law to practise now sef only that my ex's are not married yet... As I see this topic I just contacted another ex lol..

Do make u com give me scores.

Won't end well. Move on.

phorget:


Perhaps she's gotten her happiness from another man since you refused to ball. The truth is that any lady that wants to cheat will definitely cheat.
I won't excommunicate my ex the way you did but I would rather keep the relationship formal. Most ex do always have this reserved spot for the one they truly loved and a wise guy should always leverage on this to achieve the positivities.
Keeping it formal like calling ones a while, texting on important dates like birthday or yuletide seasons. My ex ones pushed a contract worth of 500k my way and that really helped. Everything is not about sex bro, breaking up in a relationship shouldn't make us a sworn enemy.

Only reasonable And matured comment here by far.. Very matured, and a reminder to those bitter men that not all exes are evil/dumped or whatever. This is 2020 grow up guys, communication once a while don't and won't necessarily lead to sex/cheating.

Na people like you OGBAKIRI
and OMADIOHA suppose strike ...... nonsense