I personally I am married I come across alot unmarried girls Nigerians especially. I met one who works with Microsoft. A couple of them have good jobs. It's really sad. But a few bad eggs have destroyed the opportunities of many good girls sadly. Also the system gives the upper hand to women. Some sharp nigerian guys who are not married understand the system. As for me I am treading softly self, not committing too much in terms of buying house or having much investments in canada, not that I do not love my wife. But never say never......

...You got a lot of mature intelligence.. author=madridsta007 post=88253201]

It is the Diaspora at large but the case of Canada is particularly striking as the weather, distance between cities, etc make socialising very difficult.

We must say the truth as it is. Nigerian girls, who are not used to approaching a man, struggle in the area of a relationship if based in the Diaspora.
1. They are not used to approaching a male.
2. They are not the first of the pick when a responsible Nigerian man-and there are few of this category- is looking to marry. The Nigerian female in the diaspora competes with the white girls, black British/Canadian/American girls who are citizens, other black African girls who are argurably more submissive and, if they are from the Southern part of Africa, we know how their physical structure are . Also, the Nigerian guy would prefer to travel to Nigeria and find a bride based in Nigeria. We know this happens.
3. The Nigerian lady makes a lot of money and because of their hard work, do super well in their career. This is actually commendable. However for most humans, this sadly comes with arrogance, the inability to cook, near-zero respect, and too many illogical requirements in a man.
They become more sensible and rationale when they are 32, 33 years old and it becomes more difficult. I know some that actually move back to Nigeria to try get married.
In the end, they struggle. Hence you see them on YouTube, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, you see them as feminists, etc. Loneliness and depression sets in and, because of pride and the fake strong personae they have built, they dont talk.

I feel for them but they should know that there is always a way out to amend wrongs. First of all, kill pride. Kill it, it wont help you. When you come off as arrogant to a Nigerian man, African man, his spirit leaves the conversation. You can mock it, call him weak, call him "incapable of handling a strong woman", but it is you that will end up lonely and seeking companionship from YouTube. Next, study the place you want to relocate to. Most people just move without checking. Join and participate in a church, not necessarily student groups as this ends after 1-2 years. Learn how to cook ooo! Make sure you keep and maintain strong contacts in Nigeria. And if you need to take a career break to move to Nigeria to sort out relationship issues, do so. Dont let the good life of the West fool you and make you hit mid-thirties while single.
Make a move. That is the point.
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Lol, its both ways if you don't have someone you fall to.. those of u shouting white babes sure pass una nogo understand

Ghostmode2two:


Even a rented apartment?

if its a rented apartment then she will take his car and money.i have heard a case where a woman even took the man"s dog during a divorce proceeding

tossedbae:
Only introvert like me will have it interesting there, I would love to be there also

My dear, I'm telling you.

Over there, everyone minds their business. No one is inviting you to gatherings you don't want to be in. Here, you must smile and greet even people you don't like.

gargoylern:
Keep your questions coming. Am ready to open their nyash today. Let any of them come here and deny

Boss can you take me through on how to process canadian visa ?
I dont know if you can disclose any of your social media handle so we could chat in private

Sigh! I'm rolling here abeg. LMAO!!!

They have even created a thread to hook up with these same women y'all are trolling?

Godbpraised:
I personally I am married I come across of unmarried girls Nigerians especially. I met one who works I'm Microsoft. A couple of them have good jobs. It's really sad. But a few bad eggs have destroyed the opportunities of many good girls sadly. Also the system gives the upper hand to women. Some sharp nigerian guys who are not married under the system. As for me I am treading softly self, not committing too much in terms of buying house or having much investments in canada, not that I do not love my wife. But never say never......

That's the BEST.
Invest in NIGERIA.....
Far better than that side that's already HEAVEN ON EARTH...
Those PLACES, na to go make money, then invest in Naija

ZINIBANKS:

Guy go Netherlands even they allow tourist to work in some companies in Amsterdam try Google am day or night it's always Netherlands since 2015
Fúck USA fúck Canada

Lies, I live in Netherlands oga, and a tourist can not work here. Even non EU students needs a special permission from IND before they even work up to ten hours a week.

Realtizzy:

Boss can you take me through on how to process canadian visa ?
I dont know if you can disclose any of your social media handle so we could chat in private

Read online you can do it

EVILFOREST:

When I found her she was already more than 4 times wealthier than me and also younger than me by 9 years.
She was 22 then. I earned $800 USD monthly in Nigeria while she earned almost $5000 USD monthly because of her double JOB.

Despite this she was visiting me quarterly until I joined her. She also got to know about other Ladies around but she fastened her seatbelt and loved me more.
She placed my Parents on salary without my notice.
She was just WONDERFUL.
I hate seeing her CRY...

With all this talk, I have a question, do you cheat on her or have other women outside? Because I know it's mostly men who chest that advice one to get women who love them more.

cdm4live:


A lot of people I know in Canada are looking for ways to migrate to US for business.

Is Canada not a favourable place to do business?

When it comes to population & business opportunities, USA has over 300million people while Canada has less than 40million persons.

So obviously or i guess the population makes the difference

lefulefu:
agreement? will a man be dat foolish to sign off all his properties to his wife pending when a divorce takes place ? i think they are being forced by the govt to give all their properties to their wives .

most men signed those agreements knowing fully well that they don't have any properties over there at that moment but they forget to think about the future

EVILFOREST:

I WEEP each DAY I hug my wife, honestly.
Just ask GOD....
Some LADIES are not NORMAL

You better don't hurt that Jewel.

Kekereekun123:
i recently got canada pr. Even from our canada pr whatsapp groups the ladies there don dey hustle men. Some bad guys just dey chop dem for fun o. Marriage is not an ultimate goal in life. These ladies should adjust. They will also want you to take them back to Nigeria for societal wedding lol. I would rather use my. Money for MBA

Hello can we relate your WhatsApp contact if you don't mind

fairfora:
I always notice that too. Guys are also scared of getting married over there, irrespective of their employment status, dunno why

Because of the judicial system. Men are penalized heavily for making a bad spousal choice.

As a result many see that it is not worth their time.

Guys dey this thread o. ladies feel free

gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.

Bro! I mind if you can connect me with one of them. I might be a resourceful man to them either. contact me on yekini.ahmed99 @gmail.com.. God bless u as u link a brother here

ZINIBANKS:

Guy good or no good there is possibility that through her I will leave this poo-hole and when I reach there am going to make my own decisions

u’re thinking like a w.h.o.r.e

This is so true, I know a friend in the UK who was so lonely she came to Nigeria and married a guy I know with her own money.

iamdapsyj:
honestly i thought bashing would have been the order of the day.

it doesnt always have to be that way all the time sometimes its best this way as it should be.

Ok, Canada and US based Naija babes are lonely. Who told you Naija men based over there are not lonely too ? See once a Naija babe based abroad has paper, she is only lonely by choice or because of pride. You see how them dey rush diaspora babes for Nairaland

See everybody get their own level in due time, I used to think like you that Naija babes no fine reach the other babes of other races, but as I grew older I realized something, they have something women of other races don't have, that Naija culture, food, religion,how you want to raise your children, so that makes up for the physical attraction, because how many fine babes we don knack whi are steady with their stupid obnoxious Oyinbo character.

Also, majority of the Naija babes I used to think God forbid, this one worwor pass anything are now married with children, good jobs and living a middle class lifestyle in obodo Oyinbo. So life isn't about what you see today, it is about tomorrow, the future, that is what Nigerians emigrating out of Nigeria are looking at both men and women, married and single, secure your luber, husband and/or wife will come later, people marry in their 20's, 30's, 40's, 50's and even 60's.

So the ops talk about loneliness is a non-starter, moving to a new world at an advanced age will always be a lonely experience, after time you will become an adopted omo-onile if you immerse yourself into the life of your adopted community. Ask the numerous people of the southeast that have made Lagos or Abuja their home, it wasn't easy in the beginning but they are now claiming son of the soil.

safarigirl:
I have been living in Nigeria for over twenty years and I am also lonely.

Canadian loneliness will not kill me

I also enjoy minding my business anyway, not like I have a ton of friends in Nigeria

Make I reach the Canada first.

If you are referring to loneliness due to no partner, the Men you want are in abundance in Nigeria if you really want them.

In Nigeria if you really want sex or relationship. You can just wink at any good looking guy in Church. His head will start turning, before you know it he has invited you over & the relationship starts. Arguably he may see you as cheap, but at least you have caught his attention.

In diaspora, you will hardly find Nigerian Men you may like. The ratio is 10 / 100. If you are open minded to White, Indians & Latino men, then no problem. Just be ready to accept their cultures & can be eating Garlic like a mad woman if he's Indian

EVILFOREST:

When I found her she was already more than 4 times wealthier than me and also younger than me by 9 years.
She was 22 then. I earned $800 USD monthly in Nigeria while she earned almost $5000 USD monthly because of her double JOB.

Despite this she was visiting me quarterly until I joined her. She also got to know about other Ladies around but she fastened her seatbelt and loved me more.
She placed my Parents on salary without my notice.
She was just WONDERFUL.
I hate seeing her CRY...

Yours is a fairytale
Your fortunate
For me the women are "money first back for ground" and if you don't comply they move on
...one day I will also will be fortunate

Godbpraised:
I personally I am married I come across alot unmarried girls Nigerians especially. I met one who works with Microsoft. A couple of them have good jobs. It's really sad. But a few bad eggs have destroyed the opportunities of many good girls sadly. Also the system gives the upper hand to women. Some sharp nigerian guys who are not married understand the system. As for me I am treading softly self, not committing too much in terms of buying house or having much investments in canada, not that I do not love my wife. But never say never......

Wish man hahahahahahahahahaha
Baba don’t want to lose everything just invest in Nigeria

generationz:


With all this talk, I have a question, do you cheat on her or have other women outside? Because I know it's mostly men who chest that advice one to get women who love them more.

I guess u are JEALOUS that a lady can be this Loyal.
It's Real.
MEN who reside ABROAD also do so because of the consequences of this THREAD that's being discussed now..
Take your TIME and ANALYZE Any DIASPORA MAN visiting Nigeria to Marry.
He's not interested in MONEY or Beauty.
Beauty no dey Naija naaaa.
How many Naija Babes they Spend 30k on only Cream..?

So MOST of these, go to the poorest Nigerian homes not knowing that DEVIL has finally relocated to such places.

They do so because they want a LOYAL WIFE that will see MONEY and still cherish them.
My UNCLES suffered in the hand of Poor LADIES and vowed never to touch poor homes again..

writeprof:


Thanks for your response. Please, I would like to know if Canada Provincial visa is possible for a person between 40-45 years of age and without a family member in Canada? Thanks

You need a high enough score.
Your situation will get you a low score.

EVILFOREST:

Hahahaha.
I Pray say you come.
But Get a Sound Naija Guy first.
DIASPORA can be lonely ooooo.
OYIBO no dey like us wey people go Waka come knock for your door dey ask you whether you sleep well.

No one borrows Maggi here ooo.
No one Keeps people engaged here.
PEOPLE WORK WORK and WORK, because there are JOBs. U can resign a job today and get another one by Saturday provided your PROFILE is devoid of nuisance.

Why do you think our AGED PARENTS rush back to AFRICA after visiting here.
It simply because they miss AFRICA INTERACTIONS and GOSSIPS... .
Nothing Like IN-LAW here oooo

I did not grow up in this manner you are describing. Not all of us knocked on neighbors doors or even have neighbors to knock on their doors.

I have always been a loner. I have acquaintances, not so much friends.

I don't ask strangers for things, in fact, I don't like to ask my own family for things.

Naija guys don't like me, I don't fit the profile of the kind of girls they prefer, I have given up on them. Dora Akunyili's daughter found a sound oyibo guy in this same Canada. You will tell me it is because she has name and a career or whatever, but she found someone. She could have waited for a Sound Naija guy, but maybe like me, Nigerian men did not fancy her because she did not fit the profile of what they wanted

People have different destinies, this doom and gloom some of you preach, there are so many others that will have a different story. My sister has planned two weddings within the last year, with Nigerian brides living in Canada, her ex recently got married in Canada, to a Nigerian woman based there.

I don't have a good story in Nigeria, it cannot get worse in Canada.

EVILFOREST:

May GOD and JESUS, bless you including AMADIOHA...
U are absolutely correct.
If a MAN escapes such, he is MADE for LIFE.
COME to the US and see those Ladies, looking for marriages to devour.
The Funny Thing is, they are Loaded with Cash too.
So if you are not CAREFUL, u sink...

MOST of them are here changing ESCALADE and RANGE ROVER JEEPS like wrapper meanwhile, they haven't pulled any member of their families from Nigeria.
Very Common among those NURSES who suddenly saw MONEY and started weeping, saying " Can I be this RICH"..... more terrible especially with those ones that suffered Unemployment/Poverty in Nigeria for too Long.

.... a NORMAL smart RICH GIRL from a humble home is OK.
Since she has never tasted poverty.

You will still meet such ladies in lagos or abuja...Living extravagant, but their family is dining with poverty...smh.

Many women, few wives.

sisisioge:


Got a sibling and several friends their papi...I wasn't speculating.

Why don’t u travel and ask Canadian government ? Stop disturbing him

Lol

lefulefu:
if its a rented apartment then she will take his car and money.i have heard a case where a woman even took the man"s dog during a divorce proceeding

Aboguede:


Oga give me the site here sunshineway_13@yahoo.com

Am in europe and tired of agbo and EDO girls with their little brain

Sent.