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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by ednut1(m): 9:37am On Apr 08, 2020
emmanuelewumi:


Savings, investments and planning for the unexpected are very important.

She wished she had settled for the prudent guy who she thought was stingy. It takes a lot of humiliation for a woman to seek for financial assistance from an ex whom you thought was not capable because he never believed in reckless spending.




God saved you i must say. Only few women reason along that line. Wedding that can be done low key they will want you to spend 4m just to show off and form.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by 989900: 9:38am On Apr 08, 2020
Benohio:







[s]I understand that guys like have been brainwashed into thinking like this. guys like you have sold their birth right to secure a woman's pussy. meanwhile...one broke nigga who plays the game well is banging your babe on a steady behind closed doors. Dey there they mumu yourself!
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Ode, brokeassmfxcker . . . go and play with your mates.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by 989900: 9:39am On Apr 08, 2020
Finemanas:
True fact there is a big difference between a stingy guy and a foolish spender
Give only what u can wholeheartedly. Never in life put yourself in a stranded situation to please a lady by trying to please or keep her financially.
Some ladies are so materialistic
Never ruin your life for a lady
Step up boys step up!

You get the drift.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Toseenlove: 9:39am On Apr 08, 2020
Hezmatosky:
Women are not the issue rather men are the problem. They want to show that they can do better than men outside. Sometimes women are shocked with lump sum of money men give them, meanwhile they have lots of responsibility chasing them and that's too bad. Imagine, just because a girl complained that she's hungry and u have her 5k but ur brother or sister ask you for money, you will say let's see how next week will be angry

Exactly..... Spot On....
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by McTested(m): 9:39am On Apr 08, 2020
I know most ladies will be piss off with this fact now

Giving my hard earn money to no bitch anymore.


You f**k me and i f**k you.... its a draw game so can't pay for what we both enjoy.

Thanks

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by SweetCunt97(f): 9:44am On Apr 08, 2020
HornyTave:


The root is 10k, it all boils down to efficiency and your costumers.
Nasoo.. The root was gotten from Mars or moon? Nice one though
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by SweetCunt97(f): 9:45am On Apr 08, 2020
Emjace:
After the better caring guy, she will start aiming for a more better caring guy... Women with high demand never gets satisfied and once a man starts using money to secure a relationship with that lady, he will also use money (married) to keep her from divorcing him
No one should use money to secure a relationship. Create a trying time to see if they'll be with you when things go bad or jakpa

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by UwaMmebii(m): 9:48am On Apr 08, 2020
This is one thing I remain grateful to nairaland. It help open my eyes for women manipulation. U nairaland guys are amazing

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Benohio(m): 9:50am On Apr 08, 2020
tartarus:
Lol nairaland boys this is your anthem. Broke things grin cheesy
They're always happy when it comes to topics like this





And you think the people here are as poor as you are? the change you are making dey make your head swell. if have time to write this nonense you just wrote,It means you are as broke as they are. woman wrapper. woman don turn your head tire.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by id4sho(m): 9:50am On Apr 08, 2020
emmanuelewumi:


She is married with kids, married a pvssy man. Who never saved nor invested, spent everything to satisfy his woman and her family. The lady is out of work and the husband lost his job during 2016 recession. Things are not as good as it was when they got married about 10 years ago.

She still calls for financial assistance, while I render once in a while because it is nothing to me.

The most important thing is for young men to fortify themselves financially and date like minded ladies.Ladied who can add substance and value to the relationship
Very touching story, I salute your discipline.
ur boys are doing well
CHEERS SIR
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by holocron: 9:52am On Apr 08, 2020
Crazychris:
If you have to give money to your woman in other to make her happy, then she is not truely yours. She's just faking her love for you but weak guys like you won't catch the scope..

Every woman's love is fake, brother. It's a performance that has to be coerced out of her with money, macho dominance, influence, or what have you. ...and it's quickly extinguished when the quality that instigates the 'love' ends. Sad but true. You pay for a woman's love with your money or with your time worshipping her, or both.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by emmanuelewumi(m): 9:56am On Apr 08, 2020
ednut1:
God saved you i must say. Only few women reason along that line. Wedding that can be done low key they will want you to spend 4m just to show off and form.

We have some who still reason that way, you can make them to start reasoning... your way.

Don't mind if you are called stingy. It is better to be called stingy than to be called poor.

You are poor because they think or know you don't have.
You are stingy when they think or know you have but you don't spend what you have any how.

Fingers are not equal, nothing bad in giving your up and doing wife or girlfriend that you think you have a future with a seed capital which she can grow.

A friend gave his girlfriend now his wife 200k to start a business while schooling part time. By the time she graduated in 5 years time that seed capital of 200k grew to about N3million. Now that they are married, funds from her business assisted the family in building their first home

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Benohio(m): 9:56am On Apr 08, 2020
989900:



Ode, brokeassmfxcker . . . go and play with your mates.



o I see. at least you got the message. Grandpa! you lack raw confidence and esteem to toast or even keep a woman and you had to use money because of ur incompetence in women affairs. Am sure u are one of those Yahoo boys!

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by emmanuelewumi(m): 9:58am On Apr 08, 2020
id4sho:

Very touching story, I salute your discipline.
ur boys are doing well
CHEERS SIR

Thank you.

Who are the boys, if I may ask?

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by enemyofprogress: 9:58am On Apr 08, 2020
SharonLoveth:


You see please in any of my statement? Hope you're not blind physically and spiritually
all I know is that the thing don dey hungry you grin
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by seanBOLTY: 9:59am On Apr 08, 2020
Paxie55:

D1ldos are better than 99% of you guys crayons.
Ehwo!people of nah my face big,my pvss no big,omorogun nah my taste,ur heaven is on fire,,continue!
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by jclassiq(m): 9:59am On Apr 08, 2020
yanabasee:
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....


PS.....


Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive...


When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS...

Confused mofos...

No one is as confused as you are right now. Woe betide you bro if you hand over your happiness to the hand of anybody whether man or woman.

And no one said dont give your money to anybody you deem fit. He only said to stop giving your away as a means of buying love and loyalty of a woman because it doesn't usually work.

Dont know how you read yours.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by DaddyGngeess(m): 10:02am On Apr 08, 2020
Toseenlove:


Suganmu.....You should have been specific.....Na your type go come here con dey cry like that researcher abi wetin be hin monicker lol...


This is the reason why I hardly comment on this forum, I have been here since 2012, insulting people u don't know anything about is wrong, pls stop it, have a nice day happy quarantine to you
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by SharonLoveth(f): 10:03am On Apr 08, 2020
enemyofprogress:
all I know is that the thing don dey hungry you grin

See what ur village people are doing right now on ur case

Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 10:04am On Apr 08, 2020
bezimo:


Well said...outside Nigeria..it's way different.Thats why when guys that have dated 9ja girls travel out and date..they end up feeling like 9ja girls have scammed them with their fake ass love sponsored with money for hand, back for ground and kpekus for open
Outside Nigeria, it's way different. Ladies meet other men and feel they have been scammed by I pay the bills,you shut up and I give you money you give me sex kind of relationships.

Guys go back home most times because even though foreign ladies show them what love is, Nigerian guys can hardly comprehend, accept and reciprocate. They prefer to go back home to marry Nigerian ladies they can control and oppress understand the pretense of marrying women who understand their culture. Lol their patriarchal culture.

However, you will hardly see Nigerian Women go back home to marry Nigerian men after meeting foreign guys. It's not about the money, not all foreigners are rich but most times these foreigners make them feel human and show them what love really is. Now are Nigerian ladies really the problem?

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by 989900: 10:08am On Apr 08, 2020
Benohio:




[s]o I see. at least you got the message. Grandpa! you lack raw confidence and esteem to toast or even keep a woman and you had to use money because of ur incompetence in women affairs. Am sure u are one of those Yahoo boys![/s]
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 10:12am On Apr 08, 2020
Pelxmiye:


Girl you too smart..I'm gonna have to break some of my Nairaland dos' and donts' for you...rightly spoken..take away Sex and Money from most Nigerian relationships..even celebrity relationships in Nigeria and watch it come crashing down like a pack of cards undecided undecided undecided undecided...I have once been in an almost perfect relationship where I didn't have to spend..we were both in love...coasting away..she didn't ask for nada than just my time.. attention. Her only flaw was that..she wanted to be the center of attraction in the relationship.. getting the whole attention... calls.. messages..so yeah..the relationship quickly died shortly when it became a competition of attention..still I always rate 8/10 because of her non materialistic outlook on relationship..which is rare
Lol, thanks for the compliment. smiley You probably didn't understand your ex love language which is very important in relationships. It helps to understand and related with one's partner better. Here's could be words of affirmation which involves calls to check on her and constant words of affection. She wasn't struggling for attention, her only way of being loved is telling her what she wants to hear. However, she never took the chance to understand yours too. If you two had put extra efforts you would have made a great couple.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by enemyofprogress: 10:17am On Apr 08, 2020
SharonLoveth:


See what ur village people are doing right now on ur case
I know but the thing still dey hungry you like shawarma grin grin
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by SharonLoveth(f): 10:18am On Apr 08, 2020
enemyofprogress:
I know but the thing still dey hungry you like shawarma grin grin

You know that your village people are after your life... RIP In Advance Boy

Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by enemyofprogress: 10:22am On Apr 08, 2020
SharonLoveth:


You know that your village people are after your life... RIP In Advance Boy
I know but the thing still dey hungry you like shawarma? Because I see how you dey scratch am
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by drehdinho(m): 10:25am On Apr 08, 2020
yanabasee:
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....


PS.....


Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive...


When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS...

Confused mofos...


This is a careless generalization. Have dated ladies from both sides.

Although, 1 out of a few broke ladies I once dated, only one happened to have her money demanding game at the rooftop. One thing I realized about this one lady was this: her level of education was poor. She's a secondary school drop out. But this babe set die.

Everything a man wants in the body of a lady this lady has them. But the rest of the ladies in the other group, they were contented. Always willing to assist. And for the most part, they were rarely found idle. Always working.

Their contribution usually reflected logic that you would feel proud to have them as your babe. I dated these ladies at different stages of my life, so you guys shouldn't take me to be a womanizer.

Just as everything in life is not predictable, our relationship ended up crashing for different reasons. But the point I'm making here is that: every bachelor must keep to the piece of advice given by the OP.

It's the best shield to guide your heart in case a lady starts misbehaving. Some ladies can be heartless. In fact 90% of today's ladies are heartless. So, one needs to be watchful.

Ironically, this is what happens most of the time: a lady that demands for money from a man and gets it, these days, usually end up not valuing such man. I don't know if this is a curse on them. And unfortunately , what gives them happiness is to take that same money to spend on a riff raff, someone you could least expect she could consider for such a thing.

This is very common amongst the ladies of today, and that's why we see cases of guys comiting suicides. This is what you can't tell to anyone when it happens. Because it's such a shameful thing. In fact, some ladies can be heartless to a point that introducing them to the parents of the guy doesn't stop them from this manner.

They don't simply care. Take ladies matter with a pinch of salt. Invest more in your life.Don't see giving money to a lady as a way to get her heart. It's absolutely pointless. I just laugh at some guys who believe spending money on a lady would make her stay loyal.

To eat her cookies, you need not empty your bank account. You only need to have the intellectual strenght to manipulate her brain and through that her emotion will be affected and you can direct or command as you so wish.


Stop spending carelessly on a lady who's not your wife. If any lady leaves you because you don't spend on her, let her leave.

Look somewhere else. There are better women or ladies available and ready to bid to your command even with joy.

Note: spending in this context only refers to "careless spending."

Also, a lady that is devoid of good ideas. She has never for once called you to offer a quality advise on how you can move ahead in life really fast, spending on that kind of a lady is still part of "careless spending." And at worst a waste of time.

A lady must show you she's a golden asset before you can spend substantially on her. She needs to proof time and time again she's more than a friend to you.

Not just the "buy me wig and makeup" types, or the ones that have no other topic than: eatry, fashion, sex and celeb stuff.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by SharonLoveth(f): 10:26am On Apr 08, 2020
enemyofprogress:
I know but the thing still dey hungry you like shawarma? Because I see how you dey scratch am

On this note I'm done with you ghost to be, see that Agent of death coming for your life.. I pray you die a simple death.. Take care

BYE
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by enemyofprogress: 10:27am On Apr 08, 2020
SharonLoveth:


On this note I'm done with you ghost to be, see that Agent of death coming for your life.. I pray you die a simple death.. Take care

BYE
make I come help you scratch am
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Belafonte(m): 10:33am On Apr 08, 2020
iammolise:
I'm currently dating this girl that is very skilled at asking for money, when it's approaching month end she will just cook up something... Me that I'm very meticulous about my spendings, I no dey like troway moni anyhow. Well to not make it seem like I don't care I always give her something I can forget.

She probably thinks you’re stingy.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by emmaodet: 10:52am On Apr 08, 2020
Ariza:
Outside Nigeria, it's way different. Ladies meet other men and feel they have been scammed by I pay the bills,you shut up and I give you money you give me sex kind of relationships.

Guys go back home most times because even though foreign ladies show them what love is, Nigerian guys can hardly comprehend, accept and reciprocate. They prefer to go back home to marry Nigerian ladies they can control and oppress understand the pretense of marrying women who understand their culture. Lol their patriarchal culture.

However, you will hardly see Nigerian Women go back home to marry Nigerian men after meeting foreign guys. It's not about the money, not all foreigners are rich but most times these foreigners make them feel human and show them what love really is. Now are Nigerian ladies really the problem?

You think so? That nigerian ladies are really valued outside the shores of nigeria?
Outside the shores of nigeria, most foreigners don't really value nigerian ladies for marriage, maybe sexx sha.
There is a higher nigerian single ladies out there in UK, US, Canada who are looking for who to marry than the nigerian men.
Just take a closer look, don't let us go far. Here in africa, our neighbors - benin, togo, ghana and even far away kenya and south africa, you here of there women giving good appraisals to nigerian men but harsly do you see their men marry nigerian women.
Outside the shores of nigeria, our women are not really valued because they have a very bad mentality about marriage/relationship. It is all about what they can take, take and take from relationship. What they can benefit rather than what they can input and that makes the difference between the two genders.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by bamirotola: 11:05am On Apr 08, 2020
Erediauwa:
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Totally made sense... Is it not pussy? Teach us how to make the money , we will Bleep better pussy than urs

Jason.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by oluwaahmed: 11:08am On Apr 08, 2020
Apart from greedy hoes that ask their BF for money like tic-tac-toe most Nigerian ladies don't have the independent capability their counterparts abroad have. This is because of our culture. From the day a Nigerian lady is born she will be dependent on her parents up till after her university graduation. Even after she gets work she will now still be asking her guy for money and will wana contribute little or nothing even after she's married to the family upkeep. However abroad as a lady you can start working from junior high or even after graduation from senior high. This is because of the independent nature of their culture. They are thrust with a sense of responsibility at an early age & they know going to college is expensive so its a responsibility they do for themselves without necessarily needing their parents. Although one can say that its because there are plentiful jobs and numerous student loans that a secondary school graduate can get a job that pays minimum wage which he/she can use to pay for rent and utilities. They do not need to ask you for money when dating cos they know everyone is hustling to make ends meet.

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