Iyiataata92:

In colloquial language, an average is a single number taken as representative of
a list of numbers. Different concepts of
average are used in different contexts.
Often "average" refers to the arithmetic mean, the sum of the numbers divided by how many numbers are being averaged.
In statistics, mean, median, and mode are all known as measures of central tendency, and in colloquial usage any of these might be called an average value .
Source:copied from wikipedia

Bro I'm not a mathematian but I understand what this defintion means

Correct. We say the same thing.

Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

But don't be so hard on urself.. no be everybody go get soul mate.. no be everybody go fall in love.. no be everybody go marry.. some were just created to be single n channel that energy into something else..

dirtydiva:
Sorry if I may ask, did you read your comment before you send it on this topics? Some words are incorrect and inproperly spelt.

Mr correctional facility, it should be ''improperly''

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Kingzizu:
Good I will advise you start going to sex workers place to have sex, then I believe u can fall in love from their.

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

feel relieve and happy when I come across post like this...... likewise you I was into masturbation for 8 years. last Monday made it 2 weeks I swore never to do it again after I had am encounter with my new catch(like the girl much though) but my dick to be activated....

really a long story though. would love to make a thread here about it someday.

God bless you

Gabbriell:


WHAT EXACTLY DO YOU WANT?

U said u are addicted to mastubation..u are trying to stop...in fact you are one month mastubation free now. But now you need a relationship with a girl.

It is like an addicted cigarette smoker quitting cigarette only to pick up *weed*. Does *weed* stop him from smoking? NO.

The only advantage of relationship is that it might lead to marriage hence you won't be alone. Its like having a new room mate..u can't just pull out ur stuff and start mastubating any time u want plus u have more responsibility (busy busy). So mastubation REDUCES (not stop, it will take a while to stop..if u want it to) drastically.
But not all relationship leads to marriage.. so u c my point. Ordinary relationship doesn't stop an addict from mastubation.. in fact it encourages him. And not all girls u meet will be willing to pull down their pants for u on a daily basis..knowing fully well that they themselves are not yet married.

I can keep on going like this but enough talk, lemi point out some mistakes I think you are making n possible solutions.

U think mastubation is the reason you avoid girls the way u said u have:

News flash: You are wrong... a lot of people have like PHD in mastubation and go around interacting with girls of all kinds.

From your explanations, I think your problem is shyness accompanied with the fact that u don't engage yourself in activities.

Likely solutions:Girls are not just going to start raining down on your roof. If u want to make female friends.. u have to go out to look for them.

Engage yourselves in some activities..it could be a dance class, a sporting activity, church activities, educational activities etc. Just make sure it is not activies dominated by males (e.g football). Go there with intension of making friends and improving yourself not otherwise.

NOTE: This does not stop you from mastubating..stopping mastubation is a systematic process. Addictions are gradually developed over time..so trying to stop it all at once is mostly impossible except by the grace of God. Its like a car running 100 miles per hour. You don't just hold the break at once...its gradually. I would have like to give u more details but mehn! am tired of typing.


Take care bro..remember Jesus loves you. You don't need to carry your burden alone..talk to him.

Johnchyz:
.SO GOING AROUND FUC.KING RANDOM GIRLS IS NOT FORNICATION ABI. OP DON'T MIND HIM. HAVING TO BLEEP SO MANY GIRLS GETS U MARINE SPIRIT DEVILS.

Well, I think you need to take deep breathe and go through my comment again then maybe your eyes might tell your brain the truth.. I didn't and will not encourage him to around fornicating with random girls. That shouldn't be his priority at the moment or ever should be. The guy needs to be free. The shame of masturbation makes you live in isolation, low self esteem and self condemnation and not to talk of the spiritual effects. You don't want to go down that path of addiction believe me. So don't encourage the op

Iyiataata92:
You've been masturbating at an average of 2 times a day for 8 years. Average in the sense that anyday you miss your session, you go on 4 times the next day to cover the missed count.
If that's true bro, then you need to apologise to your Jon Thomas for 8 rough years misappropriation and maladministration.
That dick won't be proud of you as the owner

You be yeye honestly

Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Bros don't keep any relationship with any naija gal if you are not boyyant to oppres her with ur small wealth o unless na die you de

No real love here just bang enough oloshos they are plenty on social media app oo I messenger why again should u jerk off to porn twice a day oga you have strength o haba twice a day ...lord have mercy
You go fit bang if u see you pucci

I congratulate you as you quit that hopeless habit. Now u must undo the harm the masturbation years has done. Forget oloshos. Get more involved in more social activities. Lk your male friends, dont they unwind? And work on your self esteem, dress well at all times, always feel special. Join a church group lk the ushering. And d girls are out there waiting for guys who can talk. To tell you the truth, you must go out to meet them. Talk to them at work, on buses , it may not be easy initially,b4 you know it they'll be swarming over you.

Better to masturbate than fornicates. With masturbation you can't kill a soul (abortion) , no HIV worries, no gonoria, wraths, heartbreak, unnecessary spending. Just embrace it and control or manage it, once or twice a week should keep you going. Everyone has an addiction is battling with.

tallerSSS:

How I overcame this shit was when i was 26 too. I am handsome with innocent face looks
I luckily met a girl that was crushing on me and never needed a yes from me to begin a relationship. A week after we began dating I opened up to her that I loved sex a lot even when I new I have not had real sex for over 8yrs backwards, I was scared at first that she will count me an ashawo boy or a potential cheat.I also told her I wont cheat on her so long as she doesn't deny me sex for a long period(1month) of time. To my greatest surprise she replied me by a text and said she was in. Few weeks after we had our first sex and subsequently started having sex almost every week. Presently I am telling you we have sex almost on daily basis exception of when we have a very serious quarrel. I now began to wonder if she was suffering the same problem with me..tho I'm yet to marry her but finally na my wife be that..I don't think in can find any girl like that... Person wey still give u sex amidst quarrel na wise woman..unlike many wey go close leg leading to cheating amongst eachother

How come you have sex daily? Do you live together?

joe4christ:


My only question for you is: when u masturbate, who do you think of, as in who do you see in your imagination. A guy or a girl?

Let's start from there first!

Na mammy water e dey see

I actually see nothing wrong with masturbation if you can manage it the way you could have managed normal sex with an opposite sex.

You can still have girlfriends and still be servicing yourself.

If your story is not cooked one. Try as you can to abstain from masturbation. Then having a girl friend will not even do you any good. Simply be yourself, when time comes, get a wife for your self. May the grace of God be upon you.

Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Just one month off.. you observed this.. if I tell you mine that is almost 3 years.. you ll never ponder of going back. you'll b definitely fine as you abstain farther.

Babysho:


Brother, the problem is not even masturbating or anything you're thinking, it's just that we're in 2020.
Have you thought about it this way? Why didn't any girl try to have sex with you? I'm very sure if a girl texted you and she told you she was interested in you, all these wouldn't have gone down this way. Why didn't a girl make a move on you when it's not that you're a goat? Even ugly girls! Don't they get hoorrrnnyy? Open your mind!

NIGERIAN WOMEN are the problem. Most Nigerian women/ young girls' pussssays are so dried out from poverty or the fear of it. You probably tried to hit on one or two girls subtly but they didn't give a rats ass to follow up because you're either not rich enough or wearing fake balanciaga to please their dirty retarded taste.

Leave your life bro. Make money. A lot of it! And travel out. White girls will love you for just being able to smile but for now jerk off if you wanna but make sure you're working really really hard and getting rich at the same time. Love? Love doesn't exist in Nigeria lmao. Girls would have loved you for being you if it really existed. What Nigerian girls love the most is security and I don't blame them! Their forefathers are poverty stricken from years of Obasanjo looting... so just do you... literally. And enjoy your life!

Wetin Nigerian girls do you bros

scoundrel:

First he stopped masturbating, then he started seeing through walls and diagnosing people with organ conditions. Not too long after he started jumping superhumanly high and a week later he flew. Flying became a normal thing thereafter. I’ve not seen him since. Last I heard he’s in a Middle Eastern country fighting terrorists.

Are you joking or for real

IMO01:


Are you joking or for real

There are many angles to viewing it.

Start making friends with the female folks.
Get interested in a particular one and continue your casual relationship with her. One day, nature will take it's course and you will start to respond to 'stimuli.

Well, if you're looking for a way of making real money, search no further, look for your niche and profit by it ...
It's all on the link on my signature below..

ENJOY...

foolbuster:


Sex is not food abeg. Na wa oooo.

sex is food but not daily foods...its being human not log of woods.

Masturbationis a monster !!

maximusprime2000:


sex is food but not daily foods...its being human not log of woods.

You are just making excuses to justify your lust. There is not even a side effect of not having sex talkless of dying. There are a lot of people that have gone years without sex. But this generation is just perverted.

I bet If you have a serious problem you won't even think of sex, it will be the last thing on your mind. Its all in your head bro, take your mind off sex(its very hard because sex is shoved on our faces everywhere all the time these days)

First and foremost, I must commend you for opening up. Masturbation is a demon and just as every kind of demon can be exorcised out of humans, masturbation too can be eliminated from ones life. It's just one month you've quit the habit, it’s too early to start complaining. Keep working on yourself, make new friends especially the female folks, avoid being idle or staying alone and always pray about it. With yours and ours, am sure you'll emerge more stronger and victorious at the end of your travails. God bless you...

Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.
So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.
Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.
I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

Left hand wanke......r i am sorry sir, I cant help you.

foolbuster:


You are just making excuses to justify your lust. There is not even a side effect of not having sex talkless of dying. There are a lot of people that have gone years without sex. But this generation is just perverted.

I bet If you have a serious problem you won't even think of sex, it will be the last thing on your mind. Its all in your head bro, take your mind off sex(its very hard because sex is shoved on our faces everywhere all the time these days)

you really amused me. too busy to reply u anyway. enjoy ur homonal disfunction while it last.

Plead:
I wanted to dismiss your story as another tales by moonlight but then I know someone like this,nigga didn’t have a girlfriend till he graduated from school...

Work on your self esteem, okay pal.

you guys are very crazy,so the o.p not having a girlfriend while in the university means he has a low self esteem... nonsense!!!

Hmmmm... If I share mine now everywhere go burst.

TheGiftedOne:
Just keep up your fight against masturbation and in no time you'll fall in love. It will naturally happen, even subconsciously.

So true. When you stop masturbating, you unwittingly awaken the desire to be with a woman. Keep fighting.

maximusprime2000:


you really amused me. too busy to reply u anyway. enjoy ur homonal disfunction while it last.

Nigerians and arrogance. they will never admit they are wrong.

Kingzizu:
Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.

(1) What a lot of young adults don't understand is that Masturbation is "Self Sex" you cannot control the urge, except for discipline and serious Deliverance Prayers to Expel the Demons inside of you
Once you masturbate you feed the spirit that is already inside "You don't have to agree with me" Since you are starving that Spirit now another OPTION is given you is fornication.
The whole idea is to constantly make you dirty before God, Note: at some instances Jesus performed a miracle he tells them "GO AND SIN NO MORE. Sin tires you down in one spot. ADVICE: Pray that God fire purge your life and let his fire expel strange spirits out of your life.

Thank you

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Iyiataata92:

Someone is making his way out of the gate of masturbation and you're directing him towards the gate of olosho. Are you for real?
Don't you know olosho is another addiction on its own which will cost him not only self esteem but much money?
Bro this your advice get as e be oo

you dey mind am,e pay me to dey soapy than to go after olosho,my hatred for those set of women is infinite!Very disgusting, dirty lot!How a man can develop an to fuvk a girl that's been ravished by countless men is still something beyond my understanding I swear

Me, make I go dey fuvk girl wey other dirty niggah with dirty dreadlocks and dirty men with Belle like oil barrel don sweat on top
Tufia!bro