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Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by desireoge(f): 7:09am On Mar 12, 2020 |
LordKO:She lacks manners I swear. You expect a woman that'll feed you for as long as you are in her house to wash plates and serve you while you sit and watch . Something she should have done to earn the woman's respect without anyone asking for it. 5 Likes |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Dpundict: 7:28am On Mar 12, 2020 |
The easiest way to break a man is emotional abuse. I was a victim of it in my cousin's house and even my elder brother's house. It hurts so bad that after you leave the house you can never be the same again. I mean, damaged forever. If it is too much for you to bear, please go home to your parents. It is better than living the rest of your life hating and every day remembering sad moments whenever someone says or does something that reminds you of the past. Remember, it is easier to forgive than forget. I have been there and today I am still being emotionally tortured even when I am now on my own by memories of the past. 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Aleora(f): 7:31am On Mar 12, 2020 |
LordKO: |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by zinny377(f): 7:32am On Mar 12, 2020 |
sisisioge: God bless you... I have been there so i can relate |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Evidenx(m): 7:32am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529:HOW OLD ARE YOU AND WHICH STATE ARE YOU PRESENTLY STAYING? SEND ME AN EMAIL. I CAN BE OF HELP. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by JamesBond008(m): 7:33am On Mar 12, 2020 |
LordKO: Why would an Aunt (supposedly this story) is true make a neice to clean a dirty kitchen on the first day of arrival? Just why?? What kind of "Testing Apparatus" is that?. Would the Aunt had wished a family member to do same to her own daughter on the first day? Such inclinations send out so many red flags.... |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oblongata: 7:36am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:I love this dear... she is going through a process of being a mature lady, she might even come back and appreciate the aunt in the nearest future, who knows? Mizwisdom + Oblongata =? Willing to find out? 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by ruggedtimi(m): 7:39am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529:Babe or guy Run for your life, because in that house your life will not improve. But you get mind to tell your aunty ''you cant''. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Nobody: 7:44am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529 Endure it all. If your dad could afford to keep you, you won't be there. Adversity makes a man...or a woman. Build your character from there. Learn humility, endurance, patience and hardwork/industry from that house. These virtues will eventually see you through life. You won't be the first to go through such. Unless you want to go back home and be a burden to your father who might be struggling to feed and house himself. Whatever the wan throws at you, take it in your stride as payment for living under her roof and eating her food free. If she or her husband begins to molest you physically or sexually, then I'll suggest you go back to your dad. But if it is household chores, do them without resentment. Don't compare yourself to her children. Always remember that adversities, like good times, don't last forever. Build your strength and your character from there. Oluwa a tun e se o. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by AmazingELixir: 7:47am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Lazy slay queen, I think it is because she doesn't allow you the opportunity to slay around that's why you find her guardianship unfavourable. You even had the effrontery to talk back at your aunt that you wouldn't carry out an assigned task when you are not in your father's house, only goes to show you are a spoilt brat and you should count yourself lucky she didn't throw you out that same day. Some girls of this days are prune and lack proper home training, very lazy things.....see her mouth like the house is very dirty.....sigh# |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by saajus: 7:54am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Why are you staying with her family, not your parents? |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Fixed: 7:57am On Mar 12, 2020 |
LordKO: Guy did you just learn how to use "conceited attitude" ni? You are just shouting conceited attitude all over the thread. 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by hardon1(m): 8:05am On Mar 12, 2020 |
NextD18: why are you being naive. e no get person wey born pikin with out good intention of training him/her. one may have an excellent job or thriving business today and lose it years down the line making difficulty to set it. its doesnt mean such person didnt intend to cater for the family in the first plave. no one knows tomorrow, people face difficulties atimes 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by adesbreath: 8:07am On Mar 12, 2020 |
pocohantas: Which poor husband..wetin do him legs? |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Nicoddemus(m): 8:23am On Mar 12, 2020 |
The damage that woman will do your emotional and psychological wellbeing eh....... your self esteem, you'll realize it after 15years from now . You're talking a very big risk staying another day with her. That woman will destroy you o. I repeat that woman will destroy you o. I know that depth of what I'm talking about |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 8:23am On Mar 12, 2020 |
justnock: Am 21 yrs .....just completed my Nd program |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 8:24am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Davash222: Yes....he is aware |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by mechanics(m): 8:26am On Mar 12, 2020 |
What's the problem your dad has that made him do let you stay in your aunt's house, even if there should be a problem, he shouldn't allow you to stay that long outside being that you are a lady, it's better to let her husband know of your travail so he will act on time. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Aladdin1(m): 8:29am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Weaklings everywhere!.lazy weaklings for that matter.any small thing they want to run away.some people endued worse things in their own biological parents house.and they never complained for once.you are been fed and accomodated and simply domestic work is making you rave.what about young girls who do house helps for other people that are total strangers. how do they survive and manage to appear neat? i see you are a stubborn,lazy,weakminded and vengeful young girl.and you have just succeeded in painting your aunty black before the world.dont ur aunty go to work? do you do chores from morning to night? dont they feed you? does she beat you? why does she always have to shout on you or insult you? how come you always deliberately appear dirty and unkempt becos of just domestic work? these are questions you should answer in your mind if you are sincere. 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by B0rn2winxxx: 8:31am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oblongata: Your a pucsy niggha.. 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by iammiracle1(m): 8:32am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Fixed: The thing vex me no be small another one nah "I don't hold brief for the aunt though" all the while trying to dumb down the poor girls pain...Ni**er please |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 8:36am On Mar 12, 2020 |
NextD18: My father is not having financial challenges He sends me money at least every week |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by frozen70(f): 8:37am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529: You didn't mention the following What took you to her house Why did your father ask you to remain there What is your present stand in life academic wise Why not stay with your father If you don't have any important reason to be in her house and you can still go to your father house, pls pack out before she pulls you out Just politely tell her you want to go home to to your dad she has no right to tell you not to go As you are telling her make sure your bag is hanging on your shoulder and make sure you don't ask her for transport fair But if you don't have any money with you, you can solicit from your neighbours and beg them to keep it secret |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by SeedofDavid: 8:38am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529:You have a smartphone right? Are you actively looking for a job? You need to expose a little more of the things you are going through so people know how best to advise you. Like on why you can't go back to your dad's, was it your aunt that requested you come stay with her? and other issues. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by SavageMaster: 8:40am On Mar 12, 2020 |
NextD18: She said she went to live with her aunt because her Dad had some problems. Probably financial. He had been taking care of her before then. Don't blame the man too much. I guess her Mom is late; she made no mention of her in the post 1 Like |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by frozen70(f): 8:41am On Mar 12, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: Is better to suffer in your father's house rather than suffering in a relation house |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by frozen70(f): 8:43am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Davash222: Most times, men don't have idea of what is happening and when they know, they are always weak to act because they want to avoid the woman trouble at home Besides, if the person in question is from the woman family, the men become observers and if the from the mans family, he advices the girl goes back to her family |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 8:45am On Mar 12, 2020 |
AfroKnight: They store plates in the kitchen and wash only the one they use to eat that moment and leave the rest to stink.... |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 8:49am On Mar 12, 2020 |
AfroKnight: I know her well before..she comes to my father's house to visit when my mum was still alive |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by GraGra247(m): 8:49am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529: What of your mom can't she help? Please report that wicked aunt to welfare or child abuse. Search their number on Google. My problem is that if you run, you will most likely fall into wrong hands. Men will abuse you and incurable STD. Please call all your uncles and aunties and village people and tell them what you're passing through. Don't let anyone silence you. Talk till someone will bring you help. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by AfroKnight: 8:49am On Mar 12, 2020 |
Oluwatunmise529: Complete bullshît. Tell us another story abeg. |
Re: Living With My Aunt Who Is A Pastor's Wife Is Hell. Should I Run Away? by Oluwatunmise529(f): 8:50am On Mar 12, 2020 |
AfroKnight: I know her well before.... She come to visit us when my mum was still alive |
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