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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Gbagbuo247: 2:26pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Davash222: Why you Dey waste advise of this one naaa , allow aam make him try first. His next post will be from his fathers house in the village. You want to date your sales girl. Oloriburuku |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by airminem(f): 2:28pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
The best relationship you need now is making financial profit. Not making financial losses in your 'mini shop' era, which certainly you should know. Guy, Work harder and expand. The ladies will definately come by later, and you will be larger enough to have fun, cater for two or more as a bigboy, as you would prefer. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by bummyla(m): 2:33pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Please Don't! That's The Begining And End of your business! https://www.bummyla.com Enemyofdarkness: |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Chidonc(m): 2:34pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Bbbwings:Ok |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by SmartyPants(m): 2:36pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Atlanticfire: That is not sexual abuse anywhere in the world unless the subordinate is not interested and the superior persists or the advances are made in an inappropriate way. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by KLand(m): 2:39pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Please don't do it if you have any iota of self-respect. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by HitSong: 2:42pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
makydebbie:I wish so. In Jesus name. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Laytin: 2:42pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
[s] HitSong:[/s] |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by HitSong: 2:43pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
makydebbie:Effect of too many abor. Tions |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by OgaBuhari: 2:44pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
makydebbie:you're just so dumb and plain stupid or is it that u have comprehension problems? |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Bruno3000(m): 2:44pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
makydebbie:. I like u. Which of the girls is u in that pix? |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by softset: 2:46pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
I think you should learn from people like me that have first hand experience dating an employee. I will not go into the long story but it did not end well. I had a very successful business with over 65 employees in Lagos with 2 expatriates on staff list. Life was so good till I decided to have an affair with one of the girls in marketing department. Things began to turn around slowly , I would 'resume' at her house on Monday morning, will be there till about 1pm, everything that needed my attention at the office suffered, she gets to work as late as 10am on some days. I did not see anything wrong with that. She started making me fire all my good and loyal employees many of them have been with us for so many years, some could not stand her and resigned or simply walked away. Let me tell you one of the characteristics of such women, they are good at their job which is likely to make you feel at ease. In my own case this girl was bringing in millions on a weekly basis, as she was bringing it, I was spending it on her without even realizing it. I will not want to go into much details,but at the end of it all we ended the relationship.At that time I was left with just 6 employees including my driver who kept advising me from the beginning to avoid her, he said that was same thing that happened to his former boss( MD of a top bank in Nigeria) Did I listen to advise ?? Nope... I felt she wanted my interest. If you are doing this or about to, I will suggest you stop, it usually does not end well. Those pussys### are usually so good that you simply lose your mind. Lol . Just yesterday another yellow girl in marketing department sent me a gift for valentine's, it had "I love you in red" written on the pack , rather than get upset i just laughed and thanked her. Almighty God knows that I will never have anything to do with those girls again. To those that may want to ask me if I ever recovered, yes i did after going through hell for a few years, although I do not have a big company like I used to,but working with half the size of the previous is not bad. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Ghostmode2two(m): 2:48pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Avoid her as you would avoid coronavirus. My 5 kobo advice. Don't mix pleasure with work. She will bring you down like plucking a mango easily. Your finances will be at risk. In fact sack her if you cannot avoid her. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by martinsoreoluwa: 2:51pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
it is possible to date her but make sure she not working as your sales girl as soon as you start relationship with her especially when it involves sex. business and Romance can't stay together....one will overpower the other. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Memberclub(m): 2:55pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Enemyofdarkness:you want to fucvck her. Nice lol |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by lastchild: 2:57pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Enemyofdarkness:unless you are planning to make her your wife if not you are finished |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by micflo28(m): 2:59pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Often times, you find love I the weirdest places. If it is not infatuation or for sex, tell her how much you like her, date her with no sex, I repeat with no sex, get your sex elsewhere cos she will surely disrespect you if sex comes in, then after sometime, you feel you know her too well enough to be a good wife, propose and marry her. As a wife, she will manage you business to flourish. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by collitexnaira(m): 2:59pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
grossintel: Experience is the best teacher bro So you dated those two sales girls and the ruined your medium shop , nawa oo |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by ProtectMyMoney: 3:04pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
[ As an Employee, her mood swings does not matter to you and it will not affect her work. As a girl friend, her mood swings will affect her work and there is absolutely nothing you can do to her if she says she is not in the mood and does not go to your shop for that day. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by mokane28: 3:06pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
It's been several months i commented on Nairaland, your comment got me LOL Davash222: |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Lastmankc(m): 3:06pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Enemyofdarkness:Guy, Toto go latter kill you there |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by chubbyswit(m): 3:13pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
makydebbie:Why are asking this question? What if God decides to give you only sons? |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Dollabiz: 3:19pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
No |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by makydebbie(f): 3:20pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Bruno3000: Anyone oo. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by makydebbie(f): 3:21pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
chubbyswit: Then we move. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by ud4u: 3:28pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Hell no |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Greystone: 3:28pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
makydebbie: I'm going to make an assumption here. What if the OP is genuinely in love with this girl having seen her qualities? What if sex isn't the primary interest? Isn't it possible he has met a responsible beautiful lady within which he sees wife material? |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Digmygold: 3:29pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Greystone: Not your employee. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by makydebbie(f): 3:31pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Greystone: Okay sir I agree with you totally. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by uyibaba: 3:31pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Please I beg you in the name of God don't go there erase the thought from your mind that is the beginning of your doom a friend of mine started a pos business employed a young beautiful girl I saw the way he started behaving towards her I warned him it fell on deaf hears she was employed in December. relationships started in January by April she could not account for overy 450k I asked my friends to arrest her he was dragging his feet that business folded up later we heard from source the girl telling people she turned my guyNngbada (dead meat ) or to ATM if yoy like afterall he was chopping her nor be for free now. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Greystone: 3:33pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Digmygold: Ok. Do you personally have experience? Because I have never dated any of my employees. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Dshocker(m): 3:34pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
makydebbie: Where and what part did he say he wanted to fvck her? |
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