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Diligentnigga:
Thanks alot

Yes u are right shes preety and intelligent a 4pointer cgpa in school even at that

I have informed her family about this though
Her mum has always been d one advising me on how to treat her when shes angry that she knows her too

i shield some of her insults of my parents from my family so they won't hate her

Someone who throws stone at her man in public is not intelligent. Confirm agbero.

Davash222:
No be every woman wey get belle for man dem marry.
Never marry such woman!
She's carrying your child, no doubt, but please don't marry that girl out of pity.
She'll be kind, caring and loving to you from now henceforth, but, please don't fall for all these gimmicks.
If you truly value your life, don't marry that girl!

Seconded.. You better take this advice..

And you kept her since 2 years knowing all dis shit happens . What kind of human being are you By the time she stabs You, u don't have hands to type your stories here

Diligentnigga: Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.

You have issues with her. You knew the relationship was toxic. Yet you went and impregnated her. You are now begging us for solution. I don't know if there there can be a solution to a man who is in a relationship with a mad woman and impregnated her. Just Continue with the relationship. She is just angry that she was impregnated at the wrong time.

funmisticqueen2:
As you made your bed, you must lie on it. The way I see it, these are your options;

1. Abort it and go your separate ways

2. Carry it and marry her. Then you will learn to deal with her temper issues.

3.carry it and don't marry her, make her your baby mama, that way she will learn to resent the child and train it with hate, and the child will learn to hate you.

4. Let her birth the child and try to take it from her. Then she will unleash the fullness of her 'temper issues' on you and your family.

I prefer option one. It is cheaper and headache free

as a doctor you should know abortion is illegal in 9ja

Ki a mo esi oro
ki a tun ma bi'ni o ma n fa ija
Iyun lo difa fun akon
Ni ojo ti o lo re bere ni owo igbin boya iran awon babanla re won ma n se eje

Any woman that insult my parents, that's the end of road fr that relationship.

Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

me and u na same. Some years ago One girl said I don't feel for her after sex...she ended the relationship. What she didn't know was that Bobo Don broke and I didn't think giving women attention was what I needed at that point.

All I can say is 'Bro you're in very hot soup!
I pray you withstand the heat!

[color=#006600][/color] manage her and take care of her till she gives birth is not most that you we marry her.

Davash222:
No be every woman wey get belle for man dem marry.
Never marry such woman!
She's carrying your child, no doubt, but please don't marry that girl out of pity.
She'll be kind, caring and loving to you from now henceforth, but, please don't fall for all these gimmicks.
If you truly value your life, don't marry that girl!

I agree with this submission. As one married to an anger-driven woman (as you aptly put it), I strongly advise you do not marry this lady. I know watin my eyes don see for these past 12 years

ednut1:
as a doctor you should know abortion is illegal in 9ja

except if it is a threat to the health of the mother. That can be proven in court

The unborn child will be alright. You are being abused. Please leave this girl and run for your life. Support the child financially. If she can’t take care of the child you can take it from her and pay your mother to take care of it.

An unemployed man having indiscriminate and unprotected sex. Whatever you do you better take care of the child. That’s where your lack of sense and hungry for unprotected sex has put you. In a financially unfortunate situation and tied to a lunatic for life.

Which love are you even talking about again? It’s obvious you don’t know what love means. Someone who loves you will not abuse you in any way.

Pregnant women are normally emotional, don't take what she said seriously.

...And you are justifying the reason to go ahead with the union? You don't need any advice...Why did you dodge the stone? You should have allowed it to hit you so that you can die in peace once and for all because what you are about to put your head into is bigger than you and might kill you someday...

Fornicators thread.
What do I know?

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SangoOlukosoOba:
Great!

But her pvsssy was not stubborn when you were pounding her, rasing her legs up and smashing her from behind.

Her Pvssy wasn't stubborn when you were pouring all your Akamu inside.

My brother, you bought what you wanted. Carry your cross.

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Pregnancy does not mean u must marry her. The signs are already there you are in a failed relationship not to talk of marriage. Tske care of her and the child but its dangerous to marry her

Some people with anger issues know they have anger issues, they may really want to do away with it, but don't know how. Some feel depressed wondering why they have to go through all that. All they need is help, with love, someone who would stay by their side despite their flaws. Discard all intentions to advance your relationship with her, and look for ways to help her, and see if she'll change.

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.

Show her love and she will change for good.

misterme:
I agree with this submission. As one married to an anger-driven woman (as you aptly put it), I strongly advise you do not marry this lady. I know watin my eyes don see for these past 12 years

Eye see
Please share, for coming generation sake!!

Op I want to understand why you are complaining . Are you not a man?I feel nauseated when men open threads complaining like kids on this forum.

Also why must all pregnancies lead to marriage? I hate when marriage isnt considered because of love ,partnership et Al but for reasons like pregnancy. You owe her support,love,care,financial responsibility et Al but not marriage. Marriage is a thing of CHOICE and not guilt-feeling.

Pity them and regret your life

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.

My brother, what am seeing before you is terrible. I don't pray for a situation whereby the lady will eventually take your life. Abort the baby, ask for forgiveness from God and move on with your life. The Lady is possessed.... Mycent

Jayy10:
Some people with anger issues know they have anger issues, they may really want to do away with it, but don't know how. Some feel depressed wondering why they have to go through all that. All they need is help, with love, someone who would stay by their side despite their flaws.

That is their parents..
They should stay by their side and fix them!!!

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.

Na to buy your coffin keep sure pass. Are you not seeing the rate at which girls kill partners? Thus one dey insult your parents and anger issues you dey talk love . ok

RUN NOW OR ELSE YOU WILL REGRET IT.

Michellekabod2:
Op I want to understand why you are complaining . Are you not a man?I feel nauseated when men open threads complaining like kids on this forum.

Also why must all pregnancies lead to marriage? I hate when marriage isnt considered because of love ,partnership et Al but for reasons like pregnancy. You owe her support,love,care,financial responsibility et Al but not marriage. Marriage is a thing of CHOICE and not guilt-feeling.

You have a good head

Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.

Marry her and do young. You are an adult, make your choice.

Dpharisee:
I was in a similar situation, though gainfully employed and as a gentleman I decided to get married to her.
I thought that marriage would help to change her but for the past several years I have not had peace of mind in the marriage. My family members hardly visit my house, she insults everyone and ready to fight me at anytime, nags me to hell.
I had to resort to a side chic who treats me like a king but I can't marry her, my attempt at seeking divorce brought about the intervention of my religious leaders to whom she promised to change but it didn't last long. The kids are growing and all I did was just to learn to ignore her antics, with hindsight, I would have had the baby (abortion is a NO for me) and damn whatever anyone would say and provide enough money for the baby's upkeep and we continue to nurture the baby as single parents.

Young man, you are on your way to experience the hell I have had to live with since I took the decision to marry my wife, but though I keep praying and hoping that she will change and become the kind of woman I sought

An abusive and temperamental wife is next to hell. I can completely relate to it. The most painful aspect is their irrationality. No explanation is ever enough in any situation. They must quarrel, insult, harass, slander,...

Diligentnigga:
Bro am just fedup,, her mum has even apologized her on her behalf and warned her to stop insulting my parents

Her mum complained several times about that she knows an coping and going through alot that i should be a man and be calm and understand her

How i wish i know you.

Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

u jst here talking trash ur preeq no stand or whatsoever! How does it relate with wat the young man is asking? Na showoff u wan do ni? How much even dey that ur useless account