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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Sarang(f): 5:34am On Apr 08, 2020
Bizibi:
hehehehe,but the same lady bought him the latest model of Mercedes benz g wagon as a birthday gift and you think the girl is from a poor home. Nor be only monthly allowance....

Date rich girls then nah by force to date poor woman?!
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Sarang(f): 5:34am On Apr 08, 2020
Happyguy201:


You called him c Ronaldo abi

No be human being wey you be him be?
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Sarang(f): 5:35am On Apr 08, 2020
Nelsen08:




Average Nigerian ladies are dunce.
Pussy is only what they have to offer in a relationship. and the married one; all the have to offer the man is to eat, Bleep, sleep and wake up and produce baby.
Tueh

Average Nigerian men are paupers

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by MOnkeyBabe(f): 5:46am On Apr 08, 2020
Toks2008:
There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just for the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if these ladies forced the money out of them at gunpoint.

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.
with your former post, I thought you were wrong. But this one makes sense.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by HiFreda(f): 5:48am On Apr 08, 2020
yanabasee:
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....


PS.....


Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive...


When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS...

Confused mofos...

Thank you for this.
People approach relationships with so much rigidity whereas there's supposed to mutual love, respect, support and generosity. This is not limited to money, and mustn't be one-sided.
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So many guys complain of ladies wanting to take their money, and will still feel insecure if she's not taking their money. They'll still complain if she's giving her money and finally complain that she's taking their money.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 5:49am On Apr 08, 2020
This is why whatever I do for them, I would do for anybody. Hence why you would never catch me - not even in a month of sundays - muttering those stupid words in the lines of "after all what I've done for you...". From my teens I knew how this love of a thing works, nobody loves anybody for nothing. Lamar, K. in his L.O.V.E. track put it succinctly when he wondered whether she will still have love for him if "he didn't ride blade on curb" i.e. if he didn't have some of the finest things life has to offer.

The truth is that we all just a bunch of low-lives who use each other for our selfish interests all in the name of relationships. You want her heart and vaginá all to yourself so you feel the need to pay for it, you cook and clean, serve up a wet, warm hole and mouth each night with the hope that he puts a ring on it.

It's why you lot can't sustain any decent eye contact with your so-called "baes" even in your most intimate moments, cos you scared if you stare long enough your eyes might just betray your truest intentions. It's fine darl, keep them eyes closed.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by yom2(m): 5:50am On Apr 08, 2020
Bizibi:
monthly allowance!! Wow,they must be federal government.
if truelly the lady doesn't have u are expected to support her and she's expected to support u when u are down too but as a man u are expected to play the lead role. Aside from this I personally also do not support an unfair relationship where u are given 100% and the lady is contributing nothing .

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Bizibi(m): 5:52am On Apr 08, 2020
Sarang:


Date rich girls then nah by force to date poor woman?!
hehehehehe, don't worry you will see your federal government soon.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by AmeLonRo(m): 5:53am On Apr 08, 2020
Everything has a reason. Whether to stop or not must be explained with reasons
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by AmeLonRo(m): 5:54am On Apr 08, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixZEEYj7Tjo
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by pocohantas(f): 5:57am On Apr 08, 2020
bonnyhope:


Oya, tell us how many men have you drained on this month of April

I don’t need to milk any man, because I know 98.713% of Naija men only give for leverage(control). If I want to MILK men;
1. My man wouldn’t be the victim.
2. This thread won’t save them.
3. He would be one of these guys forming hard man.

You know why? It is who they are. Once again, let’s face reality.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Deltayankeeboi: 6:00am On Apr 08, 2020
Sarang:
Advices like this only comes from paupers

CRonaldo gives his girlfriend monthly allowance more than any of you have ever given anyone yet we no go hear word

Mumu talk.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Bizibi(m): 6:05am On Apr 08, 2020
yom2:
if truelly the lady doesn't have u are expected to support her and she's expected to support u when u are down too but as a man u are expected to play the lead role. Aside from this I personally also do not support an unfair relationship where u are given 100% and the lady is contributing nothing .
I think some of the fault always come from the guys because any guy complaining about giving a girl monthly allowance should sit down and think deeply how he sweats for his money.i know what it takes to sweat to get paid even if it is in millions infact you will sweat day and night to get paid in millions in Nigeria.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 6:06am On Apr 08, 2020
what has warranted these attack against ladies?
ladies don finish guys for this thread.
sorry.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by xendra: 6:11am On Apr 08, 2020
Erediauwa:
They're the one's forming "Hard man" here, but when their girlfriend's threaten them with pregnancy, they'll quickly rush to IyanaPaja to sell their fathers land just to raise funds for abortion.
don't mind these ones, they are not as rigid as they soundcheesy they are actually more woman wrapper-ish they just want you to treat your woman poorly so they can have space to come in.

na when dem run low on side chicks dem dey com up with all these half-baked advicegrin because a well treated woman will not have their time

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Shormiey(m): 6:17am On Apr 08, 2020
SharonLoveth:


Come again
Read what I said again?
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by degamonn: 6:23am On Apr 08, 2020
Guys take note, for every lady you think is beautiful, there is an alternative/substitute so do not over stress yourself to please any particular lady.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by mpolochi1: 6:28am On Apr 08, 2020
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OSUigboFlatHead:

You see why you never make am?
Keep it up brah
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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by mpolochi1: 6:29am On Apr 08, 2020
[s]
OSUigboFlatHead:

You're a liar!
Keep fooling yourself.
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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by back2sender: 6:35am On Apr 08, 2020
Erediauwa:
I don't have a pussy bro.... Don't let the picture decieve you.


I am Jason.
So why use a woman pissure?
To the article, give to your mother, sisters n family AND NOT TO SLAY QUEENS
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by tunjilana: 6:36am On Apr 08, 2020
For serious dating, I advise men to date only gals that have added value to themselves and never make finance the basis of your relationship...there is nothing like maintaining a woman or giving her upkeep money...that is lame and weak. In fact if u demand for such from me, in my mind I have already moved u from serious to seresere.

Now for the leeches, there is a trick that always work for me. Firstly, take good care of yourself, ooze your class, if u have the money, spend it on yourself. Some will be impressed with this and fall but some wont, they still want u to spend...so spend small to lure her in. Once she's in, up your sex game....give her something really crazy, put in all the work u need to put in...continue like that for a while....then after a while start being very very stingy to her...if she throws tantrums, ignore her. If the sex was really good, na she go begin find u anytime she wan chop better food. That is how to convert a leech into a FWB.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Musty112: 6:43am On Apr 08, 2020
God knows how many otherwise good relationships has floundered because the lady needs 5k urgently the moment the guy chat her up

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by shugabasbn: 6:43am On Apr 08, 2020
Erediauwa:
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.


Better advice n let see where she will satisfy her craving.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 6:48am On Apr 08, 2020
LOL
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nigeriapen(m): 6:50am On Apr 08, 2020
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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Vikky014(f): 6:52am On Apr 08, 2020
Toks2008:


Hahahaha! See me see trouble o...

We no dey date Nah! So why I no go give if I get and even if we dey date I go still give as long as I fit afford am.

How you dey Barbie?
Lol. okay o. i am fine o how is the lockdown over there?
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by slimmyfunke: 6:53am On Apr 08, 2020
yanabasee:
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....


PS.....


Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive...


When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS...

Confused mofos...

Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Toseenlove: 6:54am On Apr 08, 2020
wizdomnzube:
Buh bros, she go still cheat on the boyfriend she claims she truly love, dah one na sure odd grin

No take any girl serious for this life.

Best comment ever......Something I personally witnessed and confirmed lol....
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by DanielAAA(m): 6:56am On Apr 08, 2020
Erediauwa:
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.
Ashawo
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Toseenlove: 6:56am On Apr 08, 2020
Victornezzar:

I saw one where OP said he saw Pregnancy result in his Virgin girlfriend's bag

grin grin grin

Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 6:57am On Apr 08, 2020
back2sender:

So why use a woman pissure?
To the article, give to your mother, sisters n family AND NOT TO SLAY QUEENS
They're not useeless like your mom and sisters bro.

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