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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Lordswazz(m): 11:25am On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:People should stick to what works for them. I've given girls number and they've called too. Nothing is written in stone. |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Reality11: 11:28am On Mar 21, 2020 |
Shugavee: Only a foolish ugly guy would put himself so low by begging for girls number How about this? 4 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by emperorsversion(m): 11:37am On Mar 21, 2020 |
I stand with ubunja.... it's cliche to meet a first time girl then just ask for her number... now the point is this, while some people (Ladies) see it as arrogance on the man's part... It depends on the mannerism and approach to which you have contact with the girl... rather than saying "hey call me,here's my card".. you could start up with light flatteries admiring her looks and even seek permission to snap her with her own phone... then you could just tip out your card and tell her, hey call me.... for photoshoot sessions � That would make a lot of difference, now you are the game and your approach was comic and flirty... 7 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Reality11: 11:43am On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra: By giving his number he showed that he is interested in her. If she threw away the number or refused calling that means she's not interested. And probably if he was the one that collected the number she would still show him big time. So by doing this, he has saved himself from chasing girls that won't be interested or willing to give him a try. But seriously the op .bleeped up by not giving her his number when she asked. Only desperate girls would call such a guy. |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by daytona555: 12:00pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
ozodigboo: You Sir are a dumbass . Ideally you are the man you should be defining and structuring pick ups and that means getting her number and hitting her up for a meeting. Asides, why the hell are you creating a thread because of a woman who didn’t respond to you. Tells a lot about your scarcity mentality and desperation. Opening a bleeping thread over a woman choking on another man dick right now. You should not be giving any Bleep when you deal with women unfortunately this one got you on lockdown. Pick up yourself and go ask out / approach 50 new women . You know the guys who Bleep the most , they are also the guys who get rejected the most . |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Olatara(f): 12:03pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:Hahaha, I do that a lot. In fact I won't even collect it or into the nearest bin. Mumu Alpha males, strong outside, soft inside. Yinmu. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by XhosaNostra(f): 12:04pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
seanwilliam: What makes you think I care about what you think? I don't. Idiotic or not, I will never make the 1st move on a man no matter what fàggoty tricks he pulls out his ass. If he doesn't take the initiative, that's the end of that because fùck him that's why. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by daytona555: 12:08pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra: Exactly. The only way you can pull such weak ass game is if you are celeb, famous or super rich which I bet the OP is none of. A Man creates his frame, reality, and boundaries he doesn’t wait for women to structure them for him. So initiating contact or pick up falls into the confines of masculine duties . Worst she will do his reject your advances and which you of course move on quickly. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Jaqenhghar: 12:09pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
seanwilliam:What is so unintelligent or intelligent because a woman says she prefers to be wooed? Its just an opinion , a preference for something. I dont eat eggs, it doesnt feel right to me , so going by this logic people who eat eggs are suddenly dumb and unintelligent. SMH 5 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by seanwilliam(m): 12:14pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar:lol.. you struck the wrong cord bro.read between the line 1 Like |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by XhosaNostra(f): 12:18pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
daytona555: I agree with you & the thing is, some of us have no problem matching a guy effort for effort once he gets the ball rolling. All these games end up spoiling things & in contrary to what some of these people believe, they do kill attraction. If you're declining to take a girl's number, in other words, you're putting yourself above her. She'll call you if she agrees lol. I won't You come at me maturely or piss off. |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Ay04z(m): 12:24pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Pussy go scarce for u if u no stop this ur alpha or alhaji mentality 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 12:24pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
I wonder why Ubuntu's followers always go overboard with things. Some days ago, a follower was arguing that guys aren't supposed to relate or converse with ladies here no matter what because redpills doesn't allow it. Now another follower stupidly blown what he could have won out of unnecessary pride. Yes I read the No approach No greenlight and I support it. Men shouldn't chase everything that's in skirts and should save themselves from unnecessary "magarism" . So I hold no brief against op for trying to use what he learned, however,op over did it! The girl offering her number after getting your card is a greenlight. An Alphamale will collect the number but won't call, this will put the girl in suspense thereby prompt her to call in order to find out why he hasn't called then the guy takes it off from there. That's how to do stuff. Not some outright bluff like you own the Moon, no sane being finds that attractive. Op the stunt you pulled will not work on Nigerian girls especially the ones with value.Just forget the girl and move on because She will never call.If she does she can't be trusted, she's probably planning to teach you some lessons because that's something I would do. 11 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Jaqenhghar: 12:38pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
seanwilliam:Naaaah bro there is no "between the lines" here man. U speaking english. U called her unintelligent because she said she will never budge or make the first move. You probably admired the fact that she is outspoken and somehow you thought that means she is the type to make the first move. Like I said it is an opinion. It is not about being intelligent or not. These days people tag whatever they disagree with as unintelligent or dumb. 6 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by ubunja(m): 12:38pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:as long as you never budge it just shows you think you're the Prize and the standoff itself sets the guy free to pursue a better girl for himself. A girl who thinks He is the Prize. Not every girl will see the guy as the prize. And it's OK. But he must only deal with ones who think he's the Prize. Two people who think they're the Prize won't get anywhere. And its not sissy or new age. Even Eve come to Adam. And it's an old principle I addressed at length in my writeup No Green Lights No Approach. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by XhosaNostra(f): 12:38pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ariza: Just curious, @ bolded, is that what you would do in a situation like that, give him a call? Personally, a guy I just met & have no feelings for will never make me wonder why he hasn't called. Who cares? In a couple of days I will forget all about him if he doesn't let his presence known. Next! Hell, even a guy I have started to like, if he plays too many "suspense games", it's only a matter of time before I start losing interest. I guess as women we're all different. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Jaqenhghar: 12:42pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
daytona555:Bless you. Look at the picture. A man will Wants to be wooed Doesnt want to spend when they go out Expects her to pay instead Then wants to Dictate what she wears Her friends Sex when he wants And expects all to be well. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Martinez39s(m): 12:43pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED: Omar09:I have money; I say the moon is made of cheese, and gravity isn't a thing. I must be right, and my opinion is valid because I have money. Evidence doesn't matter. As long you have money, you are always right and fit to make an argument. If you are broke, you are... 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by XhosaNostra(f): 12:44pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
ubunja: LOL! Oh well then. It's sissy to me because, traditionally a man leads. Finish. One who expects a female to court him & reach out to him 1st is not a man, at least in my book. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Martinez39s(m): 12:50pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Some will rather die than agree with Ubunja. Some will spend so much time and effort disproving any miseducation from Ubunja like their lives depend on it. Whew! 5 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by sexylassie2(f): 12:50pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
the OP has a low IQ He is not an intelligent boy...turn off |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 12:54pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:If I fancy a sane guy not the op kind of guy who reject my move, I will! What's in a call? I call friends to check sometimes scroll through my contacts just to check on random people if they are good. It's nothing if I initiate a call to the guy I fancy, it shows I'm interested and that would give the guy a clue. However, I won't chase a guy neither will I stand mind games. For me,things happen and flow naturally when I notice some superficiality, I turn tables if I am not emotionally invested but if I am, I walk out. The bolded? If the feeling isn't there, lol he's on his own. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by eterisan(m): 1:07pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
ubunja: But this is just common sense na .. I wonder why some guys don't get it... If a girl doesn't give me green light I don't approach or shoot my shot... All through my years of dating I have only missed once with this strategy... Lol.. Worse case I go jus de carry you play for WhatsApp... Why would I be chasing a girl up and down like say she be oxygen when babes full everywhere 16 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by seanwilliam(m): 1:08pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar:lol ... ok I agree |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 1:09pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra: From the quoted, I can deduce with alacrity that you're bitter, overly staved off, arrogant, and with a peanut size brain. You can actually express yourself without degrading lesbians or LGBTQ members alike by calling them "fagg0ts". In this century, it actually shows you off as immature and lame. I have numerous lesbian friends, and a few gays. Being called 'fagg0t' is an offensive term. Even NL understands that, which is why it automatically translates it to gay. But strong-headed homophobes like you will rather use special characters to shove down their hatred down our throat. Don't be offended, I find it hard dealing with folks like you nicely. I like going RAW! Shalom! 4 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by ubunja(m): 1:16pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
eterisan:you'll be surprised how uncommon common sense is lmfao. 6 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 1:16pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:I disagree though I have shoot my shot before I asked first 8 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by ubunja(m): 1:19pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Martinez39s:I have a feeling even if they do by chance apply what we teach (and it works) they'll not come back and admit it. I dont see that happening. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by ubunja(m): 1:24pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:it gives the man confirmation that you're equally desiring him when you initiate communications especially at the start out. The man will lead when things have officially started. But at that crucial early stage, the woman's actions help the guy. But not every girl will do this. Only a few. And the guy must only deal with these. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by XhosaNostra(f): 1:41pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ariza: Oh, I see. Interesting |
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by XhosaNostra(f): 1:43pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
HenryDion: And here's what I think of your opinion.
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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by XhosaNostra(f): 1:47pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Ladyhippolyta88: And how did it go for you? I can't. Never. Deep inside I'm a traditionalist, especially when it comes to relationships. If he doesn't take the 1st strike, I won't. It ends there for me. |
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