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How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by ozodigboo(m): 7:19am On Mar 21
My guy and I ran into two babes at a mall.
I told my own that I like her, that we need to hang out, and I gave her my card ( with my number on it of course). She wanted to give me her number but I smiled and declined. I wanted her to feel free to call.

My guy didn't buy the idea. He collected the his girls number, and lated called. But the girl hasn't yet agreed to any date and promised to call later, but hasn't.

Mine hasn't called either. Lol

Who between the both of us did the right thing? How long should we wait before giving up.?

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by OgunLaakaye: 7:22am On Mar 21
In my opinion

I feel both you and your friend are kids.

Male puppies.

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Jakub1: 7:24am On Mar 21
OgunLaakaye:
In my opinion

I feel both you and your friend are kids.

Male puppies.

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by allandutch: 7:28am On Mar 21
Alpha is a mindset, not some set of behaviors. The alpha mindset encompasses all aspect of your life, not just dating. You live your life on your own terms. It's your life, your rules.

As for you Mr OP... whether you collect the girl's number or not doesn't make you alpha. You giving her your card sure as hell doesn't.

"Who between the both of us did the right thing? How long should we wait before giving up.?"

There are no "right thing" in this case, shoot your shot however you see fit. If it turns out well... fine, if it doesn't, well... Fine!

The fact that you're even waiting for a response says a lot about your current mindset.

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Paxie55: 7:29am On Mar 21
This new rave of afa madness calls for brain sanitisatiom on this forum.
Every little rat, white man's slave wanna be seen as alfa.

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by UnaToto: 7:37am On Mar 21
UnaToto
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by fernandoc(m): 7:43am On Mar 21
You gave her card and declined collecting hers as Mark Zuckerberg or who?

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Sugar97(f): 7:51am On Mar 21
Lol. What u call Alpha is just unnecessary pride. I'd understand if she didn't offer her number, but she did! Trust me, no one wants to be with someone who's full of himself.

All that faux advice u get from the miseducator will not be the end of y'all. Amen. undecided

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Lightangel65: 8:15am On Mar 21
OgunLaakaye:
In my opinion

I feel both you and your friend are kids.

Male puppies.

True they are
Alpha's Dont shoot shots, the girls are the ones who try their shots at them

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 8:15am On Mar 21
fernandoc:
You gave her card and declined collecting hers as Mark Zuckerberg or who?
honestly! I can imagine how surprised she would have been. Although the op took a risk. By declining her card, she's the only one who can initiate a conversation by calling. Not him
If she calls, he picks it up from there cos of the green light which is necessary. If she doesn't, then he lets it be. No harm done to his ego afterall...
That makes him an alpha by nairaland's standard. He lets her come to him rather than approach her.

Cc: martinez39
Pansophist
Ubunja
Omar09

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Premiumwriter: 8:16am On Mar 21
grin
UnaToto:
UnaToto
grin grin wetin no be your problem na?
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Shugavee(f): 8:17am On Mar 21
The guy that collected her number , has sense !! U on the other hand doesn’t , alpha male rubbish,, ubunja recruits

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Shugavee(f): 8:19am On Mar 21
Chocolatte01:
honestly! I can imagine how surprised she would have been. Although the op took a risk. By declining her card, she's the only one who can initiate a conversation by calling. Not him
If she calls, he picks it up from there cos of the green light which is necessary. If she doesn't, then he lets it be. No harm done to his ego afterall...
That makes him an alpha by nairaland's standard. He lets her come to him rather than approach her.

Cc: martinez39
Pansophist
Ubunja
Omar09
lol Na better crazy Dey worry Una !! The way Una go single ehn !! Only a foolish ugly desperate girl will put herself so low

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Paxie55: 8:23am On Mar 21
Shugavee:
lol Na better crazy Dey worry Una !! The way Una go single ehn !! Only a foolish ugly desperate girl will put herself so low
grin These guys are just under age. When reality hits them in their old age, they will regret listening to an old love lorn grin

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by ubunja(f): 8:25am On Mar 21
Chocolatte01:
honestly! I can imagine how surprised she would have been. Although the op took a risk. By declining her card, she's the only one who can initiate a conversation by calling. Not him
If she calls, he picks it up from there cos of the green light which is necessary. If she doesn't, then he lets it be. No harm done to his ego afterall...
That makes him an alpha by nairaland's standard. He lets her come to him rather than approach her.

Cc: martinez39
Pansophist
Ubunja
Omar09
always have things in such a way that the girl is the one always making the first move and you responding. Especially in the early days of the encounter.

Very few girls will do this. Maybe 1 in.. I dont know.

But those few who do, will really like you and won't string you along unnecessarily.

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by DanDeeBoss: 8:27am On Mar 21
Shugavee:
lol Na better crazy Dey worry Una !! The way Una go single ehn !! Only a foolish ugly desperate girl will put herself so low
Lol, I don't think so....... whether feminists or Alpha male, so far you are interested in getting married, you will cheesycheesy


Lemme watch una drama and laugh

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by CAPSLOCKED: 8:28am On Mar 21
OgunLaakaye:
In my opinion

I feel both you and your friend are kids.

Male puppies.

You must be a clown.
You're in every girl's dm sending recharge cards, transport fares, and begging them to please pick your call, I'm sure.

you're the type that these ones use as specimen when they post screenshots of the people bugging their lives by bombing their phones and inboxes with unwanted pestering.

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 8:30am On Mar 21
Shugavee:
lol Na better crazy Dey worry Una !! The way Una go single ehn !! Only a foolish ugly desperate girl will put herself so low
Im not an alpha. Not even a guy.. I'm trying to figure out why he did what he did.
As a girl, i wouldn't call. I have too much pride for that. The manner he presented himself was nothing but arrogant... A huge turn off for me.

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by OgunLaakaye: 8:32am On Mar 21
CAPSLOCKED:


You must be a clown.
You're in every girl's dm sending recharge cards, transport fares, and begging them to please pick your call, I'm sure.

you're the type that these ones use as specimen when they post screenshots of the people bugging their lives by bombing their phones and inboxes with unwanted pestering.

Okay.

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 8:33am On Mar 21
ubunja:
always have things in such a way that the girl is the one always making the first move and you responding. Especially in the early days of the encounter.

Very few girls will do this. Maybe 1 in.. I dont know.

But those few who do, will really like you and won't string you along unnecessarily.
Alright... Would it be wrong if an alpha approaches a lady first. He collects her number and calls, etc...

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by fernandoc(m): 8:35am On Mar 21
Chocolatte01:
honestly! I can imagine how surprised she would have been. Although the op took a risk. By declining her card, she's the only one who can initiate a conversation by calling. Not him
If she calls, he picks it up from there cos of the green light which is necessary. If she doesn't, then he lets it be. No harm done to his ego afterall...
That makes him an alpha by nairaland's standard. He lets her come to him rather than approach her.

Cc: martinez39
Pansophist
Ubunja
Omar09
A real player shouldn’t be scared of a bruised ego it’s part of the game.
A professional athlete doesn’t quit because of one sprained muscle.

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Shugavee(f): 8:36am On Mar 21
Paxie55:

grin These guys are just under age. When reality hits them in their old age, they will regret listening to an old love lorn grin
lol swears !! It’s no news that Ubunja is single and frustrated !! N he’s followers r worse !!

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by ubunja(f): 8:37am On Mar 21
Chocolatte01:
Alright... Would it be wrong if an alpha approaches a lady first. He collects her number and calls, etc...
no Greenlights no Approach.

And no collecting of phone numbers. We GIVE phone numbers. Not take them. The woman must be the driver/pusher for it to work.

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Zabiboy: 8:37am On Mar 21
ozodigboo:
My guy and I ran into two babes at a mall.
I told my own that I like her, that we need to hang out, and I gave her my card ( with my number on it of course). She wanted to give me her number but I smiled and declined. I wanted her to feel free to call.

My guy didn't buy the idea. He collected the his girls number, and lated called. But the girl hasn't yet agreed to any date and promised to call later, but hasn't.

Mine hasn't called either. Lol

Who between the both of us did the right thing? How long should we wait before giving up.?

Before giving up what??...

C'mon man...

So if she calls now, u'll jzt feel so relieved like u won a lottery??

Infact i dont even knw how to tell u what i want to tell u without sounding rude....so i'll rather not say anything..
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Shugavee(f): 8:38am On Mar 21
DanDeeBoss:
Lol, I don't think so....... whether feminists or Alpha male, so far you are interested in getting married, you will cheesycheesy


Lemme watch una drama and laugh
what ??
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by ubunja(f): 8:39am On Mar 21
fernandoc:

A real player shouldn’t be scared of a bruised ego it’s part of the game.
A professional athlete doesn’t quit because of one sprained muscle.
why risk a bruised ego when there are ways of minimising the bruising of the ego?





Work Smart. Not Hard.

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Nobody: 8:39am On Mar 21
fernandoc:

A real player shouldn’t be scared of a bruised ego it’s part of the game.
A professional athlete doesn’t quit because of one sprained muscle.
then why is the greenlight so important? Afterall the alpha isn't scared of taking risks
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Shugavee(f): 8:40am On Mar 21
ubunja:
no Greenlights no Approach.

And no collecting of phone numbers. We GIVE phone numbers. Not take them. The woman must be the driver/pusher for it to work.
yeye Dey smell
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by DanDeeBoss: 8:40am On Mar 21
Shugavee:
what ??
??
Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Omar09(m): 8:40am On Mar 21
ozodigboo:
My guy and I ran into two babes at a mall.
I told my own that I like her, that we need to hang out, and I gave her my card ( with my number on it of course). She wanted to give me her number but I smiled and declined. I wanted her to feel free to call.

My guy didn't buy the idea. He collected the his girls number, and lated called. But the girl hasn't yet agreed to any date and promised to call later, but hasn't.

Mine hasn't called either. Lol

Who between the both of us did the right thing? How long should we wait before giving up.?

You both did the right thing. As there's no wrong way to ask a girl out to a hangout. BTW if you were more specific to what you wanted, I think if she wanted it, she would have called. You said you wanted to hang out and you and I know that it's not just hanging out, and she knows that too and she's not sure she wants that kinda hanging out.

Ps: you both shouldn't wait more than 48hrs to give up and move on!

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:41am On Mar 21
Hahaha @ he declined taking her number. The card probably ended up in the nearest bin, where it belongs. The flies & maggots will call you grin

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Re: How Do Alphas Shoot Their Shot ? by Shugavee(f): 8:41am On Mar 21
Chocolatte01:
then why is the greenlight so important? Afterall the alpha isn't scared of taking risks
my darling that one is too ugly to approach a lady !! He doesn’t hv what it takes for a woman to fall head over heels !! He’s broke also !! So it’s expected !! Lol

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