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StandUpGuy247:
No darling, I used to be a Beta male (Mr nice guy), and got burned, disrespected and used by women.

Since reading from ubunja, I've reprogrammed my mindset. I now chase the money and tell the bitches to go fvck themselves.

Believe it or not, it has gotten me more respect and girls especially in my street I no longer send are the ones now looking for my attention.

My current babe wanted to play the prank of "no sex before marriage" when we first started. I stood my ground and gave her reasons why it's bulpsh1t especially when you're not a virgin, yet want me to stay loyal.

Guess what, we fvcking steady and although I like her, I'm not letting myself down ever again.

She's even scared I'll leave her cos of how women now spy me

I have a married student that compalined of me being strong headed (not easily controlled). That men generally are "mumu" for women. (In her own words).

I understand ya'll now and I say to myself "Never Again".

never again bruhh

Skepticus:
The pussy cartel trying to deflect in their typical manner.

We've heard you, cûnt!

Can you know do us an honourable favour of getting the fúck outta here!

Fool
Son of a thousand fathers
We see the number your LovePeddler of a mother did on you
Spits

Michellekabod2:
sweet tongue is telling her you love her,asking her out and dating her to taste the pussy and go.
That's the sweet tongue I mean.

You see, if men don't do these and go straight to the point, they get called sexist. But when the go through this process, they get termed tricksters, con men and liars. So how do you propose a man should go about getting laid?

healthserve:
Dude take it easy on your self. I run my company and this societal issues must be spoken about. We see how many men are ruined in marriages and how good wen support their husbands. It's the good women this seeks to celebrate and aims to praise so the foolish ones can change their ways

Being alpha is way more than your romantic life. Simple as ABC

I will leave this message on this thread.
Perhaps when I have time, I will create a thread on it:

" Until men stop seeing sex as a conquest, they will continue to be conquered by it"

Omar09:
You see, if men don't do these and go straight to the point, they get called sexist. But when the go through this process, they get termed tricksters, con men and liars. So how do you propose a man should go about getting laid?

I have never termed a guy sexist for having sex(within the confines of the law)..
Women love lies and thus get deceived into sex...

I don't know,get laid however you wish within the confines of the law

Michellekabod2:
I have never termed a guy sexist for having sex(within the confines of the law)..
Women love lies and thus get deceived into sex...

I don't know,get laid however you wish within the confines of the law

Then don't come out to say how an Alpha male can have sex with making his intentions known in the beginning. And how players sweet talk women into sex.

@bolded unless when drugged. Women are not deceived into having sex. They have sex because they want to, stop putting up rubbish in the minds of the readers out there. You can't tell me that you don't know it's sex a guy wants when he invites you to his home. That's nonsense and pure stup1dity. If you visit and eventually have sex with him, it's not called deceit. It was intentional.

ubunja:
That's women for you. After attaining financial security by marriage, they then seek to attain Sexual Security. That's why married women are so easy to fvck. Because single women are still working to "secure the bag" thru finding a Provider so broke men are disqualified quick quick. But after the marriage has been acquired, broke guys can apply. Broke guys don't know that the girl who dissed them before marriage, after marriage she can easily accept.

the best women to get married to are the red neck americans, the ones that are brought up in farms.. their parents are freaking hardcores and teach them well.. a typical farm girl doesn't care about nice cars... those ones are traditional..

Kennedyiheme02:
the best women to get married to are the red neck americans, the ones that are brought up in farms.. their parents are freaking hardcores and teach them well.. a typical farm girl doesn't care about nice cars... those ones are traditional..

the same reason Trump is doing so well in nonurban areas. They're very Conservative.

ubunja:
the same reason Trump is doing so well in nonurban areas. They're very Conservative.

exactly those farm guys are only interested in their farms, cows, trucks and making america great .. funny thing is they are rich as hell but you'd never know

yeyeosoronga:
Future is so much an alpha, yet keeps sweating about whenever he hears anything about Ciara.
She has moved on from him.
Russell has also being burned by love in the past. He is a divorcee btw, and he has met a woman who values his 'beta-ness', that woman is Ciara.
Russell is all things Future wishes he was. A respectable member of the society, a gentleman to the core. Being alpha doesn't mean you have to live a thug life.
It would make a lot of sense if the so called alfalfa males on NL can get their lives in order. Settle your 'future', and don't wake up tomorrow bitter about life.
Russell is enjoying his little family, devoid of drama except the one future brings when throwing tantrums. Future is seen as a joke, a scorned lover. Ciara is pregnant with her 2nd child for her sweet husband, living the life.
What better definition of an alpha male than Russell Wilson? A physically fit man, a goal getter, courageous, who has his shit together, not afraid to say his mind including announcing to the world Ciara is for him and he for her others can chop s#it. A purposeful man.
Why do self acclaimed NL alfalfa are only alfas in women affairs? Is that all there is to being an alfafa male? You guys are such a joke, and a disappointment. You don't seem to have any purpose for your life. There is more to life than getting soaked up in relationship and women matters. You will look back and find out your mates have left you behind.
When have you ever called yourselves together as alfalfas to discuss business ideas and professional courses to up your game (pls, not talking about upping your game as per women matter)? When have you ever encouraged yourselves to stay healthy, make better lifestyle choices such as practicing safe sex and not visiting ashawo joints, stopping smoking, reducing your alcohol intake, regular exercises by exchanging gym contacts or even meeting up at the gym to stay healthy? Have you even ever discussed the scourge of prostate cancer or even kidney failure killing young men about these days?
Why do you limit your alphaness to only women matters? Don't leave it too late till you get disillusioned .
A word is enough for the wise. Woman matter is the least of your troubles in this life.

You gaht brains

yeyeosoronga:
Future is so much an alpha, yet keeps sweating about whenever he hears anything about Ciara.
She has moved on from him.
Russell has also being burned by love in the past. He is a divorcee btw, and he has met a woman who values his 'beta-ness', that woman is Ciara.
Russell is all things Future wishes he was. A respectable member of the society, a gentleman to the core. Being alpha doesn't mean you have to live a thug life.
It would make a lot of sense if the so called alfalfa males on NL can get their lives in order. Settle your 'future', and don't wake up tomorrow bitter about life.
Russell is enjoying his little family, devoid of drama except the one future brings when throwing tantrums. Future is seen as a joke, a scorned lover. Ciara is pregnant with her 2nd child for her sweet husband, living the life.
What better definition of an alpha male than Russell Wilson? A physically fit man, a goal getter, courageous, who has his shit together, not afraid to say his mind including announcing to the world Ciara is for him and he for her others can chop s#it. A purposeful man.
Why do self acclaimed NL alfalfa are only alfas in women affairs? Is that all there is to being an alfafa male? You guys are such a joke, and a disappointment. You don't seem to have any purpose for your life. There is more to life than getting soaked up in relationship and women matters. You will look back and find out your mates have left you behind.
When have you ever called yourselves together as alfalfas to discuss business ideas and professional courses to up your game (pls, not talking about upping your game as per women matter)? When have you ever encouraged yourselves to stay healthy, make better lifestyle choices such as practicing safe sex and not visiting ashawo joints, stopping smoking, reducing your alcohol intake, regular exercises by exchanging gym contacts or even meeting up at the gym to stay healthy? Have you even ever discussed the scourge of prostate cancer or even kidney failure killing young men about these days?
Why do you limit your alphaness to only women matters? Don't leave it too late till you get disillusioned .
A word is enough for the wise. Woman matter is the least of your troubles in this life.

You gaht brains.

yeyeosoronga:
Being alpha is way more than your romantic life. Simple as ABC

I'm good financially dude

healthserve:
I'm good financially dude

You need not to prove anything to bimbos who are bent on misrepresenting the meaning of alpha male and employing subtle shaming tactics. As far as red pill is concerned, you can't make a woman concede the truth.

Martinez39s:
You need not to prove anything to bimbos who are bent on misrepresenting the meaning of alpha male and employing subtle shaming tactics. As far as red pill is concerned, you can't make a woman concede the truth.

He needs to know so he doesn't shame people from assumptions. Nairaland is just a stress outlet for me. Having come across ladies that have gone diabolical on me on more than one situations to me gives credence to these life hacks. So men can be alert.

healthserve:
He needs to know so he doesn't shame people from assumptions. Nairaland is just a stress outlet for me. Having come across ladies that have gone diabolical on me on more than one situations to me gives credence to these life hacks. So men can be alert.

Okay.

Omar09:
Honestly I've had my fair share of being both. I've been a beta and then an Alpha and I can say being an Alpha is the best one can ever discover in route to self discovery.

You just have to put yourself first, and yes it's called being selfish and it's OK.

I'm suspecting there is an untold category of men with the ability to combine both Alpha and Beta.

ubunja:
I read the first two paragraphs and the rest I just skeemed through. Try to keep your responses at a manageable length.

Continue spreading your gospel. Our daughters need more like you. And soon soon we'll even send our wives to scam you.

A fool and his money are soon parted.

You are unintelligent bro( no malice intended)

This guy is obviously schooling you but you are bent on your narrow definitions of an Alpha male.

yeyeosoronga:
Only time will tell...

Take it from me this guy you are schooling has ego issues. Its like beating a dead horse.

He just lives in his little world, He knows nothing.

themaestro08:
You are unintelligent bro( no malice intended)

This guy is obviously schooling you but you are bent on your narrow definitions of an Alpha male.

trust me ubunja is one of the best minds on this continent. Having interacted with him on and off the forum I know this firsthand. Plus, it was just a sarcastic way of tuning him to tone down on his perspectives which we're used to here

Kennedyiheme02:
Lol what this simply means is, its the alphas that use women and aren't ready to commit to a woman, then the women run to the beta's for a committed relationship cos she knows he's a simp and would quickly oblige... just take a look at ciara and russell wilson... She's being seriously rammed by future, had her slutty days with him, even has a kid for him, 50 cent had a piece of that pie too... but poor beta rusell wilson was the one that took the bait and settled for her used pussy.. damn.. betas are the providers.. .. I'll keep bringing that knowledge.. i know alot of people get informed from all this...

1. Humans change.
2. The 'Beta' provider of today was the 'Alpha Bleep' of yesterday. It is more of a stage than a personality.

Kennedyiheme02:
Lol what this simply means is, its the alphas that use women and aren't ready to commit to a woman, then the women run to the beta's for a committed relationship cos she knows he's a simp and would quickly oblige... just take a look at ciara and russell wilson... She's being seriously rammed by future, had her slutty days with him, even has a kid for him, 50 cent had a piece of that pie too... but poor beta rusell wilson was the one that took the bait and settled for her used pussy.. damn.. betas are the providers.. .. I'll keep bringing that knowledge.. i know alot of people get informed from all this...

1. Humans change.
2. The 'Beta' provider of today was the 'Alpha Bleep' of yesterday. It is more of a stage than a personality. Basically a married man vs. a single mature bachelor.

Omar09:
Honestly I've had my fair share of being both. I've been a beta and then an Alpha and I can say being an Alpha is the best one can ever discover in route to self discovery.

You just have to put yourself first, and yes it's called being selfish and it's OK.

you? An alpha?

themaestro08:
You are unintelligent bro( no malice intended)

This guy is obviously schooling you but you are bent on your narrow definitions of an Alpha male.

the definitions of alpha are narrow because we are in the Romance Section.

Plus so much of what he terms being "alpha" is just being Beta (making money, family etc) . Most people are confused as to what an Alpha is. Being Alpha doesn't necessarily mean being successful in life.
Take note that the people i call Alphas are thugs, players and bad boys. The guys who usually, by society's standards, are failures. But by evolution's standards they are the real winners. See, the only treasure in this world is children. And the more you have with more women, the better.

This is the same promise God made to Abraham when He told Abraham "I'll make you the Father of Nations". That was God's gift to Abraham... children as many as a nation. That's the only thing of value in this world. And the thing that matters.
Abraham was a Alpha in this regard.

Remember Evolution is "Survival of the Fittest". This is all about having as many children to carry your genes as possible. That's being Alpha. Not having a billion trillion dollars in the bank.

I just gave you a free lesson on life.

purples25:
Why are you making women look so wicked again? So you guys don't do all these? And so if a lady has had sex before, she doesn't deserve to settle down. The person that settles with her is a fool. Then men can fvck all they want and marry good women right? His Dyck is not a used product but her pussy is? What's wrong with your sense of judgment sef? If we pick all of you now to see who is virtuous amongst you, no man doing all this shiii will pass the test. Abeg behave jare.

The tragedy here is that you think you are better but you are not, not by a far shot. Only that society decieves you.

I honestly don't have no intention to counter your opinion on this issue, it just happens that I just have to quote you for no reason than to ask -- oh! You a writer too?

The camera you used in taking that photo on your page did a good job gracing your face.

About time I toss my phone on my bed, promise me, you NEVER letting no apha male toss you the same way ever again.

ubunja:
the definitions of alpha are narrow because we are in the Romance Section.

Plus so much of what he terms being "alpha" is just being Beta (making money, family etc) . Most people are confused as to what an Alpha is. Being Alpha doesn't necessarily mean being successful in life.
Take note that the people i call Alphas are thugs, players and bad boys. The guys who usually, by society's standards, are failures. But by evolution's standards they are the real winners. See, the only treasure in this world is children. And the more you have with more women, the better.

This is the same promise God made to Abraham when He told Abraham "I'll make you the Father of Nations". That was God's gift to Abraham... children as many as a nation. That's the only thing of value in this world. And the thing that matters.
Abraham was a Alpha in this regard.

Remember Evolution is "Survival of the Fittest". This is all about having as many children to carry your genes as possible. That's being Alpha. Not having a billion trillion dollars in the bank.

I just gave you a free lesson on life.

Kikiki The babies paragraph Ubunja


BTW brother how are you doing. You seem to have time for the web suprisingly. I assume writing, and other serious stuvs

Michellekabod2:
you? An alpha?

They called me a mad man.

I

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmmmm
I think Life is Unfair especially to Good, Nice and Quiet Guys.

But from my observation, all the bad things our parent, family and community warn us about which they claim are Sin are what makes you Virtually an Alfa.
Does it mean all the warnings and threats of going to Hell fire are false? Because the right thing and normal thing to do in a relationship is to respect a lady and treat are like a queen but it seems you need to go the opposite direction for you to be appreciated.
It is a Crazy world out there, things are not the way we think it should be.
Fuvk Nature and the Creator for turning everything upside down while still threatening you with Hell fire if you go the wrong way which is the right way anyway.
Fuvk All the Gods, Fuvk them all for playing with our intelligence because what is normal is not normal at all.

Life seems unfair to entice people to do evil.

We were having a discussion on why the 'runs girls' seems to marry quickly and have better marriages, how the unserious students are ogas in top places etc.

Like David said in the Bible, he was tempted to join the wicked until he saw their end.

What is the end of these people especially if they do not repent?

I believe that's one of the reasons I am a pro young love. You both are 'betaing' yourselves and grow at your pace in your world.

Also, people should know the value they carry. That way, you don't just marry anything if you are not divinely instructed.

healthserve:
Kikiki The babies paragraph Ubunja


BTW brother how are you doing. You seem to have time for the web suprisingly. I assume writing, and other serious stuvs

sure my man. Its all about babies. Babies babies babies. Guys forget.

I'm fine. It's this thread I'm making time for because these are issues near and dear to my heart. I always contribute to such threads.

healthserve:
My dear artist. No one gives a hoot about a vagina. It's disloyalty that worries people. Having sex with an external party while claiming love to another or giving one's self out without caution to one while acting all sanctimonious to the other eptimozises wickedness to it's peak


While you make make a wonderful exception shouldn't Mena it's an attack against womenfolk or ladies or women but against the spirit of the generation, you can fvck it all and still get rewarded in the end. This is the moral of the story

And is this disloyalty 'unique' to women?

Men don't cheat in relationships and marriages?

Why do we redpillers churning thousands of articles on women cheating like men do not cheat?

bukatyne:
1. Humans change.
2. The 'Beta' provider of today was the 'Alpha Bleep' of yesterday. It is more of a stage than a personality. Basically a married man vs. a single mature bachelor.

quite unlikely, the beta than turn alphas doesn't get married to the slut till he realises his foolishness then ditches her.. the betas never realise thier foolishness

bukatyne:
And is this disloyalty 'unique' to women?

Men don't cheat in relationships and marriages?

Why do we redpillers churning thousands of articles on women cheating like men do not cheat?

because when women cheat its the men left to raise children that are not theirs. That's the biggest reason men hate for women to cheat.

If a man cheats still its his money that will raise that bastard child. Not the woman's money.