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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Enemyofdarkness: 9:47am On Feb 15, 2020
Digmygold:


Who you dey call boy? I am no pvssy brain. You need to calm your tool down and respect your old age. You lack discipline and focus. Probably one old pvssy brained ahameless bachelor.
Point of correction: I'm still young
Back to your post, how did you know I lack displine and focus? Have we met before? I betcha you don't know me. Go and pour your frustrations elsewhere abeg

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Toseenlove: 9:49am On Feb 15, 2020
Enemyofdarkness:
I opened a mini shop lately and i employed one fine girl there as a sales girl.
Based on my observation, she has every quality a girl should have.
And most importantly, she took my business as hers, running around, doing all sort things. Everytime I visit that shop and it's sorroundings I always met it tidied up.
Yesterday I overheard her asking my friend if I have a girlfriend but my friend said no.

My issue is, if I should date her, won't she start disrespecting me and acting shenanigan?

See Another One Again, Who did this to Nigerian Simps call men, Can't you guys for once reason with your brain Instead of your useeless dick. This Is the reason why the females will keep on cashing out and be the real bosses and the great asset. A lot of Nigerian Men are as uselessss as Tissue Paper.

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Nobody: 9:50am On Feb 15, 2020
grossintel:
I'm not a child, I owned a Medium shop in Port Harcourt for 4 years where I sold Phones and accessories, I employed 2 sales girls during that period so I'm talking from experience. Not ready to shade anyone this morning.
My point exactly. You have simply used your experience as the yardstick for advising him.
It's like saying if a woman marries a bad man from your tribe would it make sense to tell all her friends never to marry from your tribe?
In things like this you can share your experience and tell the op to watch for such pitfalls but it's absolutely wrong to tell all men to steer clear of their employees. It's best to highlight the disadvantages of it than to outrightly condemn it.

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Toseenlove: 10:06am On Feb 15, 2020
GeneralPula:


Try it, experience it then after sometime, come back to share wetin your eye see for others to read and learn.. sad

Hehe wicked person lol....True advice but amusing. God will not make us a Scape goat for others

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Toseenlove: 10:15am On Feb 15, 2020
makydebbie:
Control your penis ah!

You're hiding behind she's a good girl she sweeps your shop and takes charge. Bro that's her job that's what you employed her to do, I don't expect her to do otherwise.

You just want to fvck that's it. Na wa oo.
I go born man so?

Lol my lady, Nigerian men has finally lost the battle. Business is really booming for ladies over here. I'm currently making plans of venturing into ladies ads. I must Cashout big time on them Since they have decided to monetize relationship themselves, They were the ones who shot themselves In the leg. No thanks to most GBOYZ & SIMPS and the ladies have perfected the game and take It to the next level. We have wimps, scums, simps call men In Nigeria now. They can't think straight when It comes to this Oiling & Greasing!!!

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Digmygold: 10:18am On Feb 15, 2020
Enemyofdarkness:
Point of correction: I'm still young
Back to your post, how did you know I lack displine and focus? Have we met before? I betcha you don't know me. Go and pour your frustrations elsewhere abeg

Ya young oldie. Hide your dick in your pants and stop fantasicing over the size of your employees pvssy. Thats how i know you lack discipline and focus. Classless Cheap dude. You'd fvck your househelp when madam isn't looking.

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by GeneralPula: 12:01pm On Feb 15, 2020
Toseenlove:


Hehe wicked person lol....True advice but amusing. God will not make us a Scape goat for others

Abi nah broda

Star no go shine, if Otu no Dey..

So I believe if people like this no exist, how we(the rest) wan take learn..

Let’s just thank God jare..

Nah him create them to be grin

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by NigeriaBam: 1:05pm On Feb 15, 2020
Date or Marry Her? Please specify. Because both will have effect in your business.
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by MedicH: 1:07pm On Feb 15, 2020
This guy wants to go from mini shop to zero shop all because of vagina.
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by majamajic(m): 1:07pm On Feb 15, 2020
Enemyofdarkness:
I opened a mini shop lately and I employed one fine girl there as a sales girl. Based on my observation, she has every quality a girl should have.

And most importantly, she took my business as hers, running around, doing all sort things. Everytime I visit that shop and its surroundings, I always met it tidied up.

Yesterday I overheard her asking my friend if I have a girlfriend but my friend said no.

My issue is, if I should date her, won't she start disrespecting me and acting shenanigan?


Are u ready to share your shop with her ?
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Nobody: 1:09pm On Feb 15, 2020
Davash222:
You just opened a ‘mini shop’ and the first and only thing you’re thinking is how to date your sales girl.
You’re not even thinking how to make your shop ‘super shop’ considering its still at the ‘mini’ stage.
Your ‘mini shop’ would be reduced to ‘nothing shop’ the moment you start any nonsense relationship with that girl. the only relationship you should keep with her is ‘Employer-Employee’ relationship, at least for now.
When your shop gets to the stage you so wish, then you can tell the girl about your intentions. That would give you enough time to know the girl truly, if she’s your type of woman.
FULL STOP.
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by IDFWU(m): 1:10pm On Feb 15, 2020
Never mix business with pleasure angry

Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Blisplendor12(f): 1:10pm On Feb 15, 2020
Your business don tire you ba?
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Dpharisee: 1:11pm On Feb 15, 2020
Enemyofdarkness:
You mean that may crumble my biz?
Yes, until you open different branches of your mini business, so that even if the one she is currently managing crumbles, the others will sustain you. Never mix business with pleasure, keep the boss - employee relationship for now.

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by deltateam: 1:13pm On Feb 15, 2020
Enemyofdarkness:
I opened a mini shop lately and I employed one fine girl there as a sales girl. Based on my observation, she has every quality a girl should have.

And most importantly, she took my business as hers, running around, doing all sort things. Everytime I visit that shop and its surroundings, I always met it tidied up.

Yesterday I overheard her asking my friend if I have a girlfriend but my friend said no.

My issue is, if I should date her, won't she start disrespecting me and acting shenanigan?

Dating her will change everything and in work ethics, it's wrong.

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by deltateam: 1:16pm On Feb 15, 2020
Davash222:
You just opened a ‘mini shop’ and the first and only thing you’re thinking is how to date your sales girl.
You’re not even thinking how to make your shop ‘super shop’ considering its still at the ‘mini’ stage.
Your ‘mini shop’ would be reduced to ‘nothing shop’ the moment you start any nonsense relationship with that girl. the only relationship you should keep with her is ‘Employer-Employee’ relationship, at least for now.
When your shop gets to the stage you so wish, then you can tell the girl about your intentions. That would give you enough time to know the girl truly, if she’s your type of woman.

Fair enough.
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by simplepee(f): 1:16pm On Feb 15, 2020
makydebbie:
Control your penis ah!

You're hiding behind she's a good girl she sweeps your shop and takes charge. Bro that's her job that's what you employed her to do, I don't expect her to do otherwise.

You just want to fvck that's it. Na wa oo.
I go born man so?

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Eteka1(m): 1:17pm On Feb 15, 2020
Before you try it, keep enough capital that can enable you start again cos the shop will be wrecked in no time.
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by A305: 1:18pm On Feb 15, 2020
Enemyofdarkness:
I opened a mini shop lately and I employed one fine girl there as a sales girl. Based on my observation, she has every quality a girl should have.

And most importantly, she took my business as hers, running around, doing all sort things. Everytime I visit that shop and its surroundings, I always met it tidied up.

Yesterday I overheard her asking my friend if I have a girlfriend but my friend said no.

My issue is, if I should date her, won't she start disrespecting me and acting shenanigan?
Just keep taking care of her and show care to her just the way she cares for your business. Do not make your intent known.
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by IamHonourable1: 1:18pm On Feb 15, 2020
Enemyofdarkness:
You mean that may crumble my biz?

No,it will promote your business.

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by adeniyi65(m): 1:19pm On Feb 15, 2020
DominusPrime:
When an adult asks this question on nairaland and expects people to answer yes or no it baffles me. First you are asking people who don't even know the girl or what she looks like or even 1/4 Of the full picture between you and the girl. What kind of advice do you think you will get? Of course it's misguided advice based mostly on their own points of views or experiences of life. They are not able to give sound unbiased advice. Coupled with the fact that the amount of info isn't anyhing to go by.

Here's mine. Any decision you take is ok as long as you can bear the consequences.
If u don't date her, your heart will fight you. You'll even keep falling for her more and you'd go through some emotional stress. So if u choose not to, be ready to go through all that.
If u date her there's the risk of things changing as regards your business. An employee who works for u is totally different from a gf who works for you. Are you ready to bear the changes that may come? Your business might suffer.
And finally, most rarely you can date her and things will even get better but this is the slimmest of all 3 things that could happen. All the best
best I have read so far.my accolade to you.

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by emerged01(m): 1:21pm On Feb 15, 2020
Your mini shop is about to go down.

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by ednut1(m): 1:21pm On Feb 15, 2020
The moment you begin all her efforts stops

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by jaxxy(m): 1:21pm On Feb 15, 2020
Enemyofdarkness:
I opened a mini shop lately and I employed one fine girl there as a sales girl. Based on my observation, she has every quality a girl should have.

And most importantly, she took my business as hers, running around, doing all sort things. Everytime I visit that shop and its surroundings, I always met it tidied up.

Yesterday I overheard her asking my friend if I have a girlfriend but my friend said no.

My issue is, if I should date her, won't she start disrespecting me and acting shenanigan?


If dating ur colleagues or gals u employ isn’t a habit then I don’t see anything wrong Aslong as it’s genuine and she meets the attributes u want in a gal. My only concern is when it’s a habit cos that only means u do it for doing sake or advantage u have as a boss/or senior colleague and not that know what u want.

Also if u must date her u must possess good work ethics and know how to separate business from love or emotions. It’s dangerous to mix business with such.

As for business and pleasure that just one of the perks that come with working with ur partner. I guess.

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by adeniyi65(m): 1:21pm On Feb 15, 2020
GeneralPula:


Try it, experience it then after sometime, come back to share wetin your eye see for others to read and learn.. sad
grin grin where my koboko.someone needs some la.sh..
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by deltateam: 1:22pm On Feb 15, 2020
grossintel:
If you date her, that will be the beginning of the fall of your shop business. She will sell and pocket money as she likes, after all it's my boyfriends shop and I need money to make my hair. In my opinion it's far better you marry her if you must, that way she knows you both will suffer if she runs it down.

My respect.
I watched a movie where Stan Jason enlisted crooked police to help him retrieve $20 million from a safe. He had the combination code stored in his memory.

He bluntly told them that if they had any chance of touching the money, they had to watch his back.They did!

Did I forget to add that he killed them save for one who he ordered to open the safe at gun point.

Moral: Don't appeal to people's pity, appeal to their interest.
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Mplify(m): 1:22pm On Feb 15, 2020
Chia kpekus just they hungry this one.. No face your business , he go soon turn Super mini. grin

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Princesscutes1(f): 1:24pm On Feb 15, 2020
Those people saying that the mini shop will close that a big lie because I have a friend that her boss married her.
just the same case and their shop have grow

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by adeniyi65(m): 1:25pm On Feb 15, 2020
makydebbie:
Control your penis ah!

You're hiding behind she's a good girl she sweeps your shop and takes charge. Bro that's her job that's what you employed her to do, I don't expect her to do otherwise.

You just want to fvck that's it. Na wa oo.
I go born man so?
grin grin yes you must.your man must demand or cherish a man.
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Mazk: 1:25pm On Feb 15, 2020
Enemyofdarkness:


Yesterday I overheard her asking my friend if I have a girlfriend but my friend said no.


you have all the answers you needed here. everything she is doing is to impress you

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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Lexusgs430: 1:25pm On Feb 15, 2020
Enemyofdarkness:
I opened a mini shop lately and I employed one fine girl there as a sales girl. Based on my observation, she has every quality a girl should have.

And most importantly, she took my business as hers, running around, doing all sort things. Everytime I visit that shop and its surroundings, I always met it tidied up.

Yesterday I overheard her asking my friend if I have a girlfriend but my friend said no.

My issue is, if I should date her, won't she start disrespecting me and acting shenanigan?


Just kuku marry her........... grin

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