Iyiataata92:

She's seeking constructive advice from Nairaland, the home of masturbators.

Hahaha

U say "the home of masturbators"
How did you know?

freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

Why bring a Christian family issue to a non Christian platform like nairaland.

For what reason should you tell?

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

The conversation between OP and the pastor:

OP: Pastor, my brother masturbates instead of sleeping with his loving girlfriend!

Pastor: What!? That's a sin!

Actually it is not your business and you should not be informing any person of what you saw. This is his personal affair, if you feel the need to further discuss with him, do so without involving a third party.

Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''?
As in he masturbates and people pay him?
What a noble profession!!!

Ayam bewildered

freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

you are an asshole..... plain and simple
get that fucking log out of your eye before you look for the speck in your brother's eye
in your mind, you are holy and righteous, you are the golden child of your parents and the need to bring him down to elevate yourself even higher is the drive behind this.
people like you i love to Bleep over just to see the look in your eye when you know that jesus is not gonna save you from the torment i unleash on pukes like you.

freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

So telling your parents or pastor is the only way you could help a brother Seek for solution on how to end masturbation, then use the ideas while helping him...

Iyiataata92:

She's seeking constructive advice from Nairaland, the home of masturbators.

Hahaha

u say "Nairaland, the home of masturbators"

How did you know? Lol

U no go dey ur own na ur masturbate ..anyways call him to order and tell him the implications of his actions since you know that than him ,I believe that will go a long way to correct his actions

So you don't self-service off? It's a common thing and no big deal except he's overdoing his. Just keep your mouth shut.

mickelkingz:

U say "the home of masturbators" How did you know?

Many Nairalanders are chronic masturbators and they don't hide it. Hang around this thread and you'll see what I mean

hmmmm. nothing is medically wrong with it. It is even recommended as a method for stress control..... besides he is a grown and has his life. if am him, and u report me to anyone, Bros, u are leaving my house that very day...thank u

Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''?
As in he masturbates and people pay him?
What a noble profession!!!

Loooool,i tire oo

Leave your brother alone, amibo
Religious elder kee
Pastor kee you dia

You need to find something meaningful to do with your life. You're a Christian? Forget it, You're still a slave

freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

but having sex with his pretty girlfriend is not a sin?.......mtwww......abi Christian families De endure that one?

What do you mean masturbate for a living? Orisirisi

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

Is masturbating a sin?
Cos I'm not understanding.

mickelkingz:


u say "Nairaland, the home of masturbators"

How did you know? Lol

Bro just chill and read comments from this thread and you'll agree with me

You came to leave with him
Now you came up with a challenge to report him
Menh, you get mind, back in the days
When you see this kind of thing you lock up

Try it where i am

Arrest Him


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VifYbIordEc

If you know u have never done it before, report him. At least he is free from olosho covid.

Your pastor that is oga patapata of Vaseline crew! Mtchewwww!

OP are you kidding me? Get a life

What your elder brother does in his private time is none of your business. Why are you even in that house self? Are you a priest? even priests are wise enough to know that they must wait for people to come to them with their problems. My friend dey your dey make your big bro dey him dey. Period

Learn how to mindeding your business.

free the guy abeg

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

mind your business, he is an adult and it is his life

You mean self help

Seandisputed:

Lol you people will not kill me.
Masturbation is a sin but having premarital sex with the girlfriend is not? Some people are just confused in this life.

Actually masturbatuon is a far more dangerouse sin because it leans more towards the unatural. If one continue in this, he or.she may loose interest in natural sex as with most addictions.

But if that girl is his girlfriend and they both agree to marry in spirit he is free to have sex wit her the rest outward marriage is but " ceremony"


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