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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Amotekun777: 7:49am On Apr 09, 2020
This is by far the best read in a very long time on here.

OP, God bless you!

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by thanie(f): 7:51am On Apr 09, 2020
Hmmmmm what an educative story, thank God for you.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by krissconnect(m): 7:52am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
yeah I would do that thanks
When you finally decide to put ur story out to the screens, can u pls allow me do an emotional song for the film? A soundtrack that will be used for the film. You're a victor for not giving up bro

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by iamclime(m): 7:53am On Apr 09, 2020
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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ifeolamide00(m): 7:57am On Apr 09, 2020
this is Way deep,i feel your pain bro,may God heal you and everyone of us going through our rough days
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 7:58am On Apr 09, 2020
Felincous:

Bro u can send me mail: felincous@gmail.com
Let's make movie ND novel from this.
lol wow that would be beautiful ooo. All of you have so wowed me with your graciousness. I would send you an email from echeoyi@gmail.com now.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Zealoy(m): 7:59am On Apr 09, 2020
Very captivating story
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Timohstew(m): 8:01am On Apr 09, 2020
Thank you for this inspirational story...i really commend your ability to share this to the word...you're an MVP. Thanks for saving people out there,that might be going through what you went through. I pray God strengthens you and make you go bigger in all ramification. God bless you!!!
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by radec: 8:03am On Apr 09, 2020
shesawesome:
Those with a good heart get hurt the most

YES!
That's because the evil one - the devil - won't allow them rest, until they FALL

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by toddjohnson(m): 8:03am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
Nairaland you guys are so kind. You guys are my family, my father and mother God I can't believe this.

Someone called me and just prayed with me, someone called and just send me motivational videos, someone send me10k my God for lockdown. God bless you all. I just was missing her and that's why I wrote this thread but you guys have so supported me and encourage me like that day.

Please if you know you are hungry and 1k would be enough for you please send me your account number and I would send 1k to 2 people right now to eat and send some to my kid also. God bless you all and goodnight
He didn't even tell me his name. God of heaven. God bless you NIGERIANS

Pls help bro we are famished, I and mum
God bless and bless u more
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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Viking007(m): 8:04am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
Nairaland you guys are so kind. You guys are my family, my father and mother God I can't believe this.

Someone called me and just prayed with me, someone called and just send me motivational videos, someone send me10k my God for lockdown. God bless you all. I just was missing her and that's why I wrote this thread but you guys have so supported me and encourage me like that day.

Please if you know you are hungry and 1k would be enough for you please send me your account number and I would send 1k to 2 people right now to eat and send some to my kid also. God bless you all and goodnight
He didn't even tell me his name. God of heaven. God bless you NIGERIANS
Please take your time and go through your mentions. There are some people looking for your contacts, some asking you contact them for jobs. Also include your email on the first page for easy contact.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Kaa4(m): 8:06am On Apr 09, 2020
Your story was long for a forum like Nairaland, but guy it was real. The takeaways are many and one guy has summarised 16 points. Please do a book. If you could write this kind of English without attending the university, then you have good command of the language.

From the way you write, it didn't look your attitude would change much in spite of your experiences at about 30 years of age. I advise you get a mentor. An educated Christian who should be at least be in his 50's to guide you in life. You have done pretty well for your life, but with so much potential God has deposited in you, you will still be greater.

God bless you for sharing, your story will definitely save many in this type condition.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Focusmind: 8:08am On Apr 09, 2020
See how you now dot your son that you gave Shola money to abort.

Abortion is never an option. When that baby you want to abort is born and start developing, you would be full of regret why you wanted to abort the child at first time.

People should learn this lesson especially guys, never give your girl friend money to go and do abortion.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by zickyshey(m): 8:09am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
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Touching, yet; inspiring.
Please, did shola die after been sick or what?
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Jstikal: 8:12am On Apr 09, 2020
God bless you bro.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 8:12am On Apr 09, 2020
chronique:


grin grin this one off me.

Women are very good manipilators especially when a child is involved. It's never very easy to deal with them especially when you are the very nice type. Most of the time, they'd be using your head but you would be feeling you are in love until the day you would eventually have sense. This doesn't mean women are bad o. Only God knows why he gave them that skill. Honestly, your late gf was just for the highest bidder and people like that who can only love when money is involved, are not for struggling guys. That's a lesson you should learn going forward. Wish you well in your endeavors. By the way, how much would it cost to mount CCTV with 8 cameras round a building?
thank you for your well wishes sir. Concerning the camera sir these pandemic called Corona virus made the prices of cameras to sourge even before the lockdown went into effect and you know I just can't give you a quotation without me properly seeing the site and the exact prices of camera's now. But if you have gotten the camera's and the DVR and other stuff's then if the site is around Lagos State sir 50k should be enough for my own Workmanship. Please can I know howany indoors and outdoors camera you wish to install

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Passionate1(m): 8:13am On Apr 09, 2020
[quote author=Vivjoe post=88245836][/quote
]
Yeahhh put it into practice!
Take action by incorporating ur knowledge into ur life tongue shocked
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ordainbuzz(m): 8:13am On Apr 09, 2020
Kayyy:
@OP , Should you be interested in any CCTV and other installation jobs, you can leave a message or contact me , i can offer installation jobs that you can make money from and even learn other installations , you're a strong and hardworking man from what you wrote here, stay strong .
am not the op but an interested, if u don't mind.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by law001(m): 8:14am On Apr 09, 2020
stanvesco:



Is this really necessary?
What kind of trash do they feed this your generation abeg!
Dammmmmmn

Am I your make?
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by jydmak(m): 8:14am On Apr 09, 2020
[quote author=Tankunland post=88215811] When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE[/quote
]wetin kill Shola
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Kaa4(m): 8:15am On Apr 09, 2020
zickyshey:


Touching, yet; inspiring.
Please, did shola die after been sick or what?

Shola was probably used for rituals just like he would have been used by Yahoo boys when he was taken to Ijebu, and he bailed out of it just because he loved Shola.

Going to the Babalawo to make ritual money is selling your soul to the devil for money. By the time you are much older, you would be contended with sufficient to live on because you would die empty like you came.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Lolasiju: 8:15am On Apr 09, 2020
Amazing story! Please post on twitter and send us your handle to retweet! This could change your life if it goes viral! You deserve it! Thank you for not giving up!

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 8:19am On Apr 09, 2020
Kayyy:
@OP , Should you be interested in any CCTV and other installation jobs, you can leave a message or contact me , i can offer installation jobs that you can make money from and even learn other installations , you're a strong and hardworking man from what you wrote here, stay strong .
good morning just saw this. I would be so grateful to do anything as long as it's legal to make money and take care of my lil man. Please sir my email is echeoyi@gmail.com. I would be looking forward to hearing from you soon sir
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by tkgindofa(m): 8:21am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE
Keep it up great one , you will make it in Life.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Avast(m): 8:21am On Apr 09, 2020
seanwilliam:
Mehn, for the first time this year, I cry embarassed.. omo....I learn 15 lessons from this
1. Never have girl friend at tender age
2. Never have girlfriend while you are struggling
3. Dont be too generous
4. Dont live beyond your means
5. A man should be strong emotionally
6. Never date a single mother
7. Never accept a cheating girlfriend back
8. Have multiple source of income
9. Never close your mouth, you never can tell who would help you
10. Your condition is the not the worst
11.you yourself is the most important thing, family comes second
12. Dont invest in business you dont know the "ins" and " out"..
13.learn a skill no matter what
14. Dont trust people easily
15. Prayer works....
And lastly
16. Suicide is never the solution to one's problem

I really learn much ...God would make a way for all of us.. this really got my hearts
Your breakthrough is near Tankunland

4 and 5 are my driving force.

Thanks to God anyway.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by aytuns(m): 8:22am On Apr 09, 2020
seanwilliam:
Mehn, for the first time this year, I cry embarassed.. omo....I learn 15 lessons from this
1. Never have girl friend at tender age
2. Never have girlfriend while you are struggling
3. Dont be too generous
4. Dont live beyond your means
5. A man should be strong emotionally
6. Never date a single mother
7. Never accept a cheating girlfriend back
8. Have multiple source of income
9. Never close your mouth, you never can tell who would help you
10. Your condition is the not the worst
11.you yourself is the most important thing, family comes second
12. Dont invest in business you dont know the "ins" and " out"..
13.learn a skill no matter what
14. Dont trust people easily
15. Prayer works....
And lastly
16. Suicide is never the solution to one's problem

I really learn much ...God would make a way for all of us.. this really got my hearts
Your breakthrough is near Tankunland

Had to save these lessons somewhere to remind myself of them too
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by chronique(m): 8:23am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
thank you for your well wishes sir. Concerning the camera sir these pandemic called Corona virus made the prices of cameras to sourge even before the lockdown went into effect and you know I just can't give you a quotation without me properly seeing the site and the exact prices of camera's now. But if you have gotten the camera's and the DVR and other stuff's then if the site is around Lagos State sir 50k should be enough for my own Workmanship. Please can I know howany indoors and outdoors camera you wish to install

8 cameras. 2 at the front of the gate manning both ends(both capturing images from the left and right in opposing directions), 2 on a towerlike design on the roof having an aerial view(1 facing the front street and another facing the back street), 1 on each side of the building, 1 at the back of the building and 1 inside the building.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by walexsho(m): 8:25am On Apr 09, 2020
This story fit make Nollywood movie... you can sell this story
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by dejol88: 8:26am On Apr 09, 2020
Honestly , i read your piece and was truly moved.

I remember you when you came online with other moniker to seek for help i just regretted not doing anything at that time. All i can say is may God heal you.

Having gone through some comment concerning what others are going through , i am also touched.

I came from a poor family and i can relate to some of your experience. I am not anywhere i will like to be infact still struggling .However, I will like to train just single a nairanlander , who is desirous to learn a skill in web development . I believe this is better than giving out cash.

The web development class will be at Alabian solutions limited in ikeja. So if i pick you, i will pay for your class.

Plz do not pm, i will pick one person myself or Op should help pick for me for transparency sake.

N.B You can drop only email address as a means to reach you.

If you are in lagos,

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by patyowr: 8:28am On Apr 09, 2020
You're a good man. Kindly reply this for my action.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Olas00(m): 8:28am On Apr 09, 2020
May God help us
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Vivonose: 8:29am On Apr 09, 2020
So inspiring and touching angry
Last night I was crying about,what's happening in my life and when I realized I couldn't even relate to half of what happened in this guy's life
I think I should be very grateful and hopeful for the best.

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