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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by bendazum: 9:11am On Apr 09, 2020
DonHummer:

I would like to know what killed shola

He said it was Yahoo boys.

She had high taste for money and was attracted to a yahoo plus guy that used her for rituals.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by duepurpose: 9:11am On Apr 09, 2020
Wow! Im dombfounded.

I now understand why many of our young ones go into illegitimate deals. It wasn't just by your powers that you were able to conquer those evil temptations, it was by God's special grace.
God really has a big plan for your life, please do keep upright.

Your story is packed with great lessons. I have learnt a few. I do hope our young ones especially the ladies would do as well.

It is well with you bro. Stay safe.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by SweetCunt97(f): 9:11am On Apr 09, 2020
Vavevivo:
Op thanks for sharing. Your story has given me hope. I contemplated on ending my life today because everything seems to have fallen apart.
My wife will put to birth this month and I have not registered her in any hospital because no money. I sold my laptop two weeks ago just to get us food for the lockdown and my rent will expire on the 17th next month. I’m just hoping for a miracle
So you wanted to die and leave her alone to suffer? Two heads are better than one. God will surely bring a helper your way soon. Keep hope alive

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Hanneque(f): 9:11am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
aww eya good bless you. Chia we really love ourselves in this country just that we have allowed this politicians to separate us by tribe and religion. I would gladly pick someone for you oo. So if you really wanna learn web development kindly indicate. God bless you sir

Your story is so touching and inspiring. Thanks for sharing
Please I am interested in the web development training. Kindly recommend me
Thanks
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Yippeedaniel(m): 9:16am On Apr 09, 2020
Life love and war
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 9:17am On Apr 09, 2020
chronique:


Send via whatsapp 07065614087
ok sir would do
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by nnamdiosu(m): 9:20am On Apr 09, 2020
Op nice one.
Listen

Because of your good heart, you will always directly or indirectly blame yourself for shola's death, BUT ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. SHOLA CHOOSE DEATH HER SELF. SHOLA WAS A CASE OF A GOOD GIRL TURNED BAD.


wake up jor. Time to hustle and move on. Tou got a kid to care for.

Listen again. Your child true status must be known to all NOW. Even if you cant carter for him now, let him stay with grandmum at least. But not with the other man.

Thanks for the lessons. God will see you through. Its a fact.
People like you with good heart will surely be blessed.

God keep you safe till then. Cheers

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 9:25am On Apr 09, 2020
nnamdiosu:
Op nice one.
Listen

Because of your good heart, you will always directly or indirectly blame yourself for shola's death, BUT ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. SHOLA CHOOSE DEATH HER SELF. SHOLA WAS A CASE OF A GOOD GIRL TURNED BAD.


wake up jor. Time to hustle and move on. Tou got a kid to care for.

Listen again. Your child true status must be known. Even if you carter for him now, let him stay with grandmum at least.

Thanks for the lessons. God will see you through. Its a fact.
People like you with good heart will surely be blessed.

God keep you safe till then. Cheers
she died at 20 after choosing a fast lane, aligning herself with a murderer in the name of yahoo just because of the money, too bad!!
It's well with the op! Keep being good at heart and work your way up!


How are you bro Nnamdi, long time.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by yorke1: 9:28am On Apr 09, 2020
Some girls after reading op story still won't learn. They will still be chasing YAHOO BOYS. You are joking with your health and life.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 9:29am On Apr 09, 2020
dejol88:
Honestly , i read your piece and was truly moved.

I remember you when you came online with other moniker to seek for help i just regretted not doing anything at that time. All i can say is may God heal you.

Having gone through some comment concerning what others are going through , i am also touched.

I came from a poor family and i can relate to some of your experience. I am not anywhere i will like to be infact still struggling .However, I will like to train just single a nairanlander , who is desirous to learn a skill in web development . I believe this is better than giving out cash.

The web development class will be at Alabian solutions limited in ikeja. So if i pick you, i will pay for your class.

Plz do not pm, i will pick one person myself or Op should help pick for me for transparency sake.

N.B You can drop only email address as a means to reach you.

If you are in lagos,
pls I'm interested o...inderhappy88@yahoo.com
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by mathew2oa(m): 9:34am On Apr 09, 2020
Your story is touching. I cried, I swear.
I learned from it, am inspired, motivated and souled.

For Mr Greg, his nemesis would catch up with him sooner.

Lastly, I promised myself not to look at a lady until I can comfortably take of my parent.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Expert17: 9:35am On Apr 09, 2020
Samakus come out.............wicked soul

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by EncoreTrades(m): 9:36am On Apr 09, 2020
The world have really divided us and turn us to something else but this story have lots of meaning...and we need to ponder on it and understand that our action even on social media can have an impact...have a good heart...help people as the spirit directs you...just like Abraham...you never can tell...you may be hospitable to angels when you are kind to people...people are going through hard times...though we may have some bad people among us...do not let that stop you from doing good...

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Mariangeles(f): 9:36am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

Thank God for your life.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 9:37am On Apr 09, 2020
SweetCunt97:
She was there when he was making the money. So no b any magun. Probably the new house and bad investment.
Please go back and read again embarassed
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 9:39am On Apr 09, 2020
foleskay:


Amebo. Wetin u find go reach his twitter handle. Busy body

You said it all. Na Amebo and Busy Body work nah.

You're doing well.

Ooin
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by yoursidenigga(m): 9:41am On Apr 09, 2020
SKhanmi:


I understand where you are coming from but imagine where you'll be if you had only focused on yourself and not take on the responsibilities of others even if it seems cruel. Loyalty is for men. Invest more in your male buddies. Most will always have your back during hard times. And never ever try to go between a baby mama & her dude, She'll leave you for him EVERY TIME. Glad you're alive though, never stop trying.

No lies bro, no lies. Loyalty is for men..... Investments in your fellow males pay the best. These girls ain't loyal. From experience too

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 9:41am On Apr 09, 2020
nedekid:

What's his Twitter handle?

Please asked the OP, Sir/Ma.

I do not have the right or authority to disclose that.

I can't even remember again.

Cheers.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by SweetCunt97(f): 9:43am On Apr 09, 2020
Dicktion:
Please go back and read again embarassed
His problem began immediately he moved to the new house oo. Unless it's karma for keeping another man's wife under his roof.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by 8stargeneral: 9:43am On Apr 09, 2020
Nice write up... but what really killed shola, what her mother told u was d caused of her death ?
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Kingofpalmgroov: 9:44am On Apr 09, 2020
Still crying....
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 9:50am On Apr 09, 2020
SweetCunt97:
His problem began immediately he moved to the new house oo. Unless it's karma for keeping another man's wife under his roof.
I'm just reserving my comments about this whole sh!t cos she's already late... But you sef know say she no try for OP
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by maasoap(m): 9:51am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.

Right on point
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Gokoyer0(m): 9:51am On Apr 09, 2020
Expect me to give you some small job(CCTV) to do in future.
Being extremely nice is nice in itself but it can cause harm as well. Look out for yourself and set your own priorities straight.

You will be fine!
Tankunland:
Today the 8 of April makes it exactly 1 year that one of my bank accounts had over a million naira and it was that same amount that changed my life forever.

yes it changed my life so badly that it nearly made me commit suicide but thanks to these beautiful forum that came to my aid at just the last seconds of ending it all.

Now what you are about to read is my life story of how everything changed for bad in the space of just under a year and how
(1) i lost my job,
(2) my loving girlfriend dumped me,
(2) how I overcame some deep temptations
(4) how I overcame deep depression and nearly killed my self
(5) and how that my ex died and in her death I knew I had a son.

Just deciding to write about these has gotten me in a melancholy mood as I have been in a morose state for the past few days thinking about how my life changed but I know someone might learn from it. Now I had to use a new moniker for this as my former moniker has many things pointing directly to me as I don't want anyone I know to know it's me but I would surely be reading the comments with my real account and these could be lengthy but bear with me

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by MasterKernel: 9:51am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
.


I left my meal to read through your post. Tears running down as I type now, I went through similar situation, but finally got blessed.

One thing I appreciate about your heart is the ability to remember the kind gestures instead of the ills. It's a virtue. Keep your personality immaculate, free of vindictiveness and implacable fellas.

Finally, I wish you well. Always calculate your risk.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by drealnamdy(m): 9:52am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
Today the 8 of April makes it exactly 1 year that one of my bank accounts had over a million naira and it was that same amount that changed my life forever.

yes it changed my life so badly that it nearly made me commit suicide but thanks to these beautiful forum that came to my aid at just the last seconds of ending it all.

Now what you are about to read is my life story of how everything changed for bad in the space of just under a year and how
(1) i lost my job,
(2) my loving girlfriend dumped me,
(2) how I overcame some deep temptations
(4) how I overcame deep depression and nearly killed my self
(5) and how that my ex died and in her death I knew I had a son.

Just deciding to write about these has gotten me in a melancholy mood as I have been in a morose state for the past few days thinking about how my life changed but I know someone might learn from it. Now I had to use a new moniker for this as my former moniker has many things pointing directly to me as I don't want anyone I know to know it's me but I would surely be reading the comments with my real account and these could be lengthy but bear with me







Useless story....can't believe I wasted so much time reading this piece of shitty fictional story to draw sympathy... Rubbish
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Thane(m): 9:53am On Apr 09, 2020
dejol88:
Honestly , i read your piece and was truly moved.

I remember you when you came online with other moniker to seek for help i just regretted not doing anything at that time. All i can say is may God heal you.

Having gone through some comment concerning what others are going through , i am also touched.

I came from a poor family and i can relate to some of your experience. I am not anywhere i will like to be infact still struggling .However, I will like to train just single a nairanlander , who is desirous to learn a skill in web development . I believe this is better than giving out cash.

The web development class will be at Alabian solutions limited in ikeja. So if i pick you, i will pay for your class.

Plz do not pm, i will pick one person myself or Op should help pick for me for transparency sake.

N.B You can drop only email address as a means to reach you.

If you are in lagos,

Sir Dejol88 ,
I'm in Lagos (stay close to Berger) and would be rounding up service by next month ending depending on how Coronavirus affects nysc timetable. But I'm very much ready to start the training immediately as soon as the lockdown is over. I'm in great need of money and skills so I would be really sincerely grateful if I get this opportunity sir. I have the zeal and very much fit for this opportunity.
email is thanedominic@gmail.com . God bless
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Hanneque(f): 9:54am On Apr 09, 2020
dejol88:


The web development class will be at Alabian solutions limited in ikeja. So if i pick you, i will pay for your class.

Plz do not pm, i will pick one person myself or Op should help pick for me for transparency sake.

N.B You can drop only email address as a means to reach you.

If you are in lagos,

Please I am interested in learning web development. I would appreciate if you can help

temmy.han28@gmail.com
Thanks so much
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Vavevivo: 9:57am On Apr 09, 2020
wengerman:
don't give up,help is on the way,God the Almighty sorter will sort you.one motivational speaker said killing oneself is like slamming the door on the face of God.u will be aright lass lass

Thanks
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by wackpoet(m): 9:59am On Apr 09, 2020
This is honestly the best thread I've read in my years on Nairaland. If there's a way to pin this permanently to the front-page, please Seun should do so. Your strength is inspirational. Thank you so much for sharing. Do consider writing as a side hustle. Your life story though sad would make for an incredible read. It could be a hobby for your free time. You could get professionals to proof-read and edit and ask on Nairaland for help in publishing. Regardless keep up the fighting spirit. God bless you chief.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Ekzoba(m): 10:00am On Apr 09, 2020
Your story inspired me a lot and i thank God that you came out of it all.Thank you for sharing.

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