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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by thorpido(m): 8:18am On Mar 23, 2016 |
Noneed77:I don't see anything strange happening to you.You are just making bad decisions based on the fact that you do not think through before taking actions.In life you go step by step and not just rush into things. From the things you wrote,you go contrary to good advise from your family and that has been your greatest undoing.In as much as there is nothing wrong taking decisions on your own,you can also make do with good counsel.Begin to listen to you family and good friends whenever you decide to make decisions.Seek their opinions even if you won't follow their opinions,consider and weigh them. As per your health,sicknesses can come at anytime to anyone.You just need to learn to prevent diseases by maintaining good hygiene and presenting yourself early at a hospital if you have symptoms of any illness. When it comes to women,if a man does not date the right woman,it can be akin to pouring water into a basket.You need to use your head more than your heart when it comes to women. Wish you well. 2 Likes |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by GenyEbere(f): 8:26pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Ggggg 1 Share |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by thorpido(m): 10:45pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
GenyEbere:Sorry about your situation but truth be told,you didn't lay your foundation properly.Were you the one who chose not to work or he made it a condition for you in the marriage?No woman should go into marriage without a source of income except by mutual consent. Your husband can't change.He has always been and will always be that way. Whatever it is,you will have to get a source of income and become independent.Abusers usually don't want their partners to work so they have control over them.Leaving the marriage might be an option for you.You might not be able to get custody of the kids but you will have your life back. I know someone in an abusive relationship who just left the house with the kids.I don't know if that could work in your situation. Taking your life is not an option.You've got kids who need you.I'm sure you have a family too-parents or siblings.They need you. 4 Likes |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by GenyEbere(f): 11:06pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Gggg |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by thorpido(m): 7:49am On Mar 24, 2016 |
GenyEbere:1 Peter 3:7 says, 'In the same way,you husbands must give honour to your wives.Treat your wife with understanding as you live together,she may be weaker than you are,but she is your equal partner in God's gift of new life.Treat her as you should so that your prayers are not hindered'. Show your husband this scripture. I don't know if your husband has anyone he listens to - an elder or pastor.Let such a person talk to him.I feel however that your husband is set in his ways from the way you describe him and such men rarely change.What you should do is begin to look for opportunities to earn an income.Get financial freedom.Your life may continue with him or may not. You deserve happiness in life and should not be tied down with anyone who takes away your joy. Taking your life is not the solution. 2 Likes |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by GenyEbere(f): 9:36am On Mar 24, 2016 |
thorpido:thank you very much am relieved by just talking about it 1 Like |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by PresVA: 9:41am On Mar 24, 2016 |
GenyEbere:Hi, I think you should get a source of income, it will go a long way helping you out of the situation. .. All d best. .. Remember, this is just a phase, it will pass 3 Likes |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Knetpro(m): 10:46am On Apr 07, 2016 |
Tgirl4real: Thanks for this great post. With the deplorable situation in the country right now and the much-desired change by Nigerians still far from being realized, it is normal for people to develop suicidal tendencies. This is a welcome development indeed. Kudos to you and keep up the good work. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by sky2000: 11:05pm On Apr 11, 2016 |
thorpido: I think you have a point, sometimes you have to think far and take your time well!! |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Nobody: 1:01am On Apr 22, 2016 |
I got admission in 2014/15 session, but deferred until this session because I had many older siblings still in school. Well. My mom was hoping to raise some funds for this session but all our efforts fell short. It seems i may lose this admission since there is no money to even defer this session. I have been attending lectures since january and we are about to start the 1st semester exams this month. My course adviser told me that once exams are through all patments and registrations are definitely over. I am so so depressed about this. I will definitely kill myself if i drop out. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by yoursloyaly: 2:42pm On Apr 22, 2016 |
Well what can I say? I ran my life down by myself and I have disappointed everyone that cares about me, although they do not know it. I am dying in silence because I cant begin to tell anyone what I've brought upon myself. I know if I had been more honest and open to people, I wouldn't have ended up like this. Now it is too late to make amends because I would break my people's hearts. I am currently "homeless" because of how neck deep I have gotten. I hope I sleep and never wake up. 1 Like |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by scampy(m): 6:48pm On Apr 23, 2016 |
yoursloyaly: I will advice you make peace with your people by talking to someone that you believe should be able to help. It might be an elder in your family or a religious leader in your faith. Try to erase that thots of sleeping without waking up. Remember, there is always a way if only you seek for it. Peace. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by scampy(m): 6:50pm On Apr 23, 2016 |
timonski: Cc: Bellong Thorpido Tgirl4real TeHN |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by thorpido(m): 8:40pm On Apr 23, 2016 |
timonski:How much is your school fees? Can you open a thread seeking for help for your school fees?You have to be authentic because you will be subject to scrutiny. 1 Like |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Nobody: 8:44pm On Apr 23, 2016 |
thorpido: I need #80000 to complete my school fees. https://www.nairaland.com/3064609/appreciate-input |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by thorpido(m): 8:57pm On Apr 23, 2016 |
yoursloyaly:Your story reminds me of the story of the prodigal son in the bible.One very important part of the story is that the bible says,'he came to himself'.He said i can't continue this way.I will go back to my father's house , even if all I can get is the treatment of one of my father's slaves. You will have to let people know things are bad and to what extent so you can receive help and be rehabilitated as it were.It's not too late to make amends.Yes you will break some people's hearts but it will be the beginning of your recovery. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Nobody: 9:01pm On Apr 23, 2016 |
@Thorpido. Sir here is the link. https://www.nairaland.com/3064609/appreciate-input |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by bellong: 2:11pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
@timonski, How much have you raised? When is the deadline to pay? @yoursloyaly, Do you care to talk about it? Know that it is never too late to turn back. Realising one's mistake is a giant step to solving a problem. Don't back down in making amends.. Tell your people and I am sure, someone will find a place to take you back and excuse your folly. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Nobody: 2:38pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
bellong:The deadline is 1st week of may, sir. I need ~ 150k for school fees and other fees. But since I have raised ~N68500 I need roughly 80k. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by justme2000: 1:13am On Apr 25, 2016 |
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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by thorpido(m): 7:55am On Apr 25, 2016 |
justme2000:Seems your relationship was a long distance relationship.That means you probably didn't know your wife well enough.You should have known what her temperament is like and decide if you wanted a violent wife(using your words). One other bad part of your foundation is showing your wife too much money from the beginning of your relationship.Why send so much money to the one you are dating when you are not her father?Moreover,you said you came from a very poor family so you should have family members to take care of.I hope your wife didn't marry you just for the money. You should double your efforts to get a source of income so you have something to bring to the table.You should have saved enough too while you worked i hope so you have something to fall back on. You should help your wife control her anger(talk to her about it when she is calm and let her attend anger management classes if she can.Since you have also started to slap,you both should work on managing conflict. 1 Like |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by AUTOCHECKN: 9:38am On Apr 25, 2016 |
Hmm |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by dominique(f): 6:31pm On May 03, 2016 |
You May want to take a look at this thread. https://www.nairaland.com/3084060/burnt-out-no-where-turn#45281049 |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by hpk(m): 5:24pm On May 24, 2016 |
The past is only alive if you keep it alive. You can’t change yesterday but you can build today for tomorrow. Don’t shackle yourself with regrets. Don’t start feeling sorry for yourself. Whatever your previous circumstances, others have gotten through the same or worse. Appreciate yourself as a tested survivor: strong and determined. Learn from the past but don’t assume that your past automatically equals your future. Instead, fill your life with anticipation. Set your goals. Write your to-dos. Just because you haven’t done something before doesn’t mean that you can’t start doing it right now. Be the new, dynamic you. Right now. Cheers!!! |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Nobody: 5:28pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
my life is really tough at the moment. I have always suffered all through my life until now. I suspect I have a mental illness. I have always wanted to go to Yaba to get my head checked out, but have always managed to put it off. No work for a while now. the freelancing site where I worked suspended my account and seized all my funds. No one to ask for help. The entire universe is against me it seems. no food. no hope. everything is very bleak. I am a good person, I work hard, but maybe not smart. No one to give me a little push until I stand on my feet. What is the point of it all?? In my apartment, no light, no food in the kitchen or pantry. no petrol in the gen. no nothing. life too hard. I can easily rest more if I didn't have this body which I owe a lot of attention to. If I were an amphibian, or a ghost, or mere air, I wouldn't have to suffer voices or severe despondency all the time. My world is gray. I have sought color all my life but it seems the universe decided I would never live in color. Grey seems to be my lot. Grey and a lot of black. I started taking care of myself at age 14. I am 25 now and things are still very difficult. I have started so many ventures to help my situation but my mental predisposition does not allow me to concentrate. I keep hearing voices in my head. Two years ago, I explained to a friend of mine what was going on: the voices, the anxiety, and depression. He suggested that I take up weed. That was the worst decision I ever made. After just two minutes of inhaling a goodly amount of the weed smoke, I have my first episode of psychosis. I had never experienced anything like before. I was taken to a hospital where the doctor gave me injections to calm my heart down and send me to sleep. I stayed in the hospital for two days and then discharged. But since that episode, my life has not remained the same. Two months ago, I was hit by a series of serious misfortunes that shook me to the bone. I couldn't work so my clients on Upwork fired me. I am at an all-time low and I am beginning to question the meaning of life. To me, life has no meaning. I reckon if I leave now, in another 80 years everyone I left on earth will meet up with me. I don't fear death. I have actually made my peace with death, but I do not want to die. However, I don't know how long I can hang on. I am desperate and my situation and brokenness have killed my spirit. I seriously want to give up. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by THEMODSARECRAZY: 5:46pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
I'm most likely to die anytime soon, hopefully someone finds my body and buries me on time 1 Like |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Nobody: 10:42am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Knock knock 1 Like |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Darkseid(m): 10:52am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Lynette2cute:This one you're knocking here, don't tell me you're feeling suicidal |
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