freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

OBku4:


E be like say you be porn addict. hmn!

ACE1010:


O boy let's meet and step down with a bottle of Bailey's

redsun:


I think he should be embarrassed to raise such issue with his brother. He should have pretended he didn't see see, because such a thing is highly personal and private and not his business, unless of course he is gay and incestuous in nature incestuous,

Iyiataata92:
see them
Well, for those quoting me and asking how I know that Nairaland is home of masturbators, here we go

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

fulaniHERDSman:
Mumu talk. If na me, the slap U go receive, teeth no go remain U for mouth again. Na your priick
No respect again for this world.

Iyiataata92:

He's seeking constructive advice from Nairaland, the home of masturbators.

Hahaha

freeman131:


I never mentioned he's involved in premarital sex even if he's involved I really won't get guilty of what I know nothing of.

I'm only concerned about the one I've seen him do.

Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''?
As in he masturbates and people pay him?
What a noble profession!!!

Adakintroy2:


Actually masturbatuon is a far more dangerouse sin because it leans more towards the unatural. If one continue in this, he or.she may loose interest in natural sex as with most addictions.

But if that girl is his girlfriend and they both agree to marry in spirit he is free to have sex wit her the rest outward marriage is but " ceremony"


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Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''?
As in he masturbates and people pay him?
What a noble profession!!!

fulaniHERDSman:
Mumu talk. If na me, the slap U go receive, teeth no go remain U for mouth again. Na your priick
No respect again for this world.

Iyiataata92:

He's seeking constructive advice from Nairaland, the home of masturbators.

Hahaha

Hed0nist:


Apart from you judging him, has his masturbation actually affected you in any negative way? How will your parents find out he is wanking if you don't open your mouth to tell them?

Mind your business.

You mentioned that he has a beautiful girlfriend. What sinless alternative does she provide with respect to calming agro?

Till you get your own place, the only thing you should be concerned about is ensuring that he washes his hands after each meat beating session.

freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

Catchinedu:
You are a usurper how can u refer to ur elder brother who u live in his house in such stupid terms? U obviously don't have genuine love for ur brother REPENT FROM UR HYPOCRISY AND ENVY!!�

FatherBona:

The more reasons the should not find out.
What are guys for
If you like go and run your mouth like a sister, and watch the trust your brother had for you which has taken years to build, go down the drain.

Receive sense

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

benji93:
En, marry in spirit Ke. Wetin Professor no go see for Nairaland. What if the guy dig well, but no reach water, wetin hin go do then? Divorce out of spirit?