Shugavee:
we r not friends.

cos u do not know this handle...if i send u email now, u go see our chat from 2018 or thereabout lol.. have a nice day but stop by hypocritical dazzal

Patotelli:
It happened just last week as the government out hold on all tertiary Institutions. I traveled for some business hustle. At around 4pm on the Sunday I called my babe and we chatted for some time then someone coughed in the background which I asked who was that she replied a friend, I said ok..

Getting back to school o as to pack up things and finally go home. She came to my place and while trying to make love with her she said oh babe am not comfortable now. Like my conscious is priming me. I stopped and tried to let her talk about it but she waved it off and said she just wanted to see my reaction. Well as man be we continued after we were through she was like 'boo what if I tell you I someone has sex with me what would you do'.i just did as if I didn't hear what she said, I first left her and went to the sitting room to take water from the fridge and during to calm my nerves and be alright. When I came back to the room I asked her what she said the other time she just said oh nothing she's just afraid to say what she wanted to say,right then I know something's up. I entered motivation mood and started hyping her how good she has been to me, how she have changed me to a better person and how positive this relationship has been, how we have been best couples on campus and people envy our Union. Truth be told we love each other I even opened a business for her. She sells ladies footwear's and bags all imported from outside country.. before I know it she started crying that babe pls I'm sorry there's something that happened to me on Sunday and it would end our relationship, I was like nothing you want to say that is new in this world and that has not happened before, that no one is perfect. Well she said her ex chatted her up and was like pls he's down and needed some help that she should come help her out at home. On getting there the guy is was watching movie in his room. Well she's there already and sit down. All the guy was saying wa how he missed her and regretted cheating in her and all that before she could know it the guy pinned her down through struggle and all that the guy had his way with her..
I was so devastated don't know what to do at first because all I was thinking is that after all we've been through and done together our relationship will be a year by may, you still went to be laid by your Ex, asked how many times has it happened in our relationship she said 3 times, the first two when we just started that she still feels for the guy then.but now she don't feel for him again and that will be the only time she visited him since she got serious with me. but as someone who is matured and experienced I just kept my calm because she started crying and throughout the night she cried her eyes out.. I just remained mute till morning. The next day I told her we need a break but it got worse she fell and hit her head on some table.. I had to take her and apply some medication on her..

Why I came in here is for you fellow nairaLanders to advice me on what to do.
1st I love her
2nd she's known to my mom and brother
3rd I've draft out how my life is going to be spent with her forever.
4th can I continue dating her and tell her to cut ties with the guy.

Pls help me, what do I do and not do. What do I tell her and not tell her..

Thanks plss

lol...women and their EX....She still love that guy more than you and thats the bitter truth..
A river will never swallow whom it doesnt not see;thats simple.
EX has destroyed 99% of Relationship.
Just forgive her but she still love him More than u.....

remedick:
cos u do not know this handle...if i send u email now, u go see our chat from 2018 or thereabout lol.. have a nice day but stop by hypocritical dazzal

we ain’t friends. I ain’t friends with people who call me names . Insults ain’t new to me but that friend part , don’t work for me

Patotelli:
It happened just last week as the government out hold on all tertiary Institutions. I traveled for some business hustle. At around 4pm on the Sunday I called my babe and we chatted for some time then someone coughed in the background which I asked who was that she replied a friend, I said ok..

Getting back to school o as to pack up things and finally go home. She came to my place and while trying to make love with her she said oh babe am not comfortable now. Like my conscious is priming me. I stopped and tried to let her talk about it but she waved it off and said she just wanted to see my reaction. Well as man be we continued after we were through she was like 'boo what if I tell you I someone has sex with me what would you do'.i just did as if I didn't hear what she said, I first left her and went to the sitting room to take water from the fridge and during to calm my nerves and be alright. When I came back to the room I asked her what she said the other time she just said oh nothing she's just afraid to say what she wanted to say,right then I know something's up. I entered motivation mood and started hyping her how good she has been to me, how she have changed me to a better person and how positive this relationship has been, how we have been best couples on campus and people envy our Union. Truth be told we love each other I even opened a business for her. She sells ladies footwear's and bags all imported from outside country.. before I know it she started crying that babe pls I'm sorry there's something that happened to me on Sunday and it would end our relationship, I was like nothing you want to say that is new in this world and that has not happened before, that no one is perfect. Well she said her ex chatted her up and was like pls he's down and needed some help that she should come help her out at home. On getting there the guy is was watching movie in his room. Well she's there already and sit down. All the guy was saying wa how he missed her and regretted cheating in her and all that before she could know it the guy pinned her down through struggle and all that the guy had his way with her..
I was so devastated don't know what to do at first because all I was thinking is that after all we've been through and done together our relationship will be a year by may, you still went to be laid by your Ex, asked how many times has it happened in our relationship she said 3 times, the first two when we just started that she still feels for the guy then.but now she don't feel for him again and that will be the only time she visited him since she got serious with me. but as someone who is matured and experienced I just kept my calm because she started crying and throughout the night she cried her eyes out.. I just remained mute till morning. The next day I told her we need a break but it got worse she fell and hit her head on some table.. I had to take her and apply some medication on her..

Why I came in here is for you fellow nairaLanders to advice me on what to do.
1st I love her
2nd she's known to my mom and brother
3rd I've draft out how my life is going to be spent with her forever.
4th can I continue dating her and tell her to cut ties with the guy.

Pls help me, what do I do and not do. What do I tell her and not tell her..

Thanks plss

Old road no dey close my brother. the ex fűçķś better than you. up your game. out fùçķ him. these bishes follow the money but always I repeat always come back for some good đìçķ. if she says 3 times, you have to multiply that same number by (3). * you've got a hoe not a cutlass.

Shugavee:
we ain’t friends. I ain’t friends with people who call me names . Insults ain’t new to me but that friend part , don’t work for me

madam... u seem not to like people tell you the truth. I am not surprised. are you no a Nigerian? na una nature na... cos i called u a friend does not mean I am desperate to have a friend. i don't care what you feel about my word... it does not change the fact about your views on this issue...

and lastly, we are no furking friends

Pls move on. She's loose! The Guy didn't rape her? Did she wear a gown or skirt?

Pinned her down? But she couldn't scream for people to hear.

She's damn loose. I'm sure all her exes are shagging her.

Her ex knws her weakness that she loves him or loves sex thus he's capitalising on that.

She's not honest. The sex wasn't a mistake. She pre planned it. She wanted it. Else, why would she visit an ex while you were either busy working your ass off to raise another money may be this time, not for her to set up a biz but to buy pay for Bisola's Aso ebi while another man that's not paying her bills is busy enjoying her goodies.


Shi Omo yen sile. Let her go

Patotelli:
It happened just last week as the government out hold on all tertiary Institutions. I traveled for some business hustle. At around 4pm on the Sunday I called my babe and we chatted for some time then someone coughed in the background which I asked who was that she replied a friend, I said ok..

Getting back to school o as to pack up things and finally go home. She came to my place and while trying to make love with her she said oh babe am not comfortable now. Like my conscious is priming me. I stopped and tried to let her talk about it but she waved it off and said she just wanted to see my reaction. Well as man be we continued after we were through she was like 'boo what if I tell you I someone has sex with me what would you do'.i just did as if I didn't hear what she said, I first left her and went to the sitting room to take water from the fridge and during to calm my nerves and be alright. When I came back to the room I asked her what she said the other time she just said oh nothing she's just afraid to say what she wanted to say,right then I know something's up. I entered motivation mood and started hyping her how good she has been to me, how she have changed me to a better person and how positive this relationship has been, how we have been best couples on campus and people envy our Union. Truth be told we love each other I even opened a business for her. She sells ladies footwear's and bags all imported from outside country.. before I know it she started crying that babe pls I'm sorry there's something that happened to me on Sunday and it would end our relationship, I was like nothing you want to say that is new in this world and that has not happened before, that no one is perfect. Well she said her ex chatted her up and was like pls he's down and needed some help that she should come help her out at home. On getting there the guy is was watching movie in his room. Well she's there already and sit down. All the guy was saying wa how he missed her and regretted cheating in her and all that before she could know it the guy pinned her down through struggle and all that the guy had his way with her..
I was so devastated don't know what to do at first because all I was thinking is that after all we've been through and done together our relationship will be a year by may, you still went to be laid by your Ex, asked how many times has it happened in our relationship she said 3 times, the first two when we just started that she still feels for the guy then.but now she don't feel for him again and that will be the only time she visited him since she got serious with me. but as someone who is matured and experienced I just kept my calm because she started crying and throughout the night she cried her eyes out.. I just remained mute till morning. The next day I told her we need a break but it got worse she fell and hit her head on some table.. I had to take her and apply some medication on her..

Why I came in here is for you fellow nairaLanders to advice me on what to do.
1st I love her
2nd she's known to my mom and brother
3rd I've draft out how my life is going to be spent with her forever.
4th can I continue dating her and tell her to cut ties with the guy.

Pls help me, what do I do and not do. What do I tell her and not tell her..

Thanks plss

God forbid

Na dem! The one na sperm bank na. Imagine how dramatic she makes everything looks. She fell and hit her head on the table, and the mumu o.p assisted her with first aid.
Most women are evil, she wants to make you feel guilty and you bloody fell for that bullshit.
Fear women! A woman will still look for a way to blame you after infecting you with HIV/Aids

That's their best line of defend, mine said she got drunk and was fucking the guy all the time during nysc and spending countless night with the guy, I come dey reason nah everyday the guy dey drunk her, lying bitches.

OP just use your head...

My friend don't be decieved it can always happen again as long as she still communicate with her ex, Even if u marry her 2day what guarantee do you have that she won't go to him, force sex is also rape, that means the 3 times or more it happen is force sex, as n she said nothing to you, well her tears might b real sign of regret, if you love her 4give and watch her moves, 4 that story my mom and broda knw her it doesn't work on a wayward girl, watch her moves and see if she truly repentant

val4sure:
That's their best line of defend, mine said she got drunk and was fucking the guy all the time during nysc and spending countless night with the guy, I come dey reason nah everyday the guy dey drunk her, lying bitches.

OP just use your head...

Maybe they usually meet up in a brewery, you never can tell.

Adgideon:
My friend don't be decieved it can always happen again as long as she still communicate with her ex, Even if u marry her 2day what guarantee do you have that she won't go to him, force sex is also rape, that means the 3 times or more it happen is force sex, as n she said nothing to you, well her tears might b real sign of regret, if you love her 4give and watch her moves, 4 that story my mom and broda knw her it doesn't work on a wayward girl, watch her moves and see if she truly repentant

she went to him the first time and he allegedly raped her, she went the second time and got raped, went a third time Nd got raped.its either She really likes getting raped or she’s lying, either way she ain’t good for OPs sanity.

Op you really need all the concentration and focus you can get at this stage in your life. A Lady that’s cheating on you at this stage won’t stay if you let her derail you Nd you end up unsuccessful in life. My 2 cents.

remedick:
madam... u seem not to like people tell you the truth. I am not surprised. are you no a Nigerian? na una nature na... cos i called u a friend does not mean I am desperate to have a friend. i don't care what you feel about my word... it does not change the fact about your views on this issue...

and lastly, we are no furking friends

yeah that’s better