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How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by ozodigboo(m): 7:19am On Mar 21, 2020 |
My guy and I ran into two babes at a mall. I told my own that I like her, that we need to hang out, and I gave her my card ( with my number on it of course). She wanted to give me her number but I smiled and declined. I wanted her to feel free to call. My guy didn't buy the idea. He collected the his girls number, and lated called. But the girl hasn't yet agreed to any date and promised to call later, but hasn't. Mine hasn't called either. Lol Who between the both of us did the right thing? How long should we wait before giving up.? 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 7:22am On Mar 21, 2020 |
In my opinion I feel both you and your friend are kids. Male puppies. 52 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Jakub1: 7:24am On Mar 21, 2020 |
[s] OgunLaakaye:[/s] 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by allandutch: 7:28am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Alpha is a mindset, not some set of behaviors. The alpha mindset encompasses all aspect of your life, not just dating. You live your life on your own terms. It's your life, your rules. As for you Mr OP... whether you collect the girl's number or not doesn't make you alpha. You giving her your card sure as hell doesn't. "Who between the both of us did the right thing? How long should we wait before giving up.?" There are no "right thing" in this case, shoot your shot however you see fit. If it turns out well... fine, if it doesn't, well... Fine! The fact that you're even waiting for a response says a lot about your current mindset. 92 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Paxie55: 7:29am On Mar 21, 2020 |
This new rave of afa madness calls for brain sanitisatiom on this forum. Every little rat, white man's slave wanna be seen as alfa. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 7:37am On Mar 21, 2020 |
UnaToto 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by fernandoc(m): 7:43am On Mar 21, 2020 |
You gave her card and declined collecting hers as Mark Zuckerberg or who? 62 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Sugar97(f): 7:51am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Lol. What u call Alpha is just unnecessary pride. I'd understand if she didn't offer her number, but she did! Trust me, no one wants to be with someone who's full of himself. All that faux advice u get from the miseducator will not be the end of y'all. Amen. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Lightangel65: 8:15am On Mar 21, 2020 |
OgunLaakaye: True they are Alpha's Dont shoot shots, the girls are the ones who try their shots at them 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 8:15am On Mar 21, 2020 |
fernandoc:honestly! I can imagine how surprised she would have been. Although the op took a risk. By declining her card, she's the only one who can initiate a conversation by calling. Not him If she calls, he picks it up from there cos of the green light which is necessary. If she doesn't, then he lets it be. No harm done to his ego afterall... That makes him an alpha by nairaland's standard. He lets her come to him rather than approach her. Cc: martinez39 Pansophist Ubunja Omar09 19 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Premiumwriter: 8:16am On Mar 21, 2020 |
UnaToto:wetin no be your problem na? |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Shugavee(f): 8:17am On Mar 21, 2020 |
The guy that collected her number , has sense !! U on the other hand doesn’t , alpha male rubbish,, ubunja recruits 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Shugavee(f): 8:19am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Chocolatte01:lol Na better crazy Dey worry Una !! The way Una go single ehn !! Only a foolish ugly desperate girl will put herself so low 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Paxie55: 8:23am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Shugavee:These guys are just under age. When reality hits them in their old age, they will regret listening to an old love lorn 5 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by ubunja(m): 8:25am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Chocolatte01:always have things in such a way that the girl is the one always making the first move and you responding. Especially in the early days of the encounter. Very few girls will do this. Maybe 1 in.. I dont know. But those few who do, will really like you and won't string you along unnecessarily. 32 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:27am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Shugavee:Lol, I don't think so....... whether feminists or Alpha male, so far you are interested in getting married, you will Lemme watch una drama and laugh 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by CAPSLOCKED: 8:28am On Mar 21, 2020 |
OgunLaakaye: You must be a clown. You're in every girl's dm sending recharge cards, transport fares, and begging them to please pick your call, I'm sure. you're the type that these ones use as specimen when they post screenshots of the people bugging their lives by bombing their phones and inboxes with unwanted pestering. 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 8:30am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Shugavee:Im not an alpha. Not even a guy.. I'm trying to figure out why he did what he did. As a girl, i wouldn't call. I have too much pride for that. The manner he presented himself was nothing but arrogant... A huge turn off for me. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 8:32am On Mar 21, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED: Okay. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 8:33am On Mar 21, 2020 |
ubunja:Alright... Would it be wrong if an alpha approaches a lady first. He collects her number and calls, etc... 1 Like |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by fernandoc(m): 8:35am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Chocolatte01:A real player shouldn’t be scared of a bruised ego it’s part of the game. A professional athlete doesn’t quit because of one sprained muscle. 28 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Shugavee(f): 8:36am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Paxie55:lol swears !! It’s no news that Ubunja is single and frustrated !! N he’s followers r worse !! 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by ubunja(m): 8:37am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Chocolatte01:no Greenlights no Approach. And no collecting of phone numbers. We GIVE phone numbers. Not take them. The woman must be the driver/pusher for it to work. 49 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Zabiboy: 8:37am On Mar 21, 2020 |
ozodigboo: Before giving up what??... C'mon man... So if she calls now, u'll jzt feel so relieved like u won a lottery?? Infact i dont even knw how to tell u what i want to tell u without sounding rude....so i'll rather not say anything.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Shugavee(f): 8:38am On Mar 21, 2020 |
DanDeeBoss:what ?? |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by ubunja(m): 8:39am On Mar 21, 2020 |
fernandoc:why risk a bruised ego when there are ways of minimising the bruising of the ego? Work Smart. Not Hard. 16 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 8:39am On Mar 21, 2020 |
fernandoc:then why is the greenlight so important? Afterall the alpha isn't scared of taking risks 1 Like |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Shugavee(f): 8:40am On Mar 21, 2020 |
ubunja:yeye Dey smell 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:40am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Shugavee:?? |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Omar09(m): 8:40am On Mar 21, 2020 |
ozodigboo: You both did the right thing. As there's no wrong way to ask a girl out to a hangout. BTW if you were more specific to what you wanted, I think if she wanted it, she would have called. You said you wanted to hang out and you and I know that it's not just hanging out, and she knows that too and she's not sure she wants that kinda hanging out. Ps: you both shouldn't wait more than 48hrs to give up and move on! 1 Like |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:41am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Hahaha @ he declined taking her number. The card probably ended up in the nearest bin, where it belongs. The flies & maggots will call you 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Shugavee(f): 8:41am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Chocolatte01:my darling that one is too ugly to approach a lady !! He doesn’t hv what it takes for a woman to fall head over heels !! He’s broke also !! So it’s expected !! Lol |
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