freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

You can't cheat nature. 65 percents of single guys and ladies masturbate daily. But we all keep it to ourselves. As far as you don't expose it to other people to see, you are fine.
It is better to masturbate than to rape. Masturbation is not a criminal offense but rape is a criminal offense. It is encouraging to do it so as to reduce sexual urge or reduce sexual tension and you are fine.

Yoruba adage says we are all thieves but whosoever is caught in his her thievery act is a criminal. He that sin not should first cast a stone.

emddi:
Yes!SEX with multiple partners

Ok

HenryDion:
I don't understand, you mean someone cannot masturbate peacefully in his house again? If I were you and I barged in on him wanking, I will respectfully apologize and get the fuxk out asap.

But due to the lack of respect you children of this generation have, they would want to even advise their grandpa.

If I were your elder brother, I would have given you a thunderous slap that will reset your brain.

Masturbation is healthy, as long as it doesn't affect his social life or job.

Secondly, it is not a sin since the Bible made no mention of masturbation. Stop this holier than thou attitude, cause your kind has some weird sex fetish that often disgusts.

Even if it is a sin, is it his sin?

I know a married woman , a mother of three that still masturbate.

What is the big deal in that s.hit

Seandisputed:

Lol you people will not kill me.
Masturbation is a sin but having premarital sex with the girlfriend is not? Some people are just confused in this life.

You just busted the lies or rather the fiction some people can lie ehn!

Encourage him to marry, if not yet ready get him a Randy Girlfriend

Wetin concern you? Na your prick he self-service. I think you should mind your business. Everybody battles with their demons. Let him battle it. You don't have to tell your parents coz he will never forgive you for that

OP, see ehn the only solution is go and rent your house so you cannot see him doing so again.

If he didn't have a girlfriend you would have said masturbation stops him from finding a girlfriend.

You want to find solution for a man of 29?

Nor go look at your life and see the things you need to fix in it.

Chris2863:

Hahahhaahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha most nairalanders masturbate for a living

Abeg no kill me with laugh oo. The girl miss road come here

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

Charles Nwonga take it easy oo

shey dem dey report masturbation ni? Oga go and find something else doing

tsmith:


Are you okay? A grown man is masturbating and you're here crying foul for him? An addict would not be able to hold down a job, family or social ties or even function.

You're brother is a doctor, maintains an apartment as you're staying with him, maintains a love relationship, maintains religious ties and still has you his brother around him and you call him an addict? Abegii who make you addiction doctor and diagnosis expert? Get the F**k outta hia!

Una really get time.....dude said masturbation is a sin and at the same time his brother has a girlfriend,hmmm that one no be sin o.....he is the masturbation guru here ,not any imaginary brother.

You invaded someone's privacy, in his own house, instead of apologizing U'r threatening him? Imagine.
OK, what if he was having sex with the beautiful girlfriend when you walked in on him, will you still threaten him with reporting him to your pastor and parent because he's sexing ?

Adakintroy2:


I never said sexual urge is not naturall.. I said mastubation isnt or leans more to the " unnatural. Now because the definition of "unaturall is subjective" in relation to sex we may have a haRd time finding common ground. In other to avoid such snag. I will try to explain i what sex is and you tell me if they both bares resemblance to be characterize as natural within the context of human progressive behavior.

the draw of sex calls us to bond with the opposite half It's both a natural and or spiritual experience.

,the process or buildup of sex leads to exchange. Sometimes of gift passions,.promise thoughts all of which may be absent in singular act of mastubation.

Second the draw of sex calls us to bond . An age long promise of unification of both halfs mind body and soul.

The third leads to babies. The ultimate show of continuity to which you are in part signatory. So when we are talking about natural or unaturall behaviors we are also talking of scopes. Broad progressives to which a single act "to relieveurge" do not cover. This is why it's a lazy act. This why it's unaturall or not natural enough. This why it's a sin.

Leave this grammar it is as natural as scratching yur back or picking yur nose ,if it is a progressive human behavior earlymen indulge in it as well as modernmen who brought varieties of innovation to it,what is unnatural is u seeing yur back or back of yur head nature forbid it for humans.

Iyiataata92:

She's seeking constructive advice from Nairaland, the home of masturbators.

Hahaha

Looool

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freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

Op if you are without a sin report him but if you're a sinner in one way or the other then you have no right to judge and condem him.

Adakintroy2:


If you want to ask a question ask like a curious mind. Not like a belligerent mind trying to subvert authority. There are things a out there you are ignorant off. even the common sense things.

A man and a woman can take their vows in a narrow space with no one in sight there conscience alone baring them withness as to the truth of their confessions.

So even without the ceremonies they will be married before God. ( true state of the heart)

We fornication when we have sex with another with not the promise of the heart to keep the body and soul all unifield. A loose arrangement is what fornicating means more or less.

You carry the mind of God

Adakintroy2:


If you want to ask a question ask like a curious mind. Not like a belligerent mind trying to subvert authority. There are things a out there you are ignorant off. even the common sense things.

A man and a woman can take their vows in a narrow space with no one in sight there conscience alone baring them withness as to the truth of their confessions.

So even without the ceremonies they will be married before God. ( true state of the heart)

We fornication when we have sex with another with not the promise of the heart to keep the body and soul all unifield. A loose arrangement is what fornicating means more or less.

You Know God Well

Stay safe everyone

FatherBona:
Free the guy jhor.
Which would you prefer, he keeps one girlfriend and self-services himself anytime he has the urges which is not an offence or a sin (debatable), or he stops wanking and keep strings of girlfriends?!?
Choose the lesser evil





That will be doing more harm than good, drop the idea immediately. He's 29 years for Christ sake. His wife will take Care of his problem when the time comes. That your brother jerks of is a clarion call for his girlfriend to step up her sex game, or maybe your brother is the busy type, (as expected of Medical workers). Hence, they may be a clash in their schedules, that is understandable. Allow them to work it out, and focus your attention on more serious issues.



My peace I leave you

Na them be that lolz.

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

Plz delete ur post op....as it has no basis for discussion...

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

Just Google "how to get rid of Masturbation addiction".
Visit trustworthy sites; they have working tips.
I hope this helps you.
Ensure your brother follow those tips, show it to him.
Research more tips together; If he is serious, it will definitely stop.

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

his girlfriend will handle that when she move in. Dont report him to avoid issues.

Seandisputed:

Lol you people will not kill me.
Masturbation is a sin but having premarital sex with the girlfriend is not? Some people are just confused in this life.

Oddly enough masturbation is never talked about in the Bible as sinful. Before anyone comes mentioning the sin of Onan his sin was not impregnating his brother's wife because that was what he was commanded to do. The imaginary sins of spilling your seed and masturbation are what early Church fathers made up by themselves due to the influences of Greek philosophy.

You better mind your business.

He has decided to take "things" into his own hand.

freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

Who told you it's a sin? Where and in which holy book?

Na EFCC make you report am to. Oniranu!!! Wetin "consign" you?! If you come see am with Olosho nko? Na angel Gabriel you call immediately, bah?

freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

Try and masturbate once in a while. I feel you have to much pent up sperm in you thats making you not to mind ur business.

Seandisputed:

Lol you people will not kill me.
Masturbation is a sin but having premarital sex with the girlfriend is not? Some people are just confused in this life.

Do you blame them?

So many people on this planet are naturally foolish.

What’s your own

Seandisputed:

Lol you people will not kill me.
Masturbation is a sin but having premarital sex with the girlfriend is not? Some people are just confused in this life.

Wow! Sense no go kee you my broda. You hit the nail on the head, everybody be claiming Christianity but the works of their hands no clean. Just like we get so many churches for Naija yet corruption na our closest neighbor. Where’s that picture of Buhari marching forward but with his head turned backwards?

freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

why would you want to report him? Anything wrong with masturbating?