thalpy:
I have a wife, and newly married. But my challenge is that she hardly get wets. She once told me that she was circumcised but I didn’t understand the disadvantage, thought it is same effect like a man.

We do have premarital sex (romance and pre-intimacy) for some time long enough to make her wet. But immediately we start having sex she dries up easily which makes it painful and somewhat not enjoyable to her after some time.

If she were to be a random girl, I won't care much. But she is my wife and I feel her pain. So I stop immediately and calm her down.

When we were dating we do fore play a lot but no[b] sex until marriage now. I [/b]know you might say eating her p.... that works but saliva doesn't last and dries up. And am thinking what if she gives birth, giving a head might reduce too.

I know am not the only man in this trend. Many beautiful ladies out there are still in this shoe. I never knew cutting a girls clitoris has a big negative effect. Sex looks like war to them. Yes not the same to all but their sex life is not enjoyable to the fullest.

So I ask, to those that might have had this experience, is there anyway I can make her enjoy sex the more? Please not any rough discussion is accepted. I just don’t have that mind of seeing myself enjoy it alone when she isn’t. Now I have learnt my lesson, girl circumcision is bad. That's why most circumcised girls can stay without a bf, is not always self discipline is just lack of urge.

Please help. If you know anyone about it. And I browsed too i read they have difficulty too during child birth and they are prone to disease easily so how true is that? Just want to know all I need to know so precaution will be taken. Want to make her safe and happy. Thank you.

OP, could you please tell us the reason for the highlighted words above before you confuse us?

nasirope:
No doubt female circumcision is totally bad and condemnable. Thankfully, it is now outlawed and only being practiced illegally by some uninformed part of the population. It is our duty to educate this people and also expose them to law enforcement agencies since the now recognizes it as acre against the girl child.
However, I think that we should be careful to make sure that we give only factual information even while trying to pass correct message. I mean we should avoid some myths if we want all part of the poppulation to take us serious.
For example the saying that if a lady is circumcised she would have to prepare for CS during child birth is not exactly accurate. Most people above the age of 30 including many of us, our sisters and relatives were circumcised and they give birth normally.
Complcatioms during child birth can be due to several unrelated factors.

HOWEVER WHAT IS BAD IS BAD!!!
NO TO FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION!!!
BUT SPREAD THE MESSAGE IN A WAY THAT WILL APPEAR REAL .
THANK YOU!!!

Why is Male genital mutilation a good idea

Tunagee:


Bro, you be wizard o! You just described my wife. She had a CS birth also, and gets dried easily. I don dey find the clitoris for more than 6 yrs now. Does it mean she was circumcized?l

Search of the clitoris

I off

thalpy:




No difference. We just got married. And its like we are dating too. Its just that its now made known formally in chirch. So what would i have done if we were dating? is it not same thing i can still do now. Or you are saying breakup and even if i broke up someone will still marry her. So breakup is not a solution. And mind you she told me earlier and i confirmed when we started making love and no sex. Since i didn't see clitoris but didnt know it has huge potential effect. And for the childbirth you mean every circumcised lady gove birth through CS. Mehn that’s saddening.

The bolded is not true.
Most of our mothers were circumcised, yet they birthed their children naturally.
They even had more children than this present generation.

Mcslize:


The clitoris is not a hidden organ. Still looking for it for good six years hahaha that's one hell of a hunt. The hunt continues.

But on a real note, the clit is very very conspicuous. Quite visible. It stands like male organs too when stimulated. It looks quite like a rod like shape protruding outer the "sweet in the middle".

Just part the cookie into two, and look inside you will find it looking like a small rod under.


Happy searching!

Ultimate search awan oni sokuso

You need to start buying kayanmata o, i have a friend that sells cheaply here in Abuja.

Please bro, you need not come here for advice. Read up on how to handle this and visit a doctor for practicable medical advise, She's your wife and that she remains.

Please what do they do with the clitoris that they cut off from circumcised girls? I hope they are not using them to prepare pepper soup for men

adedayoa2:
You need to start buying kayanmata o, i have a friend that sells cheaply here in Abuja.

mummy wehdone ma. No wonder you no dey gree us sleep with your ringtones for night, na kayanmata be the curse of your loud ringtones

Get KY jelly. It is a lubricant for sex. It il help a lot.

Jossyfine:


Yes, I agree on circumcised girls getting dry quickly, but on the side of child birth is not correct cos I was circumcised but had the easiest birth experience on all my 3 kids. CS is a no no for this except there are complications

thanks Jossyfine some folks here just want to give men like us Hbp. many ladies were circumcised but never hear of them giving birth thru CS


these clowns should be factual with their proposition abeg

Haha see crowd viewing this thread[color=#990000][/color]

herzernIsHere:
What's the percentage-range of circumcised women in Nigeria?

So, I know the menace I'm dealing with.

PS : No wonder Nigeria ladies hardly/barely request for sex.

We are damned.

Hahahahahaha
One moment, Nigerian ladies are "oloshos", the next, " they barely/hardly request for sex"

Smh!

No sex bf marriage ..this is one of the aftermath..


Deal with it gently

nasirope:
No doubt female circumcision is totally bad and condemnable. Thankfully, it is now outlawed and only being practiced illegally by some uninformed part of the population. It is our duty to educate this people and also expose them to law enforcement agencies since the now recognizes it as acre against the girl child.
However, I think that we should be careful to make sure that we give only factual information even while trying to pass correct message. I mean we should avoid some myths if we want all part of the poppulation to take us serious.
For example the saying that if a lady is circumcised she would have to prepare for CS during child birth is not exactly accurate. Most people above the age of 30 including many of us, our sisters and relatives were circumcised and they give birth normally.
Complcatioms during child birth can be due to several unrelated factors.

HOWEVER WHAT IS BAD IS BAD!!!
NO TO FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION!!!
BUT SPREAD THE MESSAGE IN A WAY THAT WILL APPEAR REAL .
THANK YOU!!!

Female circumcision leading to very low urge for sex or experiencing difficulty from penetration is usually caused by inexperience from the portion cut from the clitoris, a well trained person knows where to circumcise on the clitoris tip.
Most of our mothers were circumcised and they gave birth naturally...and I am sure they would have enjoyed their sexual lives too.

thalpy:
I have a wife, and newly married. But my challenge is that she hardly get wets. She once told me that she was circumcised but I didn’t understand the disadvantage, thought it is same effect like a man.

We do have premarital sex (romance and pre-intimacy) for some time long enough to make her wet. But immediately we start having sex she dries up easily which makes it painful and somewhat not enjoyable to her after some time.

If she were to be a random girl, I won't care much. But she is my wife and I feel her pain. So I stop immediately and calm her down.

When we were dating we do fore play a lot but no sex until marriage now. I know you might say eating her p.... that works but saliva doesn't last and dries up. And am thinking what if she gives birth, giving a head might reduce too.

I know am not the only man in this trend. Many beautiful ladies out there are still in this shoe. I never knew cutting a girls clitoris has a big negative effect. Sex looks like war to them. Yes not the same to all but their sex life is not enjoyable to the fullest.

So I ask, to those that might have had this experience, is there anyway I can make her enjoy sex the more? Please not any rough discussion is accepted. I just don’t have that mind of seeing myself enjoy it alone when she isn’t. Now I have learnt my lesson, girl circumcision is bad. That's why most circumcised girls can stay without a bf, is not always self discipline is just lack of urge.

Please help. If you know anyone about it. And I browsed too i read they have difficulty too during child birth and they are prone to disease easily so how true is that? Just want to know all I need to know so precaution will be taken. Want to make her safe and happy. Thank you.

clitoris extends to the Gspot which is inside the vagina..The Gspot is located when a woman lays on her back facing up, ur fore or index finger enters the vagina 2 inches palm facing up.then lifting the finger up in her you stroke forward with mild force. You will feel a ridge. That sport is more pleasurable than the clitoris and would do the magic. You can read more ..good luck

See eh this is where communication comes in and this is very key.Let your wife open up to you to explore her and let you know what gets her in the mood and keeps her in the mood,the position and the styles that takes her there and back.Once you get this you can take her on a cruise on cloud 9 airways any time and any day.

emonis88:
Get KY jelly. It is a lubricant for sex. It il help a lot.

How does it look lik.

What's difference does it make with Vaseline

I was circumcised and the pains that comes with sex.....gosh I am never interested In sex, its painful and boring.

RoyalBlu:
It's well with you both OP.

Sex is meant to be enjoyed by both parties.

Since it's this way now, please up your pre-intimacy time and get a good lube. KY jelly is highly recommended.

All the best.

are you enjoying yours or you just dey fake all those ringtones, screaming and coming?

Use Vaseline to rub you thing and you would drive in easily without stress or pain. My wife is like that and she doesn't initiate sex so I have to accept her that way. As for child bearing, get set for CS. All my kids came to this world through CS. Enjoy

Finelinks:

They don't reach orgasm

they do but it takes quite a longer time

thalpy:




No difference. We just got married. And its like we are dating too. Its just that its now made known formally in chirch. So what would i have done if we were dating? is it not same thing i can still do now. Or you are saying breakup and even if i broke up someone will still marry her. So breakup is not a solution.And mind you she told me earlier and i confirmed when we started making love and no sex. Since i didn't see clitoris but didnt know it has huge potential effect. And for the childbirth you mean every circumcised lady gove birth through CS. Mehn that’s saddening.

You should have allowed another circumcised guy to marry her

Join the Vaseline club. No need for the poor woman to be suffering during S*x. apply Vaseline or any other lubricant to ur gear-stick b4 penetrating her.

patroit001:
That may be true

They reach orgasm. I have dated one and she is a multi orgasmic woman

Ghostmode2two:
Use Vaseline to rub you thing and you would drive in easily without stress or pain. My wife is like that and she doesn't initiate sex so I have to accept her that way. As for child bearing, get set for CS. All my kids came to this world through CS. Enjoy

What does circumcision has to do with childbirth?

zexy2030:

yes my brother, they have problem having child birth and they get dried easily. Get her sweeteners and some aphrodisiacs, then learn to grind her gspot well, as for child birth, pls always prepare for cs.

complete rubbish,it doesn't affect child birth bcus mothers nowadays do not cut it but rubbing the clit with powder till it decrease.

.

Oga go buy lube

ndidibabe:
What does circumcision has to do with childbirth?

Uncircumcised women kpekus stretch better than circumcised women during delivery

Petyprincess:
Wow!!! This is hard.
I thought this circumsission shit has been stopped a century ago ,if i was the girl i will definitely sue my parents!!

I will jail them sef. My problem is the child birth part, Jesus!!