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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by dotunibrahim7(m): 4:33pm On Jan 03, 2020
Surfondsystems:
Hello guys. This rejection thing is hard. It’s a fact of life that people have standards and often times don’t want to go below their benchmark when it comes to friendship and relationships.

This is the second time in a row I’ll be suffering the same kind of fate in recent times.

I’d love to write more about my experience if anyone is interested but so far, I’ve decided to move on. No more personal contacts with the lady. I can only wish her luck with her U.S based boyfriend and I’ve decided to better myself and cast my line in the ocean. Hopefully I’ll catch a better looking and more sumptuous fish.

Presently, she’s fighting for attention on social media and I’ve decided to cut her off completely.

I greet you all.
okay I'm interested. what really happened?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Surfondsystems: 6:54pm On Jan 03, 2020
dotunibrahim7:
okay I'm interested. what really happened?
Please check my previous post to have an idea then you can ask specific questions.

I really don’t want to gloat about the lady in question.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by brandon180(m): 7:04pm On Jan 03, 2020
Surfondsystems:
Hello guys. This rejection thing is hard. It’s a fact of life that people have standards and often times don’t want to go below their benchmark when it comes to friendship and relationships.

This is the second time in a row I’ll be suffering the same kind of fate in recent times.

I’d love to write more about my experience if anyone is interested but so far, I’ve decided to move on. No more personal contacts with the lady. I can only wish her luck with her U.S based boyfriend and I’ve decided to better myself and cast my line in the ocean. Hopefully I’ll catch a better looking and more sumptuous fish.

Presently, she’s fighting for attention on social media and I’ve decided to cut her off completely.

I greet you all.
thats d spirit man. In the game you win some and you lose some
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:09pm On Jan 05, 2020
Happy new year Guys.

Don't settle for less in this decade . You can be all you can ever imagine.

Why can't we have it all? And if not now, when?

Back on track....

Sense pill:

Average Men would ever be prone to words' manipulation, bodily seduction , emotional blackmail, the default wiring to buy attention and please ladies but above all, the dictates of their D1cks.

Ladies would ever fall for well served jealousy pills, power, affluence, wealth perception,

But above all, quick wit diced with humour and garnished with foresight n Manly aura.

Choose your destiny....

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:50pm On Jan 05, 2020
isyourboy:


Boss harddon, forgive me. I applied this drill and got her hooked. To the extent that she can deny her parents to be in my arms. Later on, my love for her skyrocket and I started being too nice and boring. I wasn't the person she was attracted to any longer. I caught her cheating and still begged her and promised to be there for her. Now she's relegated me to the dreaded friendzone. she had the gut to even tell me another man is bedding her

How quickly you turned my smile angry
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:51pm On Jan 05, 2020
Surfondsystems:
Hello guys. This rejection thing is hard. It’s a fact of life that people have standards and often times don’t want to go below their benchmark when it comes to friendship and relationships.

This is the second time in a row I’ll be suffering the same kind of fate in recent times.

I’d love to write more about my experience if anyone is interested but so far, I’ve decided to move on. No more personal contacts with the lady. I can only wish her luck with her U.S based boyfriend and I’ve decided to better myself and cast my line in the ocean. Hopefully I’ll catch a better looking and more sumptuous fish.

Presently, she’s fighting for attention on social media and I’ve decided to cut her off completely.

I greet you all.

Glass up

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Agp19(m): 9:14pm On Jan 05, 2020
isyourboy:


Boss harddon, forgive me. I applied this drill and got her hooked. To the extent that she can deny her parents to be in my arms. Later on, my love for her skyrocket and I started being too nice and boring. I wasn't the person she was attracted to any longer. I caught her cheating and still begged her and promised to be there for her. Now she's relegated me to the dreaded friendzone. she had the gut to even tell me another man is bedding her
your story is the same as mine but not as worst as yours. Mine, she has change. She is now giving other men attention. But yet to cheat. Which I confronted her with but she insist she still mine that I shouldnt bother myself. Wanted ending the shit relationship today. But one thing led to another and we make up again and even had a smash sex. But through out the period sex has never been an issues she give me on a daily. So my question to Mr Harddon is

*After using the drill to attract the lady of your dream. How do one maintain the high tension attraction for a very long time*

Bcus sooner or later u will just lay down your guards.

Why mine has even lasted this long is bcus whenever I notice any comfort on her side I just come up with drama that will keep me away from her for days. Which has been working but can't continue on that lane, I notice am pushing her with that drama.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by isyourboy(m): 9:07am On Jan 06, 2020
Agp19:
your story is the same as mine but not as worst as yours. Mine, she has change. She is now giving other men attention. But yet to cheat. Which I confronted her with but she insist she still mine that I shouldnt bother myself. Wanted ending the shit relationship today. But one thing led to another and we make up again and even had a smash sex. But through out the period sex has never been an issues she give me on a daily. So my question to Mr Harddon is

*After using the drill to attract the lady of your dream. How do one maintain the high tension attraction for a very long time*

Bcus sooner or later u will just lay down your guards.

Why mine has even lasted this long is bcus whenever I notice any comfort on her side I just come up with drama that will keep me away from her for days. Which has been working but can't continue on that lane, I notice am pushing her with that drama.

I swear these girls don't need niceness
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by isyourboy(m): 9:10am On Jan 06, 2020
HARDDON:


How quickly you turned my smile angry

Forgive me boss, I've learnt and move on.

imagine a girl that has Never requested money from me before telling me this morning that she needed cash all of a surden with a command tone. I'm sure she want to give that money to her fuvk mate. well, after reading the msg I just block her. from everywhere

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by yetunsbay(m): 5:38pm On Jan 07, 2020
At op, I got a lady number via her social media platform. I later initiated a conversation like :

Me - Hello angel, its a great honor knowing an hummingbird. I wanna say Hi.. Bt u will end up falling in Love with me. So lemme say Hello


Her- Who are you


Me- A friend



Her- Fr where ?



Me-






Pls how do I flow along to mk her get interest. Like I said; I only got her digit fr her platform
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by SaintHilary(m): 8:40am On Jan 08, 2020
grin grin grin grin
So na here all dose dull guys dey come from

After ena go create thread "Should I leave her"


Mk ena no hustle. 2020 go clear for una eyes

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Nobody: 9:30am On Jan 08, 2020
I NEED A RICH WOMAN WITH VERY BIG ASS AND BIG BREAST IN KADUNA STATE.
WOMEN ONLY, PLEASE, INBOX ME SO THAT I CAN GIVE U MY WHATSAPP NUMBER.
AND WE MEET FACE TO FACE IN KADUNA STATE
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Kantebets(m): 12:56pm On Jan 08, 2020
SaintHilary:
grin grin grin grin So na here all dose dull guys dey come from
After ena go create thread "Should I leave her"

Mk ena no hustle. 2020 go clear for una eyes
u don get million?
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by SaintHilary(m): 2:38pm On Jan 08, 2020
Kantebets:

u don get million?
7figures working towards 8.

I can Bleep any girl you use months to do all dis rubbish in 4days max
Ciao

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Kantebets(m): 2:52pm On Jan 08, 2020
SaintHilary:
7figures working towards 8.
I can Bleep any girl you use months to do all dis rubbish in 4days max Ciao
go and Bleep ashawo
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by awesomershal(m): 6:33pm On Jan 08, 2020
Good evening house,So I and this girl used to be very close and best of friends in nsec school then.After which we departed and our conversation went down though bwe talk from time to time on WhatsApp.
Fast forward to Dec 2018,We met and were all over ourselves and our feelings for each other developed again, and I made a Go at her to date her which she agreed to.
But the issue I am having currently is the fact that I feel she doesn't communicate with me enough since we started dating.
When she's online,not always active and mist of the calls are from my side too.
Though she's a student and am working I tried to cut her some slacks based on lecture schedule for her.What she usually do mostly is drop good morning messages and that's all for the day some times
I seriously want to know how I can have her to communicate more with me and have my time.
PS: When we talk,she relate well

I welcome your suggestions guys.Thanks
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by WittyLad(m): 9:33am On Jan 11, 2020
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HARDDON:
Happy new year Guys.

Don't settle for less in this decade . You can be all you can ever imagine.

Why can't we have it all? And if not now, when?

Back on track....

Sense pill:

Average Men would ever be prone to words' manipulation, bodily seduction , emotional blackmail, the default wiring to buy attention and please ladies but above all, the dictates of their D1cks.

Ladies would ever fall for well served jealousy pills, power, affluence, wealth perception,

But above all, quick wit diced with humour and garnished with foresight n Manly aura.

Choose your destiny....

Pa. Hardon
Thanks for this life changing Thread, it's supercalifragilisticexpialidocious ��
I have been a ghost reader, whose determination is to get to the end before commenting.
I was invited to this thread by my cousin late last year (December), my perspectives on ladies and how to handle things changed, I bless the day I met this thread...
I know it's not too late for you to look into my semi-balless story. here�
I had this crusher around January last year, long story short,she insisted that I have to tell her sumtin about how I feel about her as she would be leaving that area that month(April/May) I allowed say her mind (I could have done that better if I had gotten to meet with this thread earlier tho), I accepted sheepishly and also profess love to her since then,(my bad).
Things seems to be going on well, she do come visit me, and all, another error was that I agreed to almost all her terms, like: no sex before marriage (but comes visiting,Romance only) �
Around October, she changed.. she told me she usually get tired of rltnshps after sometime,then later come back to herself.. I didn't understand it a bit. i was confused.. I had the password to her Facebook, she chat with other guys, she told they were just friends(some secndry school mates et all)which I told her I wasn't going to take,she stopped chatting with them, then she do most of the calling from start, then later I started reciprocating to the attention, she once told me on phone that her ex still calls her and that he I disturbing her with calls, I said okay (not to sound jealous), I later found out that she is the one who is trying to have her ex back.. I got vexed, buh was lucky enough to have been on this thread by then, I applied some of your drills on her, buh she seems an Alpha female, probably.
After warning her to never welcome any third party,we had an issue, then I caught her chatting with her ex,narrating all that transpired, I saw the chat, then she came online and changed th password.. I ignored her for days, WhatsApp, calls, fb.. about a week to that time, she called,we spoke, she said her Facebook is her personal account, and she has the right to change her password, I hanged up the call.( I sensed her defence wall isn't broken yet enough)..
she didn't bother calling, I ignored still.
she spoke to my cousin about it, saying I suddenly changed(proud, too much ego,e.t.c).
my brother admonished that she calls, she did .. we spoke (thrashing the ishh)
we settled it online, (she apologized, then I responded that "she raised the level of my annoyance on the issh, told her not be silly nxt tym)
she called the next day twice, I didn't pick up (I felt I lost her already) as i could sense she still contact her ex..
i deleted her contact, blocked on my two WhatsApp accounts, also on Facebook yesterday.. she messaged me using her second fb account,
she: Dammy u blocked me ��
after like 4 hours later
she: Answer me.
. .
I have decided not to respond, even to her calls.. but I just want your wise words.
CC Hardon
CC Davidthebeek
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Dracoe(m): 5:20pm On Jan 11, 2020
So I’m just curious, is it still necessary to still keep forming hard guy to your girlfriend ,someone you’ve been with for a while ..let’s say a year , a person who you claim to love and feels the same way about you and maybe even more, and not just love..someone who is loyal to you also.�
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by majormofor(m): 10:38pm On Jan 12, 2020
Dracoe:
So I’m just curious, is it still necessary to still keep forming hard guy to your girlfriend ,someone you’ve been with for a while ..let’s say a year , a person who you claim to love and feels the same way about you and maybe even more, and not just love..someone who is loyal to you also.�
The day u stop is the day she start seeing a different you that she didn't love.... Think about it

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Joeeasy(m): 11:07am On Jan 18, 2020
First of all, @HARDDON, I want to thank you for making me embark on this life-changing journey, I didn't just stop at what I got from here, I also picked up a couple of books like The Book Of Pook, Double your Dating by David DeAngelo and The Game. All these books have one trait in common, You have to exhume Confidence for these drills to work with efficacy.

I really think that's the first thing guys should focus on building because that's like your compass. Focus on building High regard for yourself first (self-esteem), I wonder if you've seen a High-value man being treated like he's not needed? cheesy It is the root of every area of your life.

If you only look for solutions to the branches in form of quick fixes(Like running to Harddon for lines ) without tackling the roots, the problem might become worst because you've been using these fun and witty vibes and when she finally meets you, your character is completely different shocked Attraction level will drop like bad habits cheesy

Society has always looked for ways to make men less masculine, that's why the nice guy trait is a common sickness you decide what you let into the doorway of your mind, you always have choices.

One more thing, stop comparing yourself with people this doesn't help with your confidence , define what personal success means to you in terms of finances, relationship and life in general.

How do you want people to believe that you're the great catch when you don't believe it yourself? shocked

The good thing about building these key attribute is that it affects every aspect of our lives not just women. If you really want to get the most outta these drills, you should start from your self-image and define the man you want to be.

I'll suggest you see the series Mad Men(I'm not saying you should become Don) but you can learn a thing or two from his character.

Also, you have to read. what else can Mortal man acquire to surpass his peers apart from knowledge and wisdom? So read and expand your mind, I don't like it too, but it should be your new way of life if you really need to seek the change that you desired, you have to read. These changes surpasses just the world of women.


That's my own quota, Sheers to growing blue balls cool

- Man Joe

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by richkal(m): 9:57pm On Jan 19, 2020
Joeeasy:

The Book Of Pook

- Man Joe

Bro, I have been looking for this book for a while, is it the soft copy you have?? If yes, please how can I get a copy?? Thanks.
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by icebot: 11:49am On Jan 20, 2020
richkal:


Bro, I have been looking for this book for a while, is it the soft copy you have?? If yes, please how can I get a copy?? Thanks.

https://mega.nz/#!UxAyRS7Y!8stf7RwssW4eCr2pK5dQUGWLo-RKzaFQlMsQKmyMAlw

Enjoy!

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by richkal(m): 10:21pm On Jan 20, 2020
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by TheExclusive: 8:41pm On Jan 23, 2020
majormofor:

The day u stop is the day she start seeing a different you that she didn't love.... Think about it

What is the real essence of dating then, when you can't be real with someone you probably want to marry. It gets to a point in a relationship when you have to get real. For me, if happens earlier than usual. If she wants to walk, then let her walk.

The girl may be seeing other guys and playing with you while you waste your time and resources and you will be forming guy in a relationship.

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Agp19(m): 12:33pm On Jan 24, 2020
Surfondsystems:
Hello guys. This rejection thing is hard. It’s a fact of life that people have standards and often times don’t want to go below their benchmark when it comes to friendship and relationships.

This is the second time in a row I’ll be suffering the same kind of fate in recent times.

I’d love to write more about my experience if anyone is interested but so far, I’ve decided to move on. No more personal contacts with the lady. I can only wish her luck with her U.S based boyfriend and I’ve decided to better myself and cast my line in the ocean. Hopefully I’ll catch a better looking and more sumptuous fish.

Presently, she’s fighting for attention on social media and I’ve decided to cut her off completely.

I greet you all.
share your story sir!
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Happyfela(m): 12:23pm On Jan 30, 2020
Harddon, you really tried. Good job.

Most of the questions are fucking hilarious... Pomo men everywhere
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by eaddyboy: 3:21pm On Jan 30, 2020
Hi guys, pls I need your input and advice

I met this girl through a female friend of mine (connection) and we got talking, I told her plainly and directly without mincing words that I want her to be my girlfriend and I explain to her reasons for her to see things through albiet I have limited time to stay in the state due to my work and she got my point but said she has a boyfriend who's outside the state serving, that at best she can only be friends with me - checking up on me, coming around to talk and all that but nothing more not even hugs as she can't double date and also get involved sexually with another guy.

fast forward today and almost a week, she texted me on Whatsapp and ask how I'm doing, she started enquiring about my welfare and all.... then boom she asked me to sub her phone and also give her money for her hair which equals 5k.

I asked her if that will make her accept my proposal (being my girlfriend and other benefits attached) she replied "Ehn ehn" and that "she will try to think about it"

I then told her that doesn't sound positive, she replied 'i have heard you'

I'm a corpers and still receiving stipends from Federal government, I told her there's no cash now pending when Govt will pay us, she said ok, and that I shouldn't forget her when the money comes.

Now I'm having second thoughts not to even give her at all, initially I wanted to give her like 3k.... is it worth it at all or should I let it pass ??

N/B I'm leaving Service in 2months time and she's aware
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by 2dice01: 3:36pm On Jan 30, 2020
eaddyboy:
Hi guys, pls I need your input and advice

I met this girl through a female friend of mine (connection) and we got talking, I told her plainly and directly without mincing words that I want her to be my girlfriend and I explain to her reasons for her to see things through albiet I have limited time to stay in the state due to my work and she got my point but said she has a boyfriend who's outside the state serving, that at best she can only be friends with me - checking up on me, coming around to talk and all that but nothing more not even hugs as she can't double date and also get involved sexually with another guy.

fast forward today and almost a week, she texted me on Whatsapp and ask how I'm doing, she started enquiring about my welfare and all.... then boom she asked me to sub her phone and also give her money for her hair which equals 5k.

I asked her if that will make her accept my proposal (being my girlfriend and other benefits attached) she replied "Ehn ehn" and that "she will try to think about it"

I then told her that doesn't sound positive, she replied 'i have heard you'

I'm a corpers and still receiving stipends from Federal government, I told her there's no cash now pending when Govt will pay us, she said ok, and that I shouldn't forget her when the money comes.

Now I'm having second thoughts not to even give her at all, initially I wanted to give her like 3k.... is it worth it at all or should I let it pass ??

N/B I'm leaving Service in 2months time and she's aware
Read what you wrote

But this time read it slowly

She has a Boo

But because you want to sub for her she should accept you as Boyfriend no.2

Does that make any sense?

So when a guy with more money comes you expect her to be loyal to you abigrin

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by liljboy(m): 3:36pm On Jan 30, 2020
eaddyboy:
Hi guys, pls I need your input and advice

I met this girl through a female friend of mine (connection) and we got talking, I told her plainly and directly without mincing words that I want her to be my girlfriend and I explain to her reasons for her to see things through albiet I have limited time to stay in the state due to my work and she got my point but said she has a boyfriend who's outside the state serving, that at best she can only be friends with me - checking up on me, coming around to talk and all that but nothing more not even hugs as she can't double date and also get involved sexually with another guy.

fast forward today and almost a week, she texted me on Whatsapp and ask how I'm doing, she started enquiring about my welfare and all.... then boom she asked me to sub her phone and also give her money for her hair which equals 5k.

I asked her if that will make her accept my proposal (being my girlfriend and other benefits attached) she replied "Ehn ehn" and that "she will try to think about it"

I then told her that doesn't sound positive, she replied 'i have heard you'

I'm a corpers and still receiving stipends from Federal government, I told her there's no cash now pending when Govt will pay us, she said ok, and that I shouldn't forget her when the money comes.

Now I'm having second thoughts not to even give her at all, initially I wanted to give her like 3k.... is it worth it at all or should I let it pass ??

N/B I'm leaving Service in 2months time and she's aware
one chance... No intimacy but billing go dey
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by SOFTDRINK: 3:54pm On Jan 30, 2020
eaddyboy:
Hi guys, pls I need your input and advice

I met this girl through a female friend of mine (connection) and we got talking, I told her plainly and directly without mincing words that I want her to be my girlfriend and I explain to her reasons for her to see things through albiet I have limited time to stay in the state due to my work and she got my point but said she has a boyfriend who's outside the state serving, that at best she can only be friends with me - checking up on me, coming around to talk and all that but nothing more not even hugs as she can't double date and also get involved sexually with another guy.

fast forward today and almost a week, she texted me on Whatsapp and ask how I'm doing, she started enquiring about my welfare and all.... then boom she asked me to sub her phone and also give her money for her hair which equals 5k.

I asked her if that will make her accept my proposal (being my girlfriend and other benefits attached) she replied "Ehn ehn" and that "she will try to think about it"

I then told her that doesn't sound positive, she replied 'i have heard you'

I'm a corpers and still receiving stipends from Federal government, I told her there's no cash now pending when Govt will pay us, she said ok, and that I shouldn't forget her when the money comes.

Now I'm having second thoughts not to even give her at all, initially I wanted to give her like 3k.... is it worth it at all or should I let it pass ??

N/B I'm leaving Service in 2months time and she's aware
So,after all the four years you spend for school, you no get common sense to know say that girl no regard or respect you.


Guy,if you call or text that girl again for any reason,you need to cut off your balls and give it to dogs to munch for dinner,cos you're not worth to have such jewels in-between your thighs.




Which kind Sissy we dey get these days sef?

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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by eaddyboy: 3:55pm On Jan 30, 2020
2dice01:
Read what you wrote

But this time read it slowly

She has a Boo

But because you want to sub for her she should accept you as Boyfriend no.2

Does that make any sense?

So when a guy with more money comes you expect her to be loyal to you abigrin

I'm not that interested in being the boyfriend per se, it's just for the nacks bro.. I've got a girlfriend at my state where I'm returning to in a two months and I don't fancy Oloshos which she even suggested to me the other time
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by eaddyboy: 3:56pm On Jan 30, 2020
liljboy:
one chance... No intimacy but billing go dey

Intimacy must dey bro!

for the record; it's just for the nackscheesy

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