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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by emmaodet: 11:51pm On Feb 13|
I think Life is Unfair especially to Good, Nice and Quiet Guys.
But from my observation, all the bad things our parent, family and community warn us about which they claim are Sin are what makes you Virtually an Alfa.
Does it mean all the warnings and threats of going to Hell fire are false? Because the right thing and normal thing to do in a relationship is to respect a lady and treat are like a queen but it seems you need to go the opposite direction for you to be appreciated.
It is a Crazy world out there, things are not the way we think it should be.
Fuvk Nature and the Creator for turning everything upside down while still threatening you with Hell fire if you go the wrong way which is the right way anyway.
Fuvk All the Gods, Fuvk them all for playing with our intelligence because what is normal is not normal at all.
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by Kennedyiheme02: 12:04am On Feb 14|
emmaodet:it was never like this in 1930s.. things have changed hence change in strategy
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by Omar09(f): 12:12am On Feb 14|
Treating a lady right or wrong, princess of queen does not guarantee your entry into heaven. But that's not my point here.
My point being our parents should have taught us to treat everyone with equal measurement of treatment we receive from them.
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by galadima77(m): 12:51am On Feb 14|
Got this couple in my fmr neighborhood. The husband is so damn quiet and easy flowing whereas words have it the pretty wife who's in her late thirties used to be one hell of a #### in this same hood.
She's got a child before their union for someone else and had the guts to rent an apartment where some dude used to lay her way back.
Now the union is yet to be blessed after many years but she doesn't seem bothered.
Still got some different dudes bringing her home at ungodly hours
Just imagine how guys see this dude.
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by Kennedyiheme02: 1:07am On Feb 14|
galadima77:this is the reality.. these things happen everyday..
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by yeyeosoronga: 1:19am On Feb 14|
Future is so much an alpha, yet keeps sweating about whenever he hears anything about Ciara.
She has moved on from him.
Russell has also being burned by love in the past. He is a divorcee btw, and he has met a woman who values his 'beta-ness', that woman is Ciara.
Russell is all things Future wishes he was. A respectable member of the society, a gentleman to the core. Being alpha doesn't mean you have to live a thug life.
It would make a lot of sense if the so called alfalfa males on NL can get their lives in order. Settle your 'future', and don't wake up tomorrow bitter about life.
Russell is enjoying his little family, devoid of drama except the one future brings when throwing tantrums. Future is seen as a joke, a scorned lover. Ciara is pregnant with her 2nd child for her sweet husband, living the life.
What better definition of an alpha male than Russell Wilson? A physically fit man, a goal getter, courageous, who has his shit together, not afraid to say his mind including announcing to the world Ciara is for him and he for her others can chop s#it. A purposeful man.
Why do self acclaimed NL alfalfa are only alfas in women affairs? Is that all there is to being an alfafa male? You guys are such a joke, and a disappointment. You don't seem to have any purpose for your life. There is more to life than getting soaked up in relationship and women matters. You will look back and find out your mates have left you behind.
When have you ever called yourselves together as alfalfas to discuss business ideas and professional courses to up your game (pls, not talking about upping your game as per women matter)? When have you ever encouraged yourselves to stay healthy, make better lifestyle choices such as practicing safe sex and not visiting ashawo joints, stopping smoking, reducing your alcohol intake, regular exercises by exchanging gym contacts or even meeting up at the gym to stay healthy? Have you even ever discussed the scourge of prostate cancer or even kidney failure killing young men about these days?
Why do you limit your alphaness to only women matters? Don't leave it too late till you get disillusioned .
A word is enough for the wise. Woman matter is the least of your troubles in this life.
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by ubunja(f): 1:34am On Feb 14|
galadima77:That's women for you. After attaining financial security by marriage, they then seek to attain Sexual Security. That's why married women are so easy to fvck. Because single women are still working to "secure the bag" thru finding a Provider so broke men are disqualified quick quick. But after the marriage has been acquired, broke guys can apply. Broke guys don't know that the girl who dissed them before marriage, after marriage she can easily accept.
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by ubunja(f): 1:45am On Feb 14|
yeyeosoronga:guys like you are the reason I'm raising my daughter to be a gold digger. No way can she slave 9-5 at some job while naive fellas like you exist. And guess what? Guys who reason like you are about 80% of the male population. She's gonna have such an easy life...
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by Unpussified: 2:06am On Feb 14|
Damn, dat turkey looks like its been rammed and battered a thousand times.
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by Techcrunchng(m): 2:10am On Feb 14|
So the so called alpha would never get married?
|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by femi4: 5:14am On Feb 14|
Hoyindarmolar:The society is now familiar with the first two letters in greek alphabets
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by Kennedyiheme02: 5:31am On Feb 14|
ubunja:these are the Betas women pray for, good kind man that worships her and loves her.. while she gets her mouth rammed with cum every night on her way home from work by the alfa bad boy she used to date before he married her
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by ubunja(f): 5:38am On Feb 14|
Kennedyiheme02:if a man won't hear then let him suffer the consequences.
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by ubunja(f): 5:39am On Feb 14|
femi4:ha ha ha.
|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by ubunja(f): 5:46am On Feb 14|
Techcrunchng:marriage in itself is how Betas can get a lifetime supply of sex. Men marry for sex, women marry for money. If a man gets all the sex he needs without having to get married then he'll have little reason to get married. Though he can marry. Just like when a woman has her own money she has little reason to get married. Though she can marry.
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by ubunja(f): 5:54am On Feb 14|
Arsenate:I love you for this...
In reality the Beta sees himself as getting a nice deal. That's why convincing him otherwise is such a waste of time. All he knows is that finally a pretty woman has committed to him. Nevermind she brings two kids, after all he can afford to raise them (hasn't he been working and saving money all these years while unproductive thugs screwed their life away?)
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by emmaodet: 6:10am On Feb 14|
God pls save me from Karashikas!!!!!!!
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by yeyeosoronga: 6:41am On Feb 14|
You can raise your daughter to be a gold digger. Nobody should tell you how to raise your own child.
Meanwhile, the said Ciara we're talking about on this thread is worth over $20million dollars even without her husband's wealth. She had her own money before meeting Future or her husband Russell.
Like I insinuated earlier, the real life out there is beyond your beliefs. Being a true alpha male is way bigger than getting some random chicks. Wayyyy bigger. Ponder on this before it's too late and you realise you've wasted so much time on irrelevancies, and not made hay while the sun shone.
An alpha male is top of the game in ALL aspects of his life. Not just in romantic relationships, which is just a small fraction of life in itself.
Russell doesn't need to get married to get sex. He was married to a white woman before who screwed him over. He had women chasing him, before he met Ciara and hit off with her. He decided their relationship wasn't going to be sexual till they got married. What is sex? Anybody can get sex. Even mad people on the streets get sex.
He's the true definition of an alpha male with self control, who knows what he wants and sticks with it. Ciara didn't get Russell because of her head game, he set the tone for their relationship.
Who has better self control? A man with 5 baby mamas or the one married with children? And you dare to call him a simp?
In ALL aspects of Russell's life, he got control. Serious control. You hardly hear about his 1st marriage, because she did him dirty and that situation was put quickly under control.
Being alpha is an all rounder status o. High emotional intelligence is just a small part of being an alpha (male or female), and that encompasses both your relationship with other men and women (not only with the opposite sex/those you're interested in romantically)
You cannot be an alpha only in women affairs, but also in financial, social, healthwise, etc affairs. True alphas are impactful leaders.
Professionally they're the boss,
Financially in control,
Mentally strong kakaraka,
They always harmonise their group, Always. People are drawn to them, and they make things work for everyone including the females around them
They are known as solution providers by everyone around them.
Strong sense of family and not dysfunctional like your guy Future whom you used as a reference for an alpha- he is estranged from his father who was never present in his life unlike Russell with strong family ties. Future has 5 to 6 baby mamas, and still counting. Raising more dysfunctional children.
They are Highly ambitious people
I could go on and on about alphas.
Being a red piller doesn't make you an alpha, so do not confuse the two. Perhaps that's where NL red pillers are making the mistake by thinking they are synonymous with each other. Same way being a feminist doesn't make you an alpha female either.
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by GiantParrot(m): 6:44am On Feb 14|
There are very few things as irritating as the sight of a beta cuck.
|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by ubunja(f): 6:50am On Feb 14|
yeyeosoronga:I read the first two paragraphs and the rest I just skeemed through. Try to keep your responses at a manageable length.
Continue spreading your gospel. Our daughters need more like you. And soon soon we'll even send our wives to scam you.
A fool and his money are soon parted.
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by GeneralPula: 6:59am On Feb 14|
This your pic
|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by StandUpGuy247: 7:08am On Feb 14|
Bro, I need to thank you personally.
Your blog and contributions here really opened my eyes to the mischief of the hoes.
If I want to start typing the wonderful experiences your contributions have given me, this place go full.
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by ubunja(f): 7:14am On Feb 14|
StandUpGuy247:you sir, have just put a smile on my face. God bless you.
|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by Petyprincess(f): 7:20am On Feb 14|
Mtchew Ubun.ja wannabe
When will y'all get it that all this shit you typing will change nothing? It's only on nairaland every one is an alpha male,tomorrow you will nw open an anonymous account lamenting hw a girl broke your heart.
|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by yeyeosoronga: 7:25am On Feb 14|
Only time will tell...
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by StandUpGuy247: 7:35am On Feb 14|
No darling, I used to be a Beta male (Mr nice guy), and got burned, disrespected and used by women.
Since reading from ubunja, I've reprogrammed my mindset. I now chase the money and tell the bitches to go fvck themselves.
Believe it or not, it has gotten me more respect and girls especially in my street I no longer send are the ones now looking for my attention.
My current babe wanted to play the prank of "no sex before marriage" when we first started. I stood my ground and gave her reasons why it's bulpsh1t especially when you're not a virgin, yet want me to stay loyal.
Guess what, we fvcking steady and although I like her, I'm not letting myself down ever again.
She's even scared I'll leave her cos of how women now spy me
I have a married student that compalined of me being strong headed (not easily controlled). That men generally are "mumu" for women. (In her own words).
I understand ya'll now and I say to myself "Never Again".
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by CorGier: 7:42am On Feb 14|
I see them spewing the same trite and banal nonsense all over the place and I can't help but smh. Simp this, simp that; beta this, alpha that. Then rinse and repeat. Jesus on a fücking bike how mechanical can one get? Fine you've seen the material and you're experiencing some modicum of an epiphany, but have you really imbibed the precepts of the RP?
Imagine one poster on the previous talking about "alphas" not being successful career-wise and I'm like wtf? So fücking till your dick falls off, drinking, smoking and playing videogames all day while screaming 'simp' 'simp' all over the place is what makes one alpha? Do away with those labels, cos Lord knows y'all have bastardized that word one time too many on here. Please better yourselves in every sense of the word - get an education, a higher degree if possible, build/set-up a career plan, lift, eat right, invest in yourself.
Because if at the end of the day you can't, with all confidence, look yourself in the mirror and see a male of high value staring back at you, then boy you've got it all wrong.
If you real 'yon say it we gon feel it - Wale.
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by healthserve(m): 8:02am On Feb 14|
Don't take it this serious please. The story hasn't ended. It's the end that justifies and redeems in the case of good guys
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by healthserve(m): 8:03am On Feb 14|
Don't mind them their eyes go tear. I have a few female acquaintances that are between 28-35. Each look at their facial expression tells the tale explicitly
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by healthserve(m): 8:35am On Feb 14|
Lol @ " Simp " son
|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by Kennedyiheme02: 8:36am On Feb 14|
StandUpGuy247:now this is exactly ehy these women try to derail threads because they know men actually get enlightened.. follow this guy, donovan Sharpe.. very smart guy, he actually reveals alot about all these things..
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|Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by Kennedyiheme02: 8:36am On Feb 14|
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