Jim99:



Black men are like gold to white women. You know why? We know how to treat our women right.

omooba969:


What do you say when a mistress out there does it better, thereby making the man look in her direction instead of his wife's...?

Freelane33:
Ahahahah so you’re okro. Hmmmm I rest my case . To the bro In questioned , okro is very dangerous oooo

samwash:


You kwn nothing, how do u explain you love someone & you intend spending the rest of ur life with that person, you can't even extend hand of fellowship to the person in times of needs, financially or other wise .
That is the need of dating or relationship? You think it's only in marriage that a man is up to his responsibility.
Pple like you can not even Carter for their in-laws even if they are good in-laws or not.
So all you think in a relationship before marring is sex, sex alone,there is no successful relationship & marriage without giving, either your time , material or Money.

1StopRudeness:


If I can’t understand sarcasm...Abeg shift

Evercurious:


How do I know? I HAVE BEEN IN AND THROUGH SAME SITUATION. and well if she has got some time to spare, she should go dig more and come tell us her findings..

Humility017:


if he can't give her a penny now when married he won't do either.

what you can't tolerate in marriage don't take it in your relationship.

don't understand why you guys are defending this...dude is stingy and it is not for marriage.

pocohantas:


Awww. Some of you are just human dildos. I have a friend with this same mindset. She was housing one fckboy in PH the last time I checked.

God forbid I fall for that mind-game from men. Same men that expect you to cook, be submissive, have a womb, birth health babies, respect his whole family, take them as yours, maybe before yours sef, tend to him when he eventually begins to pack up- they always pack up first...etc

Companionship kill you there! You be puppy?

pocohantas:


The mistresses’s bf shouldn’t come to disturb is when he finds out she is cheating. It is all for the brotherhood.

Evercurious:


Pls SHE ISN'T DESPERATE . She is simply concerned and it's normal.. People like you make situations like this look normal whereas it isn't..


Op I bet you ,if you continue with that 'relationship', you ll eventually be left EMOTIONALLY DRAINED AND FAGGED OUT.

pocohantas:


Naso. I have a dream...

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

Zinny25:
run for your life my dear. I'm also an independent lady, don't ask for money yet some dumb ones won't for once give you a dime. Yet they will ask for sex,food and everything, stupid boys

Millenniumlady:
That's what you do when you eat okra is rest before eating for your whole life

Millenniumlady:
So you mean you can't take care of the needs of your girlfriend

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

Glink2018:


US and co. Have a lot of single ladies who have good exposure and are responsible. Not like Naija ladies who are just like a lion, looking for guys to devour.

You asked about my foreign wife. My foreign girl will chat or call you if you can drop your contact.

Local breed!

donstan18:

See this one oooo...

So because he was bold enough to take his money back as agreed without any atom of shame, you are pissed?

Why were you surprised he took it back?


Was that not your agreement with him?

What a bold man he is, if men can be that bold to you women, we won't have much complaints from men.


Nonesense and POS.

King44:
I would definitely but won't tolerate the idea of self entitlement plus the relationship must be symbiotic, you can't buy me singlet on my birthday when you can afford something better and expect me to by you quality wears, I would surely buy something equivalent or nothing

NoraPibowei:
Pls break up with him,he's using u,he's similar to my cousin's ex, is that guy fair in complexion?

Ishilove:
DUMP HIS STINGY ASS. Love is giving and if he is too stingy to give then he isn't worth it. The best way to handle mofos like him is stop giving him. When he comes to your place, give him cold water to drink. If there is no light, give him lukewarm water. When you go to his place, make sure you eat well before reaching there. Don't buy him gifts. Call him on WhatsApp call (don't use your credit to call).

Don't spend a dime in his stingy ass and give him as hard as he gives you. Tit for tat.

Amaefuleteddy:
My dear find ur way o!
You're dealing with a shameless man
For you to demand for his Acc, he he gave it to you, means the fellow is foolish!!!
Tufiakwa!!!!

tabithababy:
Op, I beg you , forget the guy

Or prepare to feed him, his kids, his family and side chicks from your own money

He keeps seeing you as a fo'ool.... Am very sure you are giving him free sex, money, food and even calling him with your money

Loove ooooo

james6381:
No man is a stingy. Every man is a giver. For the fact that he did not give you money doesn't mean he is a stingy man. It could be that he's trying you or your patience as a wife to be. Please be wise not to loose your chances. Because you are his girl friend doesn't mean he can't give you money or support. Wait until you becomes his wife and see the difference between girlfriend and wife. Maybe that's his own strategy for a good woman. Men a looking for a wife material with different testing actions towards a lady. If the lady is not the patience type she will loose one of the best husband that could be hers to another lady. If you love him be patience and humble. If do not love him, find your way.

nairalanduseles:


You got no self worth

That is why you meet people like your kind

People who use little money to have sex with you and laugh with thier friends about how cheap you are

If you had a bit of pride you will never wanna take anything from any man

You are not exposed

You really need to leave nigeria and start mixing with ladies who have a job and pay bills

No one who pays bills expect from people....

LaZy cunt

Zinny25:
run for your life my dear. I'm also an independent lady, don't ask for money yet some dumb ones won't for once give you a dime. Yet they will ask for sex,food and everything, stupid boys

Millenniumlady:
Buying singlet on birthday is an insult things rolex and airmax is what i can buy for a man that spend on me.

Ladycewhy:
Do you need a prophet to come and tell you the guy is a stingy guy? Dey use your money dey cook for am for your house then still add your toto ontop for am as jara. Na penis dey hungry you.

A shameless akagum who will shamelessly come to your house camp and eat food for free . Will ask your mother to drop money for food when she comes for amugwuo.