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miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

Austineperez:
Just wait a little longer she will come for you

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

degamemaster:
OP, did you just read my situation this night and know exactly what I'm going through?
I met this girl in church and we became friends and after a short while I told her plainly how I feel about her, of which she concurred. She has a boyfriend but doesn't love him, and she wants us together but some level of pride will not let her. All the time that I have asked her to give me a definite answer to my request, she still either say wait or she will brush it aside. At a time, she told me wants to gradually withdraw from the guy and form a life of her own. I am ready to wait for her but the fear that she haven't been open to me gave me serious concerns and I decided to be hunting again, just this afternoon, a white girl I got recently came to visit me, even though we 're still in friendship stage, this my African queen called in the midst of our discussion that if I can help her look up something in the supermarket and I was still on the call with her when she asked me whom I was with. I told her that I have a visitor and she concluded that she's my girlfriend and boom, the whole story changed to war as she came so angry even as I type right now, she have refused to talk to me.
I mean a girl who told me she's not yet ready yet and who has a boyfriend but not in love. I am yet to figure this out right now, should I take it that she still wants to know how serious I am or she's just feeding her feminine ego ? Maybe I should let her go and concentrate on the one who wants me... just confused about the whole thing.

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

cRobo:
Na their life be that

She is dying for you but because of pride she won't accept

I won't say a word

degamemaster:
OP, did you just read my situation this night and know exactly what I'm going through?
I met this girl in church and we became friends and after a short while I told her plainly how I feel about her, of which she concurred. She has a boyfriend but doesn't love him, and she wants us together but some level of pride will not let her. All the time that I have asked her to give me a definite answer to my request, she still either say wait or she will brush it aside. At a time, she told me wants to gradually withdraw from the guy and form a life of her own. I am ready to wait for her but the fear that she haven't been open to me gave me serious concerns and I decided to be hunting again, just this afternoon, a white girl I got recently came to visit me, even though we 're still in friendship stage, this my African queen called in the midst of our discussion that if I can help her look up something in the supermarket and I was still on the call with her when she asked me whom I was with. I told her that I have a visitor and she concluded that she's my girlfriend and boom, the whole story changed to war as she came so angry even as I type right now, she have refused to talk to me.
I mean a girl who told me she's not yet ready yet and who has a boyfriend but not in love. I am yet to figure this out right now, should I take it that she still wants to know how serious I am or she's just feeding her feminine ego ? Maybe I should let her go and concentrate on the one who wants me... just confused about the whole thing.

degamemaster:
OP, did you just read my situation this night and know exactly what I'm going through?
I met this girl in church and we became friends and after a short while I told her plainly how I feel about her, of which she concurred. She has a boyfriend but doesn't love him, and she wants us together but some level of pride will not let her. All the time that I have asked her to give me a definite answer to my request, she still either say wait or she will brush it aside. At a time, she told me wants to gradually withdraw from the guy and form a life of her own. I am ready to wait for her but the fear that she haven't been open to me gave me serious concerns and I decided to be hunting again, just this afternoon, a white girl I got recently came to visit me, even though we 're still in friendship stage, this my African queen called in the midst of our discussion that if I can help her look up something in the supermarket and I was still on the call with her when she asked me whom I was with. I told her that I have a visitor and she concluded that she's my girlfriend and boom, the whole story changed to war as she came so angry even as I type right now, she have refused to talk to me.
I mean a girl who told me she's not yet ready yet and who has a boyfriend but not in love. I am yet to figure this out right now, should I take it that she still wants to know how serious I am or she's just feeding her feminine ego ? Maybe I should let her go and concentrate on the one who wants me... just confused about the whole thing.

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

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miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

kiddkash:
the highlighted place. you sound like a b!tch

kiddkash:
the highlighted place. you sound like a b!tch

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

Joevics:
Invite her to your house, if you have one. Or take her on a date, and then talk. Ask her what she hates about you.

Women love to play hard to get. I have one playing the same ball game. Just make her feel special, and once you bleep her, the shakara go end.

miclef86:
Wow! I agree with you to some extent.
I think she really want to see the seriousness in me because her best friend have talked to me about her. That if I'm really serious that I will have her. But that's killing me...what kind of seriousness again...I have tried

Olunmercy56:
Op are you truly a man or woman rapper When she boldly told you that she is with another man, definitely she is coming back to you to waste your time, resources and cash, she will now leave you to a her choice man A jealous man or woman can destroys things, they don't care what happens after, they will always want to be selfishly satisfied

byrron:
Betting with her was very childish and as a matured mind which I presume you are, all you need to start doing henceforth is to be very diplomatic with her and keep everything that has to do with her on a very professional level.

Your love life should be your private business and henceforth, keep it away from the office.

Do not argue with her on anything rather keep it strictly professional and keep your space and now know your boundaries and eventually she will recognize that the days of playing is over and it is time for everyone to respect their various old age and move on with their private lives while still maintaining a professional relationship.

cRobo:
Na their life be that

She is dying for you but because of pride she won't accept

I won't say a word

Jonathan:
[s][/s]

Shut up

greggng:
You stil have unfinished business with her. She was right to say you don't know what you want....because you have been flirting with other girls around. She might be of the opinion that you are not taking her feeling for you seriously by extention taking her love seriously . A lady use to love me back then. One day she wrote me a letter and gave it to her younger brother to deliver to me .unfortunately one of my friends receive the letter on my behalf ....they brother met my absence and gave it to my friend. The mumu read it and spread the news like corona viruse. When her love letter became the talk of the town, she hijacked me on my way back home and break my head with her shoe...I was rushed to the hospital ...why the nurse was treating the wound I heard her saying ....This will teach me never to joke with a woman's love. I won't be surprise if your head is broken someday for joking with a woman's love. If you want to hear the rest of my story then .you have to pay me handsomely .cos you no follow me enjoy the pain then .

cRobo:
DAFT

DAFT

DAFT

how many times did I call you

I won't say a word