SharonLoveth:


Beg who?

enemyofprogress:
The guy nau

yanabasee:



So, if she ask for N100 to buy bread for us to eat and I give it to her.... It means she's faking her love for me right?

Because giving her the money to get us something makes her happy and appreciative...

Erediauwa:
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.

Erediauwa:
I don't have a pussy bro.... Don't let the picture decieve you.


I am Jason.

Toks2008:
There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just for the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if these ladies forced the money out of them at gunpoint.

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.

Crazychris:
If you have to give money to your woman in other to make her happy, then she is not truely yours. She's just faking her love for you but weak guys like you won't catch the scope..

CsRockefeller:
Sexymoma I replied your comment but seems one is not allowed to mention the name of the site that starts with F, followed by a Z with movies then a dot(.) finally ending with a net.

I have been temporarily banned from the movie section.

Rukkydelta:
But when these guys see a Lady that isn't materialistic and wants a celibacy relationship they say no

And goes for the gold diggers because of sex. lol

Paxie55:

Yes. Better than giving it for free.

yanabasee:
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....


PS.....


Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive...


When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS...

Confused mofos...

LadyBeee:
Bunch of hungry little boys. I don't bother to reply posts like these on nairaland because nairaland is full of kids.

zigirl56:
I agree say guys shouldn't go spending on a girl unnecessarily simply cos they love and want to please her, but that shouldn't be a yardstick for stinginess o cos weda we like it or not women are receivers by nature

Erediauwa:
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.

yanabasee:
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....


PS.....


Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive...


When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS...

Confused mofos...

Toks2008:


Gbam


What shall it profit a man who keeps giving a lady money because he does not want to lose her when she finally dumps him for another guy?

That is when you will start to hear super story.

Now I need to explain this clearly...i can meet a lady who is very hard working and non materialistic or demanding and I decide to give her insane money to invest with...that is my decision and as long as I'm not doing that so she can love or stick to me no problem at all.

But when a guy finds himself with a lady who makes "unrealistic demands" and by this I mean demands that even you as a guy knows is unreasonable and then you keep giving her even when it is not convinient for you then you have crossed the line.

Some ladies will even put themselves on the payroll of the guy and the guy will just accept because he does not want to lose her...so pathetic. She go still dump you and nah that one go pain pass when you siddon turn accountant come dey calculate how much you have given her and how you have said NO to people who are even more important to you when they begged you for money.

Paxie55:

Yes. Better than giving it for free.

Edoziesmart:


Same thing happening here. One of my class guy in uni then is busy paying house rent and school fees for a girl in her ND1 in one of the popular poly in the east.

While another guy is banging the girl coded without spending much.

I'm just waiting for the day that my ex class guy will open thread here on Nairaland to cry on how a girl he trained and paid rent for dump him to another fellow.

Some guys are destiny to be womanizer in this life.
And they are easily controlled by all these small small girls entering higher institutions.

bezimo:


Oh you understand this 9ja girls and their pattern