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Admissionclass:
When a girl you like starts playing hard to get, what should you do especially when she is showing subtle signs she likes you, leaving you confused.

Should one continue to chase her till she accepts or move on?

Kaka1234:
You leave her alone, she's a kid. I personally don't play hard to get, I feel like it's childish. If I say no its my no and my yes is my yes.

Dybala11:
Move on with your life, there are many fishes in the river.

Admissionclass:
When a girl you like starts playing hard to get, what should you do especially when she is showing subtle signs she likes you, leaving you confused.

Should one continue to chase her till she accepts or move on?

Farki:
Read the art of seduction before I dated one of my past girlfriends the girl was acting very stubborn, that book fixed the issue.

A quick summary is that you should change your thinking and make yourself the prize.

Improve your looks, your health, your style and keep contact with the girl but don't supplicate her or even make everything about her.

Keep other attractive women around you either as friends or as casual dating. Eventually the object of your desire will notice and try to loosen her guard to know what you're all about. I noticed that women are more open to talking with me if I'm with another woman already .

If that doesn't work and she still isn't interested you would have gotten other options which could be better matches that the girl you were chasing.

Benzgang:
Start asking her about her friend and put more interest towards the said friend,while acting like you don't care no more about her.
She'll start to wonder what the friend has that she lacks and will want to come closer to find out.
There and then my friend,you've got the chicken at your disposal.
They always lose their minds when you do this.
I call my ex all the time to ask after her friend whenever I'm bored and feel like making someone angry

rex444:
go and self isolate

Simpubozz:
Give her a little space and try to figure out if she's into you. Pretend you sick and have your mutual friend stylishly inform her about your sickness . If she checks on you then may be she has one or two things for you. So from there, you can sit her ass down to make her understand things

Goalnaldo:
Simple rent a Benz, wear nice clothes and perfume. Even her mom will beg to date you

frozen70:
Just don't get tired and don't rush her

Slow and steady wins

She has a treasure you want to hunt

So, let her decides if she can give it to you or not

And if you are running out of patience, avoid contact with her

Kenneth10110:
What if she doesn't give you attention like you always have to greet her before she responds i mean she never for once said hi to you first.

Admissionclass:
When a girl you like starts playing hard to get, what should you do especially when she is showing subtle signs she likes you, leaving you confused.

Should one continue to chase her till she accepts or move on?

merahki:

0KNM:
Is that so?

Budline1:
This is desperation. It doesn't have to be that hard. When a girl forms hard to get basically mean she's not that into you, rejecting u politely, just let her go.

Simpubozz:
no, not desperation. Just one of ways to get your fact right. Girls are unpredictable so one needs to check if he's not misinterpreting her actions. As for me, I wouldnt want to waste my time except I confirm she's into me as well

Admissionclass:
When a girl you like starts playing hard to get, what should you do especially when she is showing subtle signs she likes you, leaving you confused.

Should one continue to chase her till she accepts or move on?

CoronaVirusPro:
Go and toast her mother

Benzgang:
Start asking her about her friend and put more interest towards the said friend,while acting like you don't care no more about her.
She'll start to wonder what the friend has that she lacks and will want to come closer to find out.
There and then my friend,you've got the chicken at your disposal.
They always lose their minds when you do this.
I call my ex all the time to ask after her friend whenever I'm bored and feel like making someone angry

Renaa:
You can't possibly chase her forever. If she's really interested she won't keep you moving in circles.

Although we like shakara, but when we see what we like we try not to lose it to someone else

crafteck:
Its like you are jobless, why would you waste time on a girl, even if she says yes, in a typical naija setting, na u go make sacrifice upon sacrifice. Better please yourself by moving on. To suffer is ok but how can you beg to suffer..

Lewandoski20:
Once chased a girl for a long while. She was playing hot n cold. Today she’ll recognize me and flow along. The next day, she’ll act as if she doesn’t know me from Adam. The worst was the day I was with a relative whom I value his opinion soo much. You won’t believe this girl acted as if she’s not met in her life. Didn’t grant me a glance talk more of my relative. That was the end. Couldn’t take it any longer. I deleted her number and stopped the chase. Months later, she befriended my sister and tried to get to me through her. Called me a few times, I refused to acknowledge that I knew her. The day I finally did recognize her, told her it was too late. I had moved on. She must died with embarrassment. Didn’t care....

Viking007:
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