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Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by donb06: 10:59am On Feb 17, 2020 |
lloyds: How did your dad treat ur mom before those twelve years.... I guess with love and respect.... He supported her career or business to a point she was able to do what she did... I believe your dad tried his best to make sure ur mom had her feet standing. Talking from experience..... I have seen many men frustrate their wife's career just to make them lower than them ( your dad didn't do that...cos if he did I bet the story would be different)... Many men grudge a lot when providing for their families... Something my dad detest... ( I also know ur dad never regreted nor grudged, neither did he rub it on ur mom's face whenever he provided...else ur mom would have definitely )...... I'm not trying to please the asshole ladies here.....cos some are mere cunts..but as the Bible said however u want ur spouse to treat u, treat ur spouse in same way 4 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Mstick: 11:01am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Really? So instead of you to advice your fellow men not to put women through what your mother went through you typed this?! Most of you’re SICK! Tufiakwa! I wouldn’t be a bitter old woman because I used my youth preserving the happiness of a man and kids that will grow up to live their own lives. wengerman: 10 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by duchaB(m): 11:04am On Feb 17, 2020 |
@ Elekra 225 robotic likes and 26shares.. Don't let this fool you okay.. It ain't shit |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Mstick: 11:09am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Like seriously!!!! I know a couple of Nigerian women that have been married for over 50 years they have no fond memories of their marriages only regrets. All this “our mothers” they easily throw about the only advice older women can give you in marriage is to endure. If you hear the things most of them went through you would cry. One told me how her husband would naked her in the presence of his mistress, at the end of it all instead of enjoying their old ages they become nurses for men that maltreated them. My former neighbor would always lament how her husband treated her badly and refused her from going to school but they are married for over 40 years. Will you call that a happy marriage? They only care about quantity not quality. Lovelypet28: 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Pataricatering(f): 11:11am On Feb 17, 2020 |
I’m sure you were wailing hot tears when u were typing this ! Lol tradepunter: 1 Like |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by benzzyno(m): 11:13am On Feb 17, 2020 |
elektra:.. U sound very naive.. Parenting is done by both the father and the mother.. In an African setting the father is believed to be the provider and the mother makes use of what to father provides in caring for their children.. When any of the parties default in their own role then these kind of problems arise.. A father cannot go out to look for provision for his children and be around at the same time to make sure they are well cared for.. Likewise the mother cannot be at home making sure the children are well cared for and be out at the same time wining bread.. That's while a functional family sometimes opts for a house maid that fills in for them.. So if u keep up with this ur idea ur going to be a terrible parent someday. 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Pataricatering(f): 11:14am On Feb 17, 2020 |
and they are always looking for women like their mothers - which simply tells u - they saw their mothers suffer , don’t give a Bleep about it and are looking for their own personal doormat , punching bag , domestic slave etc . Mstick: 9 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by donb06: 11:15am On Feb 17, 2020 |
The woman was very stupid to leave sha..... But of all places na brothel this man see to come live with em children no friend, relative, even church member .... What does that mean?? He was a confirmed customer in that brothel. That's why they let him stay there.... I don't care what is said up there.... I will advise my daughters to marry the man they love even if he's not well to do... Because I know where I started from. But I will NEVER allow her to marry a promiscuous man (double wahala ) 5 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by benratigan3(m): 11:18am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Starz825:mark my word ,he would enjoy those children while she would regret in the long Time |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 11:19am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Lovelypet28: unmarried men should be worried about poverty not loneliness. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by kayo80(m): 11:19am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Native101: So true. |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by benratigan3(m): 11:21am On Feb 17, 2020 |
gbagyiza:I'm a guy but what you said is what I'm saying. in the beginning of a relationship I don't entice a lady with money na talk,talk,talk.he lost his job that's y she left and she will leave the alhaji too |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Theboss100(m): 11:27am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Lovelypet28:Jeez. I can't believe u said all these I doubt if ure truly married. If true, them ure one of those women i'm talking abt. I cnt marry u kind even for free. Ur kinds cheats alot, can dangerous get jealous and can do some regrettable things. Why did u say i do wen ask 4 better 4 worse? U mean u cnt support ur hubby? Na who u dey earn d money for. Maybe 4 side bobo. If my wife tells me that poo u keep telling ur hubby, na to divorce her straight. Daughters of EVE 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 11:32am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Pataricatering: i'm sure your bank accounts were credited with dope currency when you were typing this ! lol |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Pataricatering(f): 11:46am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Ur naive and u don’t know anything - u haven’t seen life - even my mother who is 72 still gets marriage proposals . oshaosha2014: 3 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Toseenlove: 11:47am On Feb 17, 2020 |
wany: This Is exactly the problem of most black people. In as much you are quite right to a certain point. But does that mean all the broke Men/Guys going through tough times does the shit you wrote up there. Imagine at your Age, You still generalize. Big shame on you. You people should sometimes think twice before Venting your frustrations on here. If It was a KID who posted this, I will absolutely pick no offense because I understand he/she Is still naive and yet to understand what life entails but for a grown up Woman like you..You are a disappointment and an old woman with the sense and body of of a toddler. |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Pataricatering(f): 11:50am On Feb 17, 2020 |
See am ! Lol a woman was created to be a meek being ?- u people are always looking for people u can cheat . Why do u want a meek person if it’s not that you want someone u can bully . Arcbox: 6 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Gcool2(m): 11:53am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Ganjafama:wow,did he kill it? |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Lovelypet28: 11:53am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Theboss100:Lol, am happily married, my advice is to make money for your family, so you can have a happy marriage. My money is for my parents who spent dollars to train me in medical school, I intend to spoil them silly. Even the so called good women might be pretending to you, marry her and see her true colours. I ask again would u love yourself if your broke? 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by sharpwriter(m): 12:00pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Ganjafama: Don't mind her. Some of them don't know what's happening to them. They're having the engines of their soul getting more corrupt day by day. Perilous time syndrome - - lovers of one's self. 1 Like |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Toseenlove: 12:03pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
oshaosha2014: Wonderful......I'm definitely saving this master piece to my Archive. Meanwhile, the problem Is "We have too many SIMPS called men In Nigeria these days" A large percentage of them can't do without those creatures. They get easily swindled by those creatures. For example, I've been celibate more than a Year now and I didn't die. Currently I despise anything under the skirt. I eat good food, fruits, take myself out on a treat, exercise, look good for myself. I get all sort of their usual green light when I visit the mall but I don't easily give In. I'll just put on a smile. I wish I could upload my whatsApp texts and see how three ladies are on my neck. I'do lie to them I've travelled I'm not In town. I've got great Goals, Targets, I've got Projects I'm working on. It's not about forming or something, I'm not their Regular Men whom they easily Manipulate or Swindled with their Emotional things. I'm very disciplined and I don't easily get carried away because life has taught me so many lessons and I've learnt from peoples woes and mistakes as well. 2 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by majestique(f): 12:05pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
crackkhaus: what is deep about that useless statement? you mean to tell me that a woman/man you promise to spend the rest of your life with is not your family/relative? child's talk 4 Likes |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Davesaves(m): 12:06pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Hisduchess:SO TO WORK IS NOW A PROBLEM FOR U LADIES.. THAT'S WHAT AN IDEAL FAMILY SHOULD BE. BOTH OF U MUST WORK TO SUPPORT EACH OTHER AND RAISE THE KIDS TOGETHER. AS FOR WHO WILL BE THE HEAD.. GOD HAS ALREADY SPECIFIED THAT.. BUT U CAN ALWAYS REWRITE THE BIBLE IF U ARE NOT OK WITH IT.. |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Franky826: 12:06pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
bigiyaro: Well damn!!! This hit me hard! |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Davesaves(m): 12:13pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
LadySarah:ALL THESE SINGLE AND BITTER LADIES.. LAS LAS UNA GO DEY ALRIGHT.. 1 Like |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Davesaves(m): 12:18pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth:CHAI.. I UNDERSTAND WHY U ARE SO BITTER.. U ARE SINGLE AND FRUSTRATED BUT WHAT I DONT'T KNOW IS IF U WILL BE ALRIGHT.. U MAY PROBABLY END UP THIS WAY.. SINGLE AND FRUSTRATED 1 Like |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Toseenlove: 12:19pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
donb06: Lol how many Wealthy, Rich, Exposed, Intellectual, Parents would opt for this, Probably they are not up to 5% In Nigeria. The rest 95% would prefer the Later. Everything Is absolutely wrong with this Society, A decayed society. |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Toseenlove: 12:27pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Lovelypet28: Is It your loliness Besides, you think It's everyone who have Interest In living with a partner, NO.....Things are changing. Afterall not everyone Is guaranteed an old age, So what's the fuss about. 1 Like |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Toseenlove: 12:36pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
CArt: Nice....But Surrogate Is your sure bet to avoid future problem. If Christiano Ronaldo can ply such route as rich as he Is, who are we then. People thought he doesn't know what he Is doing. One Ingrate Woman will comman Split my hard earned wealth with me lol.....Afterall person wey go wise go wise and the foolosh ones will always be foolish. |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:43pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
culturedboss: A man cannot provide a suitable shelter for two little kids and all you guys could come up with is "why blame the man" is it the mother that should provide a roof over their head and even for the husband? Who da hell is the fvcking head of the family, the woman? If the mother was there what will she do, be sleeping with them in the bar? Why will a man be claiming head and in charge of the home and is still waiting for the mother to come rescue him, is she his messiah? Are most of y'all this weak that you can't prove your worth without a woman? Can't you guys think? A man, a fvcking grown ass man cannot provide shelter for his own kids, let that sink in. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Theboss100(m): 12:45pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Lovelypet28:If i get married as a well to do man, if unforseen circumstances arises and my wife start misbehaving just like u would, i will simply end the marriage and ask her to leave. Marriage is a union nt a one man show. If she can't reason with just like RUDEBOY sang, she can leave. I will repackage myself and bounce back. Honestly, i dnt need a woman's money, what i need is her understanding. Dnt marry me if u kw u wnt help when things dnt work out fine for me. As for you, your case tire me. I quit on ur matter. But..... Lemme don't talk 1 Like |
Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Toseenlove: 12:52pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
dinachi: Lol like seriously...... Thank God I had a bottled water beside me, This really threw me off balance lol..
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