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healthserve:
Don't mind them their eyes go tear. I have a few female acquaintances that are between 28-35. Each look at their facial expression tells the tale explicitly

ubunja:
Nice one bro.
Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks.

Alpha is the original term for the alphabetical letter "A". Beta is the original term for the alphabetical letter "B".

Alphas get for free what Betas pay top dollar for. (and still not get)

Or to put it another way: Players, Bad Boys and Thugs fvck pussy they are not paying for. While Nice Guys, Simps and Husband Material men, pay for pussy they are not fvcking.

When younger, women date Players and Bad Boys (the As) for fun, then when they get older, sometimes as single mothers after maybe 30 when they wanna settle down cause they're tired they then give Nice Guys (the Bs) their chance. The Bs (betas) then marry and spend on these women.

But even before marriage, in day to day, when girls are younger, the thugs/players/bad boys always get the pussy free while the good guy/church guy/nice guy has to spend and even then not get the pussy because the girl will tell him "No sex before marriage," "I'm celibate" or some other shiit like that. Generally if you're a good guy who's Husband Material you'll not get the sex before marriage because the girl is "saving" you for marriage. When you'll have that honor of eating bad boys' left overs.

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Another term for "Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks" is "Female Dual Mating Strategy".

What Female Dual Mating Strategy means is that Women generally group all men under Two groups: The Fvckers and The Providers.

A Woman has two needs: Money and Sex.
In a perfect world she would be getting both these things from one man.

But the problem is the Man who has the money usually is not the best Fvcker, while Man who is the best Fvcker usually is not the man with the money. So a woman is forced to date 2 men at the same time: The man with money but who can't dick her nicely (dating him publicly) and at the same time date the man who can dick her proper but who is broke (dating him secretly).

These Two men each brings what the other can't
bring. One brings the dollars, another brings the dick.

Which leads to the man with the money ending up raising the broke man's child unawares. While the broke man himself has all manner of pussy knocking at his door (because he doesn't work so he has the energy and time for extended sex and becomes extremely skilled at sex) yet he will have no woman to call his own or to walk publicly with
because he is essentially a "secret" women are keeping amongst themselves. (Yes, women secretly rotate a jobless broke man who can fvck, amongst themselves like a sort of a sex slave. Sometimes women can pool money together and rent a place for the guy so as to access his dick at their
own convenience)


Its very rare for a man to be a total package to a woman.


If you're a jobless broke man who can only provide sex, the greatest threat to your relationship is a working guy who can provide money.
If you're a working guy who can provide money, the greatest threat to your relationship is a jobless broke man who can provide sex.


Which means a poor man's GF will cheat with a rich man. While a rich man's GF will cheat with a jobless bum.


Its the Female Dual Mating Strategy. The Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks.


And "Alpha" does not mean successful in terms of world and career but successful in dating and reproduction. The men who are a success in the world and careers are the Betas. Which makes them the Providers in the first place.

Kennedyiheme02:
they have hit the wall at thag age of 30

healthserve:
Players, Bad Boys and Thugs fvck pussy they are not paying for. While Nice Guys, Simps and Husband Material men, pay for pussy they are not fvcking.

Wicked. This is the 20% of male folks fvcking the 80% of female folks ideology. God help beta guys

Omar09:
Treating a lady right or wrong, princess of queen does not guarantee your entry into heaven. But that's not my point here.

My point being our parents should have taught us to treat everyone with equal measurement of treatment we receive from them.

Kennedyiheme02:
i tell men.. never love a woman, you should only like her.. the only woman you should love is your mother... i remember in boarding school, there was this bad friend of mine that was banging the head girl of the school.. she had a beta boyfriend in school oo. Brilliant boy, he was the health prefect, very clean fresh boy... guess what she got banged almost everynight by a bad boy in my set that repeated, he was a dullard in class. But his game was tight

ubunja:
guys like you are the reason I'm raising my daughter to be a gold digger. No way can she slave 9-5 at some job while naive fellas like you exist. And guess what? Guys who reason like you are about 80% of the male population. She's gonna have such an easy life...

healthserve:
The same shiiit has happened to moi before until I knew what was happening. Lady was fvcking her pastor who was deceitfully spinning her brains btw he fvcker her, ate her money made her do chores. When she, her mum and sisters see me walk pass after they knew what was happening, they hide, turn their faces, look down, look away with great shame and regret. Twas after the incident I came out under my clout and showed stuff I was made of Dem wan die

. Thank God I don't love again. I walked away like I was never there

yeyeosoronga:
You can raise your daughter to be a gold digger. Nobody should tell you how to raise your own child.
Meanwhile, the said Ciara we're talking about on this thread is worth over $20million dollars even without her husband's wealth. She had her own money before meeting Future or her husband Russell.
Like I insinuated earlier, the real life out there is beyond your beliefs. Being a true alpha male is way bigger than getting some random chicks. Wayyyy bigger. Ponder on this before it's too late and you realise you've wasted so much time on irrelevancies, and not made hay while the sun shone.
An alpha male is top of the game in ALL aspects of his life. Not just in romantic relationships, which is just a small fraction of life in itself.
Russell doesn't need to get married to get sex. He was married to a white woman before who screwed him over. He had women chasing him, before he met Ciara and hit off with her. He decided their relationship wasn't going to be sexual till they got married. What is sex? Anybody can get sex. Even mad people on the streets get sex.
He's the true definition of an alpha male with self control, who knows what he wants and sticks with it. Ciara didn't get Russell because of her head game, he set the tone for their relationship.
Who has better self control? A man with 5 baby mamas or the one married with children? And you dare to call him a simp?
In ALL aspects of Russell's life, he got control. Serious control. You hardly hear about his 1st marriage, because she did him dirty and that situation was put quickly under control.
Being alpha is an all rounder status o. High emotional intelligence is just a small part of being an alpha (male or female), and that encompasses both your relationship with other men and women (not only with the opposite sex/those you're interested in romantically)
You cannot be an alpha only in women affairs. In financial, social, healthwise, etc affairs. True alphas are impactful leaders.
Professionally they're the boss,
Financially in control,
Mentally strong kakaraka,
They always harmonise their group, Always. People are drawn to them, and they make things work for everyone including the females around them
They are known as solution providers by everyone around them.
Strong sense of family and not dysfunctional like your guy Future whom you used as a reference for an alpha- he is estranged from his father who was never present in his life unlike Russell with strong family ties. Future has 5 to 6 baby mamas, and still counting. Raising more dysfunctional children.
They are Highly ambitious people
I could go on and on about alphas.
Being a red piller doesn't make you an alpha, so do not confuse the two. Perhaps that's where NL red pillers are making the mistake by thinking they are synonymous with each other. Same way being a feminist doesn't make you an alpha female either.

Martinez39s:
I don't get, they all knew she was being fùcked by the clergy but never said anything to you? If that's the case, then it's common.

healthserve:
She went to clergy to find out if I'll make a good husband despite she seeing my work ethics as I had an office in the clergy's domain ( I relocated to the city ), she joined the guy's church. Clergy hired me to digitize his church, so I had an office allocated ... That's how we met. Chemistry was made, connection was a bomb, same characteristics, brilliant chic, works in a multinational, so we balanced. So she went to consult clergy bout moi and after a while them don dey fvck. Mainwhile I went to my family and friends who know us all to make a marriage proposal behind her. Bro I made a 50 page business setup plan as my wedding gift to the bar o. The business is up and doing btw. My family and friends we're waiting but I was watching. I don't give in to women easily. So while I don't dress rich. Business was in process with the hope that I'll propose cause our chemistry was made and the fondness was mad. Only for me to discover she was fvcking clergy


She later found out clergy was broke, and not an American citizen as he claimed but was using " alphaness ". He was milking her, sexing her and bad mouthing me because he wanted to make sure I didn't marry her ( btw she's half Canadian/half Nigerian ), clergy didn't just want sex cause he knew I wanted her and I'd asked him for her hand in marriage prsonally he wanted it ruined before it started. This is a lesson for people who don't test people before trusting them

She will cry a lifetime. Men my stature are few.

Martinez the last time she and her sisters saw me they rna into their car and hid in it till I left the arena


The best trait a woman can ever have is loyalty.

purples25:
Why are you making women look so wicked again? So you guys don't do all these? And so if a lady has had sex before, she doesn't deserve to settle down. The person that settles with her is a fool. Then men can fvck all they want and marry good women right? His Dyck is not a used product but her pussy is? What's wrong with your sense of judgment sef? If we pick all of you now to see who is virtuous amongst you, no man doing all this shiii will pass the test. Abeg behave jare.

Martinez39s:
It's true that loyalty is the best trait a woman can have but it's also true that women are never loyalty. They are never yours, it's just your turn and a matter of how long you are going to remain useful to them.

purples25:
Why are you making women look so wicked again? So you guys don't do all these? And so if a lady has had sex before, she doesn't deserve to settle down. The person that settles with her is a fool. Then men can fvck all they want and marry good women right? His Dyck is not a used product but her pussy is? What's wrong with your sense of judgment sef? If we pick all of you now to see who is virtuous amongst you, no man doing all this shiii will pass the test. Abeg behave jare.

The tragedy here is that you think you are better but you are not, not by a far shot. Only that society decieves you.

yeyeosoronga:
You can raise your daughter to be a gold digger. Nobody should tell you how to raise your own child.
Meanwhile, the said Ciara we're talking about on this thread is worth over $20million dollars even without her husband's wealth. She had her own money before meeting Future or her husband Russell.
Like I insinuated earlier, the real life out there is beyond your beliefs. Being a true alpha male is way bigger than getting some random chicks. Wayyyy bigger. Ponder on this before it's too late and you realise you've wasted so much time on irrelevancies, and not made hay while the sun shone.
An alpha male is top of the game in ALL aspects of his life. Not just in romantic relationships, which is just a small fraction of life in itself.
Russell doesn't need to get married to get sex. He was married to a white woman before who screwed him over. He had women chasing him, before he met Ciara and hit off with her. He decided their relationship wasn't going to be sexual till they got married. What is sex? Anybody can get sex. Even mad people on the streets get sex.
He's the true definition of an alpha male with self control, who knows what he wants and sticks with it. Ciara didn't get Russell because of her head game, he set the tone for their relationship.
Who has better self control? A man with 5 baby mamas or the one married with children? And you dare to call him a simp?
In ALL aspects of Russell's life, he got control. Serious control. You hardly hear about his 1st marriage, because she did him dirty and that situation was put quickly under control.
Being alpha is an all rounder status o. High emotional intelligence is just a small part of being an alpha (male or female), and that encompasses both your relationship with other men and women (not only with the opposite sex/those you're interested in romantically)
You cannot be an alpha only in women affairs. In financial, social, healthwise, etc affairs. True alphas are impactful leaders.
Professionally they're the boss,
Financially in control,
Mentally strong kakaraka,
They always harmonise their group, Always. People are drawn to them, and they make things work for everyone including the females around them
They are known as solution providers by everyone around them.
Strong sense of family and not dysfunctional like your guy Future whom you used as a reference for an alpha- he is estranged from his father who was never present in his life unlike Russell with strong family ties. Future has 5 to 6 baby mamas, and still counting. Raising more dysfunctional children.
They are Highly ambitious people
I could go on and on about alphas.
Being a red piller doesn't make you an alpha, so do not confuse the two. Perhaps that's where NL red pillers are making the mistake by thinking they are synonymous with each other. Same way being a feminist doesn't make you an alpha female either.

yeyeosoronga:
Future is so much an alpha, yet keeps sweating about whenever he hears anything about Ciara.
She has moved on from him.
Russell has also being burned by love in the past. He is a divorcee btw, and he has met a woman who values his 'beta-ness', that woman is Ciara.
Russell is all things Future wishes he was. A respectable member of the society, a gentleman to the core. Being alpha doesn't mean you have to live a thug life.
It would make a lot of sense if the so called alfalfa males on NL can get their lives in order. Settle your 'future', and don't wake up tomorrow bitter about life.
Russell is enjoying his little family, devoid of drama except the one future brings when throwing tantrums. Future is seen as a joke, a scorned lover. Ciara is pregnant with her 2nd child for her sweet husband, living the life.
What better definition of an alpha male than Russell Wilson? A physically fit man, a goal getter, courageous, who has his shit together, not afraid to say his mind including announcing to the world Ciara is for him and he for her others can chop s#it. A purposeful man.
Why do self acclaimed NL alfalfa are only alfas in women affairs? Is that all there is to being an alfafa male? You guys are such a joke, and a disappointment. You don't seem to have any purpose for your life. There is more to life than getting soaked up in relationship and women matters. You will look back and find out your mates have left you behind.
When have you ever called yourselves together as alfalfas to discuss business ideas and professional courses to up your game (pls, not talking about upping your game as per women matter)? When have you ever encouraged yourselves to stay healthy, make better lifestyle choices such as practicing safe sex and not visiting ashawo joints, stopping smoking, reducing your alcohol intake, regular exercises by exchanging gym contacts or even meeting up at the gym to stay healthy? Have you even ever discussed the scourge of prostate cancer or even kidney failure killing young men about these days?
Why do you limit your alphaness to only women matters? Don't leave it too late till you get disillusioned .
A word is enough for the wise. Woman matter is the least of your troubles in this life.

Michellekabod2:
well spoken... Only on Nl I have seen an alpha defined as one who fukcs ladies easily only (sure they may do so but that's not all).
I have always known alphas to be the most dominant of all males. Highest in hierarchy and controls power.
We have reduced the standard of alpha males to JUST being a player. An alpha can't be compared to such. Alpha will never sweet tongue or deceive you into sex,that's a player's work . He tells you bluntly of his intention to sleep with you,and move on from you.
Still don't know how redpiller=alpha male. Redpill makes you woke and become aware of the feminine nature,saving you from being a mangina,cuckhold or a wimp. While alpha is a male endowed with so much masculinity ,valour and power that he commands so much attention, envy et Al.

I HAVE TO ADMIT THAT I'M ALSO CONFUSED ABOUT THE ACTIVITIES OF THE MODERN MEN. ONE MINUTE YOU'RE RED PILL. THE NEXT MINUTE YOU'RE ALPHA. THE NEXT TIME YOU'RE FXCKING A LOT OF GIRLS EASILY. NEXT MOMENT IT'S VIRGINITY AND NEWSPAPER. FOLLOWED BY ANTI-LEECH MOVEMENTS, THEN BRANDING MEN WHO OPPOSE ONE OF THESE MULTIPLE ABNORMALITIES "A SIMP".

THEN OFFLINE, HE'S EITHER SPENDING ALL HIS 8-5 SALARY OR WASHING WOMEN'S UNDIES JUST TO BE ALLOWED TO SEE BREASTS.

CAPSLOCKED:
I HAVE TO ADMIT THAT I'M ALSO CONFUSED ABOUT THE ACTIVITIES OF THE MODERN MEN. ONE MINUTE YOU'RE RED PILL. THE NEXT MINUTE YOU'RE ALPHA. THE NEXT TIME YOU'RE FXCKING A LOT OF GIRLS EASILY. NEXT MOMENT IT'S VIRGINITY AND NEWSPAPER. FOLLOWED BY ANTI-LEECH MOVEMENTS, THEN BRANDING MEN WHO OPPOSE ONE OF THESE MULTIPLE ABNORMALITIES "A SIMP".

THEN OFFLINE, HE'S EITHER SPENDING ALL HIS 8-5 SALARY OR WASHING WOMEN'S UNDIES JUST TO BE ALLOWED TO SEE BREASTS.

Michellekabod2:
Question this and they say you are opposing " truth".

Well...

I don't like the way the true meaning of alpha has been reduced. It pains me,its an insult to those brave, courageous males that shaped histories and broke records. Their memories are being insulted each time someone reduces the standard of alphas to a PUA . They are worth more than that

Omar09:
After all I read from you, seen on this platform and witnessed first hand, I'd never make that mistake of marrying someone I love. She has to be the one to love me and then I reciprocate.

Kennedyiheme02:
Lol what this simply means is, its the alphas that use women and aren't ready to commit to a woman, then the women run to the beta's for a committed relationship cos she knows he's a simp and would quickly oblige... just take a look at ciara and russell wilson... She's being seriously rammed by future, had her slutty days with him, even has a kid for him, 50 cent had a piece of that pie too... but poor beta rusell wilson was the one that took the bait and settled for her used pussy.. damn.. betas are the providers.. .. I'll keep bringing that knowledge.. i know alot of people get informed from all this...

BanevsJoker:
Wow! You just outed yourself. Please remove that (f) from your moniker.

TheSyndrome:
Your talk made no sense. So ciara didnt have her slutty days with 50cents before future came.
True alpha dont even come online to rant, only the self proclaim ones.
Alpha my ass.

yeyeosoronga:
Future is so much an alpha, yet keeps sweating about whenever he hears anything about Ciara.
She has moved on from him.
Russell has also being burned by love in the past. He is a divorcee btw, and he has met a woman who values his 'beta-ness', that woman is Ciara.
Russell is all things Future wishes he was. A respectable member of the society, a gentleman to the core. Being alpha doesn't mean you have to live a thug life.
It would make a lot of sense if the so called alfalfa males on NL can get their lives in order. Settle your 'future', and don't wake up tomorrow bitter about life.
Russell is enjoying his little family, devoid of drama except the one future brings when throwing tantrums. Future is seen as a joke, a scorned lover. Ciara is pregnant with her 2nd child for her sweet husband, living the life.
What better definition of an alpha male than Russell Wilson? A physically fit man, a goal getter, courageous, who has his shit together, not afraid to say his mind including announcing to the world Ciara is for him and he for her others can chop s#it. A purposeful man.
Why do self acclaimed NL alfalfa are only alfas in women affairs? Is that all there is to being an alfafa male? You guys are such a joke, and a disappointment. You don't seem to have any purpose for your life. There is more to life than getting soaked up in relationship and women matters. You will look back and find out your mates have left you behind.
When have you ever called yourselves together as alfalfas to discuss business ideas and professional courses to up your game (pls, not talking about upping your game as per women matter)? When have you ever encouraged yourselves to stay healthy, make better lifestyle choices such as practicing safe sex and not visiting ashawo joints, stopping smoking, reducing your alcohol intake, regular exercises by exchanging gym contacts or even meeting up at the gym to stay healthy? Have you even ever discussed the scourge of prostate cancer or even kidney failure killing young men about these days?
Why do you limit your alphaness to only women matters? Don't leave it too late till you get disillusioned .
A word is enough for the wise. Woman matter is the least of your troubles in this life.

Arsenate:
This pix below is what the beta gets, and that's after parting with lots of bucks. Funnily women genuinely believe they are doing the beta a favour settling with him because they are offering commitment, which they value so much.

Skepticus:
The pussy cartel trying to deflect in their typical manner.

We've heard you, cûnt!

Can you know do us an honourable favour of getting the fúck outta here!

Michellekabod2:
well spoken... Only on Nl I have seen an alpha defined as one who fukcs ladies easily only (sure they may do so but that's not all).
I have always known alphas to be the most dominant of all males. Highest in hierarchy and controls power.
We have reduced the standard of alpha males to JUST being a player. An alpha can't be compared to such. Alpha will never sweet tongue or deceive you into sex,that's a player's work . He tells you bluntly of his intention to sleep with you,and move on from you.
Still don't know how redpiller=alpha male. Redpill makes you woke and become aware of the feminine nature,saving you from being a mangina,cuckhold or a wimp. While alpha is a male endowed with so much masculinity ,valour and power that he commands so much attention, envy et Al.

Kennedyiheme02:
Lol what this simply means is, its the alphas that use women and aren't ready to commit to a woman, then the women run to the beta's for a committed relationship cos she knows he's a simp and would quickly oblige... just take a look at ciara and russell wilson... She's being seriously rammed by future, had her slutty days with him, even has a kid for him, 50 cent had a piece of that pie too... but poor beta rusell wilson was the one that took the bait and settled for her used pussy.. damn.. betas are the providers.. .. I'll keep bringing that knowledge.. i know alot of people get informed from all this...

yeyeosoronga:
Only time will tell...

StandUpGuy247:
No darling, I used to be a Beta male (Mr nice guy), and got burned, disrespected and used by women.

Since reading from ubunja, I've reprogrammed my mindset. I now chase the money and tell the bitches to go fvck themselves.

Believe it or not, it has gotten me more respect and girls especially in my street I no longer send are the ones now looking for my attention.

My current babe wanted to play the prank of "no sex before marriage" when we first started. I stood my ground and gave her reasons why it's bulpsh1t especially when you're not a virgin, yet want me to stay loyal.

Guess what, we fvcking steady and although I like her, I'm not letting myself down ever again.

She's even scared I'll leave her cos of how women now spy me

I have a married student that compalined of me being strong headed (not easily controlled). That men generally are "mumu" for women. (In her own words).

I understand ya'll now and I say to myself "Never Again".

Omar09:
You are getting this all wrong. I do know one thing, most guys on here are just hypocrite and that's good. It's bound to happen, it's life. Let me get you to understand the things I stand for. An Alpha male and A Redpiller.

One of the qualities of an Alpha male is being woke. Of which you clearly stated and it's true red pill makes one woke. About you saying an Alpha male has to be blunt about his intentions of having sex with a lady, it doesn't work that way. Him saying his intentions is like him defining the relationship which usually don't go well with most women. He knows any girl who just accepts his intentions of just having sex is a damaged girl. You tell a girl your intentions straight forward, it's a big turn off. Now about sweet talking, what do you mean by that? Cause I don't see a "dominant" having a normal sexual text with a girl he likes and she reciprocates being sweet talking. That's not fair the way you put it. An Alpha guy invites a girl over to his house for dinner, of which sex is bound to happen with consent, and you call that sweet talk? I'd like to hear your version of sweet talk. Cause going direct most times is a huge turn off on most women, unless you both have reached a certain level of being comfortable with each other. That a man making his intentions of having sex with you at the get go works on you doesn't mean it will work on any other female. You and your type are a minority to the major hypocritical women who gets turned off with that initial intention. But still, I want to know what you mean by sweet talking one into sex.