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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by JJOF(m): 3:35pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Atlanticfire:So before the period they are together before the marriage is called what? |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Greystone: 3:36pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
makydebbie: Lol. I'm sensing a bit of sarcasm in ur statement. I was only trying to say that we shouldn't jump to conclusions. OP may have good intentions though I must admit the odds are against him having a successful relationship with his employee. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
just cos she asked about the marital status never meant she's qivinq out qreen liqht 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by makydebbie(f): 3:44pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Greystone: Okay I've heard you. LOL, I'm not being sarcastic. But I'm tired of the increasing mentions and insults, to the point of someone cursing me that I won't have children. So at this point what anyone says is right. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Greystone: 3:49pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
makydebbie: Ok. I totally understand. @ the bolded : God forbid. I don't know you but by God's special grace u will give birth to all the babies u desire. No worry about the yeye curse. E no even reach the person ceiling. The Bible says the the words of a righteous man availeth much. Person wey go dey fornicate just Yesterday dey curse? No worry for one minute abeg. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Greystone: 3:53pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by makydebbie(f): 4:06pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Greystone:Amennn. Thank you dear, I truly appreciate your kind words and prayers. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by makydebbie(f): 4:07pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Greystone: Lol, thank you. I'm at the middle. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by FRANKOSKI(m): 4:09pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Enemyofdarkness:KINDLY RESPECT YOURSELF AND YOUR BUSINESS. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by vickydevoka(m): 4:13pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Any of my employees I mistakenly had sex with the new thing is sack. I will definitely sack her |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Klington: 4:15pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
This was the same costly mistake my brother made when opened a mini shop with his life saving and employed one fine girl with big brezzzz. He didn't even date her, he was only admiring her and the business went south within a twinkle of an eye. When money got missing the girl will just flash brezz and story will end. Up til now my brother is licking his wounds |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Maski87: 4:26pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
I sleep with most of my employees, and they like it |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by justmi1: 4:42pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Dicey situation that can be of advantage or deadly. Don't date her but show her little attention, like buy her stuff, appreciate her, but not romantic. This way you mark your intentions, she would take your business even more serious. Tell her your vision of having an expansion of business within a period before you marry and watch her help you grow your business, then you can decide to wife her, the moment you start sleeping with her, your biz is gone. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by ireke(m): 4:43pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
chidekings: Matters of the heart becomes even more confusing when matters of the loins gets into the mix. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Mreazi121(m): 4:43pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Must you even date her, are there no girl's again if you must Bleep, date her and risk losing ur mini shop.. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Hangulsaram: 4:48pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Davash222:Don’t date her, marry her if you really like her. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Ebios(m): 4:53pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Davash222:Good advice. . But it does NOT always happen that way. What if he waits and another takes her? Oh, u think she will just stay like that to wait for him? . My advice is that he should study her well and if she seems genuine, guy go ahead! That is if u are not a play boy! |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Neddyogu(m): 4:57pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Do not mix business with pleasure, it is unethical. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by officialfestus(m): 5:00pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Follow ur heart,follow ur heart desires |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Xclusiveme: 5:04pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Over familiarity dey cause am. There should be a gap b/w an employer and employee. The way you handled her made her ask your friend if you're in a relationship. Either you are so caring and soft on her. My brother when it comes to business show no compassion. Just give them the respect they deserve and nothing more. If you feel sexually attracted to her, clear your mind of it. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Xclusiveme: 5:06pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Digmygold: Gosh!! People like you aren't meant to use the internet |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Tonyspecial(m): 5:09pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
FuckAllTheMODs:Frankly speaking this is a very big possibility. But then again i won't rule out other scenarios. So it's best he considers the worst scenario and then find means of avoiding it while still dating her...which you have painted above... |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Digmygold: 5:38pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Xclusiveme: And you to i know the truth is bitter so i feel.ya. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by chubbyswit(m): 5:39pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
makydebbie:stop asking such question then and always ask God to give you the grace and wisdom to raise and nurture your kids in the right way (i.e if you believe in God), whether male or female or both, building them up in wisdom and knowledge and not neglecting their everyday activities. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Lonelypacifist6: 5:49pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Please don't try it, it doesn't end well, Speaking from experience, she'll wanna start acting up like you started the business together, worst you can't relive her of her duties labour laws cover her to the fullest. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Brightgem(f): 6:12pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Enemyofdarkness:Great. Still move her to a different business that's not yours. Human nature is funny, two things can happen, she takes your business seriously and delivers well considering the relationship, or she takes it all for granted still because of her relationship with you and things fall apart. Just my thinking. I'm only putting all this effort to talk because I assume you want a serious relationship, not all these knack and pass men that full Nairaland and don't have sense. Please also note that in today's era, say woman fine isn't enough reason to date. Fine and intelligent, decent, smart etc counts too. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by ussv: 6:40pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Enemyofdarkness:Familiarity breeds contempt, don't date her if she is your employee, several things would come into play. But if she is your wife, at least she would always fight for your interest. You no know how many boyfriends she go channel your money to or information. No try am |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by LegalOpinion: 6:55pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
You will only achieve one result. Your mini shop will be minimized to the minimum. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Nobody: 7:28pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
makydebbie: No don't even give birth at all! Men are scum, women are hoes! |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Digmygold:you're an unenlightened kid! didn't you read where he stated that he's in his late twenties? You sound frustrated! |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Emmymarvel(m): 7:43pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Enemyofdarkness:Mini shop with one employee and you want to date her. What if you now have a company with over 100 staffs.. you will even Bleep to employ them sef. Rubbish and Nonentity |
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